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Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 8:28pm On Jan 07, 2024
Hello nairalanders there is this issue bordering me for some time now my girlfriend anytime we argue she will always say I can get any man I want but I chose you because I love you that word always irritate me ,though she is richer than me but I don’t ask her for any financial assistance what do you guys think is it a red flag ?
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by ridwintin89(m): 8:33pm On Jan 07, 2024
To be happy,u need to ignore are talking but deal with her through her actions.
Women can mouthwash you but love you extremely
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by nani212(m): 8:34pm On Jan 07, 2024
Nobody ever willingly settles for less. It’s just gra gra.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 8:37pm On Jan 07, 2024
ridwintin89:
To be happy,u need to ignore are talking but deal with her through her actions.
Women can mouthwash you but love you extremely
ok bro
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by 4mee: 8:37pm On Jan 07, 2024
You're the backup plan
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by garriAndsugar: 8:38pm On Jan 07, 2024
I will advice you start looking for another basket to put your eggs
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Exceed15: 8:54pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
Hello nairalanders there is this issue bordering me for some time now my girlfriend anytime we argue she will always say I can get any man I want but I chose you because I love you that word always irritate me ,though she is richer than me but I don’t ask her for any financial assistance what do you guys think is it a red flag ?
You obviously begged her for the relationship. Never be at the mercy of any woman.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 8:55pm On Jan 07, 2024
Exceed15:
You obviously begged her for the relationship. Never be at the mercy of any woman.
i didn’t beg her for any relationship bro
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by pansophist(m): 8:57pm On Jan 07, 2024
Tell her you don't like that statement, that it hurts you, and that she shouldn't repeat such. If she doesn't stop, then you'll have to question if she truly loves you.

Hurt is not a feature of love. You don't hurt who you love, it's an antithesis. Also make her understand that self-restraint is a virtue, after all, you also have the ability to say hurtful things, but you don't do that.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Exceed15: 9:00pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
i didn’t beg her for any relationship bro
Then why threatening you?
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by YoungLionken(m): 9:00pm On Jan 07, 2024
My own personal encounter below, do with the information what you wish✌...

Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Rokiat(f): 9:02pm On Jan 07, 2024
I am sorry what’s the problem here? The fact that she says she loves you?

You should be happy, you have a pick me who’s way out of your league but settle for you because of her own naivety and lack of self love thereby seeking love in a man.

I can only hope she’s still young because foolishness for real.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Ballzproblem2: 9:02pm On Jan 07, 2024
you are dating yourself any woman that says such to you no regard but as a simp I bet you will stick around lol.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 9:04pm On Jan 07, 2024
Ballzproblem2:
you are dating yourself any woman that says such to you no regard but as a simp I bet you will stick around lol.
everything to you guys nowadays is simping
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Ballzproblem2: 9:10pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
everything to you guys nowadays is simping
hence why I didn't advice furthergrin carry on Bros nothing do you.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Karleb(m): 9:18pm On Jan 07, 2024
YoungLionken:
My own personal encounter below, do with the information what you wish✌...
Una dey try o. Where una dey meet these girls?
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Karleb(m): 9:20pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
Hello nairalanders there is this issue bordering me for some time now my girlfriend anytime we argue she will always say I can get any man I want but I chose you because I love you that word always irritate me ,though she is richer than me but I don’t ask her for any financial assistance what do you guys think is it a red flag ?
My brother. the babe no rate you at all.

Truth is, you are the best guy she can pull, that's why she's with you and you with her. Don't let her money intimidate you, there a lot of rich women that are single to stupor.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 9:25pm On Jan 07, 2024
Karleb:
My brother. the babe no rate you at all.

Truth is, you are the best guy she can pull, that's why she's with you and you with her. Don't let her money intimidate you, there a lot of rich women that are single to stupor.
ok bro
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Karleb(m): 9:39pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
ok bro
no gree for am. grin
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by annayawchee: 9:57pm On Jan 07, 2024
YoungLionken:
My own personal encounter below, do with the information what you wish✌...
whata gwan bros 😲
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Demigod22: 10:09pm On Jan 07, 2024
There are other beautiful girls with succulent breasts and flawless thighs and richer than her but you choose her.

This is not even an issue, just tell her you don't like that phrase she always use.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Nicepoker(m): 10:10pm On Jan 07, 2024
Op send her away. Be single with a standard. Than loosing yourself for a girl's approval.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Chygoz01(op): 10:13pm On Jan 07, 2024
Ballzproblem2:
hence why I didn't advice furthergrin carry on Bros nothing do you.
no woman can control me with pussy bro you don’t know what simping is
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by UptownVibes(m): 10:14pm On Jan 07, 2024
Make money bro.. No dey carry woman matter for head.. Infact toast money,date money,and marry money.. grin Can't you see that she doesn't rate you at all? Sinsu money go say ,she no send ya papa..
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by ogashman(m): 10:34pm On Jan 07, 2024
She is always saying that because she feels she is richer than u and also has rich guys flocking around and asking her out....that's why she thinks she is doing u a favour.

My advice is for u to gradually end that relationship now before she serves u hot breakfast, because she will never stop saying that,being that she already feels cheated by dating u instead of guys in her league.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Elemosho478: 10:34pm On Jan 07, 2024
Chygoz01:
no woman can control me with pussy bro you don’t know what simping is
That's a very disrespectful statement and i doubt the woman have any ounce of respect for you to be so bold to uttered that kind of statement to you.


You are also really very weak for tolerating that disrespect, don't ever let any disrespect from your girl slide because it is going to be the beginning of more and bigger disrespect.

The psychology behind that statement mean she still believe she can do better or get a better man than you.

When a woman truly believe she can get a better man than you, she is not really your girl and that believe will always show in how she interact with you, you won't get the respect you deserve from her.

The hand writing is already on the wall, if I was you i will dump her before she do it first.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Gadafii: 12:57am On Jan 08, 2024
Start looking for option one or two, to replace her silly assss

Don’t give a fFuck about her wealthy asss as well, when next she makes that nonsense statement, simply tell her you are calling it quit.. if she think there are men out there that will tolerate her insolent behavior you have to make a bold statement that you self can catch a more beautiful and respectful girl

in this time and age let her go out into the streets and hear scores, men would have scored points with her tired before her eyes go clear


Mummy zee really opened a lot of mens eyes the past few days including simps and broke men that have been settling for less and accepting nonsense from their women in the name of “love”… never tolerate disrespect from any woman, because of kpekus

Make sure you be the one to break up with her, when next she comes up with that statement, those men she think she can replace you with will chop her money and draw her oil very well and still dump her
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by Zaheertyler(m): 1:29am On Jan 08, 2024
Stop hurting her by claiming you're a man
Sometimes our idea of love is wrong
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by jumokeadele(m): 2:28am On Jan 08, 2024
you go dey let woman know say she get money pass you .... end that relationship and don't make that mistake ever again. You don't tell woman wetin you get for bank. I have some decent money in the bank , but i can never let my woman know the exact figure , so either she's richer or not , she's better off not knowing about it. Women don't know how to handle that fact.
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by tochez24(m): 5:04am On Jan 08, 2024
YoungLionken:
My own personal encounter below, do with the information what you wish✌...
This one na person girlfriend too?😁😁

1k ashawo better pass una so called relationship bro😅
Re: Please I Need Advice On This Issue About My Girlfriend by elijahozzy(m): 5:30am On Jan 08, 2024
Chygoz01:
Hello nairalanders there is this issue bordering me for some time now my girlfriend anytime we argue she will always say I can get any man I want but I chose you because I love you that word always irritate me ,though she is richer than me but I don’t ask her for any financial assistance what do you guys think is it a red flag ?
She wants to break up with you but finding a reason too my brother, Run!!!
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