Continuation from my last post [url] https://www.nairaland.com/7977932/2-year-old-marriage-shaking [/url]

I told her today that she should never use marriage to threaten me and if she’s tired she should leave . I told her I won’t be the first man to get divorce and I won’t be the last .

I told her that the day I hear that word that she should just get out of my house . She has packed her bags and she’s leaving . I just told her I was tired of her using our marriage as a tool for blackmail and that she should go if she wants to go .


She said she’s tired and she’s leaving tomorrow, she has already packed her bags .

I know I’m not perfect but as couples we should always solve our marital problems as long as it’s not domestic violence (I’ve never laid hands on her before), instead of threatening to quit at every little opportunity.

I’m really fed up

1. Why are you bringing your marital affairs here for strangers on the internet to judge? Aren’t there people in better positions e.g. your or her relatives that can provide better perspectives?

2. What’s the point of making a “part 2” thread? Are you sure this story isn’t fake and is being made just to seek attention?

3. If 2 is true, shouldn’t you be making better use of your time?

What should we do now let me think 🤔 🤔 ,

ummmm okay as a member of the online in-laws and out-laws i want to suggest that, you and your wife should go on a break not divorce yet. Do you hear me 👂👂 i repeat not divorce yet.

It could be pregnancy hormone that is manipulating with her sense of reasoning at the moment and it's making her to be acting annoying to you.

So if that is the issue, let her go home and rest small, from there she'll reflect on her actions. If she start missing you, nobody will tell her to pack her bags and run 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ back to you.

funkmrflexx:
Continuation from my last post [url] https://www.nairaland.com/7977932/2-year-old-marriage-shaking [/url]

I told her today that she should never use marriage to threaten me and if she’s tired she should leave . I told her I won’t be the first man to get divorce and I won’t be the last .

I told her that the day I hear that word that she should just get out of my house . She has packed her bags and she’s leaving . I just told her I was tired of her using our marriage as a tool for blackmail and that she should go if she wants to go .


She said she’s tired and she’s leaving tomorrow, she has already packed her bags .

I know I’m not perfect but as couples we should always solve our marital problems as long as it’s not domestic violence (I’ve never laid hands on her before), instead of threatening to quit at every little opportunity.

I’m really fed up

leave am if she has sense she will return ,if not let her be never compromise your happiness for woman .

dik and pvssy mata

Bro you do the right thing if not she will keep on blackmailing you with marriage as if she's doing you a favour

funkmrflexx:
Continuation from my last post [url] https://www.nairaland.com/7977932/2-year-old-marriage-shaking [/url]

I told her today that she should never use marriage to threaten me and if she’s tired she should leave . I told her I won’t be the first man to get divorce and I won’t be the last .

I told her that the day I hear that word that she should just get out of my house . She has packed her bags and she’s leaving . I just told her I was tired of her using our marriage as a tool for blackmail and that she should go if she wants to go .


She said she’s tired and she’s leaving tomorrow, she has already packed her bags .

I know I’m not perfect but as couples we should always solve our marital problems as long as it’s not domestic violence (I’ve never laid hands on her before), instead of threatening to quit at every little opportunity.

I’m really fed up

Let her go. Marriage is not a do-or-die affair. Your mental health and peace of mind is important.

My wife tried the same thing at the Early stage of our marriage, she packed her things and left. I didn't beg her or call her.I called her elder brother who is a police officer and told him. I also told him that that's her ringing tone was (am leaving the marriage), and that if she doesn't return before 12midnite, she should never come back.
From the way I spoke, he knew I was serious. She came back few minutes to 12 that night.
Till date I never said anything about it to her.
Her brain has reset. This is because she knows I don't care anymore unlike before.

funkmrflexx:
Continuation from my last post [url] https://www.nairaland.com/7977932/2-year-old-marriage-shaking [/url]

I told her today that she should never use marriage to threaten me and if she’s tired she should leave . I told her I won’t be the first man to get divorce and I won’t be the last .

I told her that the day I hear that word that she should just get out of my house . She has packed her bags and she’s leaving . I just told her I was tired of her using our marriage as a tool for blackmail and that she should go if she wants to go .


She said she’s tired and she’s leaving tomorrow, she has already packed her bags .

I know I’m not perfect but as couples we should always solve our marital problems as long as it’s not domestic violence (I’ve never laid hands on her before), instead of threatening to quit at every little opportunity.

I’m really fed up

Don't beg her, she see it like doing you a favor for remaining in the marriage.

Oga you tried jare, atleast you are unlike some who will still be crying and begging like a baby. Good riddance to her, never ever beg her for any reason any longer. Goodluck in search of your own happiness.

*Note you can call her witch mom or any of her family she's left your home so something don't happen they put it on your head.

People that always make threats to leave are actually teh biggest cowards that can never leave. Trust me. She's just using that to emotionally blackmail and control you. She will come back begging like there's no tomorrow.
If she doesn’t come back, I’ll send you 75k transfer.

Just enjoy yourself when she leaves and make sure you don't beg her or show any sign you want her back. This is her last weapon in her manipulation arsenal.

Let her face reality so she'll learn. Don't be too soft on women else they'll soooo over ride you with no remorse.

OP, let her leave if she doesn't return. Make an arrangement and get another better woman.

Women like her are very dangerous. She might plan evil. Be a man save your life.

SenecaTheYonger:
People that always make threats to leave are actually teh biggest cowards that can never leave. Trust me. She's just using that to emotionally blackmail and control you. She will come back begging like there's no tomorrow.

Just enjoy yourself when she leaves and make sure you don't beg her or show any sign you want her back. This is her last weapon in her manipulation arsenal.

It happened to my friend, the guy didn't waste time to discard the wife,the wife later came back begging but my guy went and collected the bride price he paid on her. Two years later ,the guy remarried and he's enjoying his marriage now . OP should man up.

Women are very wicked. Especially one that was raised by single mothers. If you want to marry. Try ladies who are raised by both parents. They have family values in them unlike those raised by single mothers

Look for your father-in-law to hear his side of the story,,but let me ask a question, during the marriage ceremony did you at anytime meet the father or your wife's perternal relatives?

Upon the struggle wey I struggle for life,challenges and setbacks..the line encouragements.. I later decide to marry.woman con dey tell me say...I will quit the marriage. .i know say dem no born any woman well to tell me that.u no fit get that mind.the day you mention it.Thats the end.just pack abeg.I kuku like being all by myself.

OP, you did the right thing. When I read the part one last night, I was mad. I don't know how some people think, you are suppose to love your partner, but these modern ladies are seeing it as competition and war.


She can go and marry her single mother or return to her marriage and have sense.

When she leaves your house, be sure to call her mother or any other person to witness her exit.

funkmrflexx:
Continuation from my last post [url] https://www.nairaland.com/7977932/2-year-old-marriage-shaking [/url]

I told her today that she should never use marriage to threaten me and if she’s tired she should leave . I told her I won’t be the first man to get divorce and I won’t be the last .

I told her that the day I hear that word that she should just get out of my house . She has packed her bags and she’s leaving . I just told her I was tired of her using our marriage as a tool for blackmail and that she should go if she wants to go .


She said she’s tired and she’s leaving tomorrow, she has already packed her bags .

I know I’m not perfect but as couples we should always solve our marital problems as long as it’s not domestic violence (I’ve never laid hands on her before), instead of threatening to quit at every little opportunity.

I’m really fed up

#NOGREE$ANY1 let tomoz come bros.. i am a DIVORCEE & i REMARRIED my wife as never once SAID she dey move out, unlike everyday SONG like HARRYSONG for previous MARRIAGE, guess WHAT, i RAN AWAY from THE PREVIOUS MARRIAGE, left her inthe jus renewed apartment, she was there fr the whole new year... she even removed KITCHENCABinet whe she exited
if na wetin she dey read for news daily easily , made her think its easy ... make she go ask those Ladies.. dem dey TOIL.