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DAVE5:
Was never a desperate person, normally I was the type of guy that once a girl makes one off statement, it would be the end of our situation so I chose to say ok, nobody is perfect, let me give this new person patience and time, go and learn these little things is what I said to her cos for me those things were easy, she's fine, just ok, not beautiful, seriously don't know what happened cos I left beautiful girls with good manners for even the slightest off stuff only to end up with the biggest idiot in my generation maybe because I chose to want to see things differently but here I am, seeing different things

We move though, I learnt a really horrible lesson

Baba as I type this, one of my boys here is going through same thing..He is best friends with my kid brother so I welcomed him here and took the big brother role..He was dating this beautiful matured girl but learnt she cant get pregant,meanwhile he was cheating with another girl in the same estate who he met like 2 months and they were just fucking randoml and boom she took in.

He came to me seeking advise, I told him to slow down, you cant marry a woman just because she is pregant, you dont know her, you have only done sneaky moves with her for less than 4 months..calm down even if she is pregnant it doesnt not translate to marriage.he ignored and left his gf and married this young girl who took in..drama started, she cant cook, clean..she gave birth to a boy..she has no iota of connection with the child, she suggested they send the boy to her parents in the village.

This girl frustrates him everyday, he pays all the bills and she doesnt assist with a cent even when she works, she now tells him she needs her space, called the cops on him twice.

he came crying and complaining,the first question I asked; what did i tell you? but not to dwell with the past, all I told him is LEAVE HER NOW WHILE YOU CAN... i forsee her putting him in a bigger trouble...

MRAKPORS:
And what's funny

you sef why you go dey monitor ur wife phone
are you a monitoring spirit
you Deserved to be tie on a tree and seriously whipped 99 lashes of tarashi koboko soaked in hot water

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Divorce her or become a chronic womanizer, that is what insecure people do, since she said u are insecure. When they know they will miss each other, why didn't the man pay bride price and marry her.

She is already cheating on you bro.

Tegabadguy:
mind your business

Your wife and her business is your business, don't shy away from reality

TolaniLuv:
She’s right! You are an insecure husband..

You will learn the hard way

sulakishop:
Don't die young, don't go near any woman's privacy especially phones /social media. Women won't stop cheating, divorce if you can't accept it or marry three more and get old like my grandpa...
Ignore SOME of my quoters and MANY of my attackers... Thank me later!

How would you decide to divorce her when you already decided never to go near her phones/social media? When you already decided never to find out what she's doing behind your back? Mumu

Go and learn the use of English you little silly brat

maasoap:
How would you decide to divorce her when you already decided never to go near her phones/social media? When you already decided never to find out what she's doing behind your back? Mumu

sulakishop:
Go and learn the use of English you little silly brat

English kills you there! Simpp

Oponu aye rada, alaileko. Ko s'agba nile yin.
Must you quote someone when you know that you have nothing upstairs you silly loon and a bloody scallywag.

maasoap:
English kills you there! Simpp

sulakishop:
Go and learn the use of English you little silly brat

sulakishop:
Oponu aye rada, alaileko. Ko s'agba nile yin.
Must you quote someone when you know that you have nothing upstairs you silly loon and a bloody scallywag.

Wait o! How old are you and how old do you really think I'm?
And again, your emotion is in control of your life, which is very very bad.
Grow up! Let your expression reflect that your age, small boy

Dindinrin ayeraye, if you don't take time, I will curse you and oo ni bo nbe. Just try me

maasoap:
Wait o! How old are you and how old do you really think I'm?
And again, your emotion is in control of your life, which is very very bad.
Grow up! Let your expression reflect that your age, small boy