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IAmHim1:
i dont need your thankyou. better Take action and do something good for yourself

You probably felt I’ll be more triggered than this, good to see you’re not having as much fun as you wanted. Anyways thanks for the advice, I’ll think very carefully about it while patiently waiting for actually helpful inputs.

Some men are trying honestly. May I never born a male child that will bring embarrassment to my family name.
Simps have their own benefits I guess, else who will marry off damaged women and public properties.

Women aren’t complicated at all.

Only the man who has no understanding of female nature thinks they are complicated.

Women are extremely simple, all they want is a man who can take her on a emotional roller coaster, and a man who has potential to win in the world.

Understanding female nature will turn you into a man of character.

A man who can get any woman he desires, can no longer be manipulated with nice words, and is never freindzoned.

The closest friend he can get to is being friends with benefits. 👌

IAmHim1:
you still dont get it do you. Check my moniker well. This is IAmHim1. Dont bullshit yourself



You really feel im mocking you hmmmm


ill explain something to you now

The way you see the world is the reflection of nicknames you choose for yourself. it's subconscious but its FVCKIN deep

People with nicknames like scorpion...THEY MUST STING YOU SOONER OR LATER.
name like classygirl...the moment you no longer contribute to making her classy, your use has ended in her life.
what of 'prettygirlxxx'...suchba girl, her sense of self worth will be in her looks. call her ugly and you have gotten her attention.

'Badgirl****'.... mock such girl that she lookks innocent like a novice at love and she will try to prove to you her badness

Rizxputin has Big d1ck so thats partly where his confidence lies in addition to experience with women. you know where to hurt him

Ubunja.means dog like meaning man is in an animal in the jungle. Do what you can to survive regardless of who gets hurt. tell him life is not a jungle and natural selection is bullshit and youll get a covered reaction

Name it...youll start to see a pattern in most people name...



people with names such as gerald1993 or names having their year of birth feels they should be respected because of their age. these are people that will easily tell you 'i no be your mate' during any small argument.

Let me.tell you something...this dollar rate you're complaiming of in Nigeria, there are average families eating well every single day with minimal complains
Even covid19, there are people that did not take AND have not taken any jab till now and theyre still alive. the only time they wore nose mask was because they needed it to get inside a bank hall. while the people that took and followed all covid guidelines always in a state of panic and worry are dead...done and dusted

Your mindset IS THE REASON YOU CHOOSED YOUR MONIKER and its the reason You are having confidence issues. This should take some time to digest.

Even if anyone here was to give you advice concerning your situation, your moniker will block you from absorbing such advice cus its gonna appear as 'wahala' to you and not 'solution' courtesy of your mindset



now youre here with your moniker 'wahaladondey' and you expecting anything BUT wahala.

QUITE BOLD....

This is a virtual space, this is not reality, you can answer Elon Musk for all anyone cares and still not know shit about space travel. Virtuality gives the chance to be, do and say anything, you are taking this thing too serious, if it was a real name then you might have had a point, learn to draw the line between the virtual and reality. You couldn’t even make any real input on the matter I brought forward which is more inclined to reality than my moniker yet you can focus on a name that really doesn’t exist. Tiring.

Now unto why I chose this moniker, I play an online game called “Bullet Echo”, whenever I step into the lobby everyone else sees “wahala don dey”, those that are Nigerian would understand how much trouble they are in. It’s not that subconscious brother, now since I already have an email registered with the name I figured why not just use the same moniker for everything related to that email. Don’t go blabbering about psychology which you probably know nothing of.

You are only punishing yourself when you want to be in a relationship with a woman more than she wants to be in a relationship with you.

Women are focused on love, relationships, family & other mushy mushy feelings...

...while Men are focused on their mission and purpose in life.


So, if you’re more in love, you’ll start to repel her 💯

Dear [young] men,

If you don't love yourself first...

...you'll always feel lonely even if you're in a relationship with the most beautiful, tity-ful & ass-ful shawty in the world. 👌

If there is one thing I have realized being in the game for almost a decade?

Women are incredibly sexual and NEED it more than men do.

Look.

Men have their boys to chill, do cool stuff, and make moves with.

It’s an IRON BROTHERHOOD.

But women?

Women have FAKE friends.

Her best friends change every month.

They all bitch about each other and would sleep with each other’s boyfriends the second they can.

Trust me, I’ve seen it all.

My point is,

SEX IS THE ONLY FREEING ESCAPE for women.

SEX makes women feel alive.

INTIMACY is the ONLY MOMENT when she’s FULLY PRESENT IN HER BODY.

Think about it.

This is why most women are always “stuck up” and “frustrated”

Because their everyday life is LOGICAL DRAMA.

“Omg Susan said THIS about me? That bitch!”
“Shit I’m on my periods I can’t go to that event I wanted to”
“I look so unattractive today, I want to k!Ll myself”

Obviously I’ve exaggerated it a bit, but the point remains-

SHE NEEDS SEX.

GOOD SEX.

Her vagina is the door to her heart.



📖::: Masculinity Brotherhood

HOW TO MOVE IN THE WORLD WITH YOUR BASED BELIEFS

Most of you here have redpilled, based beliefs about the world.

You don’t live in the clown world full of fairytales and neither in the depressed world full of nightmares.

But… 99% of the world does.

These include people you will encounter throughout life.

At parties, through work, on the street.

Of course you can minimize exposure by only hanging around other likeminded people,

BUT you cannot fully avoid them. In fact, in many cases you require them to make moves for you.

How you behave around them with your based beliefs?

NEVER EVER try to argue with these people about beliefs and principles.

They’re too brainwashed to be saved.

Smile, nod, change the topic to something you have in common (you’re both at this party with amazing vibes) and wish them well.

You can’t be a complete rebel or you’ll be labelled the “creepy” dude.

Keep these topics reserved for your close friends who are on a similar path as you.



📖::: Masculinity Brotherhood

If she decides to get back together with you, it won’t be because she pities your condition...

OR

...because she feels she treated you unjustly.


It will be because she believes she has something to gain from going back. 👌💯

Karlifate:
You are only punishing yourself when you want to be in a relationship with a woman more than she wants to be in a relationship with you.

Women are focused on love, relationships, family & other mushy mushy feelings...

...while Men are focused on their mission and purpose in life.


So, if you’re more in love, you’ll start to repel her 💯

Delicious pills!!!!

wahaladondey:
Gentlemen of the manosphere, I am about to ask one of the most timeless questions ever, I hope you all don’t mind that this question has been asked and answered countlessly and just try to help me in whatever capacity you can. Lately, I have found myself in one of the most socially packed communities, a school, I am aware that this is one of the few places game works efficiently because of the nature of its build and that is why I want to grasp this opportunity to boost my social life and skills but on every normal day I am a very introverted person, almost bordering on low self-esteem.

How do I start and maintain a conversation with a lady I find attractive? I am not the best conversationalist, I get fidgety and fear I might sound or look stupid whenever I engage in a conversation, externally I seem to exude some form of confidence but internally I’m usually just breaking down.

How do I steer the conversations in a more sexual direction? My hurtful degree of self awareness keeps a tight rope around what I feel I should be socially acceptable to say or not, it makes me not want to come across as offensive or perverted.

I want to build up on whatever advices I can get, make them practical and deliver results to this forum, thanks in anticipation.

I would further edit this post if I have more questions.

Karlifate
luminouz
Rizzputin
Martinez39s
Pukkalolo
Ubunja
and other real gees on this thread in no particular order.

This might be leaning towards the self improvement spectrum but it might be useful I'm someway:
The foundation beneath attracting a woman or being able to approach a woman you like is confidence. I don't mean bullheaded arrogance. Confidence is the root of mastery, and that is something that comes from within. Look at your life, what are the areas in your life that you have mastery over? Is it your skills? Or your talent? Or your hobby? Or your academic exploits? What are those things that when you do you feel like a boss? Strive to become a master in those areas. You may not be a pro at those things at the go but the feeling you get from being adept or at least enthusiast about these factors would boost your confidence. Women are naturally attracted to men who "know and can do". And they can smell confidence in a man like a perfume. Confidence and mastery are testaments of reliability, and that turns women on. Even if you don't have skills or hobbies or redeeming factors, think of what you want to improve in your life that would give you great satisfaction.

This is a dichotomy and one side of a coin. What are those things in your life that you're not confident about? They could be bad habits, or your financial state, or your self image. These factors could be the source of shame, and nothing kills confidence better than shame. And when you are ashamed or have low confidence it affects your interaction with women because you'll be afraid of that shameful situation suddenly revealing itself to them.

How you'll engage with women and initiate sex, I can't give you answer to that. Maybe you should start with average looking women, or perhaps pickup artists in the house can help.

In a nutshell build upon the factors which will give you confidence and at the same time try to reduce the factors that bring you shame, one by one. It's about you and your own wellbeing in this matter, women use the lure of romance and sex to subtly control the dating pool and there's nothing you can do when you're rejected, just move on.

Rukevwe999:
This might be leaning towards the self improvement spectrum but it might be useful I'm someway:
The foundation beneath attracting a woman or being able to approach a woman you like is confidence. I don't mean bullheaded arrogance. Confidence is the root of mastery, and that is something that comes from within. Look at your life, what are the areas in your life that you have mastery over? Is it your skills? Or your talent? Or your hobby? Or your academic exploits? What are those things that when you do you feel like a boss? Strive to become a master in those areas. You may not be a pro at those things at the go but the feeling you get from being adept or at least enthusiast about these factors would boost your confidence. Women are naturally attracted to men who "know and can do". And they can smell confidence in a man like a perfume. Confidence and mastery are testaments of reliability, and that turns women on. Even if you don't have skills or hobbies or redeeming factors, think of what you want to improve in your life that would give you great satisfaction.

This is a dichotomy and one side of a coin. What are those things in your life that you're not confident about? They could be bad habits, or your financial state, or your self image. These factors could be the source of shame, and nothing kills confidence better than shame. And when you are ashamed or have low confidence it affects your interaction with women because you'll be afraid of that shameful situation suddenly revealing itself to them.

How you'll engage with women and initiate sex, I can't give you answer to that. Maybe you should start with average looking women, or perhaps pickup artists in the house can help.

In a nutshell build upon the factors which will give you confidence and at the same time try to reduce the factors that bring you shame, one by one. It's about you and your own wellbeing in this matter, women use the lure of romance and sex to subtly control the dating pool and there's nothing you can do when you're rejected, just move on.

Thank you for your very valuable contribution.

Those two mad men up there arguing about nonsense should go and check into yaba left immediately

wahaladondey:
This is a virtual space, this is not reality, you can answer Elon Musk for all anyone cares and still not know shit about space travel. Virtuality gives the chance to be, do and say anything, you are taking this thing too serious, if it was a real name then you might have had a point, learn to draw the line between the virtual and reality. You couldn’t even make any real input on the matter I brought forward which is more inclined to reality than my moniker yet you can focus on a name that really doesn’t exist. Tiring.

Now unto why I chose this moniker, I play an online game called “Bullet Echo”, whenever I step into the lobby everyone else sees “wahala don dey”, those that are Nigerian would understand how much trouble they are in. It’s not that subconscious brother, now since I already have an email registered with the name I figured why not just use the same moniker for everything related to that email. Don’t go blabbering about psychology which you probably know nothing of.

The guy is a clown. Please ignore him.

nstore:
'Modus Operandi': ..If I can't have him, I will destroy him..
Beware those 'Machiavellians'...

If as a man you happen to find yourself in this state where women compete over you, you must thread carefully.

Anticipate their tactics because most will seek to destroy you, destroy your reputation.

Show them that their manipulative tactics are childs play.

Understand that no woman will fight over you if you don't have anything to offer aka you have no value.

So if you find yourself in this state, just know that you're doing something right.

Keep your head high,be vigilant

The sky is only the beginning of your limits.

Your perceived value does wonders, embrace it and never limit yourself.

Don't I repeat, bring damaged goods into your circle. Instead let them be spectators.
They'll do the job of announcing your pristine presence.

Become the uncommon man
Become limitless.

UppaZakum:
Some men are trying honestly. May I never born a male child that will bring embarrassment to my family name.
Simps have their own benefits I guess, else who will marry off damaged women and public properties.

"He's having two damsels. A wife and her daughter for the price of one."

Branch Swinging - 2
Lover boys - 0

https://www.nairaland.com/8017954/senior-colleague-wifes-messy-marital#128736017

Post made by one of the trollers here.

Reason a man should be redpilled and strong hearted to avoid seeing finish from the hands of women.

Never allow a woman to render you incapable.

Better

Haydens:
https://www.nairaland.com/8017954/senior-colleague-wifes-messy-marital#128736017

Post made by one of the trollers here.

Reason a man should be redpilled and strong hearted to avoid seeing finish from the hands of women.

Never allow a woman to render you incapable.

Even the trollers know this things. Personally if I have a 19year old secondarian as a wife, the last thing I would do is to send her to a university. I have also passed through the walls of Uni, I know how things roll. The home activities in itself is enough sch & work. Instead, setup a business for her. Men will just be digging their graves.

Furthermore, a 40year old man that's not ripped and up to the task in bed has nothing to do with a 19year old that's just in her prime raging with hormones.

Some 40+ year old though are an exceptions, the ones that are well ripped and took care of their health. If as a man you are already old and weak in the other engine, you should look for a girl with low libido or older lady with low energy these signs her always there and easy to spot if you're experienced enough but rather men would instead, prefer to attract with cash. Money is important in attraction but it shouldn't be all you have to show.

As a old man not a nice idea attracting ladies with money cause they would always want to explore if you are unable to meetup in the other room.

Summary, as an older man wanting to marry a younger lady, find a girl that matches your energy levels. And don't put her in a messy situation, like sponsoring her to the Uni where she will be coming across young ripped handsome guys on a daily that can go 30 minutes non-stop. Body no be firewood. I do not blame the lady.

Streak47:
Even the trollers know this things. Personally if I have a 19year old secondarian as a wife, the last thing I would do is to send her to a university. I have also passed through the walls of Uni, I know how things roll. The home activities in itself is enough sch & work. Instead, setup a business for her. Men will just be digging their graves.

Furthermore, a 40year old man that's not ripped and up to the task in bed has nothing to do with a 19year old that's just in her prime raging with hormones.

Some 40+ year old though are an exceptions, the ones that are well ripped and took care of their health. If as a man you are already old and weak in the other engine, you should look for a girl with low libido or older lady with low energy these signs her always there and easy to spot if you're experienced enough but rather men would instead, prefer to attract with cash. Money is important in attraction but it shouldn't be all you have to show.

As a old man not a nice idea attracting ladies with money cause they would always want to explore if you are unable to meetup in the other room.

Summary, as an older man wanting to marry a younger lady, find a girl that matches your energy levels. And don't put her in a messy situation, like sponsoring her to the Uni where she will be coming across young ripped handsome guys on a daily that can go 30 minutes non-stop. Body no be firewood. I do not blame the lady.

💯💯

Just reminiscing on old times. By this time last year I was already escalating this pretty girl. She was showing so much greenlight I didn't need to toast her( I did and almost ruin everything just that she likes me too much to let that happen). She made me feel loved, the story long. Is it the day I was thinking about how broke I was(cashless policy era) that she was asking me why, I use the opportunity to throw her a shit test that I've gone to see baba and he as asked me to go look for womb and he will make me rich. After she was convinced that I am serious she said she will do it for me as long as nothing will happen to me or her. My peace of mind. I missed her so much.

Fattprince23:
Just reminiscing on old times. By this time last year I was already escalating this pretty girl. She was showing so much greenlight I didn't need to toast her( I did and almost ruin everything just that she likes me too much to let that happen). She made me feel loved, the story long. Is it the day I was thinking about how broke I was(cashless policy era) that she was asking me why, I use the opportunity to throw her a shit test that I've gone to see baba and he as asked me to go look for womb and he will make me rich. After she was convinced that I am serious she said she will do it for me as long as nothing will happen to me or her. My peace of mind. I missed her so much.

Fat Prince you don come with lamba again abi?

Haydens:
https://www.nairaland.com/8017954/senior-colleague-wifes-messy-marital#128736017

Post made by one of the trollers here.

Reason a man should be redpilled and strong hearted to avoid seeing finish from the hands of women.

Never allow a woman to render you incapable.

You believe that Tales by Moonlight wey that dirty girl write? How old are you please

Fattprince23:
Just reminiscing on old times. By this time last year I was already escalating this pretty girl. She was showing so much greenlight I didn't need to toast her( I did and almost ruin everything just that she likes me too much to let that happen). She made me feel loved, the story long. Is it the day I was thinking about how broke I was(cashless policy era) that she was asking me why, I use the opportunity to throw her a shit test that I've gone to see baba and he as asked me to go look for womb and he will make me rich. After she was convinced that I am serious she said she will do it for me as long as nothing will happen to me or her. My peace of mind. I missed her so much.

WTF did I just read?

Tranquility2345:
Fat Prince you don come with lamba again abi?

Yeah, lamba.

You know we usually kissed every chance we got. Then I didn't kiss her for 5 days because I didn't want her to feel I am only sexually attracted to her. Will you believe she complained later. She was like "it's been long you kissed me" I had to kiss her to assure her everywhere bam.

Fattprince23:
Yeah, lamba.

You know we usually kissed every chance we got. Then I didn't kiss her for 5 days because I didn't want her to feel I am only sexually attracted to her. Will you believe she complained later. She was like "it's been long you kissed me" I had to kiss her to assure her everywhere bam.

See this small boy too smh

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