EreluRoz:
In cases like this, the woman is not enjoying sex with her man and unfortunately men hates women that are open to them sexually, so some women who are not disciplined would rather secretly seek fun outside than appearing as a LovePeddler before her husband.

You are quite right on your statement here, that the major issue with marriages with regards to sex, PRETENCE. ordinarily couples should be able to communicate their sexual needs and teach each other were appropriate. Sincerely that's why early extreme sexual adventure is not good....that also y most men prefer virgins with zero sex experience.

Who is this?

EreluRoz:
Marry who matches your sexual energy, bring out that freaky side of your woman and enjoy your sexual life. No woman cheats on a man who satisfy her cravings. Take this to the banks.

You talked about attraction in one of ur comments, yet still arguing blindly that woman can't cheat outside provisions and good sex.


Some women if their husband is 90% okay as man, the remaining 10% shortall, she would still go out to get it and cheat.


What did u want to say about woman, that husband giving 50k but still go out Bleep because of 5k one man outside wants to dash?

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

If you like provide everything for a woman, she will cheat. It's in their blood

pquaver:

But men too are not created to be with 1 woman.. U want us to accept ur not providing but u dont want to accept we are polygamous.. Dey play

most women don't have problems with polygamy but the annoying thing is a struggling man that his wife is assisting to manage his home will now go and bring another woman and be cajoling you to accept and fund his polygamous life(e.g Yul Edochie). No be juju bdat.

As you can see Ned is enjoying his women peacefully. Also you must consult your wife first before taking that polygamous decision, there must be an agreement from both parties. You don't force it

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

How can expect him not to be polygamous when he is also created to provide and procreate.. U want him to be with only u and expect happiness.. Everyman is wired to be polygamous.. The day una accept our own we go accept una nonsense.. What happened to gender equality..?? Na only for where e favour una abi.. Una think say only una get sense

Antoeni:
A bag of rice is now 57k from 87k, but it will not trend because it’s not a bad news

The fall in price shall be good news when the cost of a bag of rice falls down to a price slightly above the 2015 price, considering normal inflation rates since then; not considering the runaway inflation rate inflicted upon Nigerians by the APC since 2015.

She urged men to be financially stable and responsible to avoid infidelity on the part of their spouse...
At bold when she says this I off for her..
That Philippines rich politician who came back home and met his wife in bed with their adopted son both naked in bed , and I ask is he not financially stable that made to cheat on her husband even in their matrimonial bed without shame and she was even having the guts to say they weren't doing anything and many more related issues like that...

Never worry yourself over those people[b] if you are financially stable[/b] because you give them the whole earth or not they will still cheat so why worry about them that much..

No comment because I don’t have time to argue with olosho.

She is 100% correct but all these small boys forming brownpill will not agree until they become a victim tomorrow


Naturally, women were not created to provide, it is failed governments due to corrupt politicians and civil servants that reduced opportunities and made things so difficult for men that men now look up to their wives for provision.


I am a traditional African man who also believes in the word of God as written in the holy Bible.

And according to my Bible, God created Eve to keep Adam company (companionship) so he won't be lonely and bored. God didn't create Eve to start going to the bush to hunt and kill animals and bring to Adam to eat.



So before you decide to get married, please make sure you are at least settled financially to care of your basic responsibilities and that you have the means or job or business or trade or craft or something you are doing legitimately to earn a living to be able to take care of your wife and her needs. If you are lucky your wife happens to work and earn good income, then count yourself lucky but don't make it her responsibility to become the breadwinner.


Even if life unforeseen occurrences happens to you and you lose your means of income, dont frets, don't despair and dont be discouraged, restrategize and start all over again and let your wife come in little ways she can while you work towards retaining your lost glory as the family's breadwinner. Pray honestly to God about it and God will answer you.



Whatever a man desires deep in his heart and ask His God, believe me he will get it. If in your inner heart, you always crave and desire to marry a woman that will rich and cater for you, you will get it, but if you sincerely desire to always be the breadwinner of your family irrespective of how much your wife earns, trust me God will grant it to you, this I desired even when I was broke and I got it.


As a man, if you want to remain adored (of course every love outside your bloodline is conditional) by your wife, please avoid sharing Bill's 50-50 with your wife whether you live in New York, Cambodia, Seoul, London, Sydney, etc

Beauty4brain:
How can you let her struggle to provide for you and the family then still expect her to be loyal/flexible for you? Every Woman desire to be with a man who is above her in all areas of life.

In other words ...men are also allowed to cheat cos they struggle to provide...can't u see how dumb u sound ...only prostitutes will agree with her

Odewaleadesoye:


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“As a man, you have to get a job. How would you leave responsibilities for a woman for 9years and you’re expecting her not to sleep around?” all hail d ambassador of olosho. My olosho sugar mummy worth N200m. I just dey pity d inoccent husband.

ugodson:
I dont like this woman but , but she side the truth

What of rich men wife wey dey cheat? Wetin u wan tell us about that 1 in ur truth.. Oya

When a LovePeddler has large audience.
You can't stay in marriage but you are advising the married.

EreluRoz:
If she's a LovePeddler, make her your personal LovePeddler, that's it. So far marriage have entered do your best to keep it

I know a guy who followed this kind of advice and cried at last. He tried everything to keep her but she keeps going back to her numerous exes and fvck buddies.
I know you are a lady so it’s natural to support your gender. But a LovePeddler can’t be saved. Even the one I dated and took serious proved me right right. Lol

franchasofficia:
She is 100% correct but all these small boys forming brownpill will not agree until they become a victim tomorrow


Naturally, women were not created to provide, it is failed governments due to corrupt politicians and civil servants that reduced opportunities and made things so difficult for men that men now look up to their wives for provision.


I am a traditional African man who also believes in the word of God as written in the holy Bible.

And according to my Bible, God created Eve to keep Adam company (companionship) so he won't be lonely and bored. God didn't create Eve to start going to the bush to hunt and kill animals and bring to Adam to eat.



So before you decide to get married, please make sure you are at least settled financially to care of your basic responsibilities and that you have the means or job or business or trade or craft or something you are doing legitimately to earn a living to be able to take care of your wife and her needs. If you are lucky your wife happens to work and earn good income, then count yourself lucky but don't make it her responsibility to become the breadwinner.


Even if life unforeseen occurrences happens to you and you lose your means of income, dont frets, don't despair and dont be discouraged, restrategize and start all over again and let your wife come in little ways she can while you work towards retaining your lost glory as the family's breadwinner. Pray honestly to God about it and God will answer you.



Whatever a man desires deep in his heart and ask His God, believe me he will get it. If in your inner heart, you always crave and desire to marry a woman that will rich and cater for you, you will get it, but if you sincerely desire to always be the breadwinner of your family irrespective of how much your wife earns, trust me God will grant it to you, this I desired even when I was broke and I got it.


As a man, if you want to remain adored (of course every love outside your bloodline is conditional) by your wife, please avoid sharing Bill's 50-50 with your wife whether you live in New York, Cambodia, Seoul, London, Sydney, etc

I too like your submissions on issues like this. Odogwu for a reason

I don't pray to ever be a breadwinner while I have a husband, God forbid

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

By this, are you speaking for entitled women who choose for selfish reasons to hold unto this default reasoning? Is it okay for the man to cheat when he provides?

When prostitutes are inspired to have opinions on marital issues, then we must realize that marriage is under attack.

Harlot CEOs must steer clear of marital issues and I am yet to figure out why Seun has left nairaland to mediocre modes while spending all his focus on banters @x.

Elon Musk spends his time on X to make it better, but Seun also spends all his time on X. I have no idea what I am doing here anyway.

EreluRoz:
Abroad women cheat the most, infact they'll cheat and send the man to jail ontop

U justify a woman cheating and condemn a man that does same ....

Beverlyjean:


U justify a woman cheating and condemn a man that does same ....

Nobody is justifying anything but talking about reality

Odewaleadesoye:


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Simply lack of discipline

carlos1:


U now see why u shouldn't expect men to be faithful to you. U made good points

U see dis gender wey reason with satan.. Eh fear dem.. Shebi u see say if dem dey our position all they condemn man 4, dem for do more.. They cant take half of what we take from them yet them they claim victim pass

[quote author=TheDemola post=129471093]How is someone not married giving marriage advice? Can only happen in Nigeria. Take this girl serious at your own peril.[/quote

Baby mama dey give advice.
You are right

EreluRoz:
Nobody is justifying anything but talking about reality

It is destructive and unacceptable reality...only prostitutes and lazy womwn will accept that... if my husband stops providing, nothing in this world will make me sleep with another man... I will not even do it as a girlfriend, talkless as a wife

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

So what about the wives of millionaires and billionaires that cheat? They even cheat more.

EreluRoz:
I too like your submissions on issues like this. Odogwu for a reason

I don't pray to ever be a breadwinner while I have a husband, God forbid

and as you so desire, God will do for you okay?


Don't mind any guy expecting his wife to provide or share financial responsibilities equally with him, tell such guy that he is not yet ready to marry.


I have a daughter and I will definitely not want her to marry a man she will be caring for.

EreluRoz:
Folorunsho Alakija eventually sent her husband packing. You kom even give me point sef.

Make we give u.. Bill gate is divorced, kanye n kim, dr dre, Ay, basketmouth, julius agwu, geremi njitap all dis people no provide for their wives abi.. Try dey logical small

She is giving marriage advice yet single. Only the brainless ipob and obedients will listen to her.

Nonsense olosho who sleeps around with married men

TheDemola:
How is someone not married giving marriage advice? Can only happen in Nigeria. Take this girl serious at your own peril.

I see her as irresponsible woman.its a mad man who would want his wife to be responsible for households.We have seen a situation where the husband is agile and having the necessary qualifications but would not be gainfully employed. Where that happened, it thus become a license for the woman to be bleeping about on the streets because she wants to make food available for her family? Tueh!

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Mumu. Na rich men wives dey cheat pass.

idahme:


When they called you good for nothing you get angry. What is the opportunity you get exposed to that boys didn't get exposed to or vice versa? Limit your head to a certain point where you become useless to the society, you women are funny on one hand you shout gender equality that you all should be given juicy positions in Government, sent for scholarships, get trained and turn around not to accept responsibility for the much the society has given to you.

You want the perks of the society but don't want responsibilities , you better go back to kindergarten so you can enjoy all the freebies without raising your hands no wonder prostitutes are on the increase and paternity fraud is increasing in geometric progression .

Equality but not when it concerns financial responsibility, women sincerely don't love men they only see men as a means to make their life easier once that money drops or stops everyone runs. Very greedy, selfish and self centered humans parading the earth

Bros u have said it all.. Nothing to add

A hoe that has never been married is giving a marital advice. This should tell you that majority of Naija women are dumb.