It's your first day of sex so relax. There's nothing to be ashamed of here. Give yourself some time, experience will help make you gallant. First days are like that. I remember my first day like it was yesterday. I was pressing breast and before the olosho could pull down my trouser and slide my dick inside her pussy properly, the deed had already been done. The senior bros that advised me to start with an olosho, I still dey respect am till date. It's very important to start sex with a total stranger that may never see you again, maka respect.

@OP I can understand that you were nervous, reason for the quick ejaculation.. the part I don't get is where you said getting an erection is a full time job, and you're in your late twenties, like seriously?.. not even thirties or fourties.

I'll advise you change your diet, cut off soft drinks, check and search for foods that boost men's sexual health and add them to your diet. I have this big book on complete health guide that I would want you to get from any bookstore near you and read. Also cultivate the habit of reading, some things affecting your health are things you can avoid and your entire body system will be fine.
If you smoke, stop it. Best of luck.

Nonexisting1:
It's your first day of sex so relax. There's nothing to be ashamed of here. Give yourself some time, experience will help make you gallant. First days are like that. I remember my first day like it was yesterday. I was pressing breast and before the olosho could pull down my trouser and slide my dick inside her pussy properly, the deed had already been done. The senior bros that advised me to start with an olosho, I still dey respect am till date. It's very important to start sex with a total stranger that may never see you again, maka respect.

Exactly.👍

He has to Try again with a Different Babe!
He can connect with any cheap, 'Fucck me and give me Money' Babe he knows.🙂

because he can NEVER get it right with that Other Babe.
Fear and Anxiety will still overwhelm him.😒😕

Salami234:
Please I'm not proud of this but that have become my reality..mod please move to the right section..

I need help, and urgently guys..

Today is the worst day of my life which I wish I never experience,before I continue please pardon my grammar..

I'm in my late twenties,I never had sex with anybody before till today, though I have been masturbating for years now,but never had sexual penetration before,so few days ago there's this girl,(we work in the same place) we started chatting, having some kind of sexual chats,we also do video calls where we masturbate together..so today she pleaded that I come over to her place,I insisted that I'm not ready for it yet but she insisted,I already told her that I never had sex before,after much persuasion I agreed but on a condition that no penetration which she agreed too..

So I went there,we did the romancing,and she started pleading that we have real sex.. before we started I'm already in panic mood,my heart was beating faster,I finally give in to her demand..

Bredrens before I could even penetrate, I have already released.😞😞😞 My god I was so embarrassed I forgot, getting a full erection was also a full time job...

Please I'm emotionally and mentally down, what should I do to overcome this?

I already know that I don finally cast because that girl will surely tell her friends everything,I'm really down mentally..

Someone should help me please 🙏🙏🙏

Till further notice nothing concern me with girls again..

The purpose of sex is for procreation. As long as you can have an erection and discharge a healthy semen. You are good.

Any lady who is not satisfied with that is a prostitute.

FRANCISTOWN:

The purpose of sex is for procreation. As long as you can have an erection and discharge a healthy semen. You are good.

Any lady who is not satisfied with that is a prostitute.

I am to satisfy myself first now and have learnt to be intentionally selfish.

Before, I spent almost an hour on a pre-intimacy which the ladies benefit over 95% and non ever reciprocated except the whites and the Asian ladies.

Sapasenator:


I am to satisfy myself first now and have learnt to be intentionally selfish.

Before, I spent almost an hour on a pre-intimacy which the ladies benefit over 95% and non ever reciprocated except the whites and the Asian ladies.

Na so life be o. As long as I'm good, that's it.

If she want more make she go buy vibrator.

FRANCISTOWN:

Na so life be o. As long as I'm good, that's it.

Is she want more make she go buy vibrator.

Many brothers don kill themselves in the guise to satisfy a banny, I will never take a performance enhancing drug to please any woman and I never feel ashamed whether I last 2 seconds or two hours, so far I am satisfied.
If I last 2 seconds, it's her duty to suck or play with gbola and bring it back to a throbbing hardness if she is any serious. No time to waste.

helinues:
Over urge could cause it actually, not necessarily something is wrong with you

Also if the spark is not there before engaging in sex, you might also loose interest

I couldn't find the spark toward this girl today .. i tried and tried to force that konji but e no wan show .. though I was semi hard but I just couldn't find that spark to pipe her even though she was down for it ..

I really can't tell if I'm not sexually attracted to this girl .. it's just that if this girl go like that, e go pain me oo

Dyfynezz12:

Person wey go marry u go start afresh begin train u,cox na baby brain dey ur head
Bby in adult body

na small pikin.. no too reason am ..

Salami234:
Please I'm not proud of this but that have become my reality..mod please move to the right section..

I need help, and urgently guys..

Today is the worst day of my life which I wish I never experience,before I continue please pardon my grammar..

I'm in my late twenties,I never had sex with anybody before till today, though I have been masturbating for years now,but never had sexual penetration before,so few days ago there's this girl,(we work in the same place) we started chatting, having some kind of sexual chats,we also do video calls where we masturbate together..so today she pleaded that I come over to her place,I insisted that I'm not ready for it yet but she insisted,I already told her that I never had sex before,after much persuasion I agreed but on a condition that no penetration which she agreed too..

So I went there,we did the romancing,and she started pleading that we have real sex.. before we started I'm already in panic mood,my heart was beating faster,I finally give in to her demand..

Bredrens before I could even penetrate, I have already released.😞😞😞 My god I was so embarrassed I forgot, getting a full erection was also a full time job...

Please I'm emotionally and mentally down, what should I do to overcome this?

I already know that I don finally cast because that girl will surely tell her friends everything,I'm really down mentally..

Someone should help me please 🙏🙏🙏

Till further notice nothing concern me with girls again..

😂🤣I’m sorry

But maybe you should stop masturbating and do more penetrative sex🤷🏽‍♀️, I don’t know o
And if the girl is mature she no suppose cast you🤣, um on a serious note….. I don’t even know sef

Salami234:
Please I'm not proud of this but that have become my reality..mod please move to the right section..

I need help, and urgently guys..

Today is the worst day of my life which I wish I never experience,before I continue please pardon my grammar..

I'm in my late twenties,I never had sex with anybody before till today, though I have been masturbating for years now,but never had sexual penetration before,so few days ago there's this girl,(we work in the same place) we started chatting, having some kind of sexual chats,we also do video calls where we masturbate together..so today she pleaded that I come over to her place,I insisted that I'm not ready for it yet but she insisted,I already told her that I never had sex before,after much persuasion I agreed but on a condition that no penetration which she agreed too..

So I went there,we did the romancing,and she started pleading that we have real sex.. before we started I'm already in panic mood,my heart was beating faster,I finally give in to her demand..

Bredrens before I could even penetrate, I have already released.😞😞😞 My god I was so embarrassed I forgot, getting a full erection was also a full time job...

Please I'm emotionally and mentally down, what should I do to overcome this?

I already know that I don finally cast because that girl will surely tell her friends everything,I'm really down mentally..

Someone should help me please 🙏🙏🙏

Till further notice nothing concern me with girls again..

I think the mistake you made was having an affair with some one who is far from your acclaimed virgin standard

Some very matured girls are too much for you as a beginner

Look for a starter like you so that you guys can be on the same level of speed or pedal

When a woman is demanding for sex, she doesn't expect a learner to crash her ride
When women are hot, they need an erotic man who will handle her properly and with enough experience and stamina on handling women

Assuming you have that experience of handling women, just ordinary romance on her will solve that problem, if you really don't want to penetrate

But you acted as if you can operate a crain machine and you end up making it worst

You can't just start climbing an upstairs from the middle, you will have to start from ground level

So take a full break and go back to the board to know more about the cooky jar

Salami234:
Please I'm not proud of this but that have become my reality..mod please move to the right section..

I need help, and urgently guys..

Today is the worst day of my life which I wish I never experience,before I continue please pardon my grammar..

I'm in my late twenties,I never had sex with anybody before till today, though I have been masturbating for years now,but never had sexual penetration before,so few days ago there's this girl,(we work in the same place) we started chatting, having some kind of sexual chats,we also do video calls where we masturbate together..so today she pleaded that I come over to her place,I insisted that I'm not ready for it yet but she insisted,I already told her that I never had sex before,after much persuasion I agreed but on a condition that no penetration which she agreed too..

So I went there,we did the romancing,and she started pleading that we have real sex.. before we started I'm already in panic mood,my heart was beating faster,I finally give in to her demand..

Bredrens before I could even penetrate, I have already released.😞😞😞 My god I was so embarrassed I forgot, getting a full erection was also a full time job...

Please I'm emotionally and mentally down, what should I do to overcome this?

I already know that I don finally cast because that girl will surely tell her friends everything,I'm really down mentally..

Someone should help me please 🙏🙏🙏

Till further notice nothing concern me with girls again..

You are not. Did you expect you would "dang" like Jack Bauer at your first attempt . You aren't a 2sec. In fact if you hadn't overplayed the scenario in your head, you would have been in a calmer frame of mind to play it down and later initiate a second round that your performance would have surprised even you.

Salami234:
I'm really embarrassed and scared..

I hope it doesn't affect me in the future.

I wish I could be like you sometimes. I’m a complete opposite.

Silentgroper:
na small pikin.. no too reason am ..

She don old,but her brain no gree follow am grow

Dyfynezz12:

She don old,but her brain no gree follow am grow

easy man ...

Aunty rose life matters ooo