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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by MrSly(m): 11:30pm On Apr 02 |
officialwdhtvv:Western Olodo. Empty gibberish. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by TheGift: 11:48pm On Apr 02 |
ednut1: But why would anybody be thinking of doing menial jobs at the age of 50+? Why do we have such poor aspirations for ourselves? Many people japa ing are driven by fear and not by purpose. And if you lack purpose and expression of your innate talent, then your life will be a life of mediocrity regardless of where you live. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by MajorOvakporaye(f): 11:50pm On Apr 02 |
Kelechi009: Shut up!!! You are just an ignoramus. People like you are stuck with a warped mindset. Free yourself from the chains and shackles of societal expectations. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:01am On Apr 03 |
skuribeebo: Which country did he travel to? |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ednut1(m): 12:07am On Apr 03 |
TheGift:Business failure, job losses, billings and life happens. Some have been trying to get back on their feet after these events but nothing happened. They then used their own travel history to japa to fend for their families. I know several people this happened to. Some later came back to Nigeria with capital they got from hustling. 1 Like |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by AmuDimpka: 12:12am On Apr 03 |
Mcslize:but na true |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by AmuDimpka: 12:13am On Apr 03 |
TheGift:I find it crazy..how can someone spend over 6 million to Japa and be doing Uber or warehouse jobs .... That money will set you up in Nigeria Well...some people are just destined to work for others for life |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by seunayantokun(m): 12:41am On Apr 03 |
Please don't listen to her o |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by PROPEACE: 1:11am On Apr 03 |
Namaster:And finally, who is it that said you can't travel abroad and make money? |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by PROPEACE: 1:13am On Apr 03 |
AmuDimpka:What is wrong with working for others on life? Many people "working for others" are doing better than and will live a more fulfilled life than you! 1 Like |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by PROPEACE: 1:18am On Apr 03 |
TheGift:Regarding the bolded, what gives you the right to compel others to live by your life's timetable? Some will do the menial jobs at 50 and live successful lives later on in life, some will be extremely rich in their 50s in Nigeria, but will spend about everything the have paying ransome to kidnappers and finally die of heart attack. We all have different paths in life. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by PROPEACE: 1:25am On Apr 03 |
prickursense: |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by aestake: 1:29am On Apr 03 |
PROPEACE:He doesn't see folks at that age without a job in Nigeria. 1 Like |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by PROPEACE: 1:40am On Apr 03 |
ogascomax:Who told you he wants to build a house there? |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by reallifegospel(m): 2:24am On Apr 03 |
officialwdhtvv:Just another borehole mouthed attention seeking airhead 1 Like |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by lastkingsman: 3:26am On Apr 03 |
skuribeebo: Wow |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Eaglesence: 3:40am On Apr 03 |
officialwdhtvv: Stupidity of the highest order...do as she says at your own peril..who send am message |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by OChimex: 4:06am On Apr 03 |
Kelechi009: Just shut up and don't talk about abroad if you hadn't lived there. Don't deceive or discourage others with false information. From experience, the moment you enter US you will understand say they live life and you guys in Nigeria and Africa merely exists just Like animals. Success in America knows no age. And it's easy and feasible. Life is easy and sweet in America. Humans act like humans, most of the time not Nigeria wey everybody dey mad. Go yo any stores to buy things. They are so polite. Life is beautiful in America. Try experience it before you die... 1 Like |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by okerekingsley90: 5:48am On Apr 03 |
Dijita: Can I dm you? Through mail |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by pquaver(m): 7:12am On Apr 03 |
Kelechi009: It depends on the individual. If the person is skilled and is willing to develop.. He or she always stands a chance... I know a mother aged 47 who we to study nursing from law and is doing well... It all depends on the individual |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by skuribeebo: 7:13am On Apr 03 |
UyaiIncomparabl:UK. caregiver |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by chrysso83(m): 7:20am On Apr 03 |
Everybody wants to have an opinion. I have seen close to 50 years that traveled abroad and their life don change. Life generally depends on the connections and information available to you both in Naija and abroad |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by RedboneSmith(m): 7:45am On Apr 03 |
People who constantly repeat this nonsense miss the reason why a lot of older people relocate. It is not always about going to look for money. What is healthcare like in Nigeria? There’s a common saying that the average Nigerian is one serious health problem away from being bankrupt. I’m not rich, but where I live, I don’t have to worry that if my kidney fails today I will come online to beg for donations. What of security? A lot of you back home live in perpetual fear of armed robbers, unknown gunmen, herdsmen. You can’t even go around and conduct your business in peace without fear of possibly coming into some harm. No be just the other day a luxury bus was robbed around Ijebu Ode, and the passengers were burnt inside the bus by the criminals. Meanwhile I’ve been parking on the street for 5 years now and never had an incidence. But na for inside my compound in Naija that thieves scaled the fence, cracked my boot open and stole my battery. Na for inside Nigeria, armed robbers robbed almost every house on my street, raped multiple women in one night and police never showed up. If you’re 40 (and you’re a man), chances are that your kids are still very small. Your oldest kid is probably less than ten years. If you’ve sat down and done your analysis, and you think you can give them a better quality of life outside Nigeria, and you have the means to do so, my man, LEAVE. I have friends who arrived way past the 40-year mark and they are the happier for it. No dey listen to these yeye vloggers. 3 Likes |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by 2mch(m): 8:21am On Apr 03 |
skuribeebo:Your brother is a scammer. Don’t worry, they will soon catch him. Many Nigerians have to scam to fool people at home till it burst. Abroad is not that easy. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by goodthinker: 8:26am On Apr 03 |
joinnow:Lol |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by goodthinker: 8:30am On Apr 03 |
Life is all about choice... And not anybody's business |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by diogo23: 9:09am On Apr 03 |
Kelechi009:I wonder what people like you have in their brain, dust? I will be 41 this September, I move to abroad this year. I never regret that decision. Don't let anybody decisive you 2 Likes |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by gforce5: 10:55am On Apr 03 |
Errm, it took me ten years before I become a permanent resident and I came through the study route. Was never at one point illegal and was staying with my relatives. It takes a while to naturalize in Europe. It took my family friend ten years to naturalize in Cyprus (South) and he was studying and working there. I know some people who have been in the States for almost two decades and they haven't gotten their papers yet. They came as students, graduated and have been working ever since with top firms in the States. The Canadian PR route you mentioned is an exception and not the norm. idahme: |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by AmuDimpka: 11:03am On Apr 03 |
PROPEACE:I said some people are destined to work for others in life while some are destined for people to work for them for life That's life and I don't see what is wrong with my position or statement... |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by idahme(m): 1:21pm On Apr 03 |
gforce5: Yours is a different ball gamez when I use the word having documents I meant a legal right to work not necessarily a PR. Having a work permits gives you a document to work in that land unlike what illegal aliens go through. The US is special because of their peculiar immigration laws that makes it a quota based system unlike Canada that make it a point based system or point based system. You can seamlessly have a work visa post studies even if it takes you a decade to have a PR you already have a document to continue to work wherever you find yourself. My point was that illegal migrants who usually pass through hell should never be in the position to advice legal migrants who are in tandem with the laws of the host and have every approvals to function legally. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by skuribeebo: 1:55pm On Apr 03 |
2mch:Dey play. |
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Exceed15: 4:20pm On Apr 03 |
Her opinion though. Opportunity to travel out can come and turn out to better your life even at over 40. |
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