I gave up on love since i broke up with my ex, being single is so sweet if you've never been in love before so your guess is right it was hell for me being all by myself,i miss having a gist partner,i Miss having someone to call ode,i miss having someone to tell my sins yet I won't be seen as a sinner,i decided to be single for two years and that didn't stop me from having sex tho but sex with no emotional attachment to me is something i really don't enjoy but i do it sometimes because I'm a man...i started a barbing saloon next to this 25 year old lady that's a hair stylist, I hated her with passion because since my last relationship girls hardly entice me and this one no even get better character so I'm always not in a talking terms with her but the poor girl didn't know how much i hated her she innocently indulge me in conversations i always run away from after a while,mind you she's from Benin republic so we communicate in youruba, I'm from akwa-ibom state but I speak youruba fluently.

What i basically didn't like about her was the way she likes money,i know everybody needs Money but she's not friendly at all when it comes to money i usually hear her have fight with her boyfriend in her shop that the guy will be complaining that she wants to kill him that she likes money too much and me I'll just be like,God forbid make i get this kind girlfriend wey like money like this i go dey beat am ni,i go dey talk am for my mind....hmmm okay.

This 25 year old lady that's not educated that's a hair stylist next to my shop she started talking to me about her relationship how her boyfriend is so jealous and treats her badly i started understanding situations and i started to feel i was all wrong about her, she's actually somehow nice o..hmmm
This lady now saw me as her gist partner and i was enjoying it,she told me secrets about her and i started to feel for her...hmmm

This lady was preparing semo in her shop the other day she carelessly pour hot semo on her hands and it was no small injury i was next to her and her boyfriend stop caring about her so I felt i was in the best position to look out for her so i was there for her and naso i enter am o.omo if a prophet had told me that i will fall in love with this lady i for beat the prophet i swear, strong boy later fall like mumu...and you know what,after asking her out and she agreed to be my girlfriend,mind you I'm a handsome guy and I'm 25 Year old too she couldn't resist someone like me no girl can actually resist someone like me because i know myself that i sometimes can be a mumu when i care Abt someone, I'll put you first and make sure you're always smile no matter how hard it is for me, that's why I'm very careful with who I develope feelings for because i know if i later fall finish na you go enjoy me pass because I'll be more than sincere with you and I'll love and care for you like mad but i get angry easily na wetin spoil me be that, that's Abt me.
I started dating this girl and things were working well for me,i started my saloon with a tiger generator and in ni Time she encouraged me and not even a month into the relationship i got a big generator and i did wallpaper in my shop and things were really going good that people started seeing me as a big man o,i really was there for her too and I did everything she wants,i love this girl so damn much that i don't go home without kissing her.
I'm the only son in my family and i have two elder sisters that are married so i stay with my parents and my two younger sister and we own where we stay but when i started dating this girl she said i should rent a house so we can stay alone... though it wasn't a bad idea to me because i feel I'm old enough to stay alone and i love her but my mom doesn't like her because she not educated and she's attends cele,but i love this girl like crazy i really don't know how i got here.
I started saving money not from my barbing business but i also indulge in small yahoo when I'm not barbing so since she suggested we rent our house i started saving money and in no Time I saved 800k and i always tell her how much i save in my opay everytime i keep money there,we tell each other everything,so since I have 800k i told her i was ready to rent the house so we started looking for a house but my mom got to know i had plans of leaving home and staying alone she kicked against it and was ready to fight me if i try to leave home i wasn't ready to fight her,at least not because of a lady i met just a couple month

So,i told her my mom wasn't gonna let me leave home...she wanted me to do my barbing business and go to school,so i told my girlfriend that I wasn't ready to fight my mom on this so I'm using the money for something else,i spend like 450k in my room,for my TV, biggest mattress,a chair and my PS 3 new table and wallpaper, then i used the remaining money to start my school because my mom had always wanted me out on of Nigeria and that's what i want too....hmmmm

My girlfriend was happy my room now looks different and that I'm now in school but she still wants us to rent the house because the place she's staying is owned by a man that's a family friend that works in a different state and will be back this December,she didn't tell me that at first she kept saying the place she stays belongs to her brother and this brother calls her everyday to check on her,she said she wants to be out of there before he gets back because there's no way she's gonna stay in that house with him that he's not gonna try to do something stupid because they are not related by blood...hmmm,she didn't explain all this to me from the beginning now I'm beginning not to be happy with her, I'm broke now the chances of we coming up with money for an apartment now is slim because I'm now in part-time school and i have fees to pay...hmmm

This girl wants to get pregnant for me because she says her Mom is pressuring her that she's not getting younger again that if she see someone that likes her and she likes that she should get pregnant,i want a baby too but i want a better life for my baby, I'm still with my parents and I'm still in school though I'm a barber and my business is doing fine at least,my love for children is the reason i want a child but I don't think I'm ready but this girl is a hair stylist and she owns her shop her business is doing fine too,she says she'll take care if the chili that I don't have to worry much,hmm

Now, I'm fuckin going crazy because i love this girl so much that i can't imagine not see her for a week i go lean,she wan kill me with respect, she's my gist partner though she still like money but i dey chop her money sometimes if i broke, I'm really confused here...she wants a baby i want a baby too but I don't think I'm ready,i stay with my parents and i really don't know what to do someone should please advise me I'm going crazy...is having a baby with her safe? Should i rent a house and stay alone with her and make baby,will i be able to travel out still? Is this relationship healthy for me? But i really love this girl i swear but I don't know if she's the right person for me, she's very smart...is she playing me?

People still hate others because they're not educated.

You can do whatever you decide with your life and you are the only one who knows what's best for you, and you keep saying she's not educated but she's an hairdresser and that qualifies her as a
literate person..you will still have a problem with her and same applies with any lady you think it's better for you, just think it thoroughly before you makes your final decision..

All I can say is LoL... and LoL

U guys haven't even spent a year not to talk of two years...

( Lemme tell u one damn secret today bro, in every relationship, prolly when the relationship clocks two years or few weeks or months after two years, Surely there would be issues arising from both part and different thoughts crosses both parties mind, the girl might be feeling like how the hell did I even date u ? Same as the guy or the girl might begin to act strange , thereby texting her exes how much she miss him or them. .. ) sit down and rizon ur head bro... Relationship aren't done in a jiffy manner


Bro... All I can say at this Point is LoL and LoL... 🤳

[quote author=HopeNeverDies post=126492820]All I can say is LoL... and LoL

U guys haven't even spent a year not to talk of two years...

( Lemme tell u one damn secret today bro, in every relationship, prolly when the relationship clocks two years or few weeks or months after two years, Surely there would be issues arising from both part and different thoughts crosses both parties mind, the girl might be feeling like how the hell did I even date u ? Same as the guy or the girl might begin to act strange , thereby texting her exes how much she miss him or them. .. ) sit down and rizon ur head bro... Relationship aren't done in a jiffy manner


Bro... All I can say at this Point is LoL and LoL...

I no dey read. all this nonsense epistle,why akwa ibom people like to be barbers ,house help,drivers ,gateman ?

Intoboy:
I gave up on love since i broke up with my ex, being single is so sweet if you've never been in love before so your guess is right it was hell for me being all by myself,i miss having a gist partner,i Miss having someone to call ode,i miss having someone to tell my sins yet I won't be seen as a sinner,i decided to be single for two years and that didn't stop me from having sex tho but sex with no emotional attachment to me is something i really don't enjoy but i do it sometimes because I'm a man...i started a barbing saloon next to this 25 year old lady that's a hair stylist, I hated her with passion because since my last relationship girls hardly entice me and this one no even get better character so I'm always not in a talking terms with her but the poor girl didn't know how much i hated her she innocently indulge me in conversations i always run away from after a while,mind you she's from Benin republic so we communicate in youruba, I'm from akwa-ibom state but I speak youruba fluently.

What i basically didn't like about her was the way she likes money,i know everybody needs Money but she's not friendly at all when it comes to money i usually hear her have fight with her boyfriend in her shop that the guy will be complaining that she wants to kill him that she likes money too much and me I'll just be like,God forbid make i get this kind girlfriend wey like money like this i go dey beat am ni,i go dey talk am for my mind....hmmm okay.

This 25 year old lady that's not educated that's a hair stylist next to my shop she started talking to me about her relationship how her boyfriend is so jealous and treats her badly i started understanding situations and i started to feel i was all wrong about her, she's actually somehow nice o..hmmm
This lady now saw me as her gist partner and i was enjoying it,she told me secrets about her and i started to feel for her...hmmm

This lady was preparing semo in her shop the other day she carelessly pour hot semo on her hands and it was no small injury i was next to her and her boyfriend stop caring about her so I felt i was in the best position to look out for her so i was there for her and naso i enter am o.omo if a prophet had told me that i will fall in love with this lady i for beat the prophet i swear, strong boy later fall like mumu...and you know what,after asking her out and she agreed to be my girlfriend,mind you I'm a handsome guy and I'm 25 Year old too she couldn't resist someone like me no girl can actually resist someone like me because i know myself that i sometimes can be a mumu when i care Abt someone, I'll put you first and make sure you're always smile no matter how hard it is for me, that's why I'm very careful with who I develope feelings for because i know if i later fall finish na you go enjoy me pass because I'll be more than sincere with you and I'll love and care for you like mad but i get angry easily na wetin spoil me be that, that's Abt me.
I started dating this girl and things were working well for me,i started my saloon with a tiger generator and in ni Time she encouraged me and not even a month into the relationship i got a big generator and i did wallpaper in my shop and things were really going good that people started seeing me as a big man o,i really was there for her too and I did everything she wants,i love this girl so damn much that i don't go home without kissing her.
I'm the only son in my family and i have two elder sisters that are married so i stay with my parents and my two younger sister and we own where we stay but when i started dating this girl she said i should rent a house so we can stay alone... though it wasn't a bad idea to me because i feel I'm old enough to stay alone and i love her but my mom doesn't like her because she not educated and she's attends cele,but i love this girl like crazy i really don't know how i got here.
I started saving money not from my barbing business but i also indulge in small yahoo when I'm not barbing so since she suggested we rent our house i started saving money and in no Time I saved 800k and i always tell her how much i save in my opay everytime i keep money there,we tell each other everything,so since I have 800k i told her i was ready to rent the house so we started looking for a house but my mom got to know i had plans of leaving home and staying alone she kicked against it and was ready to fight me if i try to leave home i wasn't ready to fight her,at least not because of a lady i met just a couple month

So,i told her my mom wasn't gonna let me leave home...she wanted me to do my barbing business and go to school,so i told my girlfriend that I wasn't ready to fight my mom on this so I'm using the money for something else,i spend like 450k in my room,for my TV, biggest mattress,a chair and my PS 3 new table and wallpaper, then i used the remaining money to start my school because my mom had always wanted me out on of Nigeria and that's what i want too....hmmmm

My girlfriend was happy my room now looks different and that I'm now in school but she still wants us to rent the house because the place she's staying is owned by a man that's a family friend that works in a different state and will be back this December,she didn't tell me that at first she kept saying the place she stays belongs to her brother and this brother calls her everyday to check on her,she said she wants to be out of there before he gets back because there's no way she's gonna stay in that house with him that he's not gonna try to do something stupid because they are not related by blood...hmmm,she didn't explain all this to me from the beginning now I'm beginning not to be happy with her, I'm broke now the chances of we coming up with money for an apartment now is slim because I'm now in part-time school and i have fees to pay...hmmm

This girl wants to get pregnant for me because she says her Mom is pressuring her that she's not getting younger again that if she see someone that likes her and she likes that she should get pregnant,i want a baby too but i want a better life for my baby, I'm still with my parents and I'm still in school though I'm a barber and my business is doing fine at least,my love for children is the reason i want a child but I don't think I'm ready but this girl is a hair stylist and she owns her shop her business is doing fine too,she says she'll take care if the chili that I don't have to worry much,hmm

Now, I'm fuckin going crazy because i love this girl so much that i can't imagine not see her for a week i go lean,she wan kill me with respect, she's my gist partner though she still like money but i dey chop her money sometimes if i broke, I'm really confused here...she wants a baby i want a baby too but I don't think I'm ready,i stay with my parents and i really don't know what to do someone should please advise me I'm going crazy...is having a baby with her safe? Should i rent a house and stay alone with her and make baby,will i be able to travel out still? Is this relationship healthy for me? But i really love this girl i swear but I don't know if she's the right person for me, she's very smart...is she playing me?

You seriously typed all this jargons for who to READ??

Story was too long to read..


It's your decision to make, you know what to do already, you only need validation to do it

Bro leave relationship, you're still in ur 20's.....chase the bag,leave love my guy,make u r pikin no ask u why u no make am

Uchenna10:
Bro leave relationship, you're still in ur 20's.....chase the bag,leave love my guy,make u r pikin no ask u why u no make am

No mind am, he go explain tire