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Re: . by advanceDNA: 6:53pm On Mar 05, 2024
Martdc:
Any advice?
People that are sorry..confess willingly before u start suspecting or catch them...

She's not sorry she hurt you ... She's sorry you figured it out......

Ur peace of mind is more important....To the street she belongs
Re: . by Fahvvy: 7:48pm On Mar 05, 2024
Lemme ask you a question OP undecided...

Do you think she would've "cried and apologized" if you didn't figure things out and confronted her bout it? grin...

Use your head OP undecided...
Re: . by annayawchee: 10:19pm On Mar 05, 2024
Leave her.
Re: . by MrBrownJay1(m):
Martdc:
I found out she lied to me about something, but she apologized after I confronted her about it. She begged, cried and promised never to do it again.

I know she has lied a couple of times in our 8 months of being together, and i never talked about them because i understood why she acted that way, but it was different this time around and I couldn’t keep shut.

I act like it’s all good, but i no longer have any iota of trust for her anymore. She has promised to win back my trust, but i see every word as a lie now.
Any advice?
let go of her, as it would be impossible for her to win your trust back and you will always remember her lies (even if she is truthful now). the important point to remember is that, if she once looked in your eyes and said to herself:" this man is so dumb, let me tell him some yeye lies as his gullible self will believe whatever nonsense i tell him" (lol example) then what makes you think she wont do it again and again? the only reason she is remorseful is because she was busted.

some women dont realize how much their lies destroy r/ship and really have no respect for some men, thats why they think they can fix such problem so easily. crocodile tears dem!
Re: . by ValCon888: 1:24am On Mar 06, 2024
She only apologized because she was caught. Your babe has criminality and olòsho tendency in her DNA.

But don't dump her. Close your heart and collect your share of her oil rig until you've had your fill then pass the scraps to the next real G.
Re: . by Natbrowny: 9:08am On Mar 06, 2024
The 11th commandment.

THOU SHALL NOT GET CAUGHT
Re: . by Starboytwo(m): 12:14pm On Mar 06, 2024
Well if you leave her, who are you leaving her for?

Carry your cross. Deal with your issues.
Re: . by MrCork: 12:15pm On Mar 06, 2024
Martdc:
I found out she lied to me about something, but she apologized after I confronted her about it. She begged, cried and promised never to do it again.

I know she has lied a couple of times in our 8 months of being together, and i never talked about them because i understood why she acted that way, but it was different this time around and I couldn’t keep shut.

I act like it’s all good, but i no longer have any iota of trust for her anymore. She has promised to win back my trust, but i see every word as a lie now.

Any advice?
She a big lier...bro gimmme her nomba so i can find out why she lie. Is she lightskin sir?(no oofencsece) angry
Re: . by DaddyRochie1642: 2:30pm On Mar 06, 2024
MrCork:
She a big lier...bro gimmme her nomba so i can find out why she lie. Is she lightskin sir?(no oofencsece) angry
MrCork to slap you dey hungry me
Re: . by Zaheertyler(m): 3:54pm On Mar 06, 2024
Deal with the issues or move on
As long as it's minor then no matter
Re: . by MrCork: 4:39pm On Mar 06, 2024
DaddyRochie1642:
MrCork to slap you dey hungry me
You can try if u want to die fast!! angry
Re: . by DaddyRochie1642: 4:42pm On Mar 06, 2024
MrCork:
You can try if u want to die fast!! angry
MrCork to slap you in Peckham dey hungry me.
Re: . by Martdc(op): 4:47pm On Mar 06, 2024
Zaheertyler:
Deal with the issues or move on
As long as it's minor then no matter
It was work related, and she said she didn’t want to bother me with it
Re: . by FitCorper: 4:54pm On Mar 06, 2024
Bro this is a sensitive issue. But you are only permitted to take action against her only if you yourself don’t lie to her. Don’t be fooled, everyone lies both men and women and certainly most people who commented telling you to leave her may be even bigger liars themselves. Yes love her but don’t trust her is permitted. Be careful of advise u get on here as most redpillers are naturally bitter and envious to relationships of others. Like lil Wayne put it “women lie men lie, say wat yhu only numbers don’t lie”.
Re: . by Quality20(m): 4:58pm On Mar 06, 2024
Forgive her abeg at least she did not straff any man
Re: . by superCleanworks(m): 6:13am On Mar 07, 2024
Martdc:
She begged, cried and promised never to do it again.
This is where I stopped reading
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