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zenithgroup:
Happy new Yr brothers.

I needed to share this with brothers here and to get their opinions.

Sometimes in 2020 my carrier was hit and i started falling, my wife not loyal she left me with kid- I was so depressed and suicidal so I left the city to the village.
In 2021 still in the village farming but i was curious as to what led me to such a fall My curiousity was what lead me to this forum I took my den woman too seriously and i was not putting myself first.
In 2021/ 2022 right there in the bush I started taking overdose of redpill- I got involved with a young igbo lady in the local city near my village, though I was in the village but I took my development very seriously. I don't know what she saw in me but she was always all over me once I came to the city- one of such time I took her virg.nity and we became even closer.

Early 2022 her incessant closeness with me got her Elder sister attention ( she was actually staying with her elder sister and her husband). They press her to know what was up between us and she spilled, her sister was furious and angry so they castigated and rebuked her for dating a farmer more so a YORUBA MAN- so we were separated; and she started sleeping with her long time admirer ( her pastor)
In all dis I put myself first and my head up. After few months I decided to start my business back now in their city.

The business grew faster than anticipated- It was one in dat town. The sister quickly noticed me she now allowed her sister to visit me at will. When i question her loyalty towards me, she said it was her sister doing. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD ACCEPT HER BACK?

MrsAminaBello:
I hear say you get prick.
I for like fucck you sha.
I'm a married woman by the way

Beverlyjean:
Ur ban is loading ...u this jobless rifraf

LifeofDream:
There's this girl I got her contact mid last year but I didn't contact her, I think she later misplaced the number.. Fast forward to late December when I came back home, she visited me 4 times in 2 days but I wasn't around those time.
Later on, I heard she's sick. I took the bold steps and approach her, got her new number too.. Called her the second day to meet up somewhere around the street... We talked for some minutes and I think I show too much interest in her which I think was a mistake by me..

Although, I've little interest in her but I made it too obvious when I see her because she was sick and I was trying to care for her. And also I was trying to compensate her because of the stress and disappointment she went through by visiting me 4 times and I wasn't around, I don't want the situation to look like I was taking her for granted.

I've chatted her up few times and I notice she give me one word reply, I may be wrong but I think this is a sign she's not interested.. This is a girl that was practically chasing me up and down a week ago..

I'm thinking maybe my first impression wasn't top notch, considering the fact I even asked/go for a kiss in our first meeting.. 🤦 A mistake I made because I thought I'll be traveling three days later and I wanted to escalate things with her quickly...

What do you think I can do in this situation?..

@rizzputin Pukkalolo Ubunja IAmHim1 adambeatz ayoll and other bosses.

Oshokhai69:
Man wey don get post nut clarity wetin go come make am to dey simp? 🤔

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

Ballzproblemm:
trolls are here, remember they only thrive on the attention you feed them, starve them and they're dead.


keep the pills coming in

zenithgroup:
Happy new Yr brothers.

I needed to share this with brothers here and to get their opinions.

Sometimes in 2020 my carrier was hit and i started falling, my wife not loyal she left me with kid- I was so depressed and suicidal so I left the city to the village.
In 2021 still in the village farming but i was curious as to what led me to such a fall My curiousity was what lead me to this forum I took my den woman too seriously and i was not putting myself first.
In 2021/ 2022 right there in the bush I started taking overdose of redpill- I got involved with a young igbo lady in the local city near my village, though I was in the village but I took my development very seriously. I don't know what she saw in me but she was always all over me once I came to the city- one of such time I took her virg.nity and we became even closer.

Early 2022 her incessant closeness with me got her Elder sister attention ( she was actually staying with her elder sister and her husband). They press her to know what was up between us and she spilled, her sister was furious and angry so they castigated and rebuked her for dating a farmer more so a YORUBA MAN- so we were separated; and she started sleeping with her long time admirer ( her pastor)
In all dis I put myself first and my head up. After few months I decided to start my business back now in their city.

The business grew faster than anticipated- It was one in dat town. The sister quickly noticed me she now allowed her sister to visit me at will. When i question her loyalty towards me, she said it was her sister doing. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD ACCEPT HER BACK?

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

Streak47:
There's something about bleaching yellow women but let me not generalize at least from the ones have met. It is well.

adambeatz:
Bro, lemme generalize it from my view, any man that wants to marry or married a bleaching material in the name of love is either mentally retarded or should be physically blind.

A woman that bleaches is a very insecure human being and they wear the insecurity by bleaching as a badge, the one's that are good in deception use hydrogen peroxide to wash their knuckles and other obvious spots that would give them away. When they enter their husband's home and keep up with the bleaching, it would later cause damage to their body organs, the body tries to produce melanin, the bleaching creams breakdown the melanin and the body is forced to expel the damage while trying to repair(na them be the real wolverines with admantium in their body causing their healing factors to go haywire). A never ending cycle of which when it's time to give birth they've ended up producing substandard kids cause their body's where never at optimal peak conditions before giving birth. Not to talk of the smell they give off under heat when they don't apply their heavy perfume.[b]

The girls who don't bleach don't know what God gave them, I've come across some of them who use all natural skin care routines and have their dark skin under the sun looking much better that the fair skinned (both the bleach & non bleaching). If not for the western brain washing in all our media having everyone think white skin is better, have you guys seen dark skin and fair skinned women during old age without skin surgery, you'd rush for the dark skin, a fair skinned woman can't stay under the sun for long cause she doesn't have the melanin to absorb the light fromt the sun hence she turns red and always seeks shelter. I only f*ck with dark skinned babes and during dating I make sure they upgrade their skin so even if we don't end up, my next nigga wey wan take over go appreciate the works of my hand. One love

Mandela27:
Abeg make una follow tell people wey Dem wan nominate as new admins,that they should not touch this our beautiful thread that we've suffered to build for almost 4years now

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

Firstorderwizard:
If they touch any of the red pill threads including this, I will delete my account

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

AyoII:
Ah ah!! This was my experience with a babe last year. Patience! Patience!! Patience!!! Like a cat stealthily taking it's time, to get some fried meats. (Notice if the owner or anyone else is around, the cat will still be making it moves but at the same time also act uninterested, until you loosegaurd) Patience Is the name of the game . Not that you won't be making your moves. You will make hints while pretending you never need the pussy. Your desperation at times might lead to things like simping. I am very sure It will be served on a platter when it all said and done. Some women will take time to get comfortable with you sexually especially in some instances for example - where they are seen as or perceived as"a good girl" in neighborhood. You know they have a reputation to protect.

Pukkalolo:
Ok, LifeofDream... Here's the little problem.

Before I tell you what the problem is, let me first tell you what's NOT the problem.

The problem is NOT that she's not interested you...because as you said, she visited you 4 times in 2 days but you weren't around those times. At least that a good sign she's interested in you.

So what's the real problem

Let's begin properly....

On a low-key, the most attractive quality a guy can possess is...

PATIENCE.


Now, don't get it wrong. Patience DOESN'T mean not taking action or not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means taming your eagerness for her pussy.

Women are emotionally unstable, that's why they might throw out what the redpill call "shit test" and they might act indecisive or dramatic... Women emotional instability confuses the shit out most guys.

As you said, you'll be traveling three days later and you wanted to escalate things with her quickly... Fear of losing out on her prevented you from being patient. You fear to lose her, so you eagerly rush in...and then she gets turnoff by your "eagerness"... Note, she didn't lost interest, she was only just turned off.

If you've read my stuff on nairaland, you see that I always talk about not being pussy focused...but instead, being attention focused.

I realized the hard way that you will never have true romantic success if women are not ones working to earn your attention. A woman's interest in a guy naturally increase if she have to work to earn and keep his attention... By showing eagerness for her sexual companionship, your value drastically reduced in her eyes. Again, note: she didn't lost interest in you, your value only just reduced in her eyes.

I've noticed when hanging out with a girl, if I'm confident and act like I don't really care for the pussy----I often get the pussy.

This is because my attitude comes off as patient and sexually detached, so in her mind she assumes I get pussy alot that's why I'm not eager for it.

Many times, guys mess their opportunities with women NOT because they didn't act fast but because they just weren't patient enough.

Remember, Patience DOESN'T mean not moving the interaction forward.

Patience means having a confident and positive attitude even when things aren't going smoothly the way you would want it to.

If you are too eager, and in a rush to get the pussy, you naturally tend to send "unattractive" signals to her

Women are more patient than guys when it comes to sex.... That's why they often control the sex

Times without number, guys have told me about girls flaking on them and not showing up to a date or to their place.

See guys, understand this hardcore truth:

Girls, I mean, beautiful girls will mostly flake on you the first time.... It almost guaranteed; unless you promise to give her cool cash if she shows up.

She might come with different bullshit excuses on why she didn't show up... But the truth is that, the only reason why she didn't show up is because she's not yet "comfortable" with you.

Now, some guys will say, "If she's attracted to you, she's suppose to make it easier for you."

Nah bro... Again, understand this:

A Woman don't make it easier for you because she's attracted to you... But rather she makes things easier because she's comfortable with you.

Did you spot the difference?

Sadly, most times, if a woman is attracted, she actually often want to play a bit hard to get and test your confidence, just to really confirm if you are truly an emotionally strong dude that can lead her....

A girl can be attracted to you but still give you a bit tough time, because she's not yet comfortable with you or trust you.

Women takes a lot longer to feel sexually comfortable with a guy, than it is for a guy to get sexually comfortable with women.

Infact guys easily get comfortable with girls. That's why the average guy can just invite any girl he sees on the street to his place. But girls don't easily get comfortable with guys. That's why they might tends to flake on showing up to your place the first time...

That's why having good game isn't the ability to make a woman attracted to you... But rather having game is the ability to make a woman become comfortable with you effortlessly..

For example, you can be attracted to the decorated gift I'm offering you, but you are not comfortable accepting it because you don't know my intentions or agenda, or you don't know what's really inside decorated gift.

So in order to get you to accept the gift, first of all, I'll have to be "patient" with you... while confidently neutralizing all the psychological barrier in your head that's preventing you from accepting the gift.

JESHAL007:
IF you keep simping, remember that one day, you'll kiss your bride in the front of her 27 exes, 10 besties who have fvcked and dumped her, her favorite one-night stand guy and her 5 sugar daddies which she introduced as her uncles.

They'll eat your food recklessly like they did to your Wife.