Women: if your boyfriend should catch you cheating, the best thing for you is to leave even if he didn’t break up with you.
Men don’t forgive cheating!

Never open your legs for any so called boyfriend.

He will try diff sex styles and then dump you.

Even if you get preg, you auto become a baby mama.

The only man allowed to see your unclothedness is your husband.

That's the greatest female empowerment.

Be financially capable. That way if you your husband is a serial cheat and he doesn't want to change, you can easily leave and cater for your child yaself without depending on other men.

Avoid being toxic.

Say no to bestie.

Never revenge on a man for cheating, you'll only useless yaself.

Run away from abusive hubby.

If you caught your Patner cheating, talk heart2heart with him, know the reason and work on it, don’t think on revenging! It will lead to tears for you

Stop dressing like prostitutes. We will just play with you and dump you. We will marry well dressed ladies.

If your intention is to do business which will be set up by your future husband, start learning about the business now.

Most businesses fail even in developed countries, the chances of your business failing increases greatly when you don't know anything about the business.

Your husband and his family will hate you if after convincing him to set you up with a business, it eventually fails especially due to your lack of skill or knowledge.

Good luck with that. How do you advise something you don't understand?

adebowales:
If you caught your Patner cheating, talk heart2heart with him, know the reason and work on it, don’t think on revenging! It will lead to tears for you

Good advice.

But what if he's not ready to change?

Even after family members are involved?

Stop being a baby mama.... Its not every man that likes okirika or fairly used stuff

Don't date guys without ambition, lazy or can't plan for the future.

Don't date poor guys with no mentality of building something. Being broke is not an issue everyone gets broke, it's the mindset that matters.

Always have a skill, invest and network.


Peace

Would you be kind enough to tell us what church you attend?

I want to know the name of that church that produces people that are unable to know the difference btw treatment given to a GF and honour that is given to a wife

axglide:
Women should avoid men that ask them what do they bring to the table. Every man’s responsibility is to provide.

1 Tim 5:8 - “ But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”

The secret is coming to Christ Jesus early, seeking first the kingdom and then every other thing shall be added unto you.

Y'all are a scourge on this forum. A great scourge.


I can barely count up to five women on this thread, and yet you people have infiltrated the other thread as well and derailed it. Pfft.

Be hardworking & respectful, make kpekus no be the only thing wey u fit dishout ...

Is it possible for a virgin not to bleed during intimacy?

dkidd:

They have started begging for amala and ewedu dates now. One girl just uploaded her status today. Craving amala and ewedu soup with eja panla... I had to block her now. I nor know how i managed to get such girl contact in the first place 😐

Maybe the girl na omo alamala

Its contentment not contempt

Lovelife433:
Contempt is a Great gain. Let them no how to stick to one partner, instead of having multiple partners

Chummynoni:
ehnehn? What do you mean by they dont last? I want logical and reasonable explanation please.

They just chop and run

robosky02:
Straight Talk: just for men : Advice women on anything


Women often complain men are not looking at thier way. But the truth is there are things men would wish ladies know.

And if they do their relationship or marriage would be better and thier men will treat them better.

So guys just Advice women on anything you've wish they had known.
By robosky02

Modern feminism is a scam

My advice is simple:
Don't pray for a God fearing man, pray to be the God fearing woman. Don't pray for a rich husband, pray to be the rich wife.
Rich men are attracted to rich women and God fearing men are attracted to God fearing women.

robosky02:



They just chop and run

oh ok, i understand you now.

Let girls provide constant sex

My own advice is for cheating men.

Continue cheating.

Always remember that two can play that game.

And for those who are married yet still go about cheating on their wives, take this from me, ur wife knows.

Because she is not saying a word to u about it doesn't mean she is stupid. Alot is going on in her heart. If u like say she is the church type, nothing will happen. I laugh in French.

She will smile at you and pretend as if nothing is happening. She is keeping your receipts in her heart.

Like they say...

Hell has no fury like woman scorned

And if u continue as a serial cheat, believe me, u will end up alone in life cos no woman will stay with a cheating partner.

Thank God I'm still single.

Zonefree:

She no get money, but, she's craving ewedu and eja nla.


Broke Nigerian girls are deadlier than cancer. In my opinion, a man that has conquered poverty shouldn't come 100 meters close to a broke Nigerian girl.

I liked this comment before I even finished reading it.

axglide:
Women should avoid men that ask them what do they bring to the table. Every man’s responsibility is to provide.

1 Tim 5:8 - “ But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”

The secret is coming to Christ Jesus early, seeking first the kingdom and then every other thing shall be added unto you.

Do you know to provide is not really a big thing for a responsible man ?! It is the greed and unreasonable demands of a woman that makes it seem he cannot provide .

My advice is women should try to understand their husbands/boyfriends outside of their biases . Have a mind not easily swayed by social media nonsense or what people say men are . Know him for what he is and what he stands for . Do this and it will be easy to give him peace via respect .

CandidAdmin:


Good advice.

But what if he's not ready to change?

Even after family members are involved?

you just have to accept the fact that man is polygamous in nature, and we don’t feel ashamed being caught cheating but a woman will feel shame if caught sleeping with someone else. But try as a women, make sure you look attractive to your husband always, I use to be that man who is not satisfied by one woman until I got married, my wife made sure I became tired, always beg her to reduce her energy. That alone stopped me from cheating to 80%

adebowales:
you just have to accept the fact that man is polygamous in nature, and we don’t feel ashamed being caught cheating but a woman will feel shame if caught sleeping with someone else. But try as a women, make sure you look attractive to your husband always, I use to be that man who is not satisfied by one woman until I got married, my wife made sure I became tired, always beg her to reduce her energy. That alone stopped me from cheating to 80%

So you're still cheating on your wife?

Just a quick question, will you be happy if you caught your dad cheating on your mum?

Or your child's husband cheating on your child?

sweetveek:
chastity ko chastity ni? Who wan follow woman do relationship without sex?

You no get daughter...smh.
You no dey go church/mosque...smh
You are a victim of konji..smh.


Don't give up. No be as e dey do you e do everybody. Sorry ehn.

axglide:
Women should avoid men that ask them what do they bring to the table. Every man’s responsibility is to provide.

1 Tim 5:8 - “ But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.”

The secret is coming to Christ Jesus early, seeking first the kingdom and then every other thing shall be added unto you.

You know nothing. Where you are is very far.

They should stop chasing guys with Benz or 3camera phone in the name of money

Always be calm and stop Nagging. .
Nagging is a toxic silent relationship killer .

Learn to control your tongue; otherwise some men go send u to your early grave. . And before u speak, always ask yourself; do you want to solve the problem or do you want to win the argument?

Finally, if you want money, ask your father. . No one is entitled to anyone's money. .get a damn job and earn your own money .

1. Don't ask for what your father can't buy for you.
2. Your gas should not finish when a guy is chatting with you.
3. Try to fast instead of messaging a guy u hungry just because he's trying to chat u up.
4. Marriage is not a ticket out of poverty.
5. Work hard and earn legitimate money.
6. Crave for things you can afford to buy with your money.

Gadafii:
Add value to your self, don’t rely on your kpekus for survival

Little thing make men happy actually, you may not buy him ps5 or iPhone 15, but you see wireless clippers, football jerseys, cufflinks, little outing all expenses on you even if na bukka, your man will be head over heels into you and will almost reciprocity double folds

Don’t nag him, respect your man, and his decisions

A good woman will mostly be cherished, protected and valued by a serious and responsible man

And most importantly do away with “male bestie”

honestly am very impressed wit ur comment, just wish our wives/ladies/women could understand that men are not supposed to be the only person making them happy