| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Besuccesful: 11:26pm On Feb 06 |
Don't listen to any negative word here. It's always good to have a child at early age. Before you clock 50 years, your child is already 25years and probably out of the university and working. The only problem is if you are the lazy type. If you are not lazy, hustle on, believe and everything will be fine. 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by doneback04: 11:27pm On Feb 06 |
Ukafor:
My gf has just delivered a baby girl, am now a proud father, it very true that babies bring goodluck, my baby has brought grace and goodluck to me all thanks to God.
It was really hard in the begining but i pull through, secondly be mindful of your words, words are powerful, i remember having a conversation with my then gf 2 years ago about having a child, i didn't meant any of it, this was what i said that day to her "in 2024 am gonna have a child by any means" and it come to pass.
I wasn't ready, every attempt to abort didn't work out, i pray God should forgive me for trying abortion.
THE FACT (1) Word are powerful anything you said about yourself may likely come to pass. (2) every child born bring grace and blessing to the parent, everything keep working for me.
Despite being an apprentice am able to take good care of my baby and the mother.
File Photo used for Illustration Aprprientic at 22 and still take care of mom and baby, Abeg explain to me how you dey take run am |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Connected1: 11:38pm On Feb 06 |
doneback04:
Aprprientic at 22 and still take care of mom and baby,
Abeg explain to me how you dey take run am Shady Deals dae na. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Goodlady(f): 11:46pm On Feb 06 |
NGArmyTerrorist:
Witchcraft 😂 potential Baby mama speaking! Who your witchcraft elp! Internet witchcraft are for poor mentality ones. No problem. I ll catch you where it go shock you! 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by ObalendeCMS: 12:18am On Feb 07 |
One of the many foo1ish naija lacy yoot don sabotage hin future because of the smelly & ugly toto of a yuseless lacy naija girl like him.
Guy you go hear "whinn"! |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by luminouz(m): 1:01am On Feb 07 |
Mom007:
Oya go and marry the lady before your blessings turn sour. God is not mocked. So if he didn't marry her, God will curse him or what? He is already taking care of her and the baby. Wetin remain? |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by grandstar(m): 1:29am On Feb 07 |
Mom007:
Oya go and marry the lady before your blessings turn sour. God is not mocked. Never marry because a lady has a child for you. Marry out of love, |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by HRMK: 2:00am On Feb 07 |
OBVIOUSLY ONE OF THE #YESDADDY AND #NOCHICHI BOYS FROM THE SOUTHEAST!HAHAHA.... |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Dopenigga(m): 2:21am On Feb 07 |
To be honest, it's not really a fantastic idea. It'll draw you back drastically. You'll be thinking about making money and leveling up, still think about taking care of your child's bills, plus you still gats give your wife attention. Honestly, e go choke 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Kingrshd3: 2:28am On Feb 07 |
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| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Kingrshd3: 2:28am On Feb 07 |
Ukafor:
maturity is not by age oga But 98% are by age So don't be fooled by motivational speakers |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Kingrshd3: 2:29am On Feb 07 |
ILoveNG:
The truth is, regardless of what society says, you will eventually be glad you had a child early.
Although 22 is not the ideal age to become a father because, aside from the need for financial stability, you must also be emotionally strong and healthy for yourself, your child, and the child's mother. Many in your situation tend to deviate from their initial plans. Sharing resources and attention that could be better used for self-development as a youth with the responsibilities that come with fatherhood is a drain to self actualisation.
Another challenge is that as you continue to grow, you may realize that your current relationship with the mother of your child is a reckless exploration common in youth. This could lead to an unhappy home if forced into marriage, and if you two go separate ways, it takes a toll on the child.
As mentioned earlier, no matter what is said, if you can rise above the obstacles that come with your circumstances, you will forever be grateful for what happened to you at 22.
We don’t have the power to go back in time and do things better. If it were possible, people raised with pension or by much older parents would wish they were born when their parents were 22. May God bless u for this matured input 🤝 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Hotice085: 4:37am On Feb 07 |
Ukafor:
My gf has just delivered a baby girl, am now a proud father, it very true that babies bring goodluck, my baby has brought grace and goodluck to me all thanks to God.
It was really hard in the begining but i pull through, secondly be mindful of your words, words are powerful, i remember having a conversation with my then gf 2 years ago about having a child, i didn't meant any of it, this was what i said that day to her "in 2024 am gonna have a child by any means" and it come to pass.
I wasn't ready, every attempt to abort didn't work out, i pray God should forgive me for trying abortion.
THE FACT (1) Word are powerful anything you said about yourself may likely come to pass. (2) every child born bring grace and blessing to the parent, everything keep working for me.
Despite being an apprentice am able to take good care of my baby and the mother.
File Photo used for Illustration Seun Osewa allowing nonsensical post since 1400 BC |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Chukwuka319(m): 4:41am On Feb 07 |
Ukafor:
My gf has just delivered a baby girl, am now a proud father, it very true that babies bring goodluck, my baby has brought grace and goodluck to me all thanks to God.
It was really hard in the begining but i pull through, secondly be mindful of your words, words are powerful, i remember having a conversation with my then gf 2 years ago about having a child, i didn't meant any of it, this was what i said that day to her "in 2024 am gonna have a child by any means" and it come to pass.
I wasn't ready, every attempt to abort didn't work out, i pray God should forgive me for trying abortion.
THE FACT (1) Word are powerful anything you said about yourself may likely come to pass. (2) every child born bring grace and blessing to the parent, everything keep working for me.
Despite being an apprentice am able to take good care of my baby and the mother.
File Photo used for Illustration Congratulations, brother for your bundle of joy and for being a responsible man. You wisely accepted the child and didn't deny him or her, unlike so many morally decadent men of nowadays. As you courageously faced up to your responsibility,so shall you never lack the resources to care for both mother and child. The Child will open the doors of breakthrough for you. 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by LARRYOBRAIN(m): 5:24am On Feb 07 |
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| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Thazard(m): 6:13am On Feb 07 |
[quote author=FalseProphet1 post=128313634]One of my members chop 12m on bet9ja after his girlfriend put to bed a beautiful baby girl.
He gave me tithes of 1.2m and I blessed the baby and told told him that he should name her fortune. And anytime he wants to play bet9ja he should place his right hand on her head when forecasting.
Ever since he started chopping back to back, this idiot has been placing all his body including his two legs on his baby's head. Infact he plays bet9ja every day with his two legs on top of his baby's head. His wife has called me severally to complain. I've been thinking of reversing the good luck charm I did for him before he kills the innocent beautiful sweet baby girl. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by NGArmyTerrorist: 8:45am On Feb 07 |
Goodlady:
No problem. I ll catch you where it go shock you! 😂 Dem no tell you say I be ogana igwe! Masquerade na the smallest hierarchy of power for where I dey! |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by Goodlady(f): 9:22am On Feb 07 |
NGArmyTerrorist:
😂 Dem no tell you say I be ogana igwe! Masquerade na the smallest hierarchy of power for where I dey! Ok. If you no see me for dream make you dey look like dz, make Obi become president. 
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| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by KingMack(m): 9:23am On Feb 07 |
FalseProphet1:
One of my members chop 12m on bet9ja after his girlfriend put to bed a beautiful baby girl.
He gave me tithes of 1.2m and I blessed the baby and told told him that he should name her fortune. And anytime he wants to play bet9ja he should place his right hand on her head when forecasting.
Ever since he started chopping back to back, this idiot has been placing all his body including his two legs on his baby's head. Infact he plays bet9ja every day with his two legs on top of his baby's head. His wife has called me severally to complain. I've been thinking of reversing the good luck charm I did for him before he kills the innocent beautiful sweet baby girl. 🤕
This I have seen. 
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| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by KingMack(m): 9:25am On Feb 07 |
Chukwuka319:
Congratulations, brother for your bundle of joy and for being a responsible man.
You wisely accepted the child and didn't deny him or her, unlike so many morally decadent men of nowadays.
As you courageously faced up to your responsibility,so shall you never lack the resources to care for both mother and child.
The Child will open the doors of breakthrough for you. Amen...same wishes for the op too🙏 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by yomi007k(m): 9:36am On Feb 07 |
LeeSmart:
2019 During buhari shege pro max season sir.  My brother, 2019 and 2024 shege pro max are very different o. That time was still better than now, economically speaking. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by NGArmyTerrorist: 9:48am On Feb 07 |
Goodlady:
Ok. If you no see me for dream make you dey look like dz, make Obi become president. I no too dey see people wey dey far for dream, come closer Wetin concern me concern Obi and his presidency.. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by djon78(m): 10:41am On Feb 07 |
LIVINGICONREBOR:
@22, when you suppose dey grind your ass on your hustle and trying to put your shits together, you carry child and woman join body. You don't know that you are now on a "slower" motion.
Story Having a child in earlier age is the Best Many people with this your mindset regretted it Time waits for no Man The earlier the better |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by djon78(m): 10:48am On Feb 07 |
Dopenigga:
To be honest, it's not really a fantastic idea. It'll draw you back drastically. You'll be thinking about making money and leveling up, still think about taking care of your child's bills, plus you still gats give your wife attention. Honestly, e go choke Very big lie Once he knows how to manage himself He won't have problem The money many young men waste on side women and useless lifestyle can take care of a woman and children Just wise planning Most times waiting for things to align You go wait tire Once there's opportunity People should maximize it to the fullest Or they will look back in regrets On time and opportunities they allowed to waste |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by FalseProphet1(m): 11:05am On Feb 07 |
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| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by RickyJesus: 11:12am On Feb 07 |
djon78:
Very big lie
Once he knows how to manage himself
He won't have problem
The money many young men waste on side women and useless lifestyle can take care of a woman and children
Just wise planning
Most times waiting for things to align
You go wait tire
Once there's opportunity
People should maximize it to the fullest
Or they will look back in regrets
On time and opportunities they allowed to waste
Those that opportunity falls within the spectrum of having a kid at the age of 22 as an uneducated nigerian in this present economy? No dey support rubbish. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by AngelicBeing: 11:31am On Feb 07 |
FalseProphet1:
 You have uptill end of February 2024 to go back to the Sahara desert for your 7000 days of fasting to purge you from the spirit of False / heretic prophesy otherwise, you will be flogged by Celestial Angels  |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by toygod2: 11:32am On Feb 07 |
samtoles:
Words are not powerful. There is absolutely nothing in words. Its not your words that brought the child, its your foolishness and carelessness. Only action works! If words are powerful, a lot of religious people in Africa won't be wallowing in abject poverty. They name their kids Glory, Fortune, Favour, Riches and all sorts and they continue to speak some positive words into their lives. The children still grow up to be as poor as their parents.
Anyway, at 22, especially in Nigeria, you have no business becoming a father. It a big mistake for you. Raising up a child in this terrain is no child's play. Aside the financial aspect which will drain you, you are not ripe mentally and emotionally. You should be enjoying your youthful years, hustling hard, making mistakes and learning from them. You should have aborted that baby by all means possible.
But you don born now, nothing wey we go do. You will learn the hard way.
Goodluck.
Which kind human be this. |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by FalseProphet1(m): 11:36am On Feb 07 |
AngelicBeing:
You have uptill end of February 2024 to go back to the Sahara desert for your 7000 days of fasting to purge you from the spirit of False / heretic prophesy otherwise, you will be flogged by Celestial Angels 😏 1 Like |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by toygod2: 11:38am On Feb 07 |
Well , congratulations to you. Its good to know , you are liking your new status as against what many will opine. Well , i also wished i got married a little above your age and of course by now , to have had 3 - 5 kids but , we thank God. I eventually got married 8years after i wished and its been blissful . I still wished i could have attained the feat by then. Do not mind what the naysayers would utter............ The deed has been done by you , just dont stop and keep getting better and upgrading your life style , itd be well. You would love it at the end .............infact , i envy you  |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by mclloyd22: 11:39am On Feb 07 |
Ukafor:
My gf has just delivered a baby girl, am now a proud father, it very true that babies bring goodluck, my baby has brought grace and goodluck to me all thanks to God.
It was really hard in the begining but i pull through, secondly be mindful of your words, words are powerful, i remember having a conversation with my then gf 2 years ago about having a child, i didn't meant any of it, this was what i said that day to her "in 2024 am gonna have a child by any means" and it come to pass.
I wasn't ready, every attempt to abort didn't work out, i pray God should forgive me for trying abortion.
THE FACT (1) Word are powerful anything you said about yourself may likely come to pass. (2) every child born bring grace and blessing to the parent, everything keep working for me.
Despite being an apprentice am able to take good care of my baby and the mother.
File Photo used for Illustration Good you owned up to your stuff even though you wasn’t ready. You are now a man at 22. Lastly, yes there’s power in spoken word but no be the word chuck preeq inside there without protection |
| Re: Being A Father At 22 (my Story) by dkidd: 11:43am On Feb 07 |
FalseProphet1:
One of my members chop 12m on bet9ja after his girlfriend put to bed a beautiful baby girl.
He gave me tithes of 1.2m and I blessed the baby and told told him that he should name her fortune. And anytime he wants to play bet9ja he should place his right hand on her head when forecasting.
Ever since he started chopping back to back, this idiot has been placing all his body including his two legs on his baby's head. Infact he plays bet9ja every day with his two legs on top of his baby's head. His wife has called me severally to complain. I've been thinking of reversing the good luck charm I did for him before he kills the innocent beautiful sweet baby girl. 🤕
This I have seen. You be real idiot |
