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Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:51pm On Apr 22, 2024
There seems to be a great confusion between being kind and being a simp. Please know the differences and know why some men are called a simp.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him. He quietly ended the relationship sharply in the most respectful way -That is being kind.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him, instead of leaving her he forgive her because she promise him that She will change. He went ahead to marry her and she still cheat and he is crying hoping that she will change- That is being a simp
Please know the differences
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce:
Stop disguising. You are simp.

A simp is an awkwardly kind person.

An awkwardly kind person is a simp
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 11:48pm On Apr 22, 2024
Carcholce:
Stop disguising. You are simp.

A simp is an awkwardly kind person.
na u be the simp lol- olodo
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 11:53pm On Apr 22, 2024
atoliman:
na u be the simp lol- olodo
The two men in the scenarios you described above, they are both simps.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Threedoorsdown: 12:31am On Apr 23, 2024
How is the first guy. Simp?

Because he wasn't violent? He caught her cheating and broke up immediately. No need for fight or long talks. How is he a simp?
Carcholce:
The two men in the scenarios you described above, they are both simps.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by MrCork: 1:17am On Apr 23, 2024
atoliman:
There seems to be a great confusion between being kind and being a simp. Please know the differences and know why some men are called a simp.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him. He quietly ended the relationship sharply in the most respectful way -That is being kind.
A man saw his girlfriend cheating on him, instead of leaving her he forgive her because she promise him that She will change. He went ahead to marry her and she still cheat and he is crying hoping that she will change- That is being a simp
Please know the differences
Did women chop yor moiney sir? (no oofencse) angry
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by succri(m): 7:16am On Apr 23, 2024
Kinda spill over if you dont know when to leave the table , ppl use kind ppl because they are predictable
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 8:59am On Apr 23, 2024
Carcholce:
The two men in the scenarios you described above, they are both simps.
You are actually a SIMP if you think the two men are SIMPs.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by akan102: 9:36am On Apr 23, 2024
Carcholce:
Stop disguising. You are simp.

A simp is an awkwardly kind person.
Even you don't think you understood what you said
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 9:38am On Apr 23, 2024
akan102:
Even you don't think you understood what you said
A man that comes online trying to make us understand the difference between a simp and being kind is a Simp. You my friend, and the OP are simpletons.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 9:39am On Apr 23, 2024
BigDickProblems:
You are actually a SIMP if you think the two men are SIMPs.
If your woman even thinks of cheating on you, you are simpleton. She sees nothing in you.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 9:40am On Apr 23, 2024
Threedoorsdown:
How is the first guy. Simp?

Because he wasn't violent? He caught her cheating and broke up immediately. No need for fight or long talks. How is he a simp?
None of that. Because he was cheated on.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 9:53am On Apr 23, 2024
Carcholce:
If your woman even thinks of cheating on you, you are simpleton. She sees nothing in you.
Are you a kid? Anyone can cheat on anyone, it's a free world. That doesn't make you a SIMP.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 10:04am On Apr 23, 2024
BigDickProblems:
Are you a kid? Anyone can cheat on anyone, it's a free world. That doesn't make you a SIMP.
Did your mother cheat on your father?
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:35am On Apr 23, 2024
Carcholce:
Did your mother cheat on your father?
You're a bittered kid. I don't blame you. You probably have a h*oe mother who gave birth to a bastard like you. And now you don't have respect for people's mother and father.

Reply this if your mother F"*cked multiple men and don't even know who your father is. A son of a slu*t and a bastard. Lols.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 10:39am On Apr 23, 2024
BigDickProblems:
You're a bittered kid. I don't blame you. You probably have a h*oe mother who gave birth to a bastard like you. And now you don't have respect for people's mother and father.

Reply this if your mother F"*cked multiple men and don't even know who your father is. A son of a slu*t and a bastard. Lols.
Ah, are we quarreling already? You said it is a free world. A world where it is free to do anything you want. And I asked a simple question, did your mother operate in this free world and cheated on your father?

Please no more insults. Learn to give a meaningful response.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Threedoorsdown: 2:47pm On Apr 23, 2024
So only simps get cheated on? Lol

Oya nau
Carcholce:
None of that. Because he was cheated on.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 3:42pm On Apr 23, 2024
Threedoorsdown:
So only simps get cheated on? Lol

Oya nau
Yep
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Colson(m): 6:46am On Apr 24, 2024
Carcholce:
None of that. Because he was cheated on.
what are you? 12?
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 7:15am On Apr 24, 2024
Colson:
what are you? 12?
Yes.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:34pm On Apr 24, 2024
MrCork:
Did women chop yor moiney sir? (no oofencse) angry
no woman chop my money happily
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:36pm On Apr 24, 2024
Threedoorsdown:
So only simps get cheated on? Lol

Oya nau
So what if your babe who are dating for while come across someone like Davido or Wizkid or celebrity liKe Messi and decided to cheated on you no matter how bad boy you are or redpill you are. Are you simp because she is cheating on you? Definately not, stuff happens. You are simp if you decide to take her back. Olodos full this forum
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:40pm On Apr 24, 2024
Threedoorsdown:
How is the first guy. Simp?

Because he wasn't violent? He caught her cheating and broke up immediately. No need for fight or long talks. How is he a simp?
Olodo full this forum, some folks fail to understand the basic principle that anyone can cheat. Some claim a girfriend cheating is a trait of a simp, if their girlfriends cheat on them like a Davido or Mbappé , are they simp?
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 10:43pm On Apr 24, 2024
Carcholce:
A man that comes online trying to make us understand the difference between a simp and being kind is a Simp. You my friend, and the OP are simpletons.
na you be a simp, a kind man is not a simp and not a violent man. Cheating girlfriend does not make a man a simp, a man who take back a cheating girlfriend back is a simp. if Messi or Mbappé start toasting your babe, i wonder if your girl will not cheat on you.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 10:52pm On Apr 24, 2024
atoliman:
na you be a simp, a kind man is not a simp and not a violent man. Cheating girlfriend does not make a man a simp, a man who take back a cheating girlfriend back is a simp. if Messi or Mbappé start toasting your babe, i wonder if your girl will not cheat on you.
If they toast her and She agrees for them, that makes me a simpleton.


A kind man is a simp. You cannot be kind and not simp in the act of kindness.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Nobody: 11:03pm On Apr 24, 2024
Carcholce:
If they toast her and She agrees for them, that makes me a simpleton.


A kind man is a simp. You cannot be kind and not simp in the act of kindness.
it does not, Kindness only make you a good man with principles and boundaries. Boundaries such as I will not take back a cheating girlfriend because I am not desperate and, principle is i respect myself and not stupid enough to take a cheater back . Kindness is a good virtue, it is when you take her back that make you a simp. A simp is a man who does not respect himself, do not have principle or boundaries and will take a cheating girlfriend back. A cheating girlfriend now knows his mumu button and will capitalize his weakness for her advantage so she will always cheat because she knows that He will always cry and take her back.
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Threedoorsdown: 11:37pm On Apr 24, 2024
U no see say i no follow am argue. No need

Make he continue with his belief
atoliman:
Olodo full this forum, some folks fail to understand the basic principle that anyone can cheat. Some claim a girfriend cheating is a trait of a simp, if their girlfriends cheat on them like a Davido or Mbappé , are they simp?
Re: Being Kind Does Not Mean Be A Simp by Carcholce: 11:46pm On Apr 24, 2024
atoliman:
it does not, Kindness only make you a good man with principles and boundaries. Boundaries such as I will not take back a cheating girlfriend because I am not desperate and, principle is i respect myself and not stupid enough to take a cheater back . Kindness is a good virtue, it is when you take her back that make you a simp. A simp is a man who does not respect himself, do not have principle or boundaries and will take a cheating girlfriend back. A cheating girlfriend now knows his mumu button and will capitalize his weakness for her advantage so she will always cheat because she knows that He will always cry and take her back.
If I get cheated on by my girlfriend. I don’t need anyone to tell me I’m a simp.
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