AJEEJA:
The same way you renew your body by bathing is the same way you should always renew your mind and soul by reading and living in line with the redpill. Treat the redpill as a matter of life and death because actually, it is.
Do not have a simp as a close friend. Such a person will kill you the moment he suspects that his girl has a thing for you. Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. Your soul is at stake. My neighbor, a welder, sold his work equipments because his wife told him to. He is jobless as I type this and THAT SAME WIFE is telling everybody in the neighborhood that he doesn't provide, that he's lazy, that he's useless. She insults him EVERYDAY. He recently caught another man with her in HIS APARTMENT. He didn't want to kill so he called the community head. The woman said it, before me, before the community head, before her husband and two small kids - that her husband's manhood is dead. That man, as I type this, is a laughing stock in my hood. This is not up to 10% of what I have seen in the last one year, Jesu n'gbo. If you are foolish enough not to be a redpiller, I want to tell you, from the depth of my soul, that you are doomed. GOD KNOWS, YOU ARE DOOMED.

Someone told a full grown man to sell his work equipments and he did? Not me!!!

luminouz:


Someone told a full grown man to sell his work equipments and he did? Not me!!!

I tell you, some men are really foolish and daft to be frank.

Aaron12:
I tell you, some men are really foolish and daft to be frank.

What was she expecting him to feed her with? Yahoo bread? Or Pomade relaxer?

luminouz:

What was she expecting him to feed her with? Yahoo bread? Or Pomade relaxer?

I wonder

AJEEJA:
If you think the hardcore redpill truths you read here do not hold weight, you are on your way to becoming a victim. Women (redpillers and golddiggers by nature) have taken the game steps further by DELIBERATELY TEACHING younger girls their ways..
When I have enough time on my hands, I'll come here to share REAL LIFE experiences and observation.
A simp is a dead man walking. Your fellow men will disregard you. The women you simp for will disregard you twice as much. I know of a FB group run by women and it's dedicated to teaching women how to be predatory..
Personally, I will forever be grateful to Ubunja, Martinez, Ambitious, Luminouz. If I no mention PstDapo, make I bend. In this day and age, when men are an endangered species, only the redpillers will be saved. The times are perilous. The days are evil. The daughters of Jezebel are honing their craft DAILY. If you are anything other than redpill, you are finished. Let me repeat it, YOU ARE FINISHED.

share experience, I'm down.

Ballzproblem2:
share experience, I'm down.

you're down how

Karlifate:
No poosee is worth your self-respect. 👌

Not every woman that you can fukk is worth fukking. 💯

The ability to discard with speed is a super power.

Nothing hurts a woman like taking away attention from her.

She lives for the validation.

Women were born with value but they were also born with a low sense of self esteem which requires boosting for them to feel any sense of existence.

They remember that guy more that didn't give a fvck about their existence,that guy with pride.
That IDGAF guy.

They don't remember guys that cater to poosie.

Understand this and use it to your advantage
Don't settle for mediocre.✌️

The saying "curiosity killed the cat" cannot be overemphasized

Women by nature are curious creatures.

Peak her curiosity and she'll come running.

Use this tool to your advantage.

Remember, don't be a pussy monger.

What is it?

What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

Sorry bro,I totally understand how you're feeling.

What she did was a matter of emotional warfare. She got you invested emotionally.

She ghosted you because she wanted to see if you'll take the bait by calling her.

It's a good thing you didn't become possie obsessed.

She'll still contact you,give it time.

But I reckon not to dwell on her matter.

You've got to kill that oneitis syndrome by getting other girls to distract you (mind you,I didn't say a girl)

Stay sharp
Stay Taliban

Smartb0y:


Sorry bro,I totally understand how you're feeling.

What she did was a matter of emotional warfare. She got you invested emotionally.

She ghosted you because she wanted to see if you'll take the bait by calling her.

It's a good thing you didn't become possie obsessed.

She'll still contact you,give it time.

But I reckon not to dwell on her matter.

You've got to kill that oneitis syndrome by getting other girls to distract you (mind you,I didn't say a girl)

Stay sharp
Stay Taliban

Thanks man, thing is I'm busy right now working on something really important so I can't afford to hang out, also it's a new city, I just got to my Whatsapp now and I saw her messages.

could it be an overreaction from my end?

F1re:


Thanks man, thing is I'm busy right now working on something really important so I can't afford to hang out, also it's a new city, I just got to my Whatsapp now and I saw her messages.

could it be an overreaction from my end?

Yeah possibly.

But you know you got oneitis right
Try to limit the interaction from your end to help curb the oneitis a bit.

Let her invest more but don't make it look like you're not trying.

You get the drift.

Unless you want something from her, you should disengage in order to protect your mental state.

Remember,her heart is between her legs. If you truly want to get her hooked and invested ,you gotta do the needful because her emotional state is always in a flux.

This window of her chasing you won't last for too long so capitalize on it while the iron is still hot.

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, and olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

There is nothing much to say here.

Call her.

You don't know what must have happened to her. It can be anything. She is your friend by the way. So I don't see how that robs you of your masculine frame.

Being stoic doesn't mean you should check out emotionally. It means being able to handle your emotions appropriately at all times.

If it rings when you call, and no response, fine. You've done your part.

You can only be friends with a woman from afar.

You can only be friends with a woman from afar.

And it has been said frequently that a man and woman can't be friends. Once proximity is established testosterone hormone will want a bite of oxytocin hormone. Thereby stimulating flesh to meet flesh.

Double problem if that woman first appears in the cloaks of a student.

Man, you're infatuated with her. You can deny it from now till infinity. And there is no big deal about that.

Call her. Tell her you just checking on her. If she returns with a bad energy you cut her off, if she flows with positive vibes you can both move from there.

As a reminder: Guys, never hesitate to make moves with a woman you like. Throw sexual innuendos. Touch her. Play with her. Make fun of her.

Thanks.

Smartb0y:

Yeah possibly.

But you know you got oneitis right
Try to limit the interaction from your end to help curb the oneitis a bit.

Let her invest more but don't make it look like you're not trying.

You get the drift.

Unless you want something from her, you should disengage in order to protect your mental state.

Remember,her heart is between her legs. If you truly want to get her hooked and invested ,you gotta do the needful because her emotional state is always in a flux.

This window of her chasing you won't last for too long so capitalize on it while the iron is still hot.

Then, I'll have to disengage because I'm not ready to date now.

CaveAdullam:


There is nothing much to say here.

Call her.

You don't know what must have happened to her. It can be anything. She is your friend by the way. So I don't see how that robs you of your masculine frame.

Being stoic doesn't mean you should check out emotionally. It means being able to handle your emotions appropriately at all times.

If it rings when you call, and no response, fine. You've done your part.

You can only be friends with a woman from afar.

You can only be friends with a woman from afar.

And it has been said frequently that a man and woman can't be friends. Once proximity is established testosterone hormone will want a bite of oxytocin hormone. Thereby stimulating flesh to meet flesh.

Double problem if that woman first appears in the cloaks of a student.

Man, you're infatuated with her. You can deny it from now till infinity. And there is no big deal about that.

Call her. Tell her you just checking on her. If she returns with a bad energy you cut her off, if she flows with positive vibes you can both move from there.

As a reminder: Guys, never hesitate to make moves with a woman you like. Throw sexual innuendos. Touch her. Play with her. Make fun of her.

Thanks.

Thanks for your insight bro.

I'm just thinking about this now, I can think of all of the girls I've been friends with, is either we are having secs or I'm having repressed secsual desires for them, it's hard to just have a platonic relationship with the females the way I do with my fellow guys.

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

As I read through, I felt a sense of pity. Not for you, but for her. You've sent a through a rollercoaster of emotions, made her like you. Yet, you don't want to pull the trigger.

Lord knows how disappointed and frustrated she is. Right now, she wants to either be your friend with benefits(fùck buddy) or your girlfriend. If you don't want that, no point calling her or reading further. Because at this point from the way things went down, she's in her feelings so she can't be your friend.

However, if you want either of the two then read on further.

As you've rightly diagnosed, you have oneitis. But not just that. Your ego probably made you believe that since she's head over heels for you... she'll be obsessed she'll do anything (wait for you, buy you stuff, send you money)

Well, if you look at the foodstuffs in your house... you'll notice an expiry date. Likewise, lust, passion, attraction and obsession ALL have an expiry date. And if you fail to act when things are on... she'll get to resent you. And feel disappointed. Like you don't take her serious.

In your case, it's not clear if her feelings for you have expired. So you'll have to call to find out. Further down, I'll tell you how to go about it. But before then, I'd like to correct three notions.

First, Stoicism doesn't mean you shouldn't feel emotions. You're human so it's impossible not to feel. Even psychopaths feel. Only an idiòt will assume being stoic means not feeling anything. This is among the many reasons I see the redpill is a doctrine of half-truths.

Feel but don't overreact or let your emotions control you.

Secondly, with the way you seduced her along with the fact that you haven't had pre-intimacy with her... you can't be sure she's a virgin. I will not be surprised if you eventually find out she's not.

And lastly, if someone asked who ghosted who, she'll say you did. Girls are emotional blamers. And will blame you for virtually almost everything both good and bad.

Sweet seduction that leads to sex? He was just different. Bad date where she doesn't contribute to the convo? He was boring. Even if the fault or reason is from her... in her mind, she'll make you responsible.

In many ways, this can work in your favour. Right now, she's going through guilt and disappointment. Here's what what guys dont know: If a girl likes you or is just a bit interested and she delays in getting back to you... she starts to feel guilty. She'll wonder if you're angry. Or if you'll lash out at her. Or if you'll return the energy and not reply as well. So most just sit there feeling disappointed and annoyed at the situation till time passes.

That's why the right move at this moment is to call. How? Let's find out


>>>>>>>Your next Moves>>>>>>>>

Like I told you we're not sure if her feelings for you have expired.

But if they have, you can bring it back 95% of the time.

So how do we know?

● When you call her (not more than twice) just check up on her and see how she's doing.... if she says anything like "oh you now remember me" OR "like you even care" Just ask how she's doing... in a warm, caring way. Don't logically reply to those her comments. Just ignore and warmly ask how she's doing. This reaction means her feelings are almost expired completely. Probably just a few left

Now if she's cold with bad or negative energy, her feelings have expired completely. She's officially in the resentment spot. But don't take it seriously. Don't act angry or sad or feel bad. Warmly address how she's feeling and the situation without blaming yourself course. By blaming yourself, I mean don't say anything like "I wanted to call you" or "I should have called it's my fault. Basically don't say anything that blames you.

Just address the situation between you two... express how you don't like it because you actually fúck with her. At this point, she'll soften up or warm up a bit to a point where you can continue and steer the conversation towards you meeting her again.

Now, all of this is for if you still want her in your life as a FWB or girlfriend. Because she'll not accept to be just your friend. It's too late for that.

wahaladondey:
Gentlemen of the manosphere, I am about to ask one of the most timeless questions ever, I hope you all don’t mind that this question has been asked and answered countlessly and just try to help me in whatever capacity you can. Lately, I have found myself in one of the most socially packed communities, a school, I am aware that this is one of the few places game works efficiently because of the nature of its build and that is why I want to grasp this opportunity to boost my social life and skills but on every normal day I am a very introverted person, almost bordering on low self-esteem.

How do I start and maintain a conversation with a lady I find attractive? I am not the best conversationalist, I get fidgety and fear I might sound or look stupid whenever I engage in a conversation, externally I seem to exude some form of confidence but internally I’m usually just breaking down.

How do I steer the conversations in a more sexual direction? My hurtful degree of self awareness keeps a tight rope around what I feel I should be socially acceptable to say or not, it makes me not want to come across as offensive or perverted.

I want to build up on whatever advices I can get, make them practical and deliver results to this forum, thanks in anticipation.

I would further edit this post if I have more questions.

Karlifate
luminouz
Rizzputin
Martinez39s
Pukkalolo
Ubunja
and other real gees on this thread in no particular order.

Yes, you're right. Schools, universities and colleges are excellent places to improve your social skills and game.

And by game, I mean becoming a hook up material women desire to fúck.

Conversational management is a wide topic that a post won't do enough justice too.

But to get you something to start with... here are few rules to follow:


● Talk about celebrity gossips & relationships. And don't be shy to give your sexual and non-sexual opinions in a smooth way. For sexual example:

- NOT smooth: "Fùcking is a must in a relationship. I must fùck my girl tire."

- Smooth: "Relationships without sex just makes the spark to die off fast. It's always cool/fun when you can teach other things too. Don't you agree?"

● Don't act unsure of yourself and don't try to agree with her on everything. Feel free to genuinely disagree with her on issues

Even if you're eventually wrong on something, you can deflect it with humor or just ignore.

● Resist the urge to force similarities. Meaning, if she says she likes this food... don't be quick to always rush and say you like it too. She will feel like you're trying too hard

● Speak to girls with authority. Like your her boss. But more like a boss that cares about her. Not a wicked one


● Have a goal of fùcking her. Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"

I completely disagree with this. Seduction is largely about transfer of emotions. You want to transfer your emotions to her. That's why when you feel relaxed, she feels relaxed. You feel comfortable, she feels comfortable. And likewise, if you feel Hot, she feels Hot.

Picture yourself fùcking her while for a few seconds and show it in your reaction for like 3 seconds. Trust me, she will feel what your feeling. It's best to do this when the topic is non-sexual so you don't come off to strong

Another reason why I tell guys to have a goal in mind of fùcking her is that with time, your brain and body starts to filter out topics, reactions etc that don't help you achieve this goal.

Your brain will automatically switch to hook up mode. This how I'm able to sleep with girls fast regularly(within hours, days, weeks)

With time you'll be able to avoid topics that don't steer towards fùcking her.


● Pass all her shìt tests by simply ignoring or making fun of it. Once a girl starts testing you, you can bet she's interested. Simply act nonchalant, ignore and continue the conversation


● You must also test her too. Testing her shows you have standards. And every girl likes a man with standards


● Pay attention to her actions and body language more than her words. They never lie


● Frame is everything. Have a masculine frame with boundaries. Creating and maintaining boundaries brings respect. But don't be dictatorial about it. Meaning, don't create unrealistic and fóolish boundaries that make you look fake or try hard.

Frame is bigger than just masculine and dominance tho. If I don't post something on frames tonight... I'll do it within the
week

It's something for you to keep an eye out for.


● Understand that girls love and want to be seduced. Also, they're hoping that the next guy they meet will be one smooth, sweet guy they can act out their fantasies with.

They love sex. And want to get fùcked. A lot of them are Hot as hell. This should calm you a bit in your conversation. She likes and enjoys sex just as much as you. She might pretend at first but don't fall for it


● Never tell her you love her (in a serious way) or ask for relationship.

The ultimate female fantasy is to one day openly confess and express how much she likes a guy

By expressing your feelings first, you rob her of that fantasy and she punishes you with manipulation, Billing etc


There's a couple more of these but these should get you started in the right direction.

Along with other stuffs you've probably read already

Rizzputin:


Yes, you're right. Schools, universities and colleges are excellent places to improve your social skills and game.

And by game, I mean becoming a hook up material women desire to fúck.

Conversational management is a wide topic that a post won't do enough justice too.

But to get you something to start with... here are few rules to follow:


● Talk about celebrity gossips & relationships. And don't be shy to give your sexual and non-sexual opinions in a smooth way. For sexual example:

- NOT smooth: "Fùcking is a must in a relationship. I must fùck my girl tire."

- Smooth: "Relationships without sex just makes the spark to die off fast. It's always cool/fun when you can teach other things too. Don't you agree?"

● Don't act unsure of yourself and don't try to agree with her on everything. Feel free to genuinely disagree with her on issues

Even if you're eventually wrong on something, you can deflect it with humor or just ignore.

● Resist the urge to force similarities. Meaning, if she says she likes this food... don't be quick to always rush and say you like it too. She will feel like you're trying too hard

● Speak to girls with authority. Like your her boss. But more like a boss that cares about her. Not a wicked one


● Have a goal of fùcking her. Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"

I completely disagree with this. Seduction is largely about transfer of emotions. You want to transfer your emotions to her. That's why when you feel relaxed, she feels relaxed. You feel comfortable, she feels comfortable. And likewise, if you feel Hot, she feels Hot.

Picture yourself fùcking her while for a few seconds and show it in your reaction for like 3 seconds. Trust me, she will feel what your feeling. It's best to do this when the topic is non-sexual so you don't come off to strong

Another reason why I tell guys to have a goal in mind of fùcking her is that with time, your brain and body starts to filter out topics, reactions etc that don't help you achieve this goal.

Your brain will automatically switch to hook up mode. This how I'm able to sleep with girls fast regularly(within hours, days, weeks)

With time you'll be able to avoid topics that don't steer towards fùcking her.


● Pass all her shìt tests by simply ignoring or making fun of it. Once a girl starts testing you, you can bet she's interested. Simply act nonchalant, ignore and continue the conversation


● You must also test her too. Testing her shows you have standards. And every girl likes a man with standards


● Pay attention to her actions and body language more than her words. They never lie


● Frame is everything. Have a masculine frame with boundaries. Creating and maintaining boundaries brings respect. But don't be dictatorial about it. Meaning, don't create unrealistic and fóolish boundaries that make you look fake or try hard.

Frame is bigger than just masculine and dominance tho. If I don't post something on frames tonight... I'll do it within the
week

It's something for you to keep an eye out for.


● Understand that girls love and want to be seduced. Also, they're hoping that the next guy they meet will be one smooth, sweet guy they can act out their fantasies with.

They love sex. And want to get fùcked. A lot of them are Hot as hell. This should calm you a bit in your conversation. She likes and enjoys sex just as much as you. She might pretend at first but don't fall for it


● Never tell her you love her (in a serious way) or ask for relationship.

The ultimate female fantasy is to one day openly confess and express how much she likes a guy

By expressing your feelings first, you rob her of that fantasy and she punishes you with manipulation, Billing etc


There's a couple more of these but these should get you started in the right direction.

Along with other stuffs you've probably read already

Thanks boss

Rizzputin:


Yes, you're right. Schools, universities and colleges are excellent places to improve your social skills and game.

And by game, I mean becoming a hook up material women desire to fúck.

Conversational management is a wide topic that a post won't do enough justice too.

But to get you something to start with... here are few rules to follow:


● Talk about celebrity gossips & relationships. And don't be shy to give your sexual and non-sexual opinions in a smooth way. For sexual example:

- NOT smooth: "Fùcking is a must in a relationship. I must fùck my girl tire."

- Smooth: "Relationships without sex just makes the spark to die off fast. It's always cool/fun when you can teach other things too. Don't you agree?"

● Don't act unsure of yourself and don't try to agree with her on everything. Feel free to genuinely disagree with her on issues

Even if you're eventually wrong on something, you can deflect it with humor or just ignore.

● Resist the urge to force similarities. Meaning, if she says she likes this food... don't be quick to always rush and say you like it too. She will feel like you're trying too hard

● Speak to girls with authority. Like your her boss. But more like a boss that cares about her. Not a wicked one


● Have a goal of fùcking her. Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"

I completely disagree with this. Seduction is largely about transfer of emotions. You want to transfer your emotions to her. That's why when you feel relaxed, she feels relaxed. You feel comfortable, she feels comfortable. And likewise, if you feel Hot, she feels Hot.

Picture yourself fùcking her while for a few seconds and show it in your reaction for like 3 seconds. Trust me, she will feel what your feeling. It's best to do this when the topic is non-sexual so you don't come off to strong

Another reason why I tell guys to have a goal in mind of fùcking her is that with time, your brain and body starts to filter out topics, reactions etc that don't help you achieve this goal.

Your brain will automatically switch to hook up mode. This how I'm able to sleep with girls fast regularly(within hours, days, weeks)

With time you'll be able to avoid topics that don't steer towards fùcking her.


● Pass all her shìt tests by simply ignoring or making fun of it. Once a girl starts testing you, you can bet she's interested. Simply act nonchalant, ignore and continue the conversation


● You must also test her too. Testing her shows you have standards. And every girl likes a man with standards


● Pay attention to her actions and body language more than her words. They never lie


● Frame is everything. Have a masculine frame with boundaries. Creating and maintaining boundaries brings respect. But don't be dictatorial about it. Meaning, don't create unrealistic and fóolish boundaries that make you look fake or try hard.

Frame is bigger than just masculine and dominance tho. If I don't post something on frames tonight... I'll do it within the
week

It's something for you to keep an eye out for.


● Understand that girls love and want to be seduced. Also, they're hoping that the next guy they meet will be one smooth, sweet guy they can act out their fantasies with.

They love sex. And want to get fùcked. A lot of them are Hot as hell. This should calm you a bit in your conversation. She likes and enjoys sex just as much as you. She might pretend at first but don't fall for it


● Never tell her you love her (in a serious way) or ask for relationship.

The ultimate female fantasy is to one day openly confess and express how much she likes a guy

By expressing your feelings first, you rob her of that fantasy and she punishes you with manipulation, Billing etc


There's a couple more of these but these should get you started in the right direction.

Along with other stuffs you've probably read already

Thanks Gee

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

Sorry bro...
You see, doing the right thing at the right time can be so important that it overweight merit. You should have hit the iron while it's red. It always have to be sex before emotion or feelings. By bedding her when she was still over you, she would have been in your position right now, thinking about you all the time and how she could have been more nice to you.

Nevertheless, all hope aren't lost. She's just playing on your intelligence since there's nothing intimate between you two already. I would rather you call her, but just as friend, and not sound needy or desperate. Ask how she's fairing and don't let the call be more than 1mins. See what happens afterwards. If she calls or text back, then do the needful this time around, by defining your relationship with her. Women are good at games.

And as for the "virgin" part; you believed her because you're partially emotionally attached to her. Women are guilty until proven innocent. That's the mentality you should always have. If she says something, consider her guilty of it until she proves to be innocent.

You guys are doing well keep it up. And ignore all trolls

F1re:
What's up guys, trust you're doing fine.

There's this lady(27yo, virgin) in my School, I'm a Teacher by the way(23yo), that became very obsessed with me, we once met at a Tech event where I was part of the Speakers, we didn't talk then, till she came to my School for an assignment, she saw me and reintroduced herself to me, I was like 'oh okay, what's up?' you know trying to be friendly, we got talking about stuffs, she told me she wants to learn how to code and if I can help her out, I said Yes, because I have free time on my hands, so she started coming around and I started teaching her the basics, she collected my Mobile Number and chatted me up, at a point she kind of become obsessed with me, she's always the one to chat me up first, calls me and give me chocolate during our lessons and all, bro i started having feelings for her, but I keep them in check and just flow with her.

She then travelled to Abuja at a point and things slowed down, I wasn't invested in her that much so it didn't bother me much, after she came back we continued our lessons and all, mind you, these lessons are more like 30% lessons and 70% gists(Relationships, Sex, Marriage, Life in general), I'm a good conversationalist so I got her to open up to me and all.

Then something happened last week, which is the main reason I'm writing this, she came to my office and I was sent on errand, I told her to wait for me that I'll be back and all, she said she promised she will, I didn't even ask her to swear lols, but when I came back, I found out that she had left already, it hurt me so bad, I was surprised at myself like why I'm I hurt like this because of this little stuffs.

And from that day till today, she haven't call me, I didn't check my Whatsapp either from that day, because I decide to switch my Whatsapp line due to disturbance of other low value people on my contact list, but the point is, she ghosted me, and she didn't come to work(she's not a Teacher, kind of working with an NGO, so their work isn't obligatory like mine), I didn't call her either because there's no reason to.

Now, the problem is I can't get her out of my mind, I'm a big fan of Stoicism and I've got help from applying some of its concepts in my life, but this time around it's just difficult, my mind will just be wandering towards all the good times we had and the 'Stupid' mental projections I was having in my brain about us, I'll forever not gonna call her or text her though, but I want to forget about all of that and get back to work, like I was before she came into my life.

Also, I've never kissed or touched her, because I've got some principles I live by and I'm currently working on some stuffs that will put me out in public soon, I'm very careful about my reputation, I've also never spend a dime on her, she's even the one that was begging on buying me stuffs when she came back from Abuja the other time, had to decline the offer.

Is it scarcity mindset? I don't know, but I've never been the one to chase girls right out of secondary school, they always come to me, just that right now, I don't have an active social life and I'm all by myself so I don't have any girls around that I talk to.

What do y'all have to say about this.

I'll tag my favorite posters here: Pansophist, Karlifate, luminouz, smartb0y, reminderz, caveadullam, olamoses75, please I could use some of your help, thanks.

I pity you and pity indoctrination that is putting you into mental slavery, from time immemorial, wen man sees lady that he likes, he goes for her, if she accepts, fine and if she turns you down, u re not the first and you won't be the last........for people to be telling you acadabra of reverse nature,......only you would suffer for it in closet.

The lady in question, you are 'now' emotionally attached to her, (which is normal in human anatomy but some people would be playing the role of God that you err) having tried to open her heart for you. If you don't retrace ur step and quickly go for her, another sharp guy will hijack her and I pray the guy would be in ur vicinity in which you would be seeing them like Tommy & Jerry walking up and down the neighborhood, while you, would be turturing endlessly within emotionally.

Rizzputin:


● Have a goal of fùcking her. Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"

I completely disagree with this. Seduction is largely about transfer of emotions. You want to transfer your emotions to her. That's why when you feel relaxed, she feels relaxed. You feel comfortable, she feels comfortable. And likewise, if you feel Hot, she feels Hot.

When you said,

"Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"


I know you're indirectly referring to me, because we know already I often say, "stop being pussy focused, instead be attention focused"



I'm not surprised that some guys will disagree with me on this, because back in the days, I would also disagree with myself.


But when I got to a level of confidence, sexual experience and maturity, I understood that---

A true powerful guy doesn't think with his dick.

A true confident guy is not pussy focused.

A true dominant guy doesn't have a goal of fucking her, he has a different goal entirely.

You'll find out what that goal is in a moment....Read on.



When I tell some guys to stop being pussy focused and to stop thinking with their dicks, their emotions get triggered and they try to disagree with me just like you are doing now.


Well, it's not your fault, it's the society fault. The media and society have brain washed men to believe that a woman's pussy is a highly valuable commodity that must be chased and acquired. This is why most men think with their dicks.




Thinking with your díck" OR being "Focus on her pùssy happens to be the biggest roadblock preventing most guys from even getting the pussy.


Here's how....


If you've read Stephen R. Covey's The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. He talked about something which really resonate with this issue.


Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors out of your control, the more your degree of "influence" is going to decrease. And Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors that are within your direct control, the greater your degree of influence increases.


As man, having access to a woman's pussy is totally out your control because it's the woman that "decide" if you'll get the sex or not. Anything that a woman has to "agree to" or has some degree of decision-making power is NOT in your direct control.


When you focus on something(pussy) which is out of your control, that thing(pussy) controls you.


So if you're thinking with your díck OR you're focus on her pùssy, then she controls you.


If you've read the "THE POWER OF PUSSY" by Kathy.


In that book, she literally said "most guys are pussy focused, so if you want exploit, manipulate and control men, you have to leverage the power of your pussy. The tactics in that book is so devilish. The idea in the book is to get the man to think with his dick and focus on the pussy, because that's the only way the woman can manipulate and control him.


Isn't it funny how these generation of men is the weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because these generation of men think with their dicks and they value the pussy more than their time and self-respect.


One thing I discovered is that most times, the guy who is struggling to get the girl is struggling because he has the desperate goal of fùcking her. Because, to him fucking her is the prize to win, so he view getting the pussy as winning and he view NOT getting the pussy as losing.


To define winning by getting the pussy is putting your power and self-worth in the hands of the woman.


If a woman has the POWER to make you a winner or loser by simply giving you the pussy or NOT giving you, then she will use that power against you to toy with your emotions and manipulate you.



If you want to be truly POWERFUL with women and get them follow your lead as the leader, then you need to eradicate low value mindset.


Thinking with your dick or focusing on the pussy is a low value mindset.


You are not supposed be worried about getting the pussy. The woman should be the one worrying if she should give you the pussy or not.


Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to seduce and mate with the powerful guy.


As a guy, if you have to be the one to seduce her, then you're doing something fundamentally wrong.


A powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman because he's the GREAT CATCH to be won over. Instead he gives the woman the opportunity and chance to seduce him. It's the woman's job to seduce you.


Women are the ultimate seducers. But Women are not seducing because men are pussy focused, trying to seduce the women.


Look, the true Power lies with the one who is being seduced not the one seducing. In that case, True game is the ability to get the woman to be the seducer and chaser. She has to be the one craving for your attention; NOT you craving for her pussy.



Just yesterday, this dark cute lady literally told me, "if you make me your girlfriend, you are gonna enjoy me..." (I guess I have talked about how I met her somewhere on this thread where I was asked about the topic relating to "engaging in small talks vs having deep conversations with a good girl"


The other day another girl was telling me, "you this big head, I gave you my phone number but you never cared to even call me."


Again, Last week another lady was telling me, "you don't want me to come to your house, right?... A fine girl like me wants to visit you, you are doing shakara."



Now, the reason why these ladies are craving for my attention is because I'm not focus on their pussy. I treat their pussies like it worthless to me. This literally drives them crazy and get them confused because they rarely see a guy who's not thinking with his dick and doesn't give a fuvk flying about getting their pussies.





To wrap it up,


To win with women, the pussy has to naturally come to you; NOT you being focused on it or trying to calculatedly seduce your way to get it.


This is very important.


Treat women like humans, and not like some "pussy prize" or trophy to be won.


The GOAL is NOT to Bleep her. That's a childish goal. That kind of goal will make you feel WEAK and insecure because fucking her is not in your direct control.


Rather THE GOAL is to simply find out if she's truly interested you and if she's even worth your attention. That kind of goal will make you come across as mature, assertive and confident. Because you are treating your attention as the prize to be won, not her pussy.




Now, most guys won't quickly or easily grab all this concept have just written because they are not socially conditioned to think this way; instead they've been socially programmed to be focused on the pussy and to think with their dicks.


This is way deeper, and It will take some experience and paradigm shift before a guy can truly apply this mindset.


But just bookmark or save this page because I believe I have planted a seed in your mind; one day the seed with germinate and you'll experience a mindset shift and you will look back for this post and say, "Wow! Pukka was right all this while, a guy shouldn't be pussy focused."


Stay blessed.

Pukkalolo:


When you said,

"Some people will tell you not to "think with your díck" OR not to "Focus on her pùssy"


I know you're indirectly referring to me, because we know already I often say, "stop being pussy focused, instead be attention focused"



I'm not surprised that some guys will disagree with me on this, because back in the days, I would also disagree with myself.


But when I got to a level of confidence, sexual experience and maturity, I understood that---

A true powerful guy doesn't think with his dick.

A true confident guy is not pussy focused.

A true dominant guy doesn't have a goal of fucking her, he has a different goal entirely.

You'll find out what that goal is in a moment....Read on.



When I tell some guys to stop being pussy focused and to stop thinking with their dicks, their emotions get triggered and they try to disagree with me just like you are doing now.


Well, it's not your fault, it's the society fault. The media and society have brain washed men to believe that a woman's pussy is a highly valuable commodity that must be chased and acquired. This is why most men think with their dicks.




Thinking with your díck" OR being "Focus on her pùssy happens to be the biggest roadblock preventing most guys from even getting the pussy.


Here's how....


If you've read Stephen R. Covey's The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. He talked about something which really resonate with this issue.


Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors out of your control, the more your degree of "influence" is going to decrease. And Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors that are within your direct control, the greater your degree of influence increases.


As man, having access to a woman's pussy is totally out your control because it's the woman that "decide" if you'll get the sex or not. Anything that a woman has to "agree to" or has some degree of decision-making power is NOT in your direct control.


When you focus on something(pussy) which is out of your control, that thing(pussy) controls you.


So if you're thinking with your díck OR you're focus on her pùssy, then she controls you.


If you've read the "THE POWER OF PUSSY" by Kathy.


In that book, she literally said "most guys are pussy focused, so if you want exploit, manipulate and control men, you have to leverage the power of your pussy. The tactics in that book is so devilish. The idea in the book is to get the man to think with his dick and focus on the pussy, because that's the only way the woman can manipulate and control him.


Isn't it funny how these generation of men is the weakest and least respected by women. One reason for that is because these generation of men think with their dicks and they value the pussy more than their time and self-respect.


One thing I discovered is that most times, the guy who is struggling to get the girl is struggling because he has the desperate goal of fùcking her. Because, to him fucking her is the prize to win, so he view getting the pussy as winning and he view NOT getting the pussy as losing.


To define winning by getting the pussy is putting your power and self-worth in the hands of the woman.


If a woman has the POWER to make you a winner or loser by simply giving you the pussy or NOT giving you, then she will use that power against you to toy with your emotions and manipulate you.



If you want to be truly POWERFUL with women and get them follow your lead as the leader, then you need to eradicate low value mindset.


Thinking with your dick or focusing on the pussy is a low value mindset.


You are not supposed be worried about getting the pussy. The woman should be the one worrying if she should give you the pussy or not.


Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to seduce and mate with the powerful guy.


As a guy, if you have to be the one to seduce her, then you're doing something fundamentally wrong.


A powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman because he's the GREAT CATCH to be won over. Instead he gives the woman the opportunity and chance to seduce him. It's the woman's job to seduce you.


Women are the ultimate seducers. But Women are not seducing because men are pussy focused, trying to seduce the women.


Look, the true Power lies with the one who is being seduced not the one seducing. In that case, True game is the ability to get the woman to be the seducer and chaser. She has to be the one craving for your attention; NOT you craving for her pussy.



Just yesterday, this dark cute lady literally told me, "if you make me your girlfriend, you are gonna enjoy me..." (I guess I have talked about how I met her somewhere on this thread where I was asked about the topic relating to "engaging in small talks vs having deep conversations with a good girl"


The other day another girl was telling me, "you this big head, I gave you my phone number but you never cared to even call me."


Again, Last week another lady was telling me, "you don't want me to come to your house, right?... A fine girl like me wants to visit you, you are doing shakara."



Now, the reason why these ladies are craving for my attention is because I'm not focus on their pussy. I treat their pussies like it worthless to me. This literally drives them crazy and get them confused because they rarely see a guy who's not thinking with his dick and doesn't give a fuvk flying about getting their pussies.





To wrap it up,


To win with women, the pussy has to naturally come to you; NOT you being focused on it or trying to calculatedly seduce your way to get it.


This is very important.


Treat women like humans, and not like some "pussy prize" or trophy to be won.


The GOAL is NOT to Bleep her. That's a childish goal. That kind of goal will make you feel WEAK and insecure because fucking her is not in your direct control.


Rather THE GOAL is to simply find out if she's truly interested you and if she's even worth your attention. That kind of goal will make you come across as mature, assertive and confident. Because you are treating your attention as the prize to be won, not her pussy.




Now, most guys won't quickly or easily grab all this concept have just written because they are not socially conditioned to think this way; instead they've been socially programmed to be focused on the pussy and to think with their dicks.


This is way deeper, and It will take some experience and paradigm shift before a guy can truly apply this mindset.


But just bookmark or save this page because I believe I have planted a seed in your mind; one day the seed with germinate and you'll experience a mindset shift and you will look back for this post and say, "Wow! Pukka was right all this while, a guy shouldn't be pussy focused."


Stay blessed.

Pay very close attention to every word that follows because you seem to greatly misunderstand my point and also what seduction is all about.

But I understand, it's common for guys to swing from one view to another as their experience increases until they land at a more realistic and accurate view point.

Now, let me address your opinions so we don't have a misunderstanding in the future. And so not only but others have a strong grasp of what seduction is. Btw, your comment just gave me an idea to write on Myths and lies of Alpha male & Red pill. You are repeating some of their talking points and I'll address them here but in much detail later.

So, let's dive in shall we....


●<<I know you're indirectly referring to me, because we know already I often say, "stop being pussy focused, instead be attention focused">>

Not just you. The theme of not focusing on pùssy has been beaten to death by alpha male and red piller alike.

What you and them don't realise are such rules for beginners in the game. Why? Because men new to seduction will think about pùssy and get desperate.

A true master has had so much pùssy that he can break those rules. I can think about fùcking a girl or rather, her wanting to fùck me and still keep my cool.

Yes, I want to fùck her but I'm perfectly fine if it doesn't happen. That's the vibe you convey. Hiding your díck behind things like "focus on attention not pussy" is a sign of weakness.

She's not an idìot. She knows the reason why you're talking to her is that you find her sexually attractive. You don't have to hide it. You show it without looking desperate. This is something beginners find it hard to do that's why they're advised not to focus on it


But with time and experience, you can totally focus on it. Then test her to see if she meets your standards. Be aware that you thinking of fùcking her doesn't mean you'll give her the pleasure of doing it.

She might fail to meet your standards and in that case, you simply next her.



● <<<A true powerful guy doesn't think with his dick.

A true confident guy is not pussy focused.

A true dominant guy doesn't have a goal of fucking her, he has a different goal entirely. >>>


Here we go again with more alpha male rhetoric. Well, news flash.... girls know when you play these unnecessary games to look tough or alpha. She's not buying it.

While you're busy trying to look "powerful" She's getting dug out by a smooth guy who knows how to move fast without breaking things.

Many alpha male guys today are so obsessed with respect and looking tough, they've become a slave to it.

Recently, I had a girl tell me about a guy who didn't "double text" she liked the guy but I double texted her and not long after we fùcked ourselves in her apartment

I'll repeat again: You get so good at something you break the rules. Masters get good enough they break rules beginners religiously follow with little to no consequences

Another useless rule I've seen parroted about is "if she takes 10 mins to reply, you take 30 mins" LOL. I could care less. I do not pay attention to such nonsense because it's not important.

And girls know when you play these unnecessary childish games. The main thing that matters is compliance. That is, when she responds does she do so in a way that moves the relationship forward AND when you tell her to see you, does she come out to do so. Every other thing is noise.


●<<<<< If you've read Stephen R. Covey's The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People. He talked about something which really resonate with this issue. >>>


Stephen Covey is good for leadership not seduction. It surprises me when guys learn from people who are not living the life they want.

He's not someone who is proficient as seducing women. Some of His advice on leadership might overlap into seduction but he will miss SO MANY nuances you can only gain from experience.



● <<<<<Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors out of your control, the more your degree of "influence" is going to decrease. And Covey says that the more you concentrate on factors that are within your direct control, the greater your degree of influence increases.>>>>


This is a very poor translation of what "factors in your control or not" means in seduction.

This is what it actually means:

Factors out of your control: How many guys in her life, her mood when she wakes up in the morning, your natural looks & genetics.

Factors in your control: Your confidence, your conversational & seduction skills, your game, how you react to things, your standards.



● <<<<"most guys are pussy focused, so if you want exploit, manipulate and control men, you have to leverage the power of your pussy.>>>

What this means is to NOT be desperate.

When I say focus on pùssy, I mean not trying to be her friend or trying to please her or trying enter meaningless mind games with her.

Focus pussy means becoming a hook up material. Meaning, you want to fùck. And she wants to fùck. All you do is to channel her desire to fùck to you. That is seduction.


● <<<One thing I discovered is that most times, the guy who is struggling to get the girl is struggling because he has the desperate goal of fùcking her>>>

Desperation is NOT the same desire. You desire to fùck and if done right, she will feel it and want it to.

This Is NOT the same as desperation. A real man(think seducer) owns and expresses his desires but he is NOT desperate about it.


● <<<<<Your job is to be at your most powerful behavior. Her job is to seduce and mate with the powerful guy.


As a guy, if you have to be the one to seduce her, then you're doing something fundamentally wrong.


A powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman because he's the GREAT CATCH to be won over. Instead he gives the woman the opportunity and chance to seduce him. It's the woman's job to seduce you>>>>


You guys really love this "powerful guy" thing as a way to stroke your ego.

Saying a powerful guy doesn't seduce the woman is the type of crap that prevents men from actually leading and being proactive

Seduction is a dance between two people. She seduces you with her charm, feminine energy AND you seduce her with your masculine presence, leadership and charm as well.

You are both seducing each other because you are both interested. The reason why the focus is on the man as the seducer is because he has to lead. He has to lead the conversation, the vibe, the energy, the progress.

If he doesn't lead, nothing will happen. That is why the ball is on the man's court to make it happen.

Seduction is like a game. You are both dancers and players in that game
You both have to seduce each other. She looks at you and makes eye contact, the game starts. That's her attempt to seduce you. You walk up to her and talk to her ... you've subtly declared interested and you start seducing her. This dance will continue subtly under YOUR leadership as a man till you fùck her

Desperation is when you don't also give her the chance to seduce you as well.


● <<<<The other day another girl was telling me, "you this big head, I gave you my phone number but you never cared to even call me.">>>

I'm not going to copy out the rest of others.

But This is another myth I'll be talking about in detail. You are obsessed with Reactions over Results.

Any experienced seducer will tell you that all of these don't matter. She can tell you this and the moment you call or text she runs away.

She can ask why you haven't invited her over only for her to decline when you do so. All these you wrote are called: "Reactions"

Sure, they can be helpful but they are largely meaningless because the main result that matters is: Fùcking her.

Every other thing is noise.

Oh wow she replied fast to your text. She's chasing you hard. She's asking about your day. She wants to come visit. She gives you money. These are all Reactions. Yes, positive ones. But they are not a guarantee of the result: fùcking her.

Getting hung up on them like real progress is amateurish. I've experienced more times than I can count that I'm not moved

Girls have told me "I'm obsessed with you" "You're like a guy from all these sex novels... I can't wait till I kiss you"

I am barely moved. Why? Because those are just Reactions.

Seduction is truly complete when you fùck her. Do you know why? Because it is only after you've fùcked a girl that she starts to really tell you the truth about herself. Even if you're a non judgmental person before sleeping with her... you will be surprised at the extra things she'll tell you after sleeping together.


Also, the reason why you get these "Reactions" is because you're probably in a school environment or work place where she gets to see you over and over again probably with other girls.

It's fine. Social proof is a blessing. But there are other guys moving faster and banging her because they're more intuitive and have a killer mindset.

You also wouldn't have this Lee way if you lived in the city where social proof is tougher to create. Attraction would have gone cold in your attempt to stay "powerful"

● <<<<Now, the reason why these ladies are craving for my attention is because I'm not focus on their pussy>>>

While they are craving your attention, they're craving another man's dìck and sucking it.

Again, craving your attention is a reaction. Seduction is for her craving your dìck inside her.

● <<<Treat women like humans, and not like some "pussy prize" or trophy to be won.>>

Wanting to fùck a woman is treating her like a human. Because she has sexual needs that wants to be satisfied.

You being able to recognise is seeing her as a real sexual human. And she'll appreciate you for it.

I'll be writing a thread on "Meaningless dìck" to explain this further for you


● <<<Rather THE GOAL is to simply find out if she's truly interested you and if she's even worth your attention>>>

The goal of seduction is to fùck her. You are certainly not talking to her to see if she'll be a good table tennis partner.

You're talking to her to if she's worthy of enough to be your fùck partner.

Finding out if she's truly interested in you or if she's worth your attention are ways to achieve that goal.


Anyways, all of these should help you reorganise your mindset on what really matters in seduction

Because it all starts from the mind. And thoughts become things eventually

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