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“You have failed in life if you are a 30+ lady and you are single and broke” - Relationship coach.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQ9snqWuFhs?si=YNSvp4S3O4NxfU78

Hmm 🤔 her words are very deep. I pray our Nigeria ladies don’t fall to this pressures from the relationship coach in our environments .

As a single lady in her 30s, you have failed in life if you do not have a booming career, business or your are not living the baby girl lifestyle - Feminity coach says


A Nigerian ‘feminity’ coach has sparked off a debate on social media after saying that any single lady who is in her 30s and does not have a booming career, business or is not living the baby girl lifestyle has failed in life.



In a video making the rounds on social media, the lady said;

‘’As a single lady in her 30s, if you don't have a booming career, booming business, or you are not living the baby girl lifestyle, I am sorry to say you ahev failed in life. What were you doing in your 20s? Your 20s is supposed to be for your self discovery and self building. Didn't your invest in yourself? Didin't you invest in your business? didn't you invest in your career? Didn't you invest in your lifestyle or in your growth? Because your 30s is supposed to be your retirement plan for ladies. It's supposed to be the period you retire from the street. ‘’
Her comment has sparked a debate on social media with many disagreeing with her.


Her revelation ignited reactions among social media as internet users thronged to share their thoughts. Some reactions are shown below:

matete4real said, “Don’t believe her, no checklist to.this thing called life”.

j.b_glow said, “Madam stop pressuring people,everybody must not be successful at 30”.

boss__pee said, “Madam you’ve also failed in life for being alive at 30+ because 30+ is too old to be alive.”

theoviatwinandruel said, “😂🤣😂But you talking doesn’t look like someone who has made it with this filter you are adding 😫😫😫”.




https://www.intelregion.com/lifestyle/you-have-failed-in-life-if-you-are-still-30-and-still-single-nigerian-woman-tells-ladies-video/

Don't marry rubbish in the name of you are thirty plus. Enjoy your life.

TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔 her words are very deep. I pray our Nigeria ladies don’t fall to this pressures from the relationship coach in our environments

Relationship coach isonu. Everyone's part is not a straight road.

Treasure17:
Relationship coach isonu. Everyone's part is not a straight road.

yes. All fingers aren’t equal at all. The feminist woman failed to know that. Not all glitters are gold.

Someone is not successful today doesn't mean he/she cant be successful tomorrow. The woman is obviously ignorant about life, and those guys supporting her are probably incels who have been rejected by women.

Chrisrare:
Someone is not successful today doesn't mean he/she cant be successful tomorrow. The woman is obviously ignorant about life, and those guys supporting her are probably incels who have been rejected by women.

very true, you are right here. You aren’t successful today doesn’t says someone won’t be successful tomorrow. No one knows tomorrow

Treasure17:
Don't marry rubbish in the name of you are thirty plus. Enjoy your life.

yes soo

Work hard and stay focussed. Keep re-strategising and reinventing don't allow any fool to make time table for your life! Don't succumb to pressure from anyone. You don't want to do what some of these silly coaches did to make it.

Many women are broke and rely on men for survival so no dey yarn trash

She is just trying to bully women to buy whatever she is selling.

Nobody as long as he/she is alive, has failed in live.
You can't fail an exam that you have not finished writing.

Colonel Sanders founded the multibillion dollars "KFC" after retirement (60yrs+)

True

lol... they have come with their pressing of neck.

Success doesn't have age limit.

However, we rush to defend women now, what about the unreasonable women that set benchmark for guys. Instead of hustling, they rather wait for guys to make money, they pressure guys unnecessary.

African Feminism, especially the Nigeria interpretation of feminism is the most useless joke of the century, very clueless, unrefined, confused and unreasonable.

What about She wey be Social Media coach ?

Being successful doesn't have age limit, I've somebody who was born with wealth, and immediately the parent died, everything died with them, this is not a story of them say, it is what I experienced...

Somebody who doesn't have money at age 30 doesn't mean he or she won't have money at the age of 60-70years and still even live longer than the person that have money before 30..

Mumu woman, such dirty advise is what make humans go fetish in search of riches instead of working hard legally and hoping on God only.

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What of a man broke and single at 40?

She has a strong point

Our time is limited in this life and we should make productive use of them.

If as a lady you are single at 30, you must be financially stable via good career, business or skill. We have alot of ladies doing hook up at over 30 hmmm.

As a man if you are single at 40 and broke you have also not been productive with your life. I can understand if you are 40 and financially okay with good assets, business or career but not otherwise.

Time is a limited resources make productive use of your time

TruthsFM:
“You have failed in life if you are a 30+ lady and you are single and broke” - Relationship coach.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQ9snqWuFhs?si=YNSvp4S3O4NxfU78

Who's she?

Life isn’t the same for everyone..
She should find somewhere and sit down

Motivational speaker isonu

Women need to hear this.

Their lackadaisical attitude to earning money is the reason why a lot of children are born into poverty.

Jennyclay siofra ...now we know what triggers ur frustrations

30 is the end of the road for many Nigerian ladies. Don't marry a woman at the end of her rope.

Hit like if you prefer a younger lady (18-23).

Hit share if you prefer a woman in her 30s.

Ashawoo don drop quote.

Let people live

Don’t mount pressure on people

At 30, you should be married
@ 25, you should have made your first million
@ something you should have had your first kid
@ another, you should not be living in your parents house
@ this, @ that

There are no rules to this things, don’t let anyone mount pressure on you, we all have different journeys in life and no yardstick to measure anything for anyone

Guys, that’s why the best quote from a movie is the one from the curios case of Benjamin Button which says” you can do whatever you want at whenever, you can stop and start all over again, it’s never too late or too early, there are no rules to this things”

Useless talk. Set awon nkechi CEO. You too would soon come on social media crying and exposing your dirty lifestyle.
The moment you set a particular age for marriage, you've started failing already and putting yourself under undue pressure. Just believe in God and stay focused. What would be would be. Enjoy your life to the fullest and don't run someone else's race

Lol na her Pappa Fail....

All fingers are not equal, but shes would be correct if shes refering to her fellow feminists.