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Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 3:10pm On Apr 12 |
SSpeter: I don't know of a time in history when this was never the case, but believe whatever you will... |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Melagros(m): 3:13pm On Apr 12 |
advanceDNA:Exactly |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 3:13pm On Apr 12 |
Evolutionism: Well done. And this one's parents will think they have a carefully preserved flower to be plucked by a lucky woman someday. But alas, you've been distributing your nectar to different butterflies and birds without their knowledge. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 3:17pm On Apr 12 |
Eunoiaa:😲, Guys from a young age are always thought to take care of their families and no one talks about a man taking care of himself. Infact I know a guy back then that it was his wife who would buy his socks, cufflinks, shirts and even shoes. All he has been thought was take care of your family. Very few guys take themselves as priority hence they end up over worked, unkempt and undesirable. Infact that same guy, the wife will remind to go trim his hair etc. Guys need to look at themselves and spoil themselves |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Nijimog: 5:22pm On Apr 12 |
advanceDNA:comrade here u go
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Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Nijimog: 5:31pm On Apr 12 |
Evolutionism:this your punchline funny |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by advanceDNA: 5:39pm On Apr 12 |
Nijimog: Baba ...u be sure guy After u pull am down...destroy the switch make them no fit switch am up again.. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 5:42pm On Apr 12 |
Eunoiaa: Continue you hear.. Just continue what you are doing okay. Bye. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 5:50pm On Apr 12 |
Nijimog: Lol abi naw. We all know the females naturally owns the shakara thingy but men who knows their onions does it better. Whenever she arrives. After small resting, Next she is all over me. Babe be so wet and hard. I will be the one calming her down before we later proceed. Very cute and decent girl. That's why i usually wonder how guys sleep with oloshos and beg women for sex with money and material things. Nothing is sweeter than when two Lovers want themselves NATURALLY. 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 5:58pm On Apr 12 |
Evolutionism: I intend to. At full throttle and with no regrets. Enjoy yourself. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 8:38am On Apr 13 |
Eunoiaa: I don't even know what keeps drawing me back to you sef🙄 I for sure will get over it with time. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by pansophist(m): 8:47am On Apr 13 |
Romance flows from men to women. When people talk about being romantic, it is men who are the true romantics. Just analyze the mechanics of romance, and you will see clearly that it's men who initiate it, and a woman gets on board. A woman describing a romantic man is simply a man who does things she likes. Talks to her in a certain way, cares for her, buys her things, basically a giver and a doer. When men want to be romantic with a woman, it is also to do things for her. My idea of a romantic woman is a woman who onboard, integrates, and follows my program. I tell her we are going to Accra for the weekend, then she is so excited, prepared her best dress and just follows me without drama. This is the natural dynamic. You are a man, if you want sex, you should lead. 12 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 3:04pm On Apr 13 |
toujurs: Hopefully, I get to see this description in action with time. Cos as I dey, I spend on myself first - the best thing money can buy. Looking tacky in the name of "the wealth of a man is seen in his wife" no follow. My Igbo no reach that level. Upon this spending on their wives, their daughters later become active feminists with a touch of lesbianism. To what end? 3 Likes |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 3:13pm On Apr 13 |
pansophist:Definitely men should create the environment that will make intimacy thrive, then you relax and let your spouse take it up from there |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 3:15pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59:if you take good care of yourself you spouse can never weaponize sex, women know when their man is attractive and stylish hence they tend to calm down. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Regex: 3:16pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59: 😂 😂... Omo I spend on myself like kilode...I be igbo but e no reach me where my money deh... |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by SSpeter(m): 3:17pm On Apr 13 |
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Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Karleb(m): 3:17pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59: I feel like flogging some igbo women sometimes. Igbo men do the most in the place of love and even family. I heard any child born into an igbo man's family automatically become his by tradition. A lot of you can't see through this because it's has been baked into tradition. Despite this, you people still have the most ungrateful set of women. I still wonder how feminism appeal to igbo women so much. Could it be because of Chimamanda? |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 3:33pm On Apr 13 |
Karleb: Some say na because Igbo laws and traditions are patriarchal, but which culture in Nigeria isn't? I discussed this with a friend who was born and bred in the East. In his opinion, Igbos like to adopt anything in vogue. The culture encourages it, and with Christianity being a liberal religion, it becomes easier. The problem with this adoption is that people also adopt nonsense without considering their environment and long-term effects. Anyway, good luck to men who marry modern Igbo women. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by wwwtortoise(m): 4:09pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59: You lot are quick to make umbrella statements without reflecting on intrinsic specifics. My heart goes out to your followers who swallow your output hook, line and sinker. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by wwwtortoise(m): 4:38pm On Apr 13 |
toujurs: Depends on the demographic population of the Igbo men you mean. Most uneducated/businessmen/artisans in every population have this dating trait. It’s easy to see that what they lack in finesse, they tend to makeup with show of love using money. Your generalization is flawed please. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 5:05pm On Apr 13 |
wwwtortoise: I did not state anything categorically. I only reference a friend who was born and bred in the East. Why should I lie? If you have any counter opinion or fact, please state it. But attacking one's personality or post without well constructed criticism or fact is foolhardy. So, in your opinion, wwwtortoise, why does it seem that Igbo women are at the centre of feminism and lesbianism in Nigeria? |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by wwwtortoise(m): 5:25pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59: Chimamandan Adichie as the face of feminism in contemporary and of Igbo descent gives a false projection of Igbo women as being the Centre of feminism. I could easily counter that by saying that Funmilayo Ransom Kuti is the pioneer of feminism in Nigeria. As with all noble ideologies, core values are being watered down with passage of time. Cultism, Feminism, religion. . . just name it. Can you point me to statistics that underline your assertion that Igbo women are at the center of feminism in Nigeria? |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Gerrard59(m): 6:35pm On Apr 13 |
wwwtortoise: I was not the one who mentioned or referenced the bold. As for your last wordings, my bad for stating as a fact. It is an observation, not a fact. So no statistics. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by toujurs: 6:46pm On Apr 13 |
wwwtortoise:Guy don't bring sentiments because you are an igbo guy. Most igbo men feel inferior of themselves when it comes to love and care. Especially why, most igbo girls are too greedy, even the broke igbo girls, feels entitled to marrying a rich man. Igbo women, have the highest "single" rating in Nigeria, unlike anyother tribe in Nigeria. Why? They are all waiting for an odogwu. This is unlike Yoruba men, a yoruba man takesgood care of him care before he even thinks of his wife, but definitely his children. Depending on how he earns. But an igbo man, can be wearing one trouser for 2 years, just to ensure that his wife, wear a better clothe. And most other women would say they would like to marry an igbo man, and these igbo men would be smiling unknown to them it's because of their mumu, when it comes to love matters. Guy this thing am saying are facts, check the statistics of most successful igbo men, they lived their whole lives, in principles just to secure the billions his wive, and children are flexing. While he dies at latest 63 or 65. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by wwwtortoise(m): 7:08pm On Apr 13 |
Gerrard59: No hard feelings sir. Apologies for coming off as rude too. Just that I think making such comments based on observations alone is not proper. Have a great weekend! |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by wwwtortoise(m): 7:13pm On Apr 13 |
toujurs: Can you please point me to articles or journals that validates your claims? |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 10:47pm On Apr 13 |
Evolutionism: Say what now? 🤣 I'm mkpuru mmírì-personified. One drag, and you're gone. 1 Like |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Evolutionism: 10:18am On Apr 14 |
Eunoiaa: Lol you won't wound me with laughter. Mpuru mmiri, I reject it for you in Jesus name. I know you will change and be calm eventually. You will grow tired of this ever burning massive energy of yours. I will have you in my Arms someday. |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Eunoiaa(f): 6:33pm On Apr 14 |
Evolutionism: We shall see in 10 years time. 🤝🤝 |
Re: It Is Unromantic For Males To Initiate Intimacy In Marriage by Iamzik: 8:00pm On Apr 14 |
Eunoiaa: Make Una sha send wedding IV to we online in-laws 😃😃 |
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