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Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by ayjay45(op): 8:09pm On Mar 24, 2024
As a male youth from 19 to 35 ...............
Life is daunting. Unless you have a rich or wealthy family that can save you.

Why does it have to be so. Is that how God prefer things. For people to suffer ruthlessly.
What is the way out.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by thesicilian: 8:12pm On Mar 24, 2024
ayjay45:
As a male youth from 19 to 35 ...............
Life is daunting. Unless you have a rich or wealthy family that can save you.

Why does it have to be so. Is that how God prefer things. For people to suffer ruthlessly.
What is the way out.
You're right
The way out is either to work your ass off to become wealthy or go into crime
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by ayjay45(op): 8:27pm On Mar 24, 2024
thesicilian:
You're right
The way out is either to work your ass off to become wealthy or go into crime
shocked right?

Your background also plays a role in determining how far you go in life regardless of hardwork.

Or is that not true
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 8:31pm On Mar 24, 2024
Life is for the rich is hard too...


Have you seen donal Trump's son, that young one ... Take a look at him and tell me if you see happiness .

Even if you have financial freedom, you still have to deal with a lot of things that money is useless against...

Take Micheal Jackson for instance ... He lived a hard life regardless of his wealth. And the list goes on.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by thesicilian: 8:33pm On Mar 24, 2024
ayjay45:
shocked right?

Your background also plays a role in determining how far you go in life regardless of hardwork.

Or is that not true
Yeah, it's true.
Although few people can overcome the influence of background, most people can't
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by nifemi25(m): 8:34pm On Mar 24, 2024
If you weren't born from a rich family, life has started leading you....if you got no connections also.. life has won first round of your life....
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by T0BY(m): 8:36pm On Mar 24, 2024
We will make it too. Those that have hustled and gained financial independence don't have two heads.

While working hard and smartly, also pray for grace because is important.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 8:39pm On Mar 24, 2024
Hardworking is no longer paying hence things becoming hard, people should adjust to brainworking and see the difference.

Being born poor or rich don't make any difference as we mostly go through same predicament just in different forms
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by vizkiz: 8:40pm On Mar 24, 2024
Franzinni:
Life is for the rich is hard too...


Have you seen donal Trump's son, that young one ... Take a look at him and tell me if you see happiness .

Even if you have financial freedom, you still have to deal with a lot of things that money is useless against...

Take Micheal Jackson for instance ... He lived a hard life regardless of his wealth. And the list goes on.
i will gladly choose a Donald Trump kindda rich and stay unhappy. The fuçk you talking about?
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 8:43pm On Mar 24, 2024
vizkiz:
i will gladly choose a Donald Trump kindda rich and stay unhappy. The fuçk you talking about?
we all want what we don't have ... Then we have it and realize we can't stop wanting ... Becasue when you spend your time wanting you never find time to appreciate what you have.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by vizkiz: 8:45pm On Mar 24, 2024
Franzinni:
we all want what we don't have ... Then we have it and realize we can't stop wanting ... Becasue when you spend your time wanting you never find time to appreciate what you have.
lol... Nobody is happy being poor
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 8:45pm On Mar 24, 2024
vizkiz:
i will gladly choose a Donald Trump kindda rich and stay unhappy. The fuçk you talking about?
Go and listen to Justin Bieber lonely, then you will understand the Depression and anxiety that comes with money and fame .
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 8:49pm On Mar 24, 2024
vizkiz:
lol... Nobody is happy being poor
some are ... You know poverty is relative. A man who makes 400k a month might feel rich compared to one who makes 60k but to someone like dangote they both don't even register ... But don't be surprised that dude making 60k is living a joyous and robust life becasue he is contented with his present situation while he strives for a better future... You see most people suffer in life because they live their life in the past or the future ... So they fail to see the only thing you have is now ...
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 8:52pm On Mar 24, 2024
Franzinni:
some are ... You know poverty is relative. A man who makes 400k a month might feel rich compared to one who makes 60k but to someone like dangote they both don't even register ... But don't be surprised that dude making 60k is living a joyous and robust life becasue he is contented with his present situation while he strives for a better future... You see most people suffer in life because they live their life in the past or the future ... So they fail to see the only thing you have is now ...
There is misconception about being rich. You don't need to have N100m before feeling rich, if you have taken care of important things, even if it's just N50k left in your account, you would feel rich like Jeff Bezoz.

We priorities our expenses on things that are not generating income for us, while neglecting the important things
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by vizkiz: 8:54pm On Mar 24, 2024
Franzinni:
some are ... You know poverty is relative. A man who makes 400k a month might feel rich compared to one who makes 60k but to someone like dangote they both don't even register ... But don't be surprised that dude making 60k is living a joyous and robust life becasue he is contented with his present situation while he strives for a better future... You see most people suffer in life because they live their life in the past or the future ... So they fail to see the only thing you have is now ...
A man who is happy earning 60k has no future goals cuz that shit can't even sustain nobody for a week. 400k monthly isn't even you being comfortable cuz BILLS grin

Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 8:56pm On Mar 24, 2024
vizkiz:
A man who is happy earning 60k has no future goals cuz that shit can't even sustain nobody for a week. 400k monthly isn't even you being comfortable cuz BILLS grin

bro I get you but like I said ... Perspective ....

There is no price on happiness , it's free
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 8:58pm On Mar 24, 2024
helinues:
There is misconception about being rich. You don't need to have N100m before feeling rich, if you have taken care of important things, even if it's just N50k left in your account, you would feel rich like Jeff Bezoz.

We priorities our expenses on things that are not generating income for us, while neglecting the important things
baba God bless you ... That is my point ! .... You are wise Sir.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by vizkiz: 9:01pm On Mar 24, 2024
Franzinni:
bro I get you but like I said ... Perspective ....

There is no price on happiness , it's free
If you take a dodge challenger on a spin, you'll be happy. I promise you.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by superintendents(m): 9:02pm On Mar 24, 2024
money no dey bring happiness, money no dey bring Happiness.. Blah blah blah..

Make i get the money Abeg
undecided

undecided

Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by tochez24(m): 9:03pm On Mar 24, 2024
helinues:
Go and listen to Justin Bieber lonely, then you will understand the Depression and anxiety that comes with money and fame .
Go and sit down oga⚠️

Is it the poor that's not depressedhuh

Omo depression get levels, depressed person wey dey for Bugatti nor be the same thing with depressed person wey dey live for one room face me i face you🙄

I was born in the gutters, i grew up lacking almost all the good thing of life.... So i understand how it feels to be poor, now things are better for me, there's no depression i can get now to compare with my childhood trauma!!!!!
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by JustPowerApps(m): 9:04pm On Mar 24, 2024
Life is really not fair to everyone, different folks with different strokes.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Franzinni: 9:07pm On Mar 24, 2024
vizkiz:
If you take a dodge challenger on a spin, you'll be happy. I promise you.
haha before ... Who no like better thing but can you be on a spin for days? Eventually you would get tired and something else will become your obsession...

But I get you point totally, money enhances life expirience. Sure
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Ibechris2: 9:07pm On Mar 24, 2024
ayjay45:
As a male youth from 19 to 35 ...............
Life is daunting. Unless you have a rich or wealthy family that can save you.

Why does it have to be so. Is that how God prefer things. For people to suffer ruthlessly.
What is the way out.
I have found out that most of our poor men and women in Nigeria are wondering aimlessly because they have no written goals but wish.

Obasanjo,Tinubu them,Peter obi and Good luck Jonathan are all products of poor backgrounds but the youths if today prefer easy life than the old boys.

That is why many of our youths end up becoming drug addicts,gamblers,burglars,cultists,homosexual,lesbianis,yahoo and agbero.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by superintendents(m): 9:08pm On Mar 24, 2024
helinues:
There is misconception about being rich. You don't need to have N100m before feeling rich, if you have taken care of important things, even if it's just N50k left in your account, you would feel rich like Jeff Bezoz.

We priorities our expenses on things that are not generating income for us, while neglecting the important things
All these doesn't ring a bell, if you get that kind amount in bank Oga you are on time bomb..
If your wife dey labour, children school fees, foods, rent, children's and sickness na 5&6..and so on...

This life no balance i swear..

angry
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 9:08pm On Mar 24, 2024
tochez24:
Go and sit down oga⚠️

Is it the poor that's not depressedhuh

Omo depression get levels, depressed person wey dey for Bugatti nor be the same depressed person wey dey live for one room🙄

I was born in the gutters, i grew up lacking almost all the good thing of life.... So i understand how it feels to be poor, now things are better for me, there's no depression i can get now to compare with my childhood trauma!!!!!
This definition of being poor is just some sort of self consolation. Are those acclaimed poor people not having money at all, what do they do with their money, don't get me wrong, I am not saying some people are not born into rich, privilege or have connections, but there are lots of those people who were once poor.

Acclaimed poor people wey dey use latest Iphone phone, wan dey compare latest wear with those who earn more than him abi those who decided to spend their money on weekly owambe/religious program.

If you are born poor, it's not your fault but if you die poor, it's solely your responsibility
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by superintendents(m): 9:10pm On Mar 24, 2024
tochez24:
Go and sit down oga⚠️

Is it the poor that's not depressedhuh

Omo depression get levels, depressed person wey dey for Bugatti nor be the same thing with depressed person wey dey live for one room face me i face you🙄

I was born in the gutters, i grew up lacking almost all the good thing of life.... So i understand how it feels to be poor, now things are better for me, there's no depression i can get now to compare with my childhood trauma!!!!!
grin grin

😁😁
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 9:10pm On Mar 24, 2024
superintendents:
All these doesn't ring a bell, if you get that kind amount in bank Oga you are on time bomb..
If your wife dey labour, children school fees, foods, rent, children's and sickness na 5&6..and so on...

This life no balance i swear..

angry
Those who seek real happiness don't need such amount of money like those famous people.

I mean if you want real happiness oo, moderate money with no fame is the best way to go.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by PerfectStranger(m): 9:10pm On Mar 24, 2024
superintendents:
money no dey bring happiness, money no dey bring Happiness.. Blah blah blah..

Make i get the money Abeg
undecided

undecided
I tire o

Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by helinues: 9:13pm On Mar 24, 2024
Ibechris2:
I have found out that most of our poor men and women in Nigeria are wondering aimlessly because they have no written goals but wish.

Obasanjo,Tinubu them,Peter obi and Good luck Jonathan are all products of poor backgrounds but the youths if today prefer easy life than the old boys.

That is why many of our youths end up becoming drug addicts,gamblers,burglars,cultists,homosexual,lesbianis,yahoo and agbero.
Peter Obi is not from poor background. His dad was rich
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by Perfectman91: 9:25pm On Mar 24, 2024
Rich kids don't know what God did for them, I dnt wish starting from the scratch for my enemy because I know what I have been through and the humiliation too
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by NPFLADMIN(m): 10:37pm On Mar 24, 2024
Well I wasn't born rich, but we weren't born poor either.


Abeg who can dash me 17k. Abeg. 9053920228 Opay.
Re: Life Is Hard Unless You're Born Into A Rich Family by okoroemeka(m): 10:54pm On Mar 24, 2024
ayjay45:
As a male youth from 19 to 35 ...............
Life is daunting. Unless you have a rich or wealthy family that can save you.

Why does it have to be so. Is that how God prefer things. For people to suffer ruthlessly.
What is the way out.
This comment is made for the poster to justify his position and take heart,in igboland many self made men came from very poor families and made it,'70-80% of Igbo business persons came from poor families and passed through the apprenticeship program because their family is poor,almost all of the Igbo traders in markets all around Nigeria came from humble background,most times what inherited wealth creates in the children is indifference and lack of respect for money,that is why such wealth easily fizzles away,in my community in imo state the previously poor families are now producing millionaires,WHY?because nothing creates opportunity more than the zealous need to break out of poverty,it gives that extra inner strength and the belief that failure is not even an option.
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