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Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by mindtricks: 4:29pm On Apr 03 |
Jewessgratitud3: |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by 123yes(m): 4:31pm On Apr 03 |
Wise lady God will bless her hustle. I wish I could get her contact to also bless her. This is marriageable lady |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by greenermodels: 4:31pm On Apr 03 |
Kukutente23:what if she has no better options? Jobs no de this country now and businesses are closing from lack of patronage. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Midex88(m): 4:35pm On Apr 03 |
I want to add 70k to the business to encourage her. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Cantonese: 4:38pm On Apr 03 |
slaawomirr: Weed no let you know your left and right so bro. How can you define the giver as an idiot? You dey him family? How do you know if e no dey settle him family? |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by lexyclasy: 4:50pm On Apr 03 |
slaawomirr:Not everyone is on civil service payroll bro, this 250k may be a careless chop money for the donor, besides you cant give out like this yet you don't take care of your home base, not possible. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by TUANKU(m): 5:14pm On Apr 03 |
If na Jennyclay she will use the whole 250k to buy hair and put on top head that is empty. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by folake4u(f): 5:17pm On Apr 03 |
kkins25: Lmao. Most yahoo boys spend their money on frivolities, only few invest in legit business for themselves or their pablet girlfriends. Even hookup biz is also a risky venture sha. Some of them are generous and won't really mind sha. 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by folake4u(f): 5:33pm On Apr 03 |
Kukutente23: Even in this harsh economic realities, people are still balling hard. Your reality is not theirs. If he gives her a 250k worth of hair, that is fine. Adding a 700k phone or expensive shoes will be done at his own discretion. If he also decides to buy her a car, that is also good and fine. For me, it's the man's thought that matters. He wanted her to look good for him. Nigerians and classism. Lol. What is wrong in entering public bus? It is just a means of transportation. What if he doesn't buy her a car but instead she uses Uber to and fro. It is people like you who associate owning a car with riches. She needs to pressure him to open a boutique for her? Okay oh. Later you people will say you don't like pressure from women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Kukutente23: 5:34pm On Apr 03 |
greenermodels:And you think frying yam is a better option? What us there to say frying yams will survive the lack of patronage |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by sharpwriter(m): 5:37pm On Apr 03 |
Jewessgratitud3:You better take PMs, you don't know whether your heartrob is in the path! |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Kukutente23: 5:52pm On Apr 03 |
folake4u:People are balling hard but frying yams for sale is not an example of balling hard. Rather, it is an example of struggling hard Look at the hair on her head in that pic. Does that look like hair worth 20k? If he couldn't give her hair worth over 20k but gave her 250k out of the blues, then something is wrong with him. If he can afford to give her 700k phone, and she adds that sum to 250k, I'm sure 1m cannot be used to do yam frying business. Something better will be in the offing. The fact that she used this particular money to start frying yams shows it's a one off thing thus, it is safe to say he cannot afford the lifestyle expected of someone who uses 250k to do hair. The man does not want her to look good for him. He is just simply foolish. From the picture of her kneeling down beside the yams, it shows she does not enjoy such luxury from him. Thus, she sees this particular incident as a big deal to be overjoyed with. It is utter foolishness to enter a public bus with 250k hair especially in Nigeria's broken transport system. Secondly, it is bigger foolishness to turn yourself to uber customer. Imagine taking uber for 365 days a year to everywhere you're going. If you sit down to calculate how much you have spent, you will realise it will get you a good Nigerian used car to serve you. Again, it shows a lack of financial insight on your part again. I'm not referring to car as a sign of riches. What I am pointing out is that she has no business going about jumping from one bus to the other with a 250k hair. It is foolishness. You think she did not pressure him for the 250k? If he can afford 250k for hair, shouldn't opening a boutique for her be a small matter? |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by adonuj(f): 6:24pm On Apr 03 |
Who dey give dis 1 250k for hair? Believe social media to your peril 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by writeprof(m): 6:27pm On Apr 03 |
She seems to have more sense than the man or boy who gave her that amount to fix hair. From many of the comments, I confirm that men know the type of woman they want as wife but they will not shy away from helping to deceive those ladies/women who are bent on "slaying" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 6:39pm On Apr 03 |
Everybody just dey cap nonsense. ..and the Man wey give the 250K, and the girl wey buy yam with the money, and the reader reading this post. ALL of una dey MAD. I'm hungry 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by folake4u(f): 6:46pm On Apr 03 |
Kukutente23: If you observed keenly, from the onset of this convo, I didn't support buying yams when he gave her money to buy hair. I said it was misappropriation of funds. I have looked at the hair on her head and I'm here to tell you that hair extensions are not cheap. A pack of attachment is 6,500. If you multiply that by two, that is 13k already and as you can see, the hair length is long and way past her bra length. We've not even added money for washing the hair and then paying for workmanship. So the hair on her head is 20k worthy. People spend as much as 30k and even 70k on braids. I don't understand your problem with the man giving her 250k for hair. If you can't do it for your woman, that is totally fine, nobody will beat you for that. And yes, it is also possible she's not used to luxury things. And probably this time, he wanted her to enjoy his funds. There are people who aren't used to living a luxurious life and don't know how to act/behave when it comes to them, it takes a great deal of unlearning and learning to get used to a new "phase of life". You sound condescending. The real rich people do not care about these things. Really. There's a Nairalander that I've known for 4yrs now. He never owned a car and ALWAYS used Uber everywhere he went to until he left the shores of Nigeria. Lol. There are people who do not own cars but use Uber 365 days a year because they do not really mind and also their income outweigh their expenditure, it doesn't mean they lack financial insight. People have priorities and will use their money to do what suits them. I can decide to jump from bus to another with my 250k wig and it shouldn't bother you. Here again, jumping into conclusion. You accused the man for simping because he gave her 250k, now again, you're assuming she pressured him. Just rest please. Don't worry, God will provide for you. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by damoobaba: 6:52pm On Apr 03 |
Jewessgratitud3: Why una no wan let the boyfriend marry her? How is she available? |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by greenermodels: 7:19pm On Apr 03 |
Kukutente23:essential businesses like roadside food businesses are better suited to survive in this economy because people must eat and roadside food businesses are the cheapest for the consumers. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Jewessgratitud3: 7:44pm On Apr 03 |
damoobaba: No o. I was just pulling gropers legs. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Greatbabane128: 7:53pm On Apr 03 |
She gets sense o |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by JoeEeL(m): 8:10pm On Apr 03 |
Maysdevices: What more could I add? I couldnt have said it any better. 💯 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by JoeEeL(m): 8:40pm On Apr 03 |
LordIsaac: U are correct. 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Kukutente23: 9:06pm On Apr 03 |
greenermodels:That's what you think Some people who have large families will prefer to make food from home. Besides, yam is a very perishable food item that might lead to losses for the seller especially in heat period like this |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Kemadealadire(f): 9:18pm On Apr 03 |
Some of us using the money to order fast food |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by ajepako(f): 9:51pm On Apr 03 |
enemyofprogress: Virus ko Fungi ni Werey lbadan |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by Kukutente23: 9:56pm On Apr 03 |
folake4u:You still do not get it. You are fixated on spending and not the reasoning behind the spending You keep pushing the narrative of everyone is free to do what they like with their money which is correct. But you should also know that more importantly, anything you have as resources should be well managed to yield maximum benefit. Again, someone who can only think of frying yams is on the lowest rung of the economic ladder. Such persons have no business wearing a N250k hair. The boyfriend who gave her the money is more foolish because from the lady's response, it is obvious he has not taken care of things she feels are more important to her before going to N250k hair. If he had already satisfied more cogent needs for her, there's no reason she would have gone to buy yams and oil with the money he gave her for hair. The lady is wiser than him obviously. If she does not have a job or means of sustenance, and he has not provided her one but is giving her 250k for hair, it shows how shallow and frivolous he is. The lady is more sensible than the guy obviously. That said, someone who prefers uber to driving and can afford it is within his rights to do so. But he should also be aware of the limitations such as moving at night and cross country movements. So with that, you'll see that having a personal means of movement is more desirable than using uber and its not just the economics alone but the convenience. And again, wearing a 250k hair to jump buses is utter foolishness. There are some things that make sense and some don't. Lastly, you now think it's because I can't afford it that's why I'm against the spending. When I said you're a parasite, you denied it. Well, you're now thinking as one |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:02pm On Apr 03 |
Acidosis: And if her parents do not have the wherewithal or she cannot attend school for one or two reasons? Have you thought about that? You should have at least commended her for being entrepreneurial instead of splurging like her other baddies would have done. Leave dissecting too much sometimes. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by folake4u(f): 10:02pm On Apr 03 |
Kukutente23: It is futile going back and forth with you. I agree with you. I'm a parasite indeed. A wonderful one at that. Thank you. Kindly accept the assurance of my warmest regards. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:27pm On Apr 03 |
Fiscus105: I agree with you. Reminds me of my pablo boyfriend that year. Dude was chivalrous and stupendously generous with his funds, but will never aid you in a way that would financially liberate you. Everytime, he would ask "My Uyai, do you want hair? Say it. How much is it? Can 500k buy it? But, tell this same guy to give you money to purchase something that is progressive, for example, a laptop to help you study or a professional certification to promote you at work, NEVER. Well, I learned to make every request about HAIR and CLOTHES since that was how it could work. Kilo kan boss. I would always wonder what sort of human he was. And they will come out tomorrow to bash materialistic women when they advertently aid/aided the materialism. Everyone is a hypocrite after all. 1 Like |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:35pm On Apr 03 |
abobote: You do not know nothing. |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:41pm On Apr 03 |
folake4u: Darling, It does not work that way. Not every supposedly generous guy is generous in the whole sense of it. Some men are very ready to sponsor your vanities but will never fund a dime to set you on the foot of financial liberation. I mean, these sort of men will rather buy you hairs worth millions than fund your potentials that can make you soar. As a girl who wants something different for yourself, what must you do if you meet such man? Must you not ask and misappropriate the funds for your own good? Sometimes, misappropriation of funds in this context is not a bad choice. Unless there is a pattern, then it should be looked into. Until then, all I can see is a woman is very entrepreuneurial and ready to financially liberate herself. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Young Lady Uses 250k Boyfriend Gave Her For Hair To Start Fried Yam Business by folake4u(f): 10:48pm On Apr 03 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Thank you, Uyai. Point taken. But I find it very weird though. Splurging on women for vanities but not doing same for financial liberation. Men are weird. Later they'd be bashing materialistic women. |
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