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Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

PureFace1:
Even if your game is top notch you are a fool if you think you can seduce every women.

Perhaps i'm more knowledgeable than you to know that it doesn't really worth the effort at the long run when there are plenty women that will dig you immediately out there even if she is playing hard to get i don't have time to waste on women that play stupid games and disrespect my time and I respect myself. i know that i am the prize here.

You are the one that's weak here for not realizing when a woman is just not interested in you and move on instead of wasting your time and resources away. Think about it would she reject Wizkid or Davido or even Portable ?

It is people like you that come online to wail when a woman take advantaged of you and used you. Why wouldn't they take advantage of men like you when you are just too desperate and don't understand what "No" is ? why wouldn't they disrespect you when you worship, give cheap attention, waste your time and chase them around like a dog on leash but in your delusional mind you think you are a gods player or seducer lol, you will hate yourself if you see what these women think of men like you, even if they later considered you it's because they ran out of options and they wouldn't really respect you or treat you well because they didn't really want you in the first place, you were the one chasing them around like a loyal dog.

Think about it would you really reject a beautiful woman that you are interested in and she asked you out?

Would any of these young women in Nigeria reject Wizkid, Davido or any celebrities that ask them for a date ? these women wouldn't even reject a guy with a good car.

Why wouldn't these women later act out and disrespect you when you just wouldn't take the word no, you must respect yourself first before people can respect you. You don't have any value if you think rejection is a challenge instead of moving on with your life, would wizkid or Davido, Asake waste time on a woman that reject them ? because if even a woman reject them they have thousands that will dig them.

Fiscus105:
Ur submission here clearly shows, u re not strong in convincing woman and if lady tells you, she is not interested, must you chicken out instanta*?

When I was younger, I asked a lady out then, in which she bluntly rejected and even cursed me, but I made sure I up' my game, she latter fell yakata years, even after married. she fell to the extent that she wanted to leave hubby.

Fiscus105:
You are just wrote long epistle that potraited you, not only a weak but a foolish guy, well, nobody do competition with you on woman matter and no where you read that you must able to convince all females in the universe, but if you ask a lady out once and because she says no you chickened out, I repeat you are a woke* teenage boy.

Namaster:
Just the second month of the year and OP already won the Simplest Man of the Year Award.

She's a good girl, she's shy. She's not your typical Nigerian girl.

Yet she's a baby mama. OP, slap yourself.

She's a who.re pretending to be the kind of girl you want. No girl gets pregnant out of wedlock because she's a good girl.

That girl putting up an act for you sucks soldier dick like someone sucking the marrow out of a chicken bone.

Find someone else!

Lumarstone:
Invite another girl to your house in her presence

Lumarstone:
Invite another girl to your house in her presence

Namaster:
Just the second month of the year and OP already won the Simplest Man of the Year Award.

She's a good girl, she's shy. She's not your typical Nigerian girl.

Yet she's a baby mama. OP, slap yourself.

She's a who.re pretending to be the kind of girl you want. No girl gets pregnant out of wedlock because she's a good girl.

That girl putting up an act for you sucks soldier dick like someone sucking the marrow out of a chicken bone.

Find someone else!

Quality20:
Can't u guys be friends with ladies without romantic involment? Abeg use rope tie ya wiwi make it stay one place
. Just assume she is a starfish that isn't for eating

Cerebellum:
Small boy, shurrap there!

Someone is correcting you, still you kept been adamant instead of learning

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

iamtardey:
What do you mean not my typical Nigerian girl? I’m offended on behalf our girls 😂😂 she’s a Nigerian girl no dey bobo yourself alaye

Fiscus105:
Abi oooo, COMMING from a teenage boy that sees adults men taking beer and got scared.

Why won't you be talking like like teen that hear girl names and run for his dear life.


When you grow up, this type of discussion we talk about it properly.

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

Dyfynezz12:
Don't mind them,once lust cover their eyes nd brain they start seeing the girl as the best thing in life while they 're just like others

PureFace1:
You are just delusional, so not chasing women now mean women can easily disrespect me? dude i walk away from women because i respect myself and wouldn't tolerate any disrespect. You are a loser if you don't realize No is No and even if she want you to chase harder who want to be with that kind of shittty woman ? that will keep playing stupid games and wouldn't respect you.

So if you are a champion it mean you must conquer every women and turn your self to a loser and don't respect yourself and lose respect in the process?

I am not going to waste my time chasing a woman doesn't mean i don't know how to handle women when it come to other issues and tolerate disrespect.

You think bickering with women make you strong ? you are still a kid.

I will never be in relationship with a woman that disrespect me, if she disrespect me in the relationship i will end it.

Kenda123:
Guy forget proper dating first .

Just give her time, flow with her like that for few more weeks , get her some gifts , take her out and all

I bet u ll knack her before u say jack

PureFace1:
You are just delusional, so not chasing women now mean women can easily disrespect me? dude i walk away from women because i respect myself and wouldn't tolerate any disrespect. You are a loser if you don't realize No is No and even if she want you to chase harder who want to be with that kind of shittty woman ? that will keep playing stupid games and wouldn't respect you.

So if you are a champion it mean you must conquer every women and turn your self to a loser and don't respect yourself and lose respect in the process?

I am not going to waste my time chasing a woman doesn't mean i don't know how to handle women when it come to other issues and tolerate disrespect.

You think bickering with women make you strong ? you are still a kid.

I will never be in relationship with a woman that disrespect me, if she disrespect me in the relationship i will end it.

Fiscus105:
I think ur brain malfunctiond, that thy u quickly forgot that u claimed to be superior in game of women

If a lady say no for the first time ,it means,she disrespects you? Kabiye the first son of tinubu I salute you o!

I say sorry for you and ur foolish gragra alpha nonsense you belong to on faceless forum. They claim bigger boys online but beg for ordinary attention of ladies physically.

Oga, any girl you ask out and open leg for u instantly, she isn't sign of respect for you but a sign that you are totally worthless, because the girl herself is a worthless and that is how she say yes for every guy.

Meanwhile, can u swear with anything good you have that, in ur life,. ....you have never for once re-toasted girls that said no before.

I don't need explanation just swear.