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| Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by mamawa123(op): 5:56pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
We need to be mindful of what we say or post on social media because it might come back to haunt us. My cousin met a guy in late 2022, and their relationship was good up until early this month. Her boyfriend took her to the UK and Cancun this past February, and he even proposed to her on Valentine's Day in Cancun. I believe she was really in love with this guy, but her friends who are jealous of her and her relationship ruined everything, all because of the series of things she posted online before she met her boyfriend. One of her friends, who was jealous of the relationship, sent my cousin's old social media posts to my cousin's boyfriend. Some of the posts. “I don’t give a damn about any love, and I am not going to be loyal to any man. I go where money goes” “Don’t come here to preach love to me because that 4 that letter words is not in my dictionary” “I don’t know why women get upset when their partners cheat on them, as for me, I don’t care if you cheat on me or not……….I am bleeping any man that can pay the price” He called her about two weeks ago to break the bad news: "I am no longer interested in this relationship." Now she’s down crying, and the boyfriend stop picking calls. |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by advanceDNA: 6:00pm On Apr 23, 2024*. Modified: 7:35am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Yawn!!!!!!!! She go dey alright......another bankroller will come her way....that won't even mind she's a Gold digger..... And if she doesn't get another rich man She can as well remain single ......... Yawn!!! 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Blossomcresty(m): 6:01pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
We're responsible for our actions the day we clock 18. Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. 1 Like |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by BigYash: 6:01pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Let her go where money is ooo.. And she must not be loyal to any man.. Them go carry phone dey type nonsense up and down.... Na God save that guy o.. She was just pretending to love the guy,so that she can ruin his life.. Thank God he is a son of a praying mother..  10 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by 2aces(m): 6:18pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Women supporting women, they just helped their mate get back on track, she almost strayed away  8 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by NEUDUDE: 6:21pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Na where the money dey she dey so. Thank God the guy get understanding and he's looking out for himself, which suppose be the main goal. All is rosy now na becos the guy dey bankroll am. The moment power change hands, the guy go see shege raise to power 100. This guy suppose collect award. Na my kind of person be this lol . He will definitely meet another banny, shebi na money be am lol. Banny plenty, just get money 5 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by fyzaila: 6:38pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
How did her friends ruin everything 🤔 because all i see is loyal friends reminding her of her words and how she must stick to those words 😃😁 8 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Grinhect: 6:39pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
She wasn't lieing after all.... 1 Like |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Trevor125: 6:48pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
That's why it's not good for a responsible lady to be posting nonsense on the social Media. 3 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by worldclass68(m): 8:21pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
I was going to bump into a lady dm on FB, but when I saw "zero committed" on her about....I faced front sharperly... 4 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Farrason: 10:55pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
mamawa123:The cock has come home to roost!! |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by WantsandMore: 10:55pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Trevor125:How can responsible and nonsense coexist in the first place ? 1 Like |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Dyfynezz12(m): 11:01pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Serves her right, Think before u post on the net cause the internet never forget 1 Like |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by mamawa123(op): 11:34pm On Apr 23, 2024 |
Farrason:You're right, but she is not a bad girl. I believe all those posts were for clout sake. |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Starz825(m): 2:33am On Apr 24, 2024 |
WantsandMore:He dey happen sometimes... Sometimes, when ladies are in their lowest emotional state...they start typing rubbish on their socials ...may be after a break up and all telling the whole world how they hate men... But dem no go remember say good man fit come their way later in life 3 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Rexymania(m): 7:12am On Apr 24, 2024 |
As much as I hated what she posted... Her fiance is not matured enough to handle a marriage. He should have investigated before breaking up. Who does that. You can't compare a 23 year old me and my 30, it's different man. 6 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by DevilsEqual(m): 7:44am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Do women really lose out in cases like this? Not at all There are more in line to wife her up and the good thing is that whatever she did to attract this one would prolly be enough to attract a classy yet stupider man It's a W in the end |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Zonefree(m): 7:48am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Trevor125:Are there responsible ladies in Nigeria?  2 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Zonefree(m): 7:50am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Rexymania:Men change, women don't. A womaniser can stop womanising the moment he gets married but an olosho will always remain olosho even after marriage. 6 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by advanceDNA: 7:52am On Apr 24, 2024*. Modified: 9:51am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Rexymania:He's immature for being careful?? What investigation would u have done?? 30 year old u could even be worst than 23 year old you...so u don't really have a point on the age issue 2 Likes |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by papyjaypaul: 8:06am On Apr 24, 2024 |
mamawa123:She should not cry. She should celebrate that she dodged a bullet. If a friend can make the guy make this type of decision when they are not married because of what she wrote in the past and could have grown up from, what will he do when he has to manage his neighbours, colleagues and in-laws  They will say your wife did this yesterday, oya send her out. Make she de celebrate escape. When you are rejected, it is a redirection. Take heed. 1 Like
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| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by 99thEnemy(m): 8:14am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Rexymania:Sometimes it’s difficult to take that risk. If it is in someone’s human nature, it can only be suppressed, which means anytime conditions favor such nature, it springs back up and sometimes like never before. For example, someone doesn’t just stop being a psychopath. I no fit blame the guy at all. 1 Like |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by WantsandMore: 8:23am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Starz825: |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Mikespecialone(m): 9:05am On Apr 24, 2024 |
What goes around comes around |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Bongadu: 9:13am On Apr 24, 2024 |
A girl that has social media is a huge red flag to me Only who'res have social media
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| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by CheedyJ(m): 9:56am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Serves her right ,I'm sure if the said guy was broke she won't even consider dating him. |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Holluwhakemmy(f): 10:00am On Apr 24, 2024 |
Fake story as usual 🙄 😒 😑 |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by AcadaWriter: 11:17am On Apr 24, 2024 |
She wasn't lieing after all.... |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Farrason: 12:05pm On Apr 24, 2024 |
mamawa123:That's not what I mean... The things she did not caring the implications have come back to hunt her. I belief this is what the OP also meant when he said mind what you post online. |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by bigpicture001: 12:54pm On Apr 24, 2024 |
It happens even here in Naira land....creta a topic of a good debated issue or ask for assistant...ppl will go to ur old posts and dig up ur ideology |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Autobot05: 1:08pm On Apr 24, 2024 |
Sharp man Your cousin is a farm tool |
| Re: Be Mindful Of What You’re About To Post On Social Media by Obierika(m): 12:45pm On Apr 30, 2024 |
Bongadu:Really? |
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