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Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op):
Saw this woman's before and after marriage pics on Facebook and decided to share. How true is this statement

''If you're married to someone and after a while the person does not look better, becomes successful than you met him/her, you're a bad partner/ influence ''

A woman I know was accused by her church pastor that she isn't praying enough for her husband, that's why the man has been in reckless gambling addiction without stopping. An addiction he had even before marriage.
They actually made her feel responsible for her husband's addiction, to the point that she started losing herself.

What's your view on such marriage?

Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Nazgul: 6:43pm On Apr 21, 2024
That's a picture of two different people.
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Jennyclay(f):
Nazgul:
That's a picture of two different people.
she might be the same person.

May God not allow us marry a broke poverty stricken nonsense man undecided. That’s what you get when you settle for a broke man who can’t take good care of you.

What most married women are going through in the hands of these foolish men called husband is highly unspeakable undecided

I will always look down on broke men because they are bunch of nobody and they have absolutely nothing to offer. I hate them with passion!!! undecided
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by 1Sharon(f): 7:06pm On Apr 21, 2024
Jennyclay:
she might be the same person.

May God not allow us marry a broke poverty stricken nonsense man undecided. That’s what you get when you settle for a broke man who can’t take good care of you.

What most married women are going through in the hands of these foolish men called husband is highly unspeakable undecided

I will always look down on broke men because they are bunch of nobody and they have absolutely to offer. I hate them with passion!!! undecided
Were grin
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Alexiiydon: 7:23pm On Apr 21, 2024
After behaving like Jenny Clay she come go marry and expect good marriage...Dey play my fans
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by muyico(m): 7:54pm On Apr 21, 2024
Two different pictures
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Sonnobax15(m): 7:59pm On Apr 21, 2024
lipsrsealed
Na wa
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:24pm On Apr 21, 2024
The horseband even made her become blind in one eye. Some women can tolerate anything in the name of marriage. No self worth, no self esteem, zero intelligence, big pity.
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 8:35pm On Apr 21, 2024
Nazgul:
That's a picture of two different people.
No. That's the same person
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 8:35pm On Apr 21, 2024
muyico:
Two different pictures
No
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op):
LilMissFavvy:
The horseband even made her become blind in one eye. Some women can tolerate anything in the name of marriage. No self worth, no self esteem, zero intelligence, big pity.
And you think it's easy for both men and women to walk away with their children left behind? Many people stays in marriage for the sake of their children
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Nice2023(m):
Most of my class mates in secondary are already looking like an old mamas and papas,I mean very old.

Some of them started doing agbero,some started getting married early without income.
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 8:54pm On Apr 21, 2024
Nice2023:
Most of my class mates in secondary are already looking like an old mamas and papas,I mean very old.
Marriage itself is hard work not to talk of marrying someone that stress you out.
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by obinna58(m): 9:07pm On Apr 21, 2024
The alpha male redpiller give her wotowoto

That’s me and Jennyclay after we get married
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 6:30am On Apr 22, 2024
obinna58:
The alpha male redpiller give her wotowoto

That’s me and Jennyclay after we get married
Hmmmmmm
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Double0h7(f): 9:51am On Apr 22, 2024
Jennyclay:
she might be the same person.

May God not allow us marry a broke poverty stricken nonsense man undecided. That’s what you get when you settle for a broke man who can’t take good care of you.

What most married women are going through in the hands of these foolish men called husband is highly unspeakable undecided

I will always look down on broke men because they are bunch of nobody and they have absolutely nothing to offer. I hate them with passion!!! undecided
You always say the quiet parts loud 😂😂😂
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Double0h7(f): 9:53am On Apr 22, 2024
LilMissFavvy:
The horseband even made her become blind in one eye. Some women can tolerate anything in the name of marriage. No self worth, no self esteem, zero intelligence, big pity.
Not blind in one eye 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Legal001: 10:14am On Apr 22, 2024
cry cry cry
Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 10:33am On Apr 22, 2024
Legal001:
cry cry cry
Marriage is to be enjoyed not endured
Sure
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Juwessgratitud3: 5:09am On Apr 23, 2024
Nice2023:
Most of my class mates in secondary are already looking like an old mamas and papas,I mean very old.

Some of them started doing agbero,some started getting married early without income.
This right here is one of the major causes of looking older than your age in marriage. Marrying Poor. Your lives will dwindle to a point of no return because you can't even afford the basic needs of life and you both have to share resources meant for one.
This is why I run from any man who's not financially ready. I won't even date you.
My papa no suffer me, no man will come and suffer me in the name of marriage.
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Darlingme(op): 10:36pm On Apr 24, 2024
Juwessgratitud3:
This right here is one of the major causes of looking older than your age in marriage. Marrying Poor. Your lives will dwindle to a point of no return because you can't even afford the basic needs of life and you both have to share resources meant for one.
This is why I run from any man who's not financially ready. I won't even date you.
My papa no suffer me, no man will come and suffer me in the name of marriage.
And if the couple lack understanding and start giving birth to multiple children, the weight will be too much on them
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by 99thEnemy(m): 7:42pm On Jun 08, 2024
Jennyclay:
she might be the same person.

May God not allow us marry a broke poverty stricken nonsense man undecided. That’s what you get when you settle for a broke man who can’t take good care of you.

What most married women are going through in the hands of these foolish men called husband is highly unspeakable undecided

I will always look down on broke men because they are bunch of nobody and they have absolutely nothing to offer. I hate them with passion!!! undecided
You family will rejoice the day you marry the man if your dreams.

It will be in celebration of the poverty alleviation scheme they will benefit from. cool
Re: Looking Good/worst Before And After Marriage by Sapasenator: 7:46pm On Jun 08, 2024
Na wedding makeup angry angry undecided
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