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ghettochild:
inform ur parents about it they'd know what to do n reach out to her family.. I made that mistake in 2014. that child should have been 9yrs now.

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It's called murder. Don't try it! God hates it and you will give accoun of it.

DrFunmisticGlow:
like I said. Contraceptive pillswill soon be available for men.. vasectomy is also a better option

you kept saying vasectomy, what's the guarantee that it can be successfully reverse if one want a child. Ladies can get IUDs nd other planning methods too. Like advanceDNA said abstinence is the only way to avoid all this back - and- forth.

Tell me more bout the pull out method

Pls beg her not to

Holluwhakemmy:
just for you to know that I'm next in line surely.

yinmu! Me I don't want twins o. So forget it

limcar:
she say na one dude go fùckam this year. That gal too dey pretend. I been wan fùckam

you mean Holluwhakemmy? She dey hungry you too?

enemyofprogress:
yinmu! Me I don't want twins o. So forget it

You are not going to be their father now

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

😂🤣
I’m sorry for laughing
Just that the churchy part was funny to me

Okay
So the churchy girl committed a sin by fornicating then to still remain a churchy girl to the public she wan commit abortion, yet another sin😂
Okay

She won’t be the first churchy girl to f up , for her to even think of abortion mean say her eye tear wellwell just hiding under the pretence of being churchy. She should bone church and come out clean
So if not for the church she would keep the baby?

Let her pick a struggle. Na this kind thing make me not to believe all this church people.

Please for her own good, she should not indulge in abortion. That child should be of help to her when the child grows. God will provide whatever she needs to train the child.

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

If that's what she wants, let her be. If she's not ready for that stage of life, then you should understand her choice.
Nobody needs to be forced to go into parenthood, especially if they're not ready.

Kaido:
Don't allow her to abort.

Talk to your parents about it.

Lol, you people are funny. "Don't allow her".
Like he'll chain her in his room till she gives birth.
Like she doesn't have a choice of her own. Clowns.

DrFunmisticGlow:
because your orgasm(ejaculation)resulted in a child, not hers.
So take responsibility for those few seconds of pleasure.

So how about in a case where it wasn't the man's fault and she wanted to have his baby?

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Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

Speak to your parents about it

Proserpina:
Likeeeeeeee this thread is a bittersweet one for me but I find a very big joy in the fact that the lady is making some smart decision. and causing some sifia pains Unlike the conventional tales it's the man begging for the pregnancy here lol e dey gimme joy .

May not be a moral decision but it's a smart one

My sister.

I'm always happy when they're in tears. Salty tears.

She knows what's best for her. Pregnancy is A LOT especially in these hard Nigerian times, if you don't have emotional support, that's hell inclusive.

OP IF SHE INSIST ON ABORTION DON'T DISTURB URSELF ALLOW HER DO THE ABORTION AND BREAK UP WITH HER

WHY DO I SAY SO? SHE WILL CONTINUE TO PUT HE BLAME ON YOU FOREVER IF YOU EVENTUALLY SETTLE DOWN WITH HER

WOMEN MAKE EXCUSES ALOT DEY RE NEVER ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS.

AND THOSE OF YOU BLAMING D OP HE HAS ALREADY CLAIMED RESPONSIBILITY AND READY TO FATHER THE CHILD, SO WHY D NOISE?

SO WHAT IF HE SAY HE DOESN'T WANT THE CHILD? UNA GO STILL DEY BLAME AM SAY HE WAN SPOIL D GIRL LIFE

You are in your final year, you are broke and not ready for family life yet you have the courage to impregnate a lady. You should also be ready to take up the responsibility.

Abortion is the killing of a child. Support or advise it or champion it .... It's all the same.

Grave actions often come with grace consequence but one would think that people would avoid them. No. They don't. They indulge in them and start looking for shortcuts or a way out.

Repent, bear the consequences and make good decisions next time. Maybe God will bless you with all you need.

folake4u:
My sister.

I'm always happy when they're in tears. Salty tears.

She knows what's best for her. Pregnancy is A LOT especially in these hard Nigerian times, if you don't have emotional support, that's hell inclusive.

Edo witch.

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

mehn youre so fvcking dumb. coming with load on nairaland to seek for whos advice grow up boy and talk to your people

pocohantas:
Edo witch.

Old gist, Mami.

Drone95:
you kept saying vasectomy, what's the guarantee that it can be successfully reverse if one want a child. Ladies can get IUDs nd other planning methods too. Like advanceDNA said abstinence is the only way to avoid all this back - and- forth.

I agree. Abstinence is best

kingxsamz:
So how about in a case where it wasn't the man's fault and she wanted to have his baby?

she's also stupid, wicked and manipulative. She also should not disturb the man in the future. The man should also give away his parental rights

Loopdeeloopa:
Imagine him saying the reason he wants a child is because he is the only son of his parents. Like sey children na toy wey u fit just dey create anyhow. In this country with no future, he wants to pass down his poverty to an innocent soul that didnt ask for it.
The kind of selfish illitrates we have in this country eh

Parents are selfish people. People always have children for selfish reasons. Know this and know peace

Drone95:
you kept saying vasectomy, what's the guarantee that it can be successfully reverse if one want a child. Ladies can get IUDs nd other planning methods too. Like advanceDNA said abstinence is the only way to avoid all this back - and- forth.

if he doesn't want children now, he should practice abstinence. If not wear a condom. Yes condom breaks but it's better than the weak pullout game that most men have.

You will live long and age gracefully.

Your comment is worth 5kg in gold

advanceDNA:
Its funny.......and I don't get it...

when a woman doesn't want the baby, the man doesn't have a say.....fine no wahala

..but when its the the man that doesn't want baby... the woman will start threatening fire and brimestone, dragging him for marriage and child support

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Gerrard59:
Wedlock isn't really the issue, but his ability to cater for the family as he is expected to (all males are expected to do the same anyway). He stated that he is broke and in his final year. Had it been his being the only son translated into coming from a family that could back him financially, this would not have been a problem. Also, both and especially the lass, are in their final year. This pregnancy disrupts that timeline in an important period in her life.

The girl too has 50% of the blame. So stoopid to allow a stoopid and broke boy to ejaculate into her without using Postinor, which is another stoopidty.

Jesus! Nigeria has so many stoopid people for crying out loud!!!! What happened to Postinor, considering her family background and present realities?!



As much as his happiness is important, hers is also necessary. He does not have the funds. Dem dey final year. And you just want him to show her the exit door because she aborted. This is why she should have insisted on condom!!!!!!!!! DrFunmi is right here. The entire baggage is on the woman. Now now, you have suggested exiting, which is pretty easy for any man. But the woman cannot.

Young women should learn a thing or two. How much is Postinor in Nigeria sef? Last I knew, e no pass 500 naira.

it's 1200 in my area

Ezechi18:
I will go straight on this!

She came to my side on 6th February, we had se'X using the pull out method without protection.
She was supposed to see her period at that month but nothing show, on the 2nd March, she carried out test and told me she pregnant.

We are in our final in school.
I want a child because am the only son of my parent but she want abortion because of shame as to when she will go back to school, She's a churchy kind of girl and people know her very well.

I promised her marriage but don't know how to do it after the abortion.
Although am broke as well.

I hope you are okay sha? You're broke and you want a child. Pls I want you to enter the nearest supermarket and check the prices of baby things. You better remove the baby. Wicked guy! I know you purposely ejaculated into her

Gerrard59:
Wedlock isn't really the issue, but his ability to cater for the family as he is expected to (all males are expected to do the same anyway). He stated that he is broke and in his final year. Had it been his being the only son translated into coming from a family that could back him financially, this would not have been a problem. Also, both and especially the lass, are in their final year. This pregnancy disrupts that timeline in an important period in her life.

The girl too has 50% of the blame. So stoopid to allow a stoopid and broke boy to ejaculate into her without using Postinor, which is another stoopidty.

Jesus! Nigeria has so many stoopid people for crying out loud!!!! What happened to Postinor, considering her family background and present realities?!



As much as his happiness is important, hers is also necessary. He does not have the funds. Dem dey final year. And you just want him to show her the exit door because she aborted. This is why she should have insisted on condom!!!!!!!!! DrFunmi is right here. The entire baggage is on the woman. Now now, you have suggested exiting, which is pretty easy for any man. But the woman cannot.

Young women should learn a thing or two. How much is Postinor in Nigeria sef? Last I knew, e no pass 500 naira.

The price of postinor is 1500 currently.

Proserpina:


A Whole LOT oooo

She's wise

Very wise girl.