Ulunne777:
None.
They need their mom and their sister.

Leave your pride and whatever the mother did to you and unite those triplets.

They need a family.yoi,their mom and 3 of them.

if reverse was the case would you say the same thing....



























before you come raining hell on me with words, I also support the unification of the triplets and the whole family

Walahi I taya

Mhizzard:
You people have turn nairaland to something else,any small thing carry your phone to type the issue you alone can find solution to it within yourself.since you said money ain't the problem,then it is left for you to choose the one that comes from your heart.no one is you,choose your preference

Prospertochu

It is always best your kids grow up with you.

Perhaps, you can bring your sister down so she can be a mother figure to them. Always have it mind that one day your sister will want to settle down, so it won't be a permanent arrangement.

Kobojunkiee:
Some sort of deficiency? The one with the deficiency is that man who is not able to cater to his own kids and had has them locked up in the village with his mother and sister --- single-mother-like situation going on there too.

cater for his kids


are you dyslexic now.

did you read the part he said money is not a problem ...


these days, you sound really dumb ...

Relocate dem to northern gaza. U guys av turn nairaland to d only place u can get solution to ur problem u already knw wot d answer shud be. Soon u guy ll trust nairaland more dan ur GOD

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Oga move your mother and your sister to live with you and the boys. They are boys. They need a father figure in their lives. If your mother is not widowed then ask your sister to come live you and take care of the boys pending when you find a partner that will support you. Oga in your search for a partner don't go and bring the woman that will kill all your children ohh. Shine your eyes ohh. Na fake full outside now ohh.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

One yeye stupid boy go just de type nonsense on nairaland and the yeye admin will push it to front page, it's like some of these nairaland admins are high on Tunibu substance.

As for the yeye boy wey type this nonsense, you are proud to tell nairaland that u are a single father of triplets and took the two boys and abandon the other cos it's a female. You abandoned them to ur mom's care and come to nairaland to announce to us. My dear mugu u are not just a mugu, u are shameless. I advise you reunite those innocent children with their mom and sister. Those children are blessings to this world don't let them suffer cos of ur stupidity and pride, you can't take care of them neither can a nanny do. The best thing now is to unite them with their mother

Silentgroper:
cater for his kids


are you dyslexic now.

did you read the part he said money is not a problem ...


these days, you sound really dumb ...

Is money the only criteria used to take care of kids?

You are the dyslexic one who sounds really dumb.

Ulunne777:


Their problems are reconcilable.He accepted stu..pid suggestions from red pilled NLs.

The Op used to earn 50k.Op removes some for tfare and the other to his mom in the village and wifey 30k at a time girlfriend now wife had triplets.Complained that 30k isn't enough to cater for the op,his sick mom,the wife and 3 newborns.Nl boys said she should go and get a job if she wants more.

The kids were not in school which the op could't afford
Pray tell me who will take care of those under 3 triplets if she decides to go find work like y'all suggested.Op also said there was no money to set up petty trading at home.

This lady got a job in Lagos(Op concludes it's Ashawo work),she took the girl among them along(I guess to avoid hearing sexual molestation story and I would do same).You don't know what it means to see your kids hungry and you are helpless.

Now all of a sudden the Op has more money to rent extra rooms and common sense did not tell you that his priority is to gather his family?
How long would those babies live apart because of his ego?

U sabi this story true true, no vex .

I am telling you, i guess the moderators are sleeping alot lately. Too many nonsensical headlines.

Mhizzard:
You people have turn nairaland to something else,any small thing carry your phone to type the issue you alone can find solution to it within yourself.since you said money ain't the problem,then it is left for you to choose the one that comes from your heart.no one is you,choose your preference

Prospertochu:



Their mother breaks the family because of greeds she abandoned them and to reconcile with her is a big no. I am waiting for her to report me to court 🙄 I will attend the court. if they grant her custody of the children and visitations rights for me no wahala I will release the boys to her and they will be unite with their sister. I will continue to do my duties as a father.

This is highly dumb and unwise... Even if she was truly greedy (which she wasn't ), don't u have your own flaws?
Isnt it better to tolerate her and she tolerate u than having a whole 3 children grow up with separated parents? With u thinking about those kids and having another set of kids with another woman(who might be worse than her) or not remarry and live a lonely life?
THINK Man!!!! Don't make choices u would regret later on.

Tossing 3 year old triplets about as if they are play things, at this formative time they need motherly and fatherly love, you won't let them be cared for by thier mother, you are not even physically there with them, you left them with your mum and sister in an environment that will limit them, yet you still came here to ask stupid questions if they should stay with you, be like say dumb men are in huge numbers lately, they are adults but adults without sense, because I'm yet to understand why a grown aśs man will come here to ask us if his kids should live with him, nonsense.

Ulunne777:
None.
They need their mom and their sister.

Leave your pride and whatever the mother did to you and unite those triplets.

They need a family.yoi,their mom and 3 of them.

Best response I guess

Ulunne777:


Their problems are reconcilable.He accepted stu..pid suggestions from red pilled NLs.

The Op used to earn 50k.Op removes some for tfare and the other to his mom in the village and wifey 30k at a time girlfriend now wife had triplets.Complained that 30k isn't enough to cater for the op,his sick mom,the wife and 3 newborns.Nl boys said she should go and get a job if she wants more.

The kids were not in school which the op could't afford
Pray tell me who will take care of those under 3 triplets if she decides to go find work like y'all suggested.Op also said there was no money to set up petty trading at home.

This lady got a job in Lagos(Op concludes it's Ashawo work),she took the girl among them along(I guess to avoid hearing sexual molestation story and I would do same).You don't know what it means to see your kids hungry and you are helpless.

Now all of a sudden the Op has more money to rent extra rooms and common sense did not tell you that his priority is to gather his family?
How long would those babies live apart because of his ego?

Seems u are op are siblings, if not where would you have gotten these infos from...

A portion of these daily jappa is Opposition Politics. The orchestration is of eliciting a fevered, "everyone is leaving Nigeria" climate in the polity.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Safety first, then convenience

Ulunne777:
None.
They need their mom and their sister.

Leave your pride and whatever the mother did to you and unite those triplets.

They need a family.yoi,their mom and 3 of them.

Wotoporiously speaking

Abeg that pikin wey dey your profile na you get am?

Relocate all of them including your mother and sister to live with you and help you care for your kids

It’s cheaper to run one household and you can put your kids in good schools and watch them grow


You’ll bond and shape them into good humans with God’s help

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Where possible, you should never outsource the upbringing of your children even to your mother.

From what you stated, there appear to be no hindrances regarding your job when it come to bringing them up and maybe for obvious reasons you did not made mention of their mother.

Please relocate those children to your base, they need their father, don’t deny them that, you will not regret it.

Kobojunkiee:
Some sort of deficiency? The one with the deficiency is that man who is not able to cater to his own kids and had has them locked up in the village with his mother and sister --- single-mother-like situation going on there too.

If he didn't bring his problems to the public will you have an opportunity to talk trash? I blame him for giving you that opportunity.

In all you do, do not heed the advice of a sentimental human being. The fact is that you and your wife have been irresponsible. Whoever will not admit that shouldn't be advising you at all.

What job does she do in Lagos? What arrangements has she put in place to manage three children in Lagos? Do you know what it takes for a single parent especially with those yeye 5 to 8 pm Lagos jobs to raise not one but three children? Until you are fully convinced, do NOT release your boys unless you don't mind having some cultists as children in the future.

Those who talk about reconciliation should also put themselves in your shoes. Who is doing the reconciliation? Who is leaving his/her job for the sake of the family? The runaway wife or the one-time broke father with a 50k salary whose wife ran away from? Certainly not you. I assume you guys live in different cities.

Your children's safety is a priority at this point. They are already in a high-risk situation. However, relocating those boys back to their mother under the guise of "bonding" three paternal triplets will not fix the risk. Your children need you in their lives. They need their mother too. Someone should be talking to your runaway wife to reconcile with her family. Since none in both families have been able to fix that, it's okay to wait for a magistrate to decide.

Now to your question, should that really be a question in the first place? What kind of father are you? You have an opportunity to bring your boys closer to you, an opportunity to meet them at least twice daily, and you're asking strangers to advise you?? If you and your runaway wife won't have sense, please leave those kids with their grandparents. They are perfectly and well positioned to do your duty. We've seen many children without parents doing so well with their grandparents.

Beremx:
las las na nairaland redpillers destroy your marriage. Oga carry those kids to their mother and keep doing your fatherly duties. You have failed as a husband.

Twaaa!!

Did he tell you he wants gwis relationship to continue?

He seems advice as regards his kids and not to reconcile with his wife.

Stay in the lane where he needs advice and leave his marital life alone. Are you a wife? If yes arr you succeeding as a wife?

Marriage failure isn't as a result of one party when you aren't a party to the marriage failure, you just heard from the man and concluded the man must be the problem because women generally don't take responsibility. The man is always the problem whether he is right or wrong.

Jewessgratitud3:
So many discombobulated human beings here. The op made suggestions and asked a simple request to help him pick one, a lot of people who have not managed their homes well enough are just going off point telling him to reunite with his wife or send the children to his wife as if he didn't see the wife before making the request without her in the picture or what even made him send her away in the first place

Is she that responsible and didn't fight for the custody of her children in the first place?

Op, if you know you're not yet chanced (because of your job) to look after them, still leave them there but if you know you will have time for them, then bring them in to stay with you. Make sure you give them quality time.
Don't mind those trying to give you relationship advice.

This what I don't understand, non gave him advice they just fill up the thread with gender based comments.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

is yor wife lightskin sir?(no ooofencse)

My brother if you ask me I will say relocate them, all of you should stay together as a one big family. The way you will want your children to be trained will not be the way your mum and sister will train them. Guy bring them with you, you can renew the rent for your people if you want.

Mhizzard:
You people have turn nairaland to something else,any small thing carry your phone to type the issue you alone can find solution to it within yourself.since you said money ain't the problem,then it is left for you to choose the one that comes from your heart.no one is you,choose your preference

It is so annoying. Weak brainless men who can't think!!! Every small thing they come here asking for stupid suggestions. It is such a shame

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

they need there mother and you

He should employ a single man rather to take care of them!
Why employ a woman since single mother children always have some sort of deficiency
U hate women but unfortunately can’t do without them!!!!
Radarada Oshi….

hopeforcharles:


Single mother children always have some sort of deficiency, it's better they are with him and he employs a matured woman to take care of them.

Prospertochu:
I am a single father of triplets only 2 are with me but we are not living together due to the nature of my job. My boys are in the village with my mother and sister. The house I rented for them the rent will be expiring in March. Please I need your help with these two options.

1. Should I relocate them with me in my base in March. Right now I am staying in a single self cont because I am alone. But if they have to relocate I will get a 2 bedroom and parlour. Money isn't a problem.

2. Or I should renew the rent and allow them to stay in the village.

I am confuse and I don't know which one is the best.

What option will be better please help me pick the right one for the sake of my boys

Since money isn't a problem...bring them and stop stressing your mum and sibling...where is their mum.

Why not do the needful by either renewal or move them. Why disturbing us with this?