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Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by flokii: 6:34pm On Apr 02, 2024
You are asking broke girls how they cope with promising young men trying their best to make a living for themselves?.. wonders shall never end.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by REGINALD001(m): 6:48pm On Apr 02, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
A GUY THAT GAVE YOU 20K AFTER BEGGING HIM FOR ALMOST A WEEK, IS NOW A BROKE GUY .......... HOW I WISH THAT ODUMEJE WILL SEND ABINDOSHAKER TO TEAR YOUR NYASH INTO 6 BLOODY PIECES .

Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by REGINALD001(m): 6:50pm On Apr 02, 2024
Rokiat:
I don’t deal with broke men sprinkles sprinkles.
AJI IKPU GI THERE
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Emu4u2c: 7:35pm On Apr 02, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
I used to be like the guy... helping every woman that ask for help...if the guy didn't give you the paltry 20k... I'm sure you will never have called him a fool
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Emu4u2c: 7:38pm On Apr 02, 2024
richiemcgold:
You should've returned his 20k right away.
Did you?
Since she didn't return the money.. it's safe to say she is the bigger fool..she and the useless man she calls a father are the bigger fools
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Emu4u2c: 7:39pm On Apr 02, 2024
labake1:
Babe, even if you have to take a loan, Omo go and borrow the money and throw it to his dirty face
Shey?...

That would have been the sensible thing to do but she just made herself the bigger fool
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Dzzzz: 10:07pm On Apr 02, 2024
If you’re a girl and you also need paltry.Buzz me.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Dzzzz: 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2024
It’s stupid and useless girls like you that make things bad for other girls...
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by franchasofficia: 10:09pm On Apr 02, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
Any girl or lady that enjoys broke shaming struggling young men always end up marrying a broke man, it is spiritual and fact, if you doubt me, watch all the ladies you know that did it.




Sound minded ladies don't broke shame struggling young men. I am not saying you must date broke guys, hell no, but stop broke shaming struggling young men, most are trying so hard to break away from family inherited poverty but due to failures of consecutive Nigerian Presidents making Nigeria a distorted country that rewards corruption, criminality and crooked ways, most of those guys you broke shame has remained financially below average.


I speak from personal life experience.


10 years ago, I and 99% of my friends were broke directionless graduates just struggling to feed, but today, I can boldly tell you that more than 85% of us are financially buoyant, some have even joined the rich and Naira billionaire list, no jokes, and funny enough, some of the ladies that turned some of my friends down back then are still single, confused, broke, while some are married to broke guys (God forgive me I am not mocking them, just trying to make you understand my point ).



So take it personal from me and learn not to broke shame struggling young men, most times it's not their fault, they are trying their best but the Nigerian system doesn't favor guys born into poor or average family backgrounds, peace
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by orohbiro(op): 10:28pm On Apr 02, 2024
franchasofficia:
Any girl or lady that enjoys broke shaming struggling young men always end up marrying a broke man, it is spiritual and fact, if you doubt me, watch all the ladies you know that did it.




Sound minded ladies don't broke shame struggling young men. I am not saying you must date broke guys, hell no, but stop broke shaming struggling young men, most are trying so hard to break away from family inherited poverty but due to failures of consecutive Nigerian Presidents making Nigeria a distorted country that rewards corruption, criminality and crooked ways, most of those guys you broke shame has remained financially below average.


I speak from personal life experience.


10 years ago, I and 99% of my friends were broke directionless graduates just struggling to feed, but today, I can boldly tell you that more than 85% of us are financially buoyant, some have even joined the rich and Naira billionaire list, no jokes, and funny enough, some of the ladies that turned some of my friends down back then are still single, confused, broke, while some are married to broke guys (God forgive me I am not mocking them, just trying to make you understand my point ).



So take it personal from me and learn not to broke shame struggling young men, most times it's not their fault, they are trying their best but the Nigerian system doesn't favor guys born into poor or average family backgrounds, peace
thanks can u send me something pls
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Moniya4Real(m): 10:41pm On Apr 02, 2024
Return the money if you have pride 🤣


orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Peakdesign23(f): 11:10pm On Apr 02, 2024
Give him back his 20k
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Peakdesign23(f): 11:11pm On Apr 02, 2024
Give him back his 20k for peace to reign.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by APOPTOSIS: 12:37am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
Must you really be with a man?
When are you gonna be a provider like many men and Ladies out there who detest being at the receiving end.
Do u think begging and receiving are phenomenal?
You should start asking yourself such questions.
Age.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by NoahHadNoArk: 2:38am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
thanks can u send me something pls
So that you will call him broke and a big fool abi?!😒


Onye ara!
Nwa nkita !
Ozwor😒
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Oburu202: 3:14am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have the effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why are broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
You are calling him a fool. Yet you don't have the money. Go get it from your brothers or your dad. And stop begging. Do you know how he suffered to get the money? Nothing is for free.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by okoroemeka(m): 6:26am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
you are very mistaken,that guy that give you #20k is not broke,any man that can give a woman #20k now in Nigeria,either he is very wealthy or very stupid.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by EreluRoz: 6:47am On Apr 03, 2024
franchasofficia:
Any girl or lady that enjoys broke shaming struggling young men always end up marrying a broke man, it is spiritual and fact, if you doubt me, watch all the ladies you know that did it.




Sound minded ladies don't broke shame struggling young men. I am not saying you must date broke guys, hell no, but stop broke shaming struggling young men, most are trying so hard to break away from family inherited poverty but due to failures of consecutive Nigerian Presidents making Nigeria a distorted country that rewards corruption, criminality and crooked ways, most of those guys you broke shame has remained financially below average.


I speak from personal life experience.


10 years ago, I and 99% of my friends were broke directionless graduates just struggling to feed, but today, I can boldly tell you that more than 85% of us are financially buoyant, some have even joined the rich and Naira billionaire list, no jokes, and funny enough, some of the ladies that turned some of my friends down back then are still single, confused, broke, while some are married to broke guys (God forgive me I am not mocking them, just trying to make you understand my point ).



So take it personal from me and learn not to broke shame struggling young men, most times it's not their fault, they are trying their best but the Nigerian system doesn't favor guys born into poor or average family backgrounds, peace
You are very right and that's why in all I do you'll never see me broke shaming a man. I don't like it because these men are struggling so much and if you provoke them further with your words, then it'll be from your mouth to God's ear and surely there'll be repercussion.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by joseph1832(m): 7:16am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
This post of yours reads foolish in every word attached to it. A guy helped you with 20K and you're calling him broke? If you weren't more broke than him, why didn't you have the 20K yourself and give it to him?

It's women like you who always feel entitled to an individual's money, and when they don't give you, you go ahead and say the usual nonsense "how much them get sef". Shameless gnat.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Sucolee(m): 8:22am On Apr 03, 2024
badboyTee:
Only your father can help and not ask in return
even her father will still ask of return in the future.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by franchasofficia: 8:48am On Apr 03, 2024
EreluRoz:
You are very right and that's why in all I do you'll never see me broke shaming a man. I don't like it because these men are struggling so much and if you provoke them further with your words, then it'll be from your mouth to God's ear and surely there'll be repercussion.
Yes you are different and that is one thing I cherish about you secretly. Many misunderstand you, but as someone with psychological gift, I have seen through your personality, you have a free heart, you will be kind in real life and will make a good partner if you are with your spec which is where your wahala de lol


Life is spiritual even though many haven't realized this. We most times attract the things we are so scared of. I disliked working class ladies while single and more especially those in certain profession, I just had a natural hatred for them and always talked bad about them whenever I am with friends, but guess what? I ended up marrying a lady in that profession who doesn't joke with her profession and job, and once in a while my friends will jokingly remind me of my past words about ladies in that profession lol and I will just be looking quiet like mumu.



The force of attraction works like magic. As you are busy hating on something, you are always worried about that thing and thinking about it because you hate it, funny enough you dont know.that you are indirectly attracting that thing you hate into your life and just a matter of time it will come to you.



When I was broke and struggling, I loved talking about successful people to the disgust of some friends. I am always excited sharing news about who acquired the latest car or who got a juicy job or which business flourishes more, I never knew that I was indirectly attracting that into my life.



So as a lady if you desire rich man in your life, just form the habit of admiring successful men and everything about them and in due time you will have one in your life, instead of despising and hating and always broke shaming the broke ones which indirectly attracts them to you.


Same applies to your spec. I cherish ladies with big buttocks, flat tummy, and whenever I see one pass, even though I knew I cant approach her back then, I.will just smile and admire her from afar while wishing to have such someday. Force of attraction is real, you can master it and use it to attract whatever you want into your life.


And let me also point something out before people misquote me, it is not a crime for a lady to desire wealthy or financially successful men, it is in order, almost all ladies all over the world are attracted to men first by what they see, but in your desire for a financially successful man, don't despise the struggling young men, you can chose not to date them but don't make their life miserable with your words and disdain towards them cos no man wishes to be broke or poor.


In fact it is the desire of every man to have plenty money and be throwing to the women he cherishes, but unfortunately it's not always the reality due to bad government and life's inequalities plus limited opportunities compared to global population.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by EreluRoz: 8:58am On Apr 03, 2024
franchasofficia:
Yes you are different and that is one thing I cherish about you secretly. Many misunderstand you, but as someone with psychological gift, I have seen through your personality, you have a free heart, you will be kind in real life and will make a good partner if you are with your spec which is where your wahala de lol


And let me also point something out before people misquote me, it is not a crime for a lady to desire wealthy or financially successful men, it is in order, almost all ladies all over the world are attracted to men first by what they see, but in your desire for a financially successful man, don't despise the struggling young men, you can chose not to date them but don't make their life miserable with your words and disdain towards them cos no man wishes to be broke or poor.


In fact it is the desire of every man to have plenty money and be throwing to the women he cherishes, but unfortunately it's not always the reality due to bad government and life's inequalities plus limited opportunities compared to global population.
😆 It's all fun for me here, nothing serious.

Men are naturally nicer than women if we are to put gender war aside, when a man has money, women (mothers,sister's,wives, girlfriends etc) are always around him to enjoy that money and I detest that broke shaming with passion, it's really hard out there and women expect a lot from men but we all know life isn't fair, so no sense in broke shaming a struggling man, God will not be pleased.

You are a man of wisdom, equipped all round, perfect husband material. But you too like woman sha 😆
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by franchasofficia: 9:09am On Apr 03, 2024
EreluRoz:
😆 It's all fun for me here, nothing serious.

Men are naturally nicer than women if we are to put gender war aside, when a man has money, women (mothers,sister's,wives, girlfriends etc) are always around him to enjoy that money and I detest that broke shaming with passion, it's really hard out there and women expect a lot from men but we all know life isn't fair, so no sense in broke shaming a struggling man, God will not be pleased.

You are a man of wisdom, equipped all round, perfect husband material. But you too like woman sha 😆
Hahahahaha


To be honest I like women too much to a fault grin


And it could be as a result of me not relating with girls while growing up, so my adulthood is trying to catch up with the missed opportunities, maybe cheesy


My wife knows I love fine ladies a lot, she knows that's my only flaw lol, especially those ones with curvy buttocks, flat tummy and bambi eyes, oh my gosh shocked cheesy
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by EreluRoz: 9:34am On Apr 03, 2024
franchasofficia:
Hahahahaha


To be honest I like women too much to a fault grin


And it could be as a result of me not relating with girls while growing up, so my adulthood is trying to catch up with the missed opportunities, maybe cheesy


My wife knows I love fine ladies a lot, she knows that's my only flaw lol, especially those ones with curvy buttocks, flat tummy and bambi eyes, oh my gosh shocked cheesy
😆.

You really married your wife sha if she doesn't complain about it. But there should be a time you stop on your own kos that's her belief. She believe you should just enjoy yourself now and stop later. So have this at the back of your mind.

You really be tuface sha but you know tuface has slow down abi? You will reach all of us laslas before you retire 😆
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by franchasofficia: 9:38am On Apr 03, 2024
EreluRoz:
😆.

You really married your wife sha if she doesn't complain about it. But there should be a time you stop on your own kos that's her belief. She believe you should just enjoy yourself now and stop later. So have this at the back of your mind.

You really be tuface sha but you know tuface has slow down abi? You will reach all of us laslas before you retire 😆
wahala wahala cheesy


I be learner where Tuface de oh lol


Any lady that believes because she is beautiful and hot that her husband won't admire pretty chicks outside is just deceiving herslef cheesy


You ladies are the flower of life, without you cuties the world is doomed grin cheesy
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by drnoel: 10:09am On Apr 03, 2024
orohbiro:
A guy. Help me with paltry 20k yesterday and he have d effrontery to ask me what he will get in return. Why is broke guys like this? can't you just help and leave undecided in return finish him there sad Big fool
Em! Hope you gave the money back? If you didn't then you should be grateful he decided to help your poverty ministry so STFU
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Chicagograduate(m): 5:02pm On Apr 03, 2024
MrCork:
Son..Do u have up to 5k in yor account? If yes, i will double itvto 10k!!!(REAL TALK) angry
Arrogant.You can't.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by MrCork: 5:58pm On Apr 03, 2024
Chicagograduate:
Arrogant.You can't.
Brother i hav moiney...u dont. Please dont make me embarasss u coz u stands no shance. Have u even beeeento london? undecided
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by Chicagograduate(m): 6:08pm On Apr 03, 2024
MrCork:
Brother i hav moiney...u dont. Please dont make me embarasss u coz u stands no shance. Have u even beeeento london? undecided
Please embarrassed me.8026604559,Smart cash.
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by MrCork: 6:10pm On Apr 03, 2024
Chicagograduate:
Please embarrassed me.8026604559,Smart cash.
Sorry. I do not pay men...only women!!((no oofencse)) angry
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by EreluRoz: 6:10pm On Apr 03, 2024
joseph1832:
This post of yours reads foolish in every word attached to it. A guy helped you with 20K and you're calling him broke? If you weren't more broke than him, why didn't you have the 20K yourself and give it to him?

It's women like you who always feel entitled to an individual's money, and when they don't give you, you go ahead and say the usual nonsense "how much them get sef". Shameless gnat.
You carry knife fight dy come stick fight 😆.

Sorry on her behalf
Re: How Do You Cope With Broke Guys? Ladies by MikeofKd(m): 8:41pm On Apr 03, 2024
I just blame dat guy that gave her the 20k ,nigga is really dumb. Imagine doing small saraka (giving to those in need) with dat 20k ,imagine the blessings and grace it would have attracted but no d dumb ass nigga gave a entitled broke ass bitter feminist that probably doesnt even have up to 1k in all her accounts ,im truly disgusted. Who raised these weak men huh??
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