fyzaila:
Is it difficult to ignore her? Or pretend like she's not there? Please man up, i repeat man up! How can you allow her to be using you to play kalo kalo. You even went to report to your boss like one cry cry baby.

adesegun121:
Ok

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

rickleye:



Dude if you are “ the gay “


Then sit her down and explain to her why you both cannot work out.
1. You cannot date someone in the same office space.
2. You are her superior ( if that’s a reason )
3. You are dating or interested in someone else .
4. You do not want to be friends as this will make my gf jealous and break her heart.


You need proof of allegations you are making against her

brain54:
Be professional in your interactions with her...

Don't discuss personal issues with her. Probably she became too familiar with you. And you know what they say about over familiarity.


Be firm!

Quality20:
It seems an inherited trait which she might do to another man. Just be close to her more, then u can truly show her that u not like other men who would have fornicated her, u know a lot of women believe that men can't resist a woman will holes

Demigod22:
OP, if you are not careful, we will soon read on the papers; Justice for subordinate staff.

Dealing with such people is dicy. I remember a school I taught sometime ago. There's this girl, a teacher too, because both of us are young, people unanimously ship us. She will visit me during break time, play with my phone, ask me to buy stuff for her, but when the female students in senior class started doing the same thing, I have a second thought.

You just have to upgrade your strict attitude and overlook certain things too.

rickleye:



Dude if you are “ the gay “


Then sit her down and explain to her why you both cannot work out.
1. You cannot date someone in the same office space.
2. You are her superior ( if that’s a reason )
3. You are dating or interested in someone else .
4. You do not want to be friends as this will make my gf jealous and break her heart.


You need proof of allegations you are making against her

Karlifate:
Your pretty girlfriend/fiancee/wife should always bring you lunch with heavy PDA, she would comport herself.


Also, ignore her like she never exist except work joins you together. Make sure you finish the work as soon as possible and keep every dealings professional.


Don't forget to keep receipts & evidences of your interactions with her cos if she starts her shenanigans, the public (men & women) will listen and believe her side of the story.

Karlifate:



@ bolded: LMAO! 🤣🤣


ChristIsGod, if you try the bolded, you've already lost this subtle game by 5:0.

For now, you're still leading 2:0.


Take heed!

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

Proserpina:
To save yourself from "stories that touch" I will advise you record her when she starts "insinuating" again.

Be careful.

drimzsmoke:


I don't know why I'm finding it hard to believe this your story!!!

If your allegations are true however,i.e, you never tried flirting with this woman in the past.... Then tell her to her face and in the presence of her colleagues that she is not your type, let her know that even if she's naked right in front of you,you still won't have an erection

If your story is true however, personally, what I feel is that you allowed it, you encouraged it in your own way!!!

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

ChristisGod:


I didn't

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

drimzsmoke:


I'm a doctor, nurses(registered) flirt with me sometimes. If she's pretty, I encourage it,if not, I just pretend like I don't see you. As for the auxiliary nurses,dem no born any one of them well to flirt with me cause my eyes no even dey dey ground with dem(I play with the older ones, it's the younger ones that I have issues with). So Bros, you encouraged it. Women are not that cheap.

Do you see how our conversation changed from "love" to "doctor". She used to address me as "love" and "dear" but when I kept addressing her like a nurse and sometimes used "ma" for her, she got the message!!!

ChristisGod:
This lady is my subordinate at work
We share same office space
I am her boss.
She has always thought that I am interested in her by her comments although I am not
I haven't done anything to suggest interest in her
Once, she said she thinks I am interested in her but I am unable to say it. I rebuked her.
Anytime she misbehaves and I admonish her, she will be making insinuations that I will never get to sleep with her
I reported this habit to my boss, but she denied ever doing stuff like that
Meanwhile, she occasionally wound make that insinuation.
I am not on talking terms with her at all because of her misconducts and this attitude.

How do I stop this nonsense?
Why is she consistently doing this when I have never expressed interest in her?

Please advise

ChristisGod:


I didn't please

It's been strictly professional please