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Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Ilamina(f): 8:05pm On Mar 18 |
This my uncles wife house girl Said she wants too look for another job or go back to her village. Because the new punishment, her igbo madam , gave her, is too painful The madam said no food in the morning for the house girl She eats ard 1pm everyday Imagine working hard in the morning, you still dont get to eat 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by EreluRoz: 8:07pm On Mar 18 |
Especially anambra women 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Yugoslavia247(m): 8:18pm On Mar 18 |
Now if one reads this it appears like you are reasonable. I have lived among hausa people too and a lot of them treat house maid with disdain Same Yoruba And Igbo The one common thing you refuse to outline is that they are all women. It is safe to say women are wicked when given little power. Nonsense 12 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 8:26pm On Mar 18 |
Yugoslavia247: And what is the useless head of the home doing when the house girl is maltreated? You're both culpable. 5 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 8:31pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: He has a point. Women maltreat housemaids a lot. They only care about their kids. Funny how i was discussing this same issue with a friend today and she said it's the way women are wired. 6 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 8:35pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: I'm not disputing that. But what is the so-called head of the house doing? You know he is also culpable right? |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 8:59pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon:What can a man do? Before she change am for me. You know how you guys pass aggression. 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 9:08pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: What can a man do? Aren't you supposed to be a leader and head of the home? 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Exceed15: 9:09pm On Mar 18 |
That's true. Very wicked women. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 9:14pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: In the first instance, I can't marry a woman that maltreats other people's kid. I will send her packing. I also don't support child labor. 5 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 9:51pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Why should you have other people's kids living with you? Why don't these so called head of the households put their foot down? |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by danvon(m): 9:58pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: It's now he's the head of the house? What happened to equality and feminine power (responsibility).... If he interferes it would make things worse for the maid, it would be implied that he has some sexual attraction to her and that would worsen her situation, besides the maid would become a woman one day and if she has anyone working beneath her she will most likely replicate the cruelty. It's a feminine cycle of cruelty 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 9:59pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: Life and circumstances. People who send their kids away often have no option. When i was little. My mum's sister kids were living with us. The way my mum catered for them, everyone just assumed they were my sisters and not cousins. Long story short, my mum is now late and my cousins are all grown up and married. They never stop talking about my mom, the bond we have is really strong, i treat their kids like mine. Love transcends generations if it's genuine. Life can happen to anyone. If you find someone cohabiting with you, please treat em well. No one knows tomorrow. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Truvelisback(m): 10:00pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon:The head may be busy at work and may not know what's going on. She might pretend to be nice to her when the head is around. Don't you see the same in Nollywood movies?😔 5 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:01pm On Mar 18 |
danvon: Why should you have them in the first place and not put your foot down when you see the maid being maltreated? In the eyes of the law, both of you are culpable, stop making excuses. Invest in extra gadgets instead of maltrating people's children. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:02pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Invest in extra gadgets. There is no need for maids. Both of you are guilty if you sit back and do nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:03pm On Mar 18 |
Truvelisback: So he doesn't see the scars and how haggard the maid looks? 2 Likes |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 10:04pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: Gadgets will babysit your kids when you both go to work or need time out right? Gadgets will do laundry, cleaning and other household chores when you're both busy right? 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Truvelisback(m): 10:05pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon:She might lie about it. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:06pm On Mar 18 |
Truvelisback: Oh and the haggard appearance? Stop making excuses abeg. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:09pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Put your kids with a proper babysitter and don't be cheap. Nothing like househelps abroad. You will learn. I see how you're saying they can both be busy, yet you guys will turn around to say women own maids because they're lazy. Okay now. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Truvelisback(m): 10:14pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon:Some men know but are helpless about it because of the reaction of the wives. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 10:14pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: Are you a mother? Or yet to be? The babysitter can be anyone. Let's be practical. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:18pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Okay now. I see why children get abused. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 10:18pm On Mar 18 |
Truvelisback: A man helpless? Okay now. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 10:19pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: You're making things hard for yourself. If you like don't employ a maid or babysitter. Na you sabi. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by danvon(m): 10:19pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: What law are you talking about, i remember all the different punishment I endured in my school for crimes I didn't commit (usually by women), police officers make arrest sometimes without probable cause, soldiers beat people up for the tiniest excuse, the soldiers were themselves beaten up for the tiniest excuse during their training... The point is, the law sees all this maltreatment going on and it does nothing why? "Because we were only trying to discipline them and teach them a good life lesson" That is the excuse the women will give in court and since the female lawyers are themselves guilty of this the women will most likely get a free ticket. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Truvelisback(m): 10:22pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon:Yes, some women are aggressive and may bring up a fight or quarrel because that. Some men being gentle, may overlook somethings for peace to reign in the home. |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 11:15pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Oh really I should employ a maid and then you'll turn around to call women lazy? |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 11:16pm On Mar 18 |
Truvelisback: In other words they give out their birth rights to women. 1 Like |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by Negroid001(m): 11:19pm On Mar 18 |
1Sharon: Don't like stressing my woman. No one is lazy, nothing bad with having a helping hand. Gone are the days women work like jackals. Na soft life i want for my baby girl. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Igbo Women Not Treating Their House Girls Well by 1Sharon(f): 11:33pm On Mar 18 |
Negroid001: Oh really? Werent you complaining about having to provide for women, when did this turn around happen? 1 Like 1 Share |
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