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Demigod22:
I can comfortably marry someone like that when the reason for excommunicating her parents is concrete and logical. I will gladly marry her.

For me, I can stay five years without hearing from my biological mother and I won't be bothered. I can't even tell her I love you, the words won't come out of my mouth. We don't have relationship, we only tolerate each other. She has never been there for me and the only time I had the opportunity to know her, she is not the loving mother.

Well, for my auntie, that's my father's younger sister, she is my world and my favorite. She is the one that have always been going extra mile for me, and whenever the idea of parents occur to me, she is the one I always see.

In this situation, I expect my partner to understand that what happened between my mother and I won't affect our marriage, because I will always be there for her and my children.

You're really funny!!! I will be a mad father to allow someone like you marry my son or daughter!! I'm not a father yet, but I will clearly advise my son or daughter against marrying someone like you! Gosh!!

Difficult question to answer. Unless she broke the ties to safe her own life because there are some parent you will ask God why did He give such parent to you talking from a friend experience.

It depends on what causes the misunderstanding.

What if the unexpected happens to such person?The person that marries such a person will have alot to explain.

Demigod22:
I can comfortably marry someone like that when the reason for excommunicating her parents is concrete and logical. I will gladly marry her.

For me, I can stay five years without hearing from my biological mother and I won't be bothered. I can't even tell her I love you, the words won't come out of my mouth. We don't have relationship, we only tolerate each other. She has never been there for me and the only time I had the opportunity to know her, she is not the loving mother.

Well, for my auntie, that's my father's younger sister, she is my world and my favorite. She is the one that have always been going extra mile for me, and whenever the idea of parents occur to me, she is the one I always see.

In this situation, I expect my partner to understand that what happened between my mother and I won't affect our marriage, because I will always be there for her and my children.

I'm Islam, no matter what, you should relate with her and show her kindness. Even if she is an idol worshipper, don't join her in her worship but admonish her kindly. Keep doing this until death calls

Badgers14:
It depends on why?

It is not a straight answer, you have to dig deep to understand why they broke ties with their parents , then think if their reason is "reason " enough before making a decision.

Perfect response......well done

TheBrotherhood:
Me: NO
If they can leave their parents,who am I that they can’t leave?🤷

It depends on why they broke ties.

Ironbull:
Difficult question to answer. Unless she broke the ties to safe her own life because there are some parent you will ask God why did He give such parent to you talking from a friend experience.

If your parents are that evil, they would have killed you before you ever knew you exist!! Any small thing una go just open mouth waaahh!!!

you are very funny, have you seen parent sacrificing their children
just thank God that ur parents are okay, because yours is good doesn't mean others are good

WORSE MISTAKE ESPECIALLY A MAN CAN DO!

When she goes weird or starts misbehaving, WHO ARE YOU GONNA CALL TO REPORT HER TO? You can not repair such a person no matter how much you try.

Except the parents are no more. that's a different thing.

But in the other case, ... YOU WILL SURE REGRET THAT MISTAKE.

Yes if they have a concrete reason. I had a fall-out with my old man. For good 2years we did not communicate. We only reconciled this January when I visited my
hometown and it was orchestrated by myself. He was actually the cause of the quarrel but I just decided to do it because of my mental health. So yes I would marry a lady/date her if her reason for quarrel with the parents was caused by the parents. Some parents are not so righteous as some people are making us believe.

Klinxmanz:
No,because there would be a time in the marriage that parental advice and assistance would be needed!!..

Your comment is only for the weak

you are very funny, have you seen parent sacrificing their children
just thank God that ur parents are okay, because yours is good doesn't mean others are good

Sermwell:
If your parents are that evil, they would have killed you before you ever knew you exist!! Any small thing una go just open mouth waaahh!!!

Sermwell:
You're really funny!!! I will be a mad father to allow someone like you marry my son or daughter!! I'm not a father yet, but I will clearly advise my son or daughter against marrying someone like you! Gosh!!

You are just a typical Nigerian in Nigeria, most of you don't reason very well. She just told you she doesn't have relationship with her mother because she wasn't there for her. That is a capital reason for achild to disown their parent. I also did. She also told you she has excellent relationship with her aunt, who was there for her like a mother. Despite this logical explanation, your brain cannot see reason in it. Like a typical Nigerian, you want her to pretend all his well and go back to her mother like nothing happen. If you were near me, I'll flog you with rod, I'll not stop until you say I've sense now.

No way!



It doesn't usually turn out well on the long run.


Once you aren't in good terms with ya parents or raised by a single momma, it's a big red flag.

It depends. Did she do it for me? I need to know why she cut ties with her folks, she may have a good reason..

Sermwell:
You're really funny!!! I will be a mad father to allow someone like you marry my son or daughter!! I'm not a father yet, but I will clearly advise my son or daughter against marrying someone like you! Gosh!!

Cos you don't know how deep this world is yet

I will Never try that.
The parental cause is as dangerous as God's wrath

NO.

It is a curse to cut off from your genealogy.

God4bid

MadamExcellency:
Breaking ties with your family is evil. That they are toxic and hate me doesn't mean I should reciprocate as such. I wouldn't change my goodness and character for yours. It wouldn't happen. I am good and will remain a light in darkness.

There is a difference between disagreeing with your family and breaking ties a family which consists of father, mother, siblings and kins.

Very easy to know those that have not had some life experiences.

Klinxmanz:
No,because there would be a time in the marriage that parental advice and assistance would be needed!!..

Your 💯% right!

ONLY A STUPID PERSON WILL NEGLECT THIS TRUISM.

That's what many women even want.

To be fair, some parents are toxic.

Badgers14:
It depends on why?

It is not a straight answer, you have to dig deep to understand why they broke ties with their parents , then think if their reason is "reason " enough before making a decision.

no reason whatsoever justifies breaking ties with ya parents.
Only irresponsible kids does.

VHILL:
Cos you don't know how deep this world is yet

Cut that crap Oga!! If your parents are evil, they would have killed you even before you knew you existed!! Even if they abandoned you when you were just 10yrs, do you know what it means to feed, house and cloth someone for 10yrs?

Forget broken ties.


Post the Ajoke adoption video.

Just as you ran with the BBC doc.

Yeye modes

rdsco:
What if their parents are toxic?
Even for your sakes?

Am currently at this situation now

Depends on the context.

Lastborn123:
you are very funny, have you seen parent sacrificing their children
just thank God that ur parents are okay, because yours is good doesn't mean others are good

But her parents never sacrificed her!! Parents who didn't kill you when you were young or even at birth, you wake up one morning to open your mouth waaahh!! People are funny sha!!

You never see life and I pray you don't

Sermwell:
You're really funny!!! I will be a mad father to allow someone like you marry my son or daughter!! I'm not a father yet, but I will clearly advise my son or daughter against marrying someone like you! Gosh!!