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| 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Ibtxxo: 5:24pm On Jan 17 |
Please advise my friend who is 40 years. He had no job, no skill and had only SSCE 5 Likes 5 Shares
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| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by SETHARTHUR(m): 5:27pm On Jan 17 |
Consequences of masturbating and evil life either from you or parents. 57 Likes 10 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by fyzaila: 5:32pm On Jan 17 |
You or your friend 🤔😏 talk true  The other time you were looking for any rich single mother or rich lady looking for husband to come and get married to you. It looks to me like you're very very lazy and unfortunate at the same time. Which rich lady or single mother will stoop so low and marry a lazy baggage of a man? In your widest dream maybe. Well, unless you're as fine as prophet yusuf (A.s) 103 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Ibtxxo: 5:33pm On Jan 17 |
SETHARTHUR:.. How can he break the York? He is planning of doing rituals to make money since he had lost hope in life. Is money that is just holding him back. The baba told him to bring 100k to do the work 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by muyico(m): 5:44pm On Jan 17 |
he can do security job 100k ore month 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Lonestar124: 5:52pm On Jan 17 |
Ibtxxo:Person want to make you rich, and he is demanding for 100 thousands naira from you.... check it nah, no be scam.. Or is he testing your faith in giving...I don't understand... 115 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Solofresh2: 5:55pm On Jan 17 |
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| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by SETHARTHUR(m): 6:02pm On Jan 17 |
If you are sure the baba sabi work 100k won't be a problem for you at that age cause people can help you looking at your condition. Please if the baba do well please connect me. Ibtxxo: 17 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Franzinni: 6:06pm On Jan 17 |
Your friends need to suffer some more before he will wake up and realize that acquiring skills in this age and time is so easy that it is free... But you are still hoping someone will come and save you, help you, guide you, show you ... We all must overcome that stage and realize NO body is going to come and save you infact nobody cares... Better enter YouTube and invest your time daily, learning any tech skills... Anything computer based... Do this for 6 months and then write all the free Google certifications, once you get to this point you would have transformed yourself and will be able to detect opportunities that are all around you that your skills can be useful for... Forget age... Just start now .... and stop smoking weed or anything that alters your perception of reality. But I can bet you, your friend will not make any effort to change ... Because just like a boy waiting at the bus stop in the wilderness with hope of the bus arriving soon till he turns too bones ... That is how he has waiting till he became 40 and on. 65 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by youngrhosy(m): 6:23pm On Jan 17 |
He should learn how to drive 58 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Snowx: 6:41pm On Jan 17 |
He should start learning skill very fast both manual and digital skill..i have a cousin that learn skill at his age he is doing fine now and got married.. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Multiversed: 6:44pm On Jan 17 |
Ibtxxo: This is quite on the high side. I pray a helper locate him soon. 11 Likes |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by FarmPlanetNG: 6:44pm On Jan 17 |
That 100k can do a lot. Let him start with learning how to drive a car - 20-30k fixes this. He should immediately proceed to truck driving after mastering car driving - 40k can fix this. He should them move to learn crane and forklift driving. All these wont take more than 3-5 months. Woth these three skills, he can get variety of jobs and will almost never be out of jobs With these skills, he can get jobs that pays him atleast 70,000 - 120,000 Naira per month within six months after he masters the trainings. 96 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by LagosAirport: 6:45pm On Jan 17 |
Ibtxxo: You stole the user name of the actual ibtxo 1 Like |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Multiversed: 6:47pm On Jan 17 |
Snowx: I think the financial and sustenance part is always the hindrance and distraction. Except if he has access to tips and feeding daily on the skill learning. Then he can fully concentrate on the learning. Things are very challenging in the country for many people at the moment. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by okunwaye(m): 7:50pm On Jan 17 |
Franzinni: unfortunately many young struggling nigerians are still stuck with this mentality  11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by okunwaye(m): 7:54pm On Jan 17 |
many flocks from this generation will regret not taking advantage of their biggest opportunity (INTERNET) to better their lives now  19 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Franzinni: 7:55pm On Jan 17 |
okunwaye:I was in that world for years ... Another one is, blaming other people for why I am not moving forward .... Victim mentality. What I finally found out was ... There are things a human being has to do before maturity into the next stage occurs, and if you don't pass those stages, you will be stuck as a child in the body of a man. 34 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Ovii123(m): 8:16pm On Jan 17 |
Franzinni:. Please bro can you help me name one tech skill I can learn on YouTube, I have a job but I need side hustle.Thanks for your swift reply 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Kobojunkie: 8:34pm On Jan 17 |
Ibtxxo:You friend didn't just wake up suddenly to realize this. Allow him live his life o'jare!  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Franzinni: 8:43pm On Jan 17 |
Ovii123:data science... It's a good field to dive into, also learn a programming language I will suggest python or C# With those two tech skills you will be able to enter into conversations that can provide opportunities... And expand your network... Also you would have to get a lot of mentors and ask a ton of questions ... 6month of daily learning for a minimum of 4 hours will transform your life ... I tell you because I went down that road and initially it was tough but I decided it was a do or die affair and eventually it became so easy, and it is feeding me and my family in this useless economy .. I am even happy becasue my clients are international and so if e bad for naija, e good for me.... If you are serious I would advice you to never give up ... Remember there are no failures in life, there are only people who quit! 37 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by duduade: 9:20pm On Jan 17 |
They are many roaming on Nairaland 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Ovii123(m): 11:01pm On Jan 17 |
Franzinni:Thanks boss 1 Like |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by finallybusy: 11:32pm On Jan 17 |
Learn to drive so you can apply as a courier for transport companies. |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by NwaliE01: 2:59am On Jan 18 |
Please, kindly tell us what you have been doing for the past 40 years. We want to learn from your mistakes. Thanks. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by ghettochild4u(m): 3:21am On Jan 18 |
Ibtxxo:Please it's not to late to get a skill. Try carpentry,welding,or baking(confectionery) Or better still make up and photography and manicurist... those three go hand in hand 1 Like |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by zed7: 9:58am On Jan 18 |
If you're asking for your friend, then your friend is not ready for life. However, if you're asking for yourself, you've made the first move in realising the need for change. Nobody can tell you what to do. Find what you can do and start doing it. 5 Likes |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Yugoslavia247(m): 10:03am On Jan 18 |
Ibtxxo: Who has been feeding him till now? Because that is where the problem is? Because I don't understand that aspect 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by extol1(m): 1:19pm On Jan 18 |
Snowx:What type of skill would you recommend |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by TheBTCinvestor: 2:01pm On Jan 18 |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by flokii: 2:23pm On Jan 18 |
He needs to change his mentality and move out of his comfort zone.. Growth happens only when you leave your comfort zone. I for one grew up in the West, now in the North and can move to other parts or outside the country at any fvcking time. I have learnt a lot in my life journey never to hold too tight to anything, appreciate the little you have now and hope for better days. No hustle is too small or too dirty as far as it is legit.. I'll salute a tiler or auto mechanic in his oil stained overall over a yahoo boy anyday. There is dignity in labour, let your friend go out and apply for job or betterstill learn a skill. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: 40 Years Old, No Job, No Skill And Only Had SSCE by Ibtxxo: 2:25pm On Jan 18 |
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