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I have an issue with my girlfriend, my girl have a quarry with her brother, she insulted her senior brother so the guy get angry and beat her, and I was there that day, so I settled the issue between them, then I said that if they live her that she is going to spoil, saying that what she did was not good, she heard it and become very angry with me, her eye was very read and she insisted me by eyeing me, so I got angry and shouted at her telling her not to try that again, seems that day we have not tolk to each other again, she was telling her friend that she didn't like what I did that day, that I should have told her that wath she did was bad in her face, not in her back that she do not like that, what should I do now, should I go and apologize to her to forgive me and save the relationship, or should I just forget about her and move on, because she is so stubborn and she doesn't like to apologise when she is rough she always want me to come and apologize, because I really love the girl

I have not heard her own side of the story. But let me say something, assuming you are honest here.

She should calm down. You didn't gossip about her. You only spoke to her own family. Why is she furious as if you told outsiders her faults? Did she expect you to leave her family and speak to her first before going to speak with her family? That expectation will be right if you didn't witness the quarrel. You witnessed the quarrel and had to intervene immediately.

But I don't support you saying that she will spoil if she is left. That statement is wrong. There are better ways to express your observations. Try to apologize to her for that particular statement.

As for her claim that you should have directly told her her faults instead of doing so in her absence, the claim is false because you said whatever it is during an immediate intervention and you said it to her family, not after the quarrel or to outsiders. Her claim will be true if you later met her and didn't tell her what you said to her family in her absence.

What of if I try to apologise to her and she insult me, what will I do, because she is very stubborn o

If it’s completely her fault, then just hold you horses and watch what is going to happen as time passes by

Them still dey beat your girlfriend for house And you say you're dating an adult? ...

I don't think that adult means anything when it love issue, love and understanding is all that matters

Better pay more attention to your life than that crap you call relationship because you're not mentally fit for it going by the things you wrote.

Kokorokomaster1:
What of if I try to apologise to her and she insult me, what will I do, because she is very stubborn o

sit down and ask yourself,what are you benefiting from this stubborn girl,apart from her stubborn pussy what else will make you crawl on your knees to beg such girl,this is time for you to stand and take control as a man,if she cannot come and beg you just forget her,if you dare go and beg then you are as common as a chicken to her

Kokorokomaster1:
I have an issue with my girlfriend, my girl have a quarry with her brother, she insulted her senior brother so the guy get angry and beat her, and I was there that day, so I settled the issue between them, then I said that if they live her that she is going to spoil, saying that what she did was not good, she heard it and become very angry with me, her eye was very read and she insisted me by eyeing me, so I got angry and shouted at her telling her not to try that again, seems that day we have not tolk to each other again, she was telling her friend that she didn't like what I did that day, that I should have told her that wath she did was bad in her face, not in her back that she do not like that, what should I do now, should I go and apologize to her to forgive me and save the relationship, or should I just forget about her and move on, because she is so stubborn and she doesn't like to apologise when she is rough she always want me to come and apologize, because I really love the girl

Red flag.