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Re: What Should I Do by Chinny024(f): 7:34pm On Jan 15
It will take the grace of God for the girl to accept you even as her dad...A child of 7yrs knows way a lot you thought she wouldn't know..In 3yrs time, she would be 10...wow wow wow..Clap for yourself!
Re: What Should I Do by Atolu01: 7:34pm On Jan 15
I want, I'm thinking, Me, Me, Me, I, I, I, I, I...

You're not ready to communicate yet.



<Raises eyebrow>. This cannot be a male.
Re: What Should I Do by Atolu01: 7:36pm On Jan 15


See how fatherhood has changed you.

If na before ehn... cheesy



OK.
Re: What Should I Do by Kukutente23: 7:40pm On Jan 15
ProtonX:


You're clearly a block head. A chimp is far more intelligent than you.
You need to heal not abuse.
Healing takes time. Be patient
Re: What Should I Do by Kukutente23: 7:43pm On Jan 15
ProtonX:


No. You're the one who is sick in the head.
I command healing into your broken soul
Re: What Should I Do by Oyindidi(f): 7:55pm On Jan 15
12345baba:
the write up is not convincing.
My brother denied that he didn't touch the mother of the girl. 29 years later he accepted he's the father.
Re: What Should I Do by lawrenzooo: 7:57pm On Jan 15
Freemasonry:


In Africa, what gives a man paternity rights is the confirmation by the woman, or the performance of marriage rites.

Even if she claim op is not the father, a simple Paternity test could be conducted if the op insist.

Legally she has no right to deny him access to the daughter whether he was present in her life on not.

The interest of the child would always come first before the court.
Re: What Should I Do by Fmghewzy(m): 8:00pm On Jan 15
Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

May God punish you severely
Re: What Should I Do by ProtonX: 8:03pm On Jan 15
Kukutente23:

I command healing into your broken soul

Look in the mirror. You're the one who's broken both in your mind and soul.
Re: What Should I Do by ProtonX: 8:03pm On Jan 15
Kukutente23:

You need to heal not abuse.
Healing takes time. Be patient

You're the one who needs healing and deliverance from the demons that plague you. Ozuo
Re: What Should I Do by GboyegaD(m): 8:04pm On Jan 15
FuckTheMod:

Oloriburuku na him you be.
Most of you don't deserve peace and happiness in.
You don't even deserve the gift of life.
I'm sure you're more stupíd than the retaɍded poster.
Someone asked for a child to be killed and even paid for the job to be done.
The mother refused.
The bastård ran away for seven years and now he came back few weeks ago and had the audacity to be requesting for the child.
If I were that girl's father, I'll definitely make an arrangement for that bãstard to be beaten to death.

I am not the cause of your misery. Go deal with your pains and then come back to have a civil conversation.
Re: What Should I Do by Kukutente23: 8:05pm On Jan 15
ProtonX:


Look in the mirror. You're the one who's broken both in your mind and soul.
You need to heal from the heartbreak and broken promises
You need to heal from all the love you gave but was never returned
From all the dreams that never came to pass and made you feel not good enough
I command healing into your soul!!
Re: What Should I Do by Kukutente23: 8:06pm On Jan 15
ProtonX:


You're the one who needs healing and deliverance from the demons that plague you. Ozuo
Be healed this minute
I command all your time that was wasted to be redeemed
Be healed!!
Re: What Should I Do by FuckTheMod: 8:11pm On Jan 15
GboyegaD:


I am not the cause of your misery. Go deal with your pains and then come back to have a civil conversation.
SenseIess oloriburuku
With your mentality, you can never progress in life and that's why you remain stagnant.
Most of you just open your gutter mouths to speak without thinking, same thing with writing and posting.
How would you feel for your father if your mother told you he ask for you to be aborted and ran away for 7 years?
Mumú

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Re: What Should I Do by lawrenzooo: 8:12pm On Jan 15
Do you have legal right to build a relationship with the child? Yes. Going to court might grant you that but you wouldn't have the mother's support and hence she did try to frustrate you for the many years you abandoned her and the child.

If you've caused her pain for the past seven years, it would be foolish of you to expect her to heal in two weeks.

I do truly hope you're back because you realize you have a daughter who needs a father in her life and you've come to fill that void, should that be the case give her six months and in that six months keep trying patiently to right the wrongs you have done and am sure she did come around if she sense you genuine.

All the best
Re: What Should I Do by GboyegaD(m): 8:41pm On Jan 15
FuckTheMod:

SenseIess oloriburuku
With your mentality, you can never progress in life and that's why you remain stagnant.
Most of you just open your gutter mouths to speak without thinking, same thing with writing and posting.
How would you feel for your father if your mother told you he ask for you to be aborted and ran away for 7 years?
Mumú

Go live on in your misery as indicated by your post. I'm not the cause of your misery I repeat. The earlier you try improve your life, the better for you.
Re: What Should I Do by IamAsiri: 8:47pm On Jan 15
ExudeLoveToAll:



Leave emotions out of play, you don't have any such right to disenfranchise a parent from giving care to his child irrespective of what had transpired in the past. Leave tantrums and speak the position of the law and not what comes from your emotive mind.

Law is law not what it should be but what it is.

I am not sure if the young man will have any right over the daughter if the lady's father legally adopts the baby. Just ruminating aloud.
Re: What Should I Do by chris51(f): 8:48pm On Jan 15
You are irresponsible.
You said she should abort pregnancy, if she had done so, could you have been talking about "my daughter"?
Do you know what she went through when you abandoned her?
Re: What Should I Do by chris51(f): 8:48pm On Jan 15
chris51:
You are irresponsible.
You said she should abort pregnancy, if she had done so, could you have been talking about "my daughter"?
Do you know what she went through when you abandoned her?
Re: What Should I Do by Oyindidi(f): 8:50pm On Jan 15
FuckTheMod:

Oloriburuku na him you be.
Most of you don't deserve peace and happiness in.
You don't even deserve the gift of life.
I'm sure you're more stupíd than the retaɍded poster.
Someone asked for a child to be killed and even paid for the job to be done.
The mother refused.
The bastård ran away for seven years and now he came back few weeks ago and had the audacity to be requesting for the child.
If I were that girl's father, I'll definitely make an arrangement for that bãstard to be beaten to death.
Man impregnate your sister run, you take am personal
Re: What Should I Do by chris51(f): 8:54pm On Jan 15
Bongadu:



I've tried to be friends but she won't agree

Sending her money , she refuses


Buying gifts for my daughter, she says no


She refuses because you hurt her deeply.
Re: What Should I Do by chris51(f): 8:54pm On Jan 15
chris51:



She refuses because you hurt her deeply.
Re: What Should I Do by FuckTheMod: 8:57pm On Jan 15
GboyegaD:


Go live on in your misery as indicated by your post. I'm not the cause of your misery I repeat. The earlier you try improve your life, the better for you.
Lol
Dāft cretìn
Re: What Should I Do by Nonywendy(m): 9:05pm On Jan 15
Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life
U r a coward. If na ur sis talk true u go gree
Re: What Should I Do by MamaletASO: 9:10pm On Jan 15
Till now, you are still irresponsible..


A very Stoopid idi*or you are..

Re: What Should I Do by ozo13(m): 9:13pm On Jan 15
Zonefree:

Small pikin talk.
lol

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Re: What Should I Do by LastProphet: 9:20pm On Jan 15
Bongadu:
I impregnated my ex girlfriend when I was young and relocated because at time I was young and stupid, I gave her money for abortion but she disagreed on removing it , so I had no choice but to flee as I was irresponsible and poor
My ex girlfriend put to bed months after I left and raised the child living with her parents
I relocated back last year December , I'm trying to get back with my daughter but my ex won't let me be near me even I want to take responsibility and care for my daughter
She's getting me frustrated, I'm thinking of suing her for not letting me be a presence in my daughter's life

You are no longer young and stewpid, you are now old and stewpid. Anuofia

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Re: What Should I Do by Clazzone(m): 9:26pm On Jan 15
Werey dey claim father, do you know what they call father ??
Selfish people everywhere
Re: What Should I Do by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:37pm On Jan 15
IamAsiri:


I am not sure if the young man will have any right over the daughter if the lady's father legally adopts the baby. Just ruminating aloud.

This scenario most times in the Nigerian environment will never happen, you know that without even going into that legal angle. So status quo will be maintained.
Re: What Should I Do by QVicky10(f): 9:48pm On Jan 15
Seeing as this is how you reason currently; it is no wonder, she wants nothing to do with you!

Re: What Should I Do by achimendy(m): 9:50pm On Jan 15
Zonefree:

Small pikin talk.

Then give am mature man talk since you specialise in that area.

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