Karleb:


Bro, sometimes I see you talking about how girls into prostitution should be left alone and it just doesn't sit well with me.

Not from the moral stand point tho but from how derogatory the profession is.

How many Nigerian men are ready to pay 10k or above for sex? Very few. The further you go from Lagos, the lesser the number of these men become.

Few months ago here, a guy was dragging a lady for not showing up after taking 2k in agreement for sexual services. Omo! When I saw it, I wan craze. I mean, how many men is a lady supposed to sleep with in a month to make 30k, by the way, the said lady is in her 40s from the looks of things.

What our women need is proper education, skills and correct motivation which will keep them afloat financially, and also help them command good money incase they embrace prostitution.

Also, lots of our women are not hard workers.

Well, it is why I have this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women and this one:https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Hookup cannot be eradicated but can be reduced when there is prosperity. People will mention children of the rich who enter the industry, but that is an exception, not the norm. I cannot blame our women for selling their bodies amidst the economic crises in the country. That is how it has been globally ab initio. Then again, even in prosperous societies, hookup still exists. E get one website I saw where one could book babes. Starting rates were about $200 - $400. Even in the UK, I have seen our women charging rates ranging from £150 - £400 for short time. So, hookup will always exist. I have broken it down even to scientific publications.

The bold is not true. Nigerian women/ladies who japa'd to the UK will disagree. If Nigerian men don't want their women to do hookup, they should create a prosperous society for their women to thrive. I read on another thread where a woman got money from Keke hustle to cultivate soybeans only for Fulani herdsmen to raze her entire farmland. The first question I had in mind was: where are/were the men in that community? What are they doing to curtail the demonic antics of Fulani herdsmen? If tomorrow that woman goes into hookup, I cannot criticise her. If she were in Ghana, such would not happen.

The solution dey Nigerian men hand.

P.S. No developed/prosperous society had women at the forefront of development or prosperity.

Gerrard59:


Well, it is why I have this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women and this one:https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Hookup cannot be eradicated but can be reduced when there is prosperity. People will mention children of the rich who enter the industry, but that is an exception, not the norm. I cannot blame our women for selling their bodies amidst the economic crises in the country. That is how it has been globally ab initio. Then again, even in prosperous societies, hookup still exists. E get one website I saw where one could book babes. Starting rates were about $200 - $400. Even in the UK, I have seen our women charging rates ranging from £150 - £400 for short time. So, hookup will always exist. I have broken it down even to scientific publications.

The bold is not true. Nigerian women/ladies who japa'd to the UK will disagree. If Nigerian men don't want their women to do hookup, they should create a prosperous society for their women to thrive. I read on another thread where a woman got money from Keke hustle to cultivate soybeans only for Fulani herdsmen to raze her entire farmland. The first question I had in mind was: where are/were the men in that community? What are they doing to curtail the demonic antics of Fulani herdsmen? If tomorrow that woman goes into hookup, I cannot criticise her. If she were in Ghana, such would not happen.

The solution dey Nigerian men hand.

P.S. No developed/prosperous society had women at the forefront of development or prosperity.

The Nigeria I was born into was made/destroyed by the leaders, especially political and not men per se. Women have taken up power too and have exhibited the Nigerian leader characters.
The issue of fulani herdsmen is a politics problem. These herdsmen have killed a lot of men for simply trying to make a living and remember we have women in power and leadership positions too.


I'm not saying they are lazy, what I mean is they are not as hardworking as Nigerian guys. A lot of our women pray for rich husband in the face of agbadoconomics while the men are doing everything against all odds to have a decent living. In UK our women are notorious for taking their men's money and properties, something they could work for in such an environment.


Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is: it is better we advocate for skill acquisition, good motivation and proper education, these are better alternatives to making money than sleeping around. I don't care what a woman does with her private part but how many men will a jobless, unmotivated and uneducated lady in a village in Abia sleep with before she can raise 30k in a month? Her vagina fit don catch fire at this point.

On the other hand, a lady who has a job is assured of some 20k at the end of the month, even if she wants to sell her body, there will be limit to it and she can't regard herself as a prostitute. Here her dignity is maintained and she doesn't see her vagina as the only goto anytime she's stucked.

Karleb:


The Nigeria I was born into was made/destroyed by the leaders, especially political and not men per se. Women have taken up power too and have exhibited the Nigerian leader characters.
The issue of fulani herdsmen is a politics problem. These herdsmen have killed a lot of men for simply trying to make a living and remember we have women in power and leadership positions too.

The same argument was made in the thread about Nigerian men failing their women. Yes, the political class failed and decimated Nigeria's future. Which gender constitutes the bulk of this class? It is the same everywhere. Men hold the ace and dictate how things should be. It is masculinity that ensures that is possible. Men are go-getters, which is why they create or destroy societies by their actions. Women simply fit into societies created by men, and if they go astray, the men whip them back into the fold.

Fulani herdsmen is a political problem, but who are the ones fighting to solve it? The people who make up ESN are not women, nor was it women who used juju to fight back in Edo only for the army abi police to arrest them. Who could have prevented the security forces from doing so? Elites in Edo state, of whom the majority are men. It is men who stop these acts from happening.

I'm not saying they are lazy, what I mean is they are not as hardworking as Nigerian guys. A lot of our women pray for rich husband in the face of agbadoconomics while the men are doing everything against all odds to have a decent living. In UK our women are notorious for taking their men's money and properties, something they could work for in such an environment.

There is no prosperous society where the women are more hardworking than the men. None I can think of. It's men who take overtime, work in gruelling industries which are physically demanding and do the oddiest of jobs. All the infrastructures in the world were/are built/maintained by men. Women just want an enjoyment filled life. It is why they are hypergamous. In prosperous countries, women who are high earners STILL yearn for men who earn higher than they do. Studies have shown that women in Nordic countries still opted for less physically demanding jobs even though they paid lower admist the gender equal laws aimed at closing the so-called gender pay gap. Men still outearned women there simply because they opted for those jobs which paid higher. Even in nursing, men are at the highest renumeration levels on per capita basis. In teaching, men outearn women because they take up subjects which are in high demand and pay more. In both sectors, women constitute the majority of participants.

Like Tensa20s says, women are the finish line waiting for the winners. Men toil harder than women. Again, biology, endocrinology and evolutionary, show us that men work harder than women. It is why women who work as hard as men, seemingly so, tend to display masculine traits, which most men don't like. It is why biology is the biggest enemy of Ndi feminists.

Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is: [b]it is better we advocate for skill acquisition, good motivation and proper education, these are better alternatives to making money than sleeping around. I don't care what a woman does with her private part but how many men will a jobless, unmotivated and uneducated lady in a village in Abia sleep with before she can raise 30k in a month? Her vagina fit don catch fire at this point.

On the other hand, a lady who has a job is assured of some 20k at the end of the month, even if she wants to sell her body, there will be limit to it and she can't regard herself as a prostitute. Here her dignity is maintained and she doesn't see her vagina as the only goto anytime she's stucked.[/b]

Which still goes back to my thread about Nigerian men failing their women. It is men who build prosperous societies. I have asked this question tire, and I will still ask it: which prosperous country do you know today that had women at the forefront of its economic development?

@Gerrard59

You've made excellent points.

You and I are men, let's build our society in our own little way by condemning prostitution.

No be say na me holy pass o but any female member of my family who does prostitution will be cut off.

Karleb:
@Gerrard59

You've made excellent points.

You and I are men, let's build our society in our own little way by condemning prostitution.

No be say na me holy pass o but any female member of my family who does prostitution will be cut off.

The only way we can condemn prostitution is to provide a prosperous environment for our women to thrive. When that happens and the women still prostitute themselves, we whip back to order or ostracise them.

P.S. The industry will always exist because there is a consistent demand for their service.

Godsongang:
Guy just look for one secondary school graduate or 100 level student in any school, especially ND one poly students u go enjoy yourself till her eye open...

Predator

lordnkem000:
I love Nairaland o, nothing u no go learn here, infact u no fit loss for here. See how my guys dey describe olosho joints for area

There was once an olosho thread with thousands of pages

BeLookingIDIOT:

There was once an olosho thread with thousands of pages

I didn't know
I never saw it o

BeLookingIDIOT:

Predator

Sorry o monster

GEJDHERO:
brother these herbs dey work?

Of course it does, u don drink aboki burantashi?

Vintage9999:
I've not gone to a brothel before. How do I hide it. What are the things I shouldn't do in order not to be exploited

Then go at night, don't rush ignore all dose old mama that would be calling u outside, take time go inside select young lady with big boobs or ass or lepa depending on your specs.
Bargain well and don't pay more than 4k, 2k is for shortime, but 4k they will do you well.
Also be security conscious and use your brain.

holicupp:


abakiliki street
amawbia morning Star

Boss that Abakiliki street do dey have Ashowo quarter there or are you going to lodge them in a hotel .

Zxcvbnmghtr:


Hmm......some pastors will tell you that Samson in the Bible was a regular costumer of prostitutes despite being a prophet of God so they draw their justification from there just like the late Pastor's son has justified his dread locks and tattoo with verses of the Bible.

Samson was a man of God but first...

Samson was a man

He wasn't perfect ,

None of us is....there is a difference between the sinner that beats his chest and one who feels deep remorse after committing sin

Gerrard59:


The only way we can condemn prostitution is to provide a prosperous environment for our women to thrive. When that happens and the women still prostitute themselves, we whip back to order or ostracise them.

P.S. The industry will always exist because there is a consistent demand for their service.

Big man,

Even in Saudi Arabia and Dubai, the industry exists but it is exclusively for the rich men

And the hookers are Instagram models exported from other countries

The things these men do with them make traditional hookup look 'godly'


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=272HMOiTCgE&list=PLgS3Ks4QBATbr57-qnic2wJ-Pz28ND2W8&ab_channel=TUNDE

Geovanni412:


Samson was a man of God but first...

Samson was a man

He wasn't perfect ,

None of us is....there is a difference between the sinner that beats his chest and one who feels deep remorse after committing sin

This is a justification too.

pstemma1990:
If I talk my mind now people may think that I'm claiming to be too righteous...

Let me tell u something, fornication is bad (having sex with a lady that u are not married to)

But sleeping with a prostitute is worse, because aside the numerous spirits that they carry, they also carry different kinds of STD and STI, and mind u, u can still contact some of them even with condom...

My final advise, according to u the last time u had sex was 2018, that's up to 5 years, if u can do it, then u can still hold on.. (the last time I had anything to do with a woman was in 2012) I'm not saying it's easy, but u can if u are determined... Shalom.

chai just talk say you preek don die, no worry we understand.

Come my area in Abule egbe Lagos olosho is 1500 but if you want to Bleep and suck
Breast and doggy style is 2k

Dubetex96:


Boss that Abakiliki street do dey have Ashowo quarter there or are you going to lodge them in a hotel .

It's been long I went there so I don't know the current status of that place now but amawbia is still available

Obainoman6:


It's very simple bro,
Now listen from yaba bustop enter bus to Anthony 300 naira, from Anthony enter bus to new garage 150, now from new garage you can trek to nine nine brothel its close, actually they have ban keke or okada from going there so its like four streets away, just ask any guyman there say nine nine everybody knows it

All this street just to go fu*k chai.

Vintage9999:
another thing, in brothels is short time calculated by time or rounds? How many rounds make it shirt time 1 or 2?

Dubetex96:


Boss that Abakiliki street do dey have Ashowo quarter there or are you going to lodge them in a hotel .

I'm in Awka. Come and do December for me please.

segdan:
Come my area in Abule egbe Lagos olosho is 1500 but if you want to Bleep and suck
Breast and doggy style is 2k

Which area be that?

Pesce of the Lord be on this thread. Why do demons gather and are becoming bold in their ventures? You all must repent because the sin will consume your soul and you end up been destroyed. Because the wages of sin is death, fornication is the worst because it literally drags your soul to the pits. God save these lost souls, save them. First a betting thread now you have a thread for finding sex joints.

No go do Olosho. I wonder what people get in patronizing Ashewo's. I tried it and stopped because there was no gain in it

Obainoman6:

Then go at night, don't rush ignore all dose old mama that would be calling u outside, take time go inside select young lady with big boobs or ass or lepa depending on your specs.
Bargain well and don't pay more than 4k, 2k is for shortime, but 4k they will do you well.
Also be security conscious and use your brain.

What's the name of the hotel in that axis.

Gerrard59:


Well, it is why I have this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6643241/nigerian-men-failed-women and this one:https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Hookup cannot be eradicated but can be reduced when there is prosperity. People will mention children of the rich who enter the industry, but that is an exception, not the norm. I cannot blame our women for selling their bodies amidst the economic crises in the country. That is how it has been globally ab initio. Then again, even in prosperous societies, hookup still exists. E get one website I saw where one could book babes. Starting rates were about $200 - $400. Even in the UK, I have seen our women charging rates ranging from £150 - £400 for short time. So, hookup will always exist. I have broken it down even to scientific publications.

The bold is not true. Nigerian women/ladies who japa'd to the UK will disagree. If Nigerian men don't want their women to do hookup, they should create a prosperous society for their women to thrive. I read on another thread where a woman got money from Keke hustle to cultivate soybeans only for Fulani herdsmen to raze her entire farmland. The first question I had in mind was: where are/were the men in that community? What are they doing to curtail the demonic antics of Fulani herdsmen? If tomorrow that woman goes into hookup, I cannot criticise her. If she were in Ghana, such would not happen.

The solution dey Nigerian men hand.

P.S. No developed/prosperous society had women at the forefront of development or prosperity.

Stop this rubbish you always spew here!

So, those women who are engaged in other profitable ventures and succeeding in them are not Nigerian women Why must you blame men for the failure of some women to do things right

So armed robbers, kidnappers, fraudsters etc are also justified in choosing such means of livelihood, because many of them have cited failure on the parts of politicians as reasons for engaging in such activities

Men like you are the reason women blame men for everything. Even when they have menstrual pains, they blame men for it.


Rubbish!!!!

Jman06:
Stop this rubbish you always spew here!

So, those women who are engaged in other profitable ventures and succeeding in them are not Nigerian women Why must you blame men for the failure of some women to do things right

So armed robbers, kidnappers, fraudsters etc are also justified in choosing such means of livelihood, because many of them have cited failure on the parts of politicians as reasons for engaging in such activities

If you want to argue your point constructively, mention me in any of those threads. I doubt you read them. If you like, don't advocate for black men to develop their societies. Wait for women to do so.

dontrulee:
No go do Olosho. I wonder what people get in patronizing Ashewo's. I tried it and stopped because there was no gain in it

So, what do you do now?

P.S. There is no much gain in having sex. But testosterone - the male - hormone is not a m.oron. Remove testosterone and most men would not be interested in sex. But that very hormone is what makes a man who he is.

Gerrard59:


The only way we can condemn prostitution is to provide a prosperous environment for our women to thrive. When that happens and the women still prostitute themselves, we whip back to order or ostracise them.

P.S. The industry will always exist because there is a consistent demand for their service.

Prostitution should be legalized and taxed with the sex workes regularly tested for STI's.
Its a legitimate service with abundance of willing customers.

Thank God domestic and sexual violence Agency is very Active in Lagos.

Go and hv intercourse with a secondary school girl and let d mata burst u hear.

U go sleep jail for atleast 10yrs if not lifetime sef.