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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Goodcitizen99(m): 11:05am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
u write so well 💯 bro
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Entanglement: 11:06am On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

if them say women are unintelligent being, you will be the first person to open her mouth waaaaaaaaaaaa undecided

Men that take their wifes abroad feed them, school them and what do you think they gain in return? undecided

Homelessness
Bringing bastard child
False accusations
Divorce

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Lovit(m): 11:12am On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.


This is not straight forward, humans are cunny and some are not honest.

same you way someone borrows from you, they come pleading and promising they would pay as at when due but that rarely happens

A lot of partners have put in their best in relationships only for the other partner to treat it passively without commensurate effort to reciprocate

So that your statement is not true. Some women are devils personified, some are angels made from heaven

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by NoToPile: 11:18am On Apr 08
Sounds more like a wailing thread.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Caleycash(m): 11:19am On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.

Rubbish Analogy... most women out there are manipulative and 419!, never seen any woman add any damn value to a man in reality, it's always give me and receiving, please stop posting lies and nonsense here!

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by BornToSucced(m): 11:21am On Apr 08
This month is my one year wedding anniversary, and I feel i should share my experience thus far, especially for the benefits of other young guys who are eager to follow my path.

The summary of my advice is: what you get out of your marriage revolves around the kind of spouse you end up with. As they say, garbage in, garbage out.

In my case, I have no regret thus far. Sex is great: I sleep better and eat healthy now. No unnecessary spending of money on Lagos broke-ass slay queens. Overall, the benefits far outweigh the demerits.

However, to enjoy the listed benefits above, I have dedicated and sacrificed my time, and intentionally made every effort to ensure my marriage is not a living hell.

As a retired fuc*k boy, I can tell you for free, sleeping with countless women is a highway to the grave. There is nothing to gain in it, not even a trophy. I have been there, done 3sum, and done crazy stuff just for fun. As certificate of achievement, I bagged a Baby Mama grin

But nothing can be compared to the peace, love, and joy I now enjoy, through Christ who brought me out of darkness

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by lilioj: 11:28am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.

Are you writing from your experience?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by webizone(m): 11:29am On Apr 08
I don't ask for too much, but to select a wife,

1. Communication is absolutely essential. If I am chatting you and you leave me on read, Or it takes you weeks and months to answer me, it's an absolute turn off. Some just wanna play games instead of communicating. Those who don't even answer me at the very beginning still did me a favour. They are not mine.


2. If you are always forming serious that you can't laugh at jokes, how do we solve disagreements? The best way to solve disagreements between us is to laugh at ourselves. 💯


3. If you can't give me anything. Yes, as a man, I can't marry a woman who is not generous to me. No, I won't depend on your resources nor will I be unreasonable for anything I need from you. On the flip side too, when you need something from me, be reasonable. Ultimately, we are both working for our kids. If you don't have that mentality, please shift.


Most men miss these stages then come to complain about the women they "married".


When you dey chaik am, she dey form, maybe she dey wait somebody but after the person don leave am, she con "settle" for you. How that marriage fit last?

Na woman wey love you go do these three things.

Some will love you but can't do these things which are flaws that will cause problems unless they work on them.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by AlbertNewton: 11:29am On Apr 08
Offpointng:


You give woman millions of sperm and she gives you just a kid.

You're pointless

How many billions of sperm can you put together to form a baby undecided
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by idahme(m): 11:34am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.

3,4,7 is not in my dictionary but you see number 7 I still can get why men carry problems that are not theirs? No wonder they died early. How many woman has carried the cross of their husbands family just the way these men who think it's their duty to carry the cross of their wife's family? U go die problem no dey finish.

Men take take care of your family and take care of yourself, stop carrying loads meant for others to carry.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by webizone(m): 11:36am On Apr 08
BornToSucced:
This month is my one year wedding anniversary, and I feel i should share my experience thus far, especially for the benefits of other young guys who are eager to follow my path.

The summary of my advice is: what you get out of your marriage revolves around the kind of spouse you end up with. As they say, garbage in, garbage out.

In my case, I have no regret thus far. Sex is great: I sleep better and eat healthy now. No unnecessary spending of money on Lagos broke-ass slay queens. Overall, the benefits far outweigh the demerits.

However, to enjoy the listed benefits above, I have dedicated and sacrificed my time, and intentionally made every effort to ensure my marriage is not a living hell.

As a retired fuc*k boy, I can tell you for free, sleeping with countless women is a highway to the grave. There is nothing to gain in it, not even a trophy. I have been there, done 3sum, and done crazy stuff just for fun. As certificate of achievement, I bagged a Baby Mama grin

But nothing can be compared to the peace, love, and joy I now enjoy, through Christ who brought me out of darkness

Were you the BornToF"*k guy?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by olaztek(m): 11:37am On Apr 08
To make your marriage stay instant, you as a Man must have a combination of a strict and mumu man personality.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Astra101: 11:39am On Apr 08
concho:
She will stop giving you head after a year

Oboy behave! you want me to send her packing
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Anabosee(m): 11:42am On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
I'm 31 and I am afraid of marriage now.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by BornToSucced(m): 11:45am On Apr 08
webizone:


Were you the BornToF"*k guy?

No sir.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by webizone(m): 12:11pm On Apr 08
BornToSucced:


No sir.

Oh ok
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 12:13pm On Apr 08
BornToSucced:
This month is my one year wedding anniversary, and I feel i should share my experience thus far, especially for the benefits of other young guys who are eager to follow my path.

The summary of my advice is: what you get out of your marriage revolves around the kind of spouse you end up with. As they say, garbage in, garbage out.

In my case, I have no regret thus far. Sex is great: I sleep better and eat healthy now. No unnecessary spending of money on Lagos broke-ass slay queens. Overall, the benefits far outweigh the demerits.

However, to enjoy the listed benefits above, I have dedicated and sacrificed my time, and intentionally made every effort to ensure my marriage is not a living hell.

As a retired fuc*k boy, I can tell you for free, sleeping with countless women is a highway to the grave. There is nothing to gain in it, not even a trophy. I have been there, done 3sum, and done crazy stuff just for fun. As certificate of achievement, I bagged a Baby Mama grin

But nothing can be compared to the peace, love, and joy I now enjoy, through Christ who brought me out of darkness
One year marriage is still very young. Good luck bro grin
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by gabbytabby: 12:15pm On Apr 08
😂😂😂
11. One or both of you become old fuddy duddy.

12. No going out as a couple.

13. No holidays together mum with the kids and Dad wants us to believe he went alone.



Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Dshocker(m): 12:21pm On Apr 08
Rokiat:

You get what you put in.


So indirectly you are confirming to us that women can be devils at times?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 12:23pm On Apr 08
komzy589:

Stop kidding yourself and accepting vegetable status because you’re married.
Pride represents one’s dignity and self respect.
You lose your pride, you lose everything.
Confidence represents one's dignity and self-respect.
Pride kills.
Pride inflates.
Pride is arrogant(both in explicit and subtle ways).
Pride is the pregnant mother of all sins.
Pride doesn't want to accept corrections.

"Man is dust. What has he to be proud of?"
"Even while man is still alive,the inside of his bowels decay and rot and give the most offensive odors. So why be proud?"
"You don't breathe out jewels,so why be haughty?"
"Man can't save himself from death, hence no reason in this world to feel big."

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by JoeEeL(m): 12:26pm On Apr 08
The odds are less than 50% for a positive eventual outcome
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by livinbygrace: 12:28pm On Apr 08
That marriage is designed to favor women.To young men out there,dont ever rush into marriage and if you want to marry,marry someone that is supportive and comes from good family.
Dont ever marry liability,dont marry a jobless woman,dont marry out of pity.
If its not 60/40 forget it.
NO PITY IN MARRIAGE OO

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 12:31pm On Apr 08
komzy589:

9 out of 10 times, any man who’s desperately pushing for other men to get married is in a terrible marriage.
I'm not pushing anyone to get married but my annoyance is that men will live reckless lives,sleep with many women before they get married, not mend their character, not work on themselves deliberately and see how to improve their personality and way of life and yet when they get married,they start complaining that things aren't going well. They look at women as the problem,which is true many times but they forget that they have themselves to work on first.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 12:35pm On Apr 08
TableLeg:

Your father, anuofia!
No be me you suppose dey follow talk this nonsense.
Ashiere

Why won't you get problems when you get married if a little thing such as what I typed ticked you off like this?
To unnecessarily insult someone?
you won't have a great marriage or your marriage would probably be a rocky one if you continue like this.
Mend your character, change your way of life,accept Christ as lord and give your life to God and he will guide you with the wisdom and discernment necessary to lead a life that will make you know well enough for a good marriage.

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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by mceze(m): 12:37pm On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:

Women don't change.
Na you no see wetin dey clear.
A woman's character is well evident in her behavior.
I wish I could send voicenotes honestly.

You just spoke the truth.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Goodlady(f): 12:38pm On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.
What about how men treat women in marriage and what women endure. I see a lot of her, her, her as if it's only men enduring marriages
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Goodlady(f): 12:38pm On Apr 08
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Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by 76RebelMoney(m): 12:40pm On Apr 08
Goodlady:

What about how men treat women in marriage and what women endure. I see a lot of her, her, her as if it's only men enduring marriages
Sister,leave them.
Men now are becoming crybabies.
Women do painful stuff to men.
Men do likewise.
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by winner37(m): 1:15pm On Apr 08
Namaster:
1. Sex plummets.

2. Familiarity abounds and contempt follows.

3. Rebellion to prove you are not the boss of her is not unheard of.

4. You could end up raising the bastards of her boss, coworker or ex.

5. More responsibility, FEWER appreciation.

6. Unlimited entitlement.

7. Her family problem is yours to bear and your family should DISAPPEAR.

8. You will NEVER win another argument.

9. You are ALWAYS wrong.

10. You slave and slave and slave for her pleasure.



My fellow brotherhood are you married?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by TableLeg(m): 1:16pm On Apr 08
76RebelMoney:


Why won't you get problems when you get married if a little thing such as what I typed ticked you off like this?
To unnecessarily insult someone?
you won't have a great marriage or your marriage would probably be a rocky one if you continue like this.
Mend your character, change your way of life,accept Christ as lord and give your life to God and he will guide you with the wisdom and discernment necessary to lead a life that will make you know well enough for a good marriage.

Quit the nonsensical epistle and near biblical verbiage.
Who told you I have problems?
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by winner37(m): 1:17pm On Apr 08
Marriage favors women most ..
Just imagine living with no stress while one slave is working hard to put food in the table...
Re: What Is The Brutal Truth About Life After Marriage? by Godmademan(m): 1:19pm On Apr 08
Life after wedding

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