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I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Hushbingo(m): 12:54pm On Dec 09, 2020
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by YoonSung70: 1:01pm On Dec 09, 2020
let me take a sit

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by DukeJoe17: 1:03pm On Dec 09, 2020
Let her go and have peace.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by UndauntedYOCA(f): 1:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
No matter the investment, never stay in a relationship that's full of pretence, cheating and lies if the person isn't willing to change. Also, you might need working on yourself as well because it seems you've turned to something else as well and the next lady you date might suffer for it.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by BaddieFreak(f): 1:12pm On Dec 09, 2020
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by donbachi(m): 1:14pm On Dec 09, 2020
Why beat,when u can just walk away..let her go..then,u suffer heartbreak for few months.than spend all ur life in prison.from she cheating u into provocation.and she dies in ur hands.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Kondomatic(m): 1:17pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her.
What you're saying here unknowingly is that women are for sale and you can do whatever you want with them after payment and change of ownership.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by BaddieFreak(f): 1:19pm On Dec 09, 2020
Kondomatic:
What you're saying here unknowingly is that women are for sale and you can do whatever you want you with them after payment and change of ownership.

What I mean is that he can't claim that she is cheating since she is not yet married to him, she has to keep her options open especially if the man in question hasn't showed her that he is ready for a long term relationship.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Ishilove: 1:28pm On Dec 09, 2020
You even beat her till she lost consciousness...

Na wa for this generation of world people

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Themainboy22: 1:34pm On Dec 09, 2020
You discovered she's been cheating, but you are not smart enough to discover that she belongs to the street. The day you killed her, probably that's when the illusion you called "love" will clear from your eyes. If you like don't let her go, stay there and be forming love, I will stay here to read your news on NL front page.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Bola146(f): 1:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

Gbam!!!! A chilled bottle of Baron and hot pizza for you

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Kobicove(m): 1:45pm On Dec 09, 2020
So what do you want from us?

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by cristy149: 2:15pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
i follow you from whatsapp group come here haahah grin grin grin grin
but anyway niqqa, forfeit your investment and leave that girl before she ruins your sanity

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by hashtagged(m): 2:19pm On Dec 09, 2020
Clap for yourself you just beat up a lady undecided if she cheated send her packing not trying to show us you have power, go and beat your fellow man or follow the rules of only hit a lady to full content when she is f00lish enough to hit first

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by kkins25(m): 2:35pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.
this is the only thing i saw and suggest- strongly that the girl dumps your gorilla ass.
#commissioner of women beaters.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by DaddyRochie1642(f): 3:31pm On Dec 09, 2020
Themainboy22:
You discovered she's been cheating, but you are not smart enough to discover that she belongs to the street. They day you killed her, probably that's when the illusion you called "love" will clear from your eyes. If you like don't let her go, stay there and be forming love, I will stay here to read your news on NL front page.



grin grin grin

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by MANNABBQGRILLS: 3:36pm On Dec 09, 2020
..........she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Alaaye, calm down jor,
'She's not your girlfriend, it's just your time!'.

But one thing we are going to advise you on seriously is that,
Please, Please, Please, NEVER raise your hands on her or any woman again biko.
What if she slumps, hit her head on the table or wall and die in the process of you beating her?
Please be careful next time.
There are many ways to deal with a wayward girl and beating is never one of those ways.

Meanwhile........

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by revived: 3:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
Lol
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by KBdownloads(m): 3:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
The earlier you accept the fact that your girl is a common garden tool the better, you either live with it, or accept your losses and dump her

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Dominion202: 3:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
Op u must be crazyyyyy I swear
God has revealed to you who she is, yet you don't want to leave her despite the fact that u know she is a pvssy distributor (Animashaun) is enuff for you to free her.
What is the essence of a beauty with no dignity or good character.


Yoruba people will say "obirin to yale bi o pa rare yio pa oko" meaning "if adultery woman don't kill herself, she will rather kill her husband"


Op use your brain in this issue and don't let you dick think for you.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by urchcoded(m): 3:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
you know already that she doesn't need you, rather you need her. so you can't break her heart, neither can you get back at her, so anything you do now you are doing for yourself. my best advice is that you let her go be the hoe she wants to be and stop spending on her.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by dyera: 3:37pm On Dec 09, 2020
The girl is a beautiful unmarried adult and you can't prevent her from seeing other men. Your attempt to use violence to control her action is very wrong. If you are unwilling to share her with other men, then you should do the needful and end your relationship with her.

I tell you that there is nothing you can do to stop a girl that has a habit of seeing other men. Even a married woman is free to have an affair, she will not be breaking any law by doing so.

If you are not comfortable with this girl seeing other men, you breakup with her. If you something damaging to her because she is seeing other men while in a relationship with you, she has the right to put you in jail.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by IFSHR: 3:38pm On Dec 09, 2020
The topics hitting FP today get as hin be.

Hey Op, having read your script, just continue being brutal , one day she will slip to a fatal unconscious state due to your beatings, and you will be sentenced to life in prison, since you fear if you break up with her Someone else will have her.


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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by yrex01(m): 3:38pm On Dec 09, 2020
I didn't beat mine, I make sure I chased all her bestie n side guy away, make sure she has no one but me sotey babe introduced me to her mom n family. Babe can't go 4hrs a day without calling me but before if I no call we no talk. After I make sure she's so obsessed bout me, I broke up by telling her friends say I no do again make em epp me tell her. Mumu sick for months.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Houseofglam7(f): 3:38pm On Dec 09, 2020
undecided
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by sammirano: 3:38pm On Dec 09, 2020
This is becoming irritating and unbearable to read. Guys what is happening? I'm always of the opionion of dating a lady you have absolute influence and control over, and not someone you literally worship the ground they step upon.

You are lamenting you dont want to leave cos someone else will just takeover. Hilarious.. Is some people not already doing it now with her. You guys are the achitect of your own problems, you reverend a lady's body above and beyond where it should and the society makes it worse.

You have sold your birth rights. Now it's a guy that worries while d ladies sleep on.

Well, I won't advise cos you won't take it.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by slawormiir: 3:39pm On Dec 09, 2020
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....
Continue acting like a pussy ass niggarr
Be a real niggarr and move on

real niggarrrrs don't do love and relationship real niggarr see women as swimming pool..real niggarrrrs own na to swim shaperly and move on

We don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
We don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before we started swimming
We don't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after we are done swimming our own
And we don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with us as we are swimming
We just swim our own sharpely and move on.
real niggarrrz bang pussy and move on.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Neddstark: 3:39pm On Dec 09, 2020
With everything I read here I am quite dissapointed with you. Why will you hit a woman you have not gotten married to? If she wants to cheat, simply know she is the cheating type and leave. Hitting her makes no difference. She is not a child. If you cannot put your anger into words you have no business dating. Many are in maximum prisons because they could not restrain their anger when they realized their partner was cheating.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Akada2020: 3:39pm On Dec 09, 2020
Una don mad finish for this Forum.... which kind kabukabu story be this

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by ANTONINEUTRON(m): 3:40pm On Dec 09, 2020
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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by chinchonglee(m): 3:40pm On Dec 09, 2020
Ishilove:
You even beat her till she lost consciousness...

Na wa for this generation of world people
Make we hear word abeg!

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