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Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Prosperity4All: 12:36am On Dec 24, 2023
starpower:
That means she can have later when the career collapse. Be watching and accept it. A customer of mine had such issues. see! Most times when things like this happen let them please themselves. Just improve on your capacity to earn and avoid distraction. Take care of yourself. More children is actually more responsibility for you. Try being agreeable on situations they expected you not to and you get more time to plan. That my customer told her he is adopting 2 young boys 4 year Olds madam says why. Na baba say they look so much like him. Aunty change o. Be less available to sometimes.

You understand the scope.
Just imagine undermining a husband's authority. Wetin she model? She reach Bianca Ojukwu?
Or is it possible for Regina Daniel's to try such with Oga Ned? Make career end instanta 😂
Onobire83 just get selfish too and focus 💯 on improving your capacities especially financial.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Memyselfu2009(m): 12:37am On Dec 24, 2023
Why are u wasting our data idiot
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by cozy7(m): 12:40am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
Threaten to get another girl pregnant n she will sit up.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Soki234: 1:11am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

She is above the age of legal consent, and can so unilaterally give [/b]consent[b] to any contraceptive. While that power of consent lies with her, there [/b]may be[b] consequences of such act in a traditional African society. However, she did inform you about it, else you may not have known. Were the number of kids deliberated before marriage? Were her previous pregnancy experiences challenging? Was the childbirth process traumatic? Did she have functional help after the birth of the previous kids?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by DangoteIvy: 1:27am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
I have seen women die during childbirth., not like it's their first birth experience. Oga this one her spirit nor gree for the pregnancy, LEAVE HER ALONE.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by mukthar2000(m): 2:23am On Dec 24, 2023
OP She went for family planing without ur concept or you both plan for the family planning?
If she went without ur concept just get urself another wife, but if u both plan for it and come on NL to be one sided speaker , OP is better u hold unto her .
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Shikena(m): 2:38am On Dec 24, 2023
Regardless of what you do after all the words of advice and debates, we should always keep in mind that this world is not a permanent destination. Stop making life too hard on yourself with rigid positions. Some have more than 50 years left here and some have just a few days or months left regardless of age. It is a sad reality of life but one that helps put things in perspective. Appreciate the gift of good health and live your life to the fullest with your family and loved ones without forcing unnecessary issues.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Neddstark: 2:51am On Dec 24, 2023
Men are no longer the heads of the home.
Asking for 3 kids is not a bad idea.
I'll advice the man to insist to the wife that he wants an another kid no matter what. Let family members also know this so when an away goal is scored, bo one complains.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Neddstark: 2:53am On Dec 24, 2023
Dexy4yah:

Imagine someone trying to end his marriage cuz his wife don't want to give him another kid. When you have two already.
This my gender wahala toomuch

Why should his wife want to kill his dream of having a big family?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Smartguyboy(m): 2:59am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
Who is the man of the house ?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by toprealman: 3:10am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
Did you guys have this conversation during courtship or whatever arrangement you guys had pre-coming together?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by frozen70(f): 3:18am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

If you like end the marriage and start another one

By the time you have more children and she says she doesn't want another child,

End the second marriage and start another one

Continue like that untill you have Childress scattered every where

Of all life issues and worries, having many children are the only problem you have

Am sure that woman is the bread winner of that family
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by coputa(m): 3:55am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
marry another wife ASAP ,her body shape is more important to her than your emotional and physiological well being,,be a man, marry another wife,if she wants to leave let her go.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Invest4growth: 4:03am On Dec 24, 2023
See your mouth? So you know what she sent through during those births. How much do you earn that you are looking for a large family. Because of an additional child then you want to disrupt your family. You better keep taking to your wife to see reason with you if you know you can cope with a large family.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Chizy12345: 4:05am On Dec 24, 2023
she's into modelling. modelling what ?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Elonmuzk(m): 4:12am On Dec 24, 2023
What do you need more kids for?? 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. I don't know why Africans like popping out kids like candies.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by tollyboy5(m): 4:18am On Dec 24, 2023
Jeon:
Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.
The guy excuse look dumb. A man is suppose to discuss child bearing issues before getting married to a lady.
She's doing the right thing that is best for her and him tho. Orisirisi grin grin grin
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Free2Fly: 4:28am On Dec 24, 2023
Jeon:
Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.

He should leave her alone??

Is that how a marriage should be?? Nawaoo
Why did she agree to marry if her modelling job is so important to her?
Marriage shouldn't be built on selfishness!
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Free2Fly: 4:33am On Dec 24, 2023
AskProf:


Wisely counsel.

How can you describe such a stupid advice as wise??

How long would the man wait while his aging keep increasing?

Who will take care of a kid born in his advanced age??
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Free2Fly: 4:41am On Dec 24, 2023
Jamie1000:
Be patient, it's her body. Untill she's ready

Just shut up, these annoying underage GenZ kids.

You obviously don't know what marriage is all about.

If the man is already around/above 45yrs, he should keep being patient, right?

Then, when he reaches 50 or above, the yeye wife will become ready, and the man will be suffering in his old age to train his kids?

Or is it woman that will train them??
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Greenfaces: 5:15am On Dec 24, 2023
Jeon:
Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.
you are everywhere. Hating men
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by spiceadole: 5:21am On Dec 24, 2023
Thundafireseun:


Mstheeeeeew

You have a long way to go oga

Have you asked yourself the reason why the rate of divorce is the highest in the western world??

There is nothing wrong with divorce..
If it's not working,go your separate ways.
Better than live in bitterness and hatred....OR kill each other ,in the name of marriage.

Have sense!
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by spiceadole: 5:24am On Dec 24, 2023
Thundafireseun:


Mstheeeeeew

You have a long way to go oga

Have you asked yourself the reason why the rate of divorce is the highest in the western world??

There is nothing wrong with divorce..
If it's not working,go your separate ways.
Better than live in bitterness and hatred....OR kill each other ,in the name of marriage.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by pendusky(m): 5:49am On Dec 24, 2023
Jeon:
Always looking for a way to end marriage. But men will be pissed off when a woman didn't consider /reconsider marriage.

Leave her alone.. Since you knew it will affect her. Yes, it will affect her and you be the same person complaining about sagged breast and stretch marks making her to be less attractive to you. The next thing is to spy outside and cheating begins
.

End the Marriage if you can't deal with it.

Seun pls add unlike button on nairaland.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 5:56am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please





You were warned about third party interference during your union, so why bring this here? This isn't a discussion to bring to a platform such as this, where massive toxicity exists. Have this discussion with your wife. If she insists on two kids, then so be it please, for peace to reign. If it is the will of God for more to come, then they would.


By the way, your reason for wanting out seems fishy. I hope the analogy playing out in my head is not the case?


Fix your home please!
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by jaxxy(m): 6:02am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please

Have u guys agreed howany kids u want or u just want her to be birthing kids whenever u like?

Ending marriage because of that is not a good excuse especially since she's told u her reason. Have a discussion on when she can be done done or take another break of modelling to have more kids.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Mom007(f): 7:39am On Dec 24, 2023
So that is enough to end marriage like this? What kind of men do we have these days sef? If she doesn't want today, will she not want tomorrow? Even if she says she is done, respect her wishes. Do you know pregnancy and childbirth is a between life and death issue? You do not force someone to get pregnant. She has given you a son and a daughter, what is your real problem?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by simplypj: 8:25am On Dec 24, 2023
spiceadole:


Lol...in the UK where I practise,a woman doesn't need the consent of her husband to do family planning.as long as she has mental capacity,she can give consent.
African women really have a long way to go

You see that UK,
that UK,
that UK.
How many times I repeat am....
Marriage over their for a man is more than castration

It modern day slavery.
You have all the responsibility but no authority.
And the women have all the power without the responsibility.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Gmajor(m): 8:34am On Dec 24, 2023
It's kinda funny that in marriages, a man is never expected to give up his hopes and dreams so that peace can reign in the marriage. But for a woman living an unfulfilled life for the greater good is always a given.
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by femi4: 8:55am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
Ask her if she doesn't mind if a another girl assist her
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Areola14(m): 9:03am On Dec 24, 2023
I think maybe she is looking at the economy and your standard of living. Those two children, are they well fed?
Re: Should I End The Marriage? by Emmanuel30a: 10:59am On Dec 24, 2023
onobire83:
I have 2 kids (boy and girl) with my wife in a marriage of 6 years , and I needed another child but my wife doesn’t (she went for family planning) what should I do?

Advice please
Kill her and kill yourself... Don't be deceiving yourselves or stop deceiving yourselves...

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