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Nyascobar1414:
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Simp in love

yea and a very dedicated simp o. If there is a crown for it, please send it across.

madone:
you held someone's daughter for 6years no progress, no marriage no impact and you are here talking. Brother go and work on yourself cos you have a problem. If you have not been able to work on her appearance And model her to what you want you may as well fu..ck out of her life.

Very bad
He held someone's daughter down at GUN POINT for 6 years, feeding her, housing her, clothing her, and making her to enjoy good dick and orgasm. What a bad man.

I think you need psychiatric evaluation

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

If it was to be the lady saying this, the only comment you'll see from these useless men littered all over this forum will be:

“Olosho woman wan leave her marriage”
“She's for the street”
”This one don go marry Hookup girl”
“You can take a girl out of the street but you can never take the street out of her” etc etc

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

LOL, and you just sounded like some that experienced a Father's love.

Damn It, we all are ignorantly hypocrites.

IamDora:
Useless men, all they know how to do is complain complain and complain all the time

Watch how his fellow useless men will avoid this thread or create excuses for him, but when the table turns, they start insulting and talking down on the lady without knowing her side of the story,

If it was to be the lady saying this, the only comment you'll see from these useless men littered all over this forum will be:

“Olosho woman wan leave her marriage”
“She's for the street”
”This one don go marry Hookup girl”
“You can take a girl out of the street but you can never take the street out of her” etc etc

The way NL men reason sometimes leaves me in awe, sometimes I wonder if most of them even experienced a mother's love. They insult us 2.4.7 yet slide-in to our Dms with alternates.

Alpha Nonsense online, mighty simps offline

No insult please. Kindly tell us how to make the woman improve. Some women are just impossible. Attacking the man makes no difference

Scarrr:
so why u wan leave her now ? U don tire to dey wash pant??

Like I said, you have absolutely nothing to your name other than curses. You have not amounted to anything in life and shall never amount to anything meaningful amen

Balistic4:
Like I said, you have absolutely nothing to your name other than curses. You have not amounted to anything in life and shall never amount to anything meaningful amen

gutter man dey curse who pass am....pure comedy, Sabinus dey learn work😂

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

You don't think you will have a happy marriage with her but that didn't stop you from having a child with her? E be like say foolishness dey water wey many of una dey drink for naija so.

Lightorder:
No insult please. Kindly tell us how to make the woman improve. Some women are just impossible. Attacking the man makes no difference

But not too impossible for you to have kids with them thereby chaining yourselves for life in an unhealthy relationship?

Seriously, e be like say foolishness dey water wey many of una dey drink for naija so.

All this irresponsible men that made a lot of ladies to be a single mother. Yet, they will still be the first to be insulting them and telling their fellow men never to marry them. Fools. After 6 good solid years with a son, you're now planning to leave her. Sense kpo fa.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

How you go find her attractive when u don see her finish? Yeye thing!!

madone:
you held someone's daughter for 6years no progress, no marriage no impact and you are here talking. Brother go and work on yourself cos you have a problem. If you have not been able to work on her appearance And model her to what you want you may as well fu..ck out of her life.

Bleep out of her life after 6years? No naaa that's impoesicant what I expected u to tell that idiot is to go ND marry the lady. He's mad like do people date for a whole 6 years? How many years person dey live life wey I wan date for such number of years?

Impregnable101:
Ask questions before you blab. I must not put all the details in the write up

she's not blabbing oga, go and marry her and stop yarning dust!!

Sonnobax15:

A broken relationship is far more better than a broken marriage.

Na the only quote wey this one sabi be this!!

Abeg! Where's is this " Advance DNA"? Come and see the set of people you support. Birds of the same feathers.

6 years with her and the only improvement she got was your constant knacking. Even your presence in her life didn't improve her yet you got the nerves to complain?

WorldRichest:
Very bad
He held someone's daughter down at GUN POINT for 6 years, feeding her, housing her, clothing her, and making her to enjoy good dick and orgasm. What a bad man.

I think you need psychiatric evaluation

And you know that he is the one financing her because he uses your pos to send her those monies?

You don dry all her juice, and you want to run.

Chai

Fear some men !!!

Shey na our fault ni

Dude just tell us say you dey cheat



But Come oo how does this contribute to our economy 🤔🤔🤔🤔

pansophist:
Marriage is not based on a permanent sexual attraction. Remember the vow both of you gave to each other on your wedding day, and let that lead you. Maybe I should remind you.

for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death

If she had cheated or done something that violates her vow, then I can understand, but attraction is a mere feature of a long-lasting relationship, and both of you must work to reignite it.

You mentioned that she changed in appearance, and there lies the issue. If both of you are allowed to eat only soup, then the soup better be well-prepared. So both of you can get into fitness and strict dieting.

Besides, ever wonder if it's mutual? maybe she doesn't find you attractive anymore but forgave you for things you are holding against her? If this is the case, then she is the stronger person.

Lots of marital problems will end if people just keep being attractive to each other and keep forking each other.

EDIT - I think say una don marry sef. ANyways, this advice is still valid regardless. If your loss of attraction is not as a result of not being a good person to you, then tell her to go loose weight.

do females ever keep to that vow .. i' enot seen anyone of them that ever did

You don finish work naaa. Waiting you wan see again?

Prettygirl200:
she's not blabbing oga, go and marry her and stop yarning dust!!

abeg pack well.. na by force to marry her..


mtcheeww

Kobojunkie:
But not too impossible for you to have kids with thereby chaining yourselves for life in an unhealthy relationship with?

Seriously, e be like say foolishness dey water wey many of una dey drink for naija so.

off point...


lets stick to the point of this discourse shall we 😒😒

The kid is the issue. She has a child and now you don't want to marry her anymore.

Always marry before you carry ladies !

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

Meaning you never loved her!

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

What you have for her is lost and not love, because you will see beyond her beauty if you really love her because love conquer all.

Impregnable101:
A lot.

Her imagined "marriage material" qualities disappeared? If she's not giving you problems, try to be responsible to her and see how she'd react going forward.

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

Only god will judge you⚠️

Wise men don't marry.
Only fools do.

Silentgroper:
abeg pack well.. na by force to marry her..


mtcheeww

Who be this one?

Impregnable101:
We've been together for 6 years and are blessed with a son. No matter how hard i tried to ignite the spark, it just wouldn't work! The fact that most of the wifely characteristics i believed sha had was a gimmicks and over the years, she did not improve in appearance, maturity (in terms of how she carries herself) & otherwise. I don't think I'll have a happy marriage with her.

See-Finish.!!

Na-im dey do you.