₦airaland Forum

Now that Nairaland is back, please I'll like for a few things to stop so we would have a better forum for all to coexist.
First,
We should stop the hate on women here.
If you are a new member here one thing you would noticed instantly is the abuse and hate on women here, women have been bullied, insulted, abused and called all sorts of demeaning names in this forum and it has gotten to a point where you must either side them and be called a Simp for it or bully them and be tagged a Redpiller for it. I have taken my time to reminisce all these and I know i am guilty of it too so i am calling for a stop to it. I know my friends jeon & jewessgratitud3 have their bias for me and I am formally saying I'm sorry. It's not too late to apologize to anyone of them you have offended too

First of...
Stop the as.slicking OP, it's sickening! ...

Secondly...
This thread is very one sided ...
Females be insulting men and calling men all sorts of depraved and unprintable names and yet somehow you saw no need to address that? How convenient ...

If we're going to be addressing the issue of abuse and insults on romanceland, then it's best we have a balanced argument don't you think? ...

Thirdly...
Some of the things you tagged as "insults" or "abuse" are just men stating a fact ...

Lemme give a few instances ...
If men say they don't want single mothers, it's not an insult, it's just a preference ...

If men say they don't want wh.ores they want virgins, it's not an insult, it's just preference ...

It's the same way women say they don't want broke men and we applaud it as a preference, so why can't men do the same thing too? ...

I agree that they've been a few cases of misogyny and lots more of misandry, and those cases needs to be looked into, however bringing up one and neglecting the other is just proof of hypocrisy ...

OP u be mumu.

I like women but I forking hate who'res and single mothers

LooneyLester:
I like women but I forking hate who'res and single mothers

Since you are generalising at the same time singling out the ones you hate.

Abeg single out the ones like make we see

Fahvvy:
First of...
Stop the as.slicking OP, it's sickening! ...

Secondly...
This thread is very one sided ...
Females be insulting men and calling men all sorts of depraved and unprintable names and yet somehow you saw no need to address that? How convenient ...

If we're going to be addressing the issue of abuse and insults on romanceland, then it's best we have a balanced argument don't you think? ...

Thirdly...
Some of the things you tagged as "insults" or "abuse" are just men stating a fact ...

Lemme give a few instances ...
If men say they don't want single mothers, it's not an insult, it's just a preference ...

If men say they don't want wh.ores they want virgins, it's not an insult, it's just preference ...

It's the same way women say they don't want broke men and we applaud it as a preference, so why can't men do the same thing too? ...

I agree that they've been a few cases of misogyny and lots more of misandry, and those cases needs to be looked into, however bringing up one and neglecting the other is just proof of hypocrisy ...

Be real!
If women really insulted men, the way men insulted women on this forum, when this site was down, why didn't I see people talking about it on twitter? All I was seeing was misogyny and tribalism.

Fahvvy:
First of...
Stop the as.slicking OP, it's sickening! ...

Secondly...
This thread is very one sided ...
Females be insulting men and calling men all sorts of depraved and unprintable names and yet somehow you saw no need to address that? How convenient ...

If we're going to be addressing the issue of abuse and insults on romanceland, then it's best we have a balanced argument don't you think? ...

Thirdly...
Some of the things you tagged as "insults" or "abuse" are just men stating a fact ...

Lemme give a few instances ...
If men say they don't want single mothers, it's not an insult, it's just a preference ...

If men say they don't want wh.ores they want virgins, it's not an insult, it's just preference ...

It's the same way women say they don't want broke men and we applaud it as a preference, so why can't men do the same thing too? ...

I agree that they've been a few cases of misogyny and lots more of misandry, and those cases needs to be looked into, however bringing up one and neglecting the other is just proof of hypocrisy ...

I quite agree with you and I'm sorry I didn't put the ones we as men go through but I'm just saying we are men and so we should act like one

faxana:
Be real!
If women really insulted men, the way men insulted women on this forum, when this site was down, why didn't I see people talking about it on twitter? All I was seeing was misogyny and tribalism.

My point can be summarized as thus, women insult men just as men insult women, so if we're going to have a balanced conversation, then we should call both gender to order - what is "unreal" about that? ...

Nobody is hating on women.

It's not a surprise that women have dating problems:

They talk themselves into these


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR3MCsqxBvA

lordnkem000

Just stumbled upon this thread, I believe your mentality have now changed and you now know it's awareness about the evil and manipulative strategies of women that men preach and not hate as you termed it ?

Hope you're still mounting your guard?

No real successful man hates on a woman.

Unless you choose to live in denial of fact and reality, you cannot but hate almost everything about ladies. If not for the fact that men cannot help being sexually attracted to ladies and having sex with them, most men would rather prefer to stay very very far from every lady.

essentialone1:
Unless you choose to live in denial of fact and reality, you cannot buy hate almost everything about ladies. If not for the fact that men cannot help being sexually attracted to ladies and having sex with them, most men would rather prefer to stay very very far from every lady.

True.