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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Muhammadengr: 3:18pm On Jan 21
woginid967:

Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

Ogah!
No die without you having a family, Money is not everything, na till you old you go understand the consequences.
That’s what’s the whites think, family is optional and during there old age, they end been in Old people care center or what they call it self, instead of been care by their children and grandchildren.
Your Grandfathers never practice what you practice, having a Family is really hectic, but that’s Humanity.

And mind you, having a family is not all about SEX!

So my G, think wise before it’s too late.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by gtassure: 3:18pm On Jan 21
dkidd:

Omooooor that girl is the lowest of the lows. In the same compound and ur tenant haha. I will give him quit notice. Make them leave my yard. She's always been a community kpekus na u nor quick know sha.
That guy is lying don't believe story by the moonlight!
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 3:37pm On Jan 21
Jovi10:
â–  Of course it's no guarantee but when old age eventually comes you go understand say all these wey you dey shalaye different from reality of that stage of old age.
â–  My point is direcred at those who invest in baby mamas, or those who have vowed to remain single. Its very easy to b single at your youthful and adult age but when you get old, thats when you'll realize you have made a very stupid decision but it will be too late by then.
Abeg carry this nonsense commot My side. So if person marry and born kid finish only to end up still lonely in old age, you go carry mouth go tell me say na because him no marry or born kid? This upside-down reasoning, I expected most would abandon in 2023. undecided

2. Stop being silly! Even after investing in marriage and children all over the place, many end up lonely in old age. You conveniently turn a blind eye to this fact all so you can attack those you hate. No be brain damage be that? undecided
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Jan 21
nkemjacob2:
sort of mindset of this is the reason y marriage don't last this days
See fear speaking! undecided

Divorce does not happen because one is open to it. Your ancestors for instance, openly abandoned wives in marriage without believing themselves open to divorce. Ask your grandparents and they will tell you. Divorce in the form of abandonment in marriage were commonplace even during their time. Why? Because marriage - divorce have been around long before people started openly accepting them as the connected pair they have always been. undecided

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Emma1Oj(m): 4:20pm On Jan 21
woginid967:


Danjuma shaibu
Dangote
Selman
Pastor chris


The list is endless.

Proof is, MAN who has lots of money will never need woman.
Bros be calming down nau... The bolded isn't divorce
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by MySolace: 5:33pm On Jan 21
Kobojunkie:
BUllsheet! lipsrsealed

There is everything reasonable about divorce. Marriage was never meant as a prison for any human being and divorce is the legal and rightful approach to exiting a marriage that is going nowhere. If you must warn those afraid of divorce, suggest that they never get married and problem solved. undecided
Bro, am sorry to say u didn't sound much reasonable...

I mean, were I commenting on d post or wot exactly?

Ha, to read and understand na virtue on its own o.
To make it worse, u confuse urself and confuse ur ilks aswell. Imagine someone liking ur comment... Am ashamed
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by lilytender: 5:48pm On Jan 21
duduade:
To the poster who above me please Sha try and marry

You will need a companion as you age

I have been married for 13 years, Marriage is a Fraud
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 6:27pm On Jan 21
lilytender:

I have been married for 13 years, Marriage is a Fraud
if it is a fraud why are you still in it? Marriage isn't a fraud. Rather, the people who go into it do so without complete wisdom of what marriage should be, particularly how it is not meant to be a prison sentence. undecided
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Ed12(m): 7:01pm On Jan 21
Ed12:


Thank God for your redemption..

But you still need to understand women nature..

When you forgive a woman for offence that she know she shouldn't commit, she will punish you for it and still blame you.

When you forgive her for what she should scolded for, you emboldened her and she will blame you.

Women are so brutal when they want to move on.

A woman knows that she MUST not cheat when in relationship or marriage, that is why she tries so hard not to be caught when she indulge in cheating..

Society will shame her and be against her if caught.. why must you as the guy she cheated on forgive and still carry on with her..

A woman will treat you like a king until you discover her secret..

Do not take back a cheating woman that has been caught, she is a dangerous woman. You can forgive, but take her her back is not advisable, even she herself understands she is not fit for you anymore when caught..

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kristalite: 7:10pm On Jan 21
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

Gbam!!! Marriage is not for everyone
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kristalite: 7:12pm On Jan 21
Gbam!!! Marriage is not for everyone


woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by EvangelistChuks(m): 7:43pm On Jan 21
lendahand:
left house the first time and stayed away for 21days, her prayer partner gave her a revelation to return to her husband, she did and we reconciled. Left again after two weeks and packed everything in the house before I came back from work and is staying away for 7 months now. Test revealed she has no womb currently and we were trusting God for a miracle but she started misbehaving. The marriage is over sir, going for another woman shortly, and wait, I'm a Christian brother, shalom...
my brother I understand how it feels to be betrayed but stil God is God and with Him is no impossibility both in the area of healing of the heart,raising children from stones and repairing every breach.God bless.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Jangbajantis: 8:40pm On Jan 21
leisuretym:
Not yet but will soon, she started listening to Joyce of Nigeria info, stopped cooking, joined the feminist radio gang, always waiting for me to come back home to practise everything Joyce taught them that day, well she will soon move in with Joyce
Joyce and Wemimo, the two feminazis of Nigeria Info.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Jovi10: 9:56pm On Jan 21
Kobojunkie:
Abeg carry this nonsense commot My side. So if person marry and born kid finish only to end up still lonely in old age, you go carry mouth go tell me say na because him no marry or born kid? This upside-down reasoning, I expected most would abandon in 2023. undecided

2. Stop being silly! Even after investing in marriage and children all over the place, many end up lonely in old age. You conveniently turn a blind eye to this fact all so you can attack those you hate. No be brain damage be that? undecided


Wait till that time you go understand wetin I dey talk better.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Notfogotten: 10:21pm On Jan 21
lilytender:


I have been married for 13 years, Marriage is a Fraud

Please, I will like your to explain further why you have this notion.

Is there anything that happened in your marriage or someone's else?

Are you still married after 13 years?

What exactly happened?
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Kobojunkie: 10:41pm On Jan 21
Jovi10:
â–  Wait till that time you go understand wetin I dey talk better.
Go tell that ridiculous nonsense to all the men and women before you who equally thought marriage and childbearing was a guaranteed retirement plan, only to end up facing the very thing they feared the most in their old age — loneliness —, and worse, abandonment. undecided
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by GREATESTPIANIST: 4:10pm On Jan 22
dozai:
Divorce was @ d extreme for me. Got adolescent kids already. So I have to think about them first. Found out that she was having an affair. Not only that, but the timing really broke me. I was building up a biz, things were connecting up for the family and boom disaster struck. In all these I was still up to date in taking care of family expenses, tho not like before. But she never cared and was busy frolicking with some dude until I found out and some other things even revealed itself that I wasn't even safe. Didn't tell anyone. But I didn't divorce for the sake of the kids. But she is just as useless as a P in psychology. She cannot run cos she is disadvantaged. All d evidences are in soft and hard copies. I have balanced up again and living my life to d fullest. I don't want to go low like her to keep other women. When I need Bleep, she serves on a plate with protection tho. She got only one option, which is suicide. My Next of kin is not even her. Everything has changed. I don't even eat from her pot.
hmmm.... But you are in bondage
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by alterego17: 8:25pm On Jan 22
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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Mimicle101: 8:50am On Jan 23
woginid967:


For what exactly


I have great friends from both genders

I have cooks n maids

I have strong family

I can get premium sexx with clean excorts and your so called influencers.


So exactly tell me why i need a wife. When i can adopt children...


Many of you dwarf minded men dont understand that it is women who need us, not all of us actually need women.


Marriage has always been an option even in the holy books. So dont confuse your destiny

I pray i could get the kind, mind, wisdom and courage you get.

I really pray.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by woginid967: 10:26am On Jan 23
Mimicle101:


I pray i could get the kind, mind, wisdom and courage you get.

I really pray.

Dont pray

Make legit mad money.

Leverage on your relationships and rise.

Money is above law.

Rules n regulations are for those without enough money.

Money has levels but when it becomes a mindset, you will see that you're a god and not in need of anyone because everyone has a price.

Woman can betray but I've never been betrayed by a dollar...

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Mimicle101: 4:59pm On Jan 23
woginid967:


Dont pray

Make legit mad money.

Leverage on your relationships and rise.

Money is above law.

Rules n regulations are for those without enough money.

Money has levels but when it becomes a mindset, you will see that you're a god and not in need of anyone because everyone has a price.

Woman can betray but I've never been betrayed by a dollar...


wise words.

words taken to heart
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by leisuretym: 2:15am On Jan 24
Afodot0022:
Funny what, Joyce of nig info is a single lady with little hope of settling down. Women are just so unwise honestly, person wey single and unmarried dey give you wey marry marital advice. I have always known nig info as an anti marriage station, there is this program they do on Saturday morning called relationship 360, there is this man always dishing advice to women to leave their marriage as if there is any perfect marriage. I just pity those that listen to their advice.

May be they were they one that chased the Andrea and Collins away, I don't know how many home they have destroyed with their nonsense programme , because she no longer listen, cooperate or do anything at home, she now raise shoulder all the time, I think we will start sharing the bills now because the marriage is no longer making sense, Joyce has misled her
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by leisuretym: 2:28am On Jan 24
lendahand:
seems that feminist Joyce is a very evil influence.

Very bad one, she will be talking with one side of her mouth.
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Honestfrend: 7:34am On Jan 24
leisuretym:

May be they were they one that chased the Andrea and Collins away, I don't know how many home they have destroyed with their nonsense programme , because she no longer listen, cooperate or do anything at home, she now raise shoulder all the time, I think we will start sharing the bills now because the marriage is no longer making sense, Joyce has misled her
..

No bro.. Don't share the bills..

Sit her down and talk 2 her...

You guys should build your relationship in line with the word of God.. Because marriage does not belong to earth..

Marriage is the first institution made by God.. Adam n Eve.. That is why til date u will see a PhD in psychology who has been married 3times..

Intelligent, educate and Rich people believe that education or connection equips them.. But all ur degrees and qualifications has nothing to do with marriage..

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by GloriousGbola: 2:36pm On Jan 24
Klass99:


Eyah......sorry o.

She may have gotten the infection from a toilet like some of your logical gender brothers have said fa and not from sexual infidelity or promiscuity grin.

But shey you are alright now? When you say deadly infection is there another infection more deadly than HIV/AIDS?


angry angry angry angry angry angry tongue /s
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Elxandre(m): 12:33am On Jan 31
dozai:
Divorce was @ d extreme for me. Got adolescent kids already. So I have to think about them first. Found out that she was having an affair. Not only that, but the timing really broke me. I was building up a biz, things were connecting up for the family and boom disaster struck. In all these I was still up to date in taking care of family expenses, tho not like before. But she never cared and was busy frolicking with some dude until I found out and some other things even revealed itself that I wasn't even safe. Didn't tell anyone. But I didn't divorce for the sake of the kids. But she is just as useless as a P in psychology. She cannot run cos she is disadvantaged. All d evidences are in soft and hard copies. I have balanced up again and living my life to d fullest. I don't want to go low like her to keep other women. When I need Bleep, she serves on a plate with protection tho. She got only one option, which is suicide. My Next of kin is not even her. Everything has changed. I don't even eat from her pot.
be careful not to get killed sha.

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Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Elxandre(m): 1:23am On Jan 31
robbase:
1. She was violent and rude.
2. Her mum was always giving her wrong advice
3. She couldn't conceive
4. She lied against me ( last straw that broke the camel's back).
5. She dared me to evict her from my house, which I eventually did.

Anyway, I got married 2 months after the divorce, and I have 4 boys now.
just two months after ke. you're a badt guy grin
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Notfogotten: 7:08am On Jan 31
Elxandre:
just two months after ke. you're a badt guy grin
Re: What Made You Divorce Your Partner? by Thegoodone13(m): 6:20am On Mar 01
CHoccolaTE:


What type of lie is this?
It's like you are just looking for a way to blame wives for husbands bad behaviour.
Men with cheating wives don't keep them back and beat them. They send the women away, men are not like women that forgive all sorts of atrocities by their spouse. Men dump cheating wives and move on because society doesn't stigmatize divorced men.
. Thank you. I send her away but she refused to go and she said I should beat her. In that situation, what do you think I should do? Going for divorce legally may cost me my property because the court may give her some of my property.

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