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Re: I Suspect My Wife by imagrg(m): 6:55am On Jan 10, 2023

Thanks for sharing.
More grease to her kpekus. grin

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by pasuma(m): 7:02am On Jan 10, 2023

Yes you are but since she has seen nothing wrong with what she did my brother nor put your mind on her, she'll leave you at any slight chance.. she just haven't had it but believe it she will

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Re: I Suspect My Wife by freeDR(m): 7:06am On Jan 10, 2023

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Your mum will not be proud to call you her son. Believe me.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Politicalziggy: 7:21am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Like seriously? The earliest you move for a divorce, the better. That's not being insecure. Ur wife will knack that guy soon. If you allow that senseless talk to continue.
Hummmm, I pray not to be in ur shoe, she would have heard from my divorce lawyer already. Rubbish.
Men of these days are really weak shall. Feminism will never work in my house.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by maasoap(m): 7:23am On Jan 10, 2023

TimT:

Okay na... No probs... Keep on reading every single word in your spouse phone chat... Then tell me why u won't have high blood pressure....

Been married for eleven years now, her phone was with me till around 1am today before I went to bed. Like I said, if I see messages I don't understand, I ask questions and vice versa. Why would you prefer to live with deception just because you don't want to confront reality/truth? Must I live with a cheating partner if I don't want to?

That is to say, u can't marry a woman who has beer parlor... Cos u can't trust her and her customer...
But it's okay... It's your choice

Never! No one should trust a woman with beer parlour in Nigeria. They will keep on coming at her with everything until she buckles. I have seen it before

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Iamfavored: 7:25am On Jan 10, 2023

I realise some people make up stories to get others busy with comments.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by RexTramadol1: 7:30am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Insecure is the word women use when they want to turn you to a simp

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by simplepee(f): 7:34am On Jan 10, 2023

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

Shameless man, shior.

To the topic, nothing might be going on OP. What I find improper here is a married lady that still chats with her ex. Anything that will threaten a relationship/marriage should be avoided abeg. What’s all the rubbish of making your exes your friend?? Endtime marriages.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by Chigold101(m): 7:50am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Be sincere with yourself.
Is there no friendship you had before you got married that you still miss?

Wait o, what does I miss you mean to you?

If you like destroy your marriage by coming here to seek advice from all these agents of destruction that is all over the social media.

My point is this.
There's nothing improper with that chat unless they talked about their past sex life.
But once it has nothing to do with sexual impurity, Oga go and enjoy your marriage

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Fafa4: 7:56am On Jan 10, 2023

albanikeh001:

You are gradually eating yam that will end up choking you later on. Never have I seen a man so less of a man.

hmmm,Life is about choices . A woman who wants to cheat doesn't need to be with the ex to do that.Love is built on trust do not forget.For how long do you intend to protect an adult who a has mind of his or her own?Make I leave am there,team Alpha men who over protect their wives like kilode how market?have we not seen some that have done everything to avoid cheating but have ended up fathering other men's children? This tells us it is not by that.If you feel uncomfortable with stuffs,talk about them and if you feel your concerns are not addressed and it taking a toll on you,take a walk,it will save your sanity.No human is capable of doing the work of monitoring another adult ,especially one you have strong emotional connection functions optimally.My 1.5 cent

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by RillJ(m): 8:21am On Jan 10, 2023

Then you should be worried. Her anger is a smokescreen.
I am not implying that she has been unfaithful already but you need to make her come to terms with the lurking danger in the path she is about to trend though she may not know it yet.

Speak with her, heart to heart.

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Clazzone(m): 8:42am On Jan 10, 2023

This is how it starts, it's better you quench that feelings now before it graduates to another level

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by CrateofBeer: 8:47am On Jan 10, 2023

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

A finished man sad

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by mukthar2000(m): 8:50am On Jan 10, 2023

Bro stop such thinking on that innocent wife pls, anybody can miss anybody, mother can miss child , father can miss mother, class mate can miss each other, old friends can miss each other, pls stop disturbing ur mind on ur innocent wife .

Re: I Suspect My Wife by NEUDUDE: 8:51am On Jan 10, 2023

Well there you have it grin

. At least now you know who disvirgined your wife lol

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Solofresh2: 8:57am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

It is not proper and you know that women are natural emotional being.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by ak22(m): 8:58am On Jan 10, 2023

Juicethekid:
it isn't proper, emotional attachment involved, don't overlook!

let your wife know that you have saw the chat or keep your eyes on her phone for now . in addition screen shot the chat and send it to your phone for evidence. this matter is not a gentle gentle matter ooo give her a close watch. don't trust a woman to this level o.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by EgusiShankly: 8:59am On Jan 10, 2023

obinna58:

This guy is shameless
Baba get little sense na which kin lie be this

I couldn't believe my eyes grin

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Emeka71(m): 9:03am On Jan 10, 2023

Juicethekid:
it isn't proper, emotional attachment involved, don't overlook!

There is nothing wrong.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by abidem4real: 9:15am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

Though women are traitors by creation, whoever marries a non-virtuous woman( a already disflowered woman) is posed with a more dangerous marital situation.
This is because her ex(s) will be in the hunt of having her at some points in her marital life. How do you expect a woman you had bleeped in a number of times intimately before she got married to refuse your sexual advances all in the name of marriage?! No!
Women after all are sexual objects.

My advice: Speak to your wife over it and read to her your marital riot acts. If she eventually goes contrary to your 'dos and don'ts' in that regards, let her go because dealing with emotional trauma could be fast killing.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by fuckwell2080: 9:17am On Jan 10, 2023

MR MAN another BOBO they Bleep ur wife WIDE PUSSY to RED.Those are signs it doesnt mean u must catch them red handed before u no.A CHEATING WIFE can kill.Better go do DNA test for ur kids before u discouer u TRAINING and HABOURING BASTARD.Who quote me hug transformer.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by daddy001: 9:18am On Jan 10, 2023

ifihearam:
If your ex or old classmates tells you they miss you and you reply back with " miss you too' does that mean your wife should be worried?

If she had ulterior motives she would have deleted it.

sometimes, we forget to delete some messages. It happens a lot.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by HRprof: 9:18am On Jan 10, 2023

Women don suffer in this thing called marriage . So marriage deprived a woman from chatting with friends or saying a word I MISS YOU. grin

Re: I Suspect My Wife by DEEDEE111(m): 9:20am On Jan 10, 2023

spice123:

My brother, I hardly comment on issues on this simply because of wrong perception but I will share my own experience.
My wife chats with her ex from time to time which I am fully aware right from the time we started dating till we married (her ex is married now). I've equally had a WhatsApp call with the guy in one or two occasions (friendly talk). I've come to build some rapour with him.
When this guy came to Naija I and my lovely wife went together to visit him. You see eh, everything in marriage is maturity. As it is we're planning vacation to the States sponsored by this guy. I'm a PROUD SIMP but I'm still in control.
With the way you're going with full blown Alpha male attitude, you will loose your wife. Thread carefully!

For that vacation, dem go give your wife do.*gy she go sweat. M*umu man

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by daddy001: 9:34am On Jan 10, 2023

HardMirror:
and his fello simps even liked his comment. Some men are shameless.

he is not a man but a cartoon character. A kind of drawing that is made to make we humans laugh.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife by LordReed(m): 9:46am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Doesn't matter whether you are secure or insecure, her message was inappropriate as a married woman. Her lack of respect for her marriage and husband is what she is conveying.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by Pootle: 9:47am On Jan 10, 2023

NEWBIN:
Beat her blue black

Re: I Suspect My Wife by largeman4u(m): 9:57am On Jan 10, 2023

MRAKPORS:
I read my wife's chat with another guy, apparently an old school mate
In the chat, the guy said he misses my wife
And my wife said she misses him too

Please is this proper?

There is nothing wrong in the message if they are just friends then. Am sure you also miss some of your friends in school back then.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by faceLAGOS: 10:09am On Jan 10, 2023

Free the woman.

You can’t hold someone that has made up his mind.

Re: I Suspect My Wife by pepigeorge(m): 10:41am On Jan 10, 2023

Show her what insecurity is.. Get a sidechick, keep a separate room.. Disconnect emotionally from ha or she will ruin u emotionally.. She is already fucking that guy.. Start preparing for a divorce...

MRAKPORS:

She is still ranting that I am insecure

Re: I Suspect My Wife by OriginalCEO: 10:58am On Jan 10, 2023

miracood:

For saying this trash, she's really up to something.

You better be on your toes, least your wife will be cheating right under your nose.

Also try to do DNA on ur kids if dem no too resemble you cos wives of this generation get k-leg

Na dat one dey pain man pass, at age 50 u dey discover say ur wife do division of labor for ur pikin

Re: I Suspect My Wife by simdidy: 11:01am On Jan 10, 2023

Wetin you dey find you go see..
Wahala you dey find you go see

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