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Ladies and gentlemen of NL, kindly peruse the attached photo and I would like to have your honest and candid opinion.

Is the idea crazy or totally un doable, would you agree or disagree and what's your reason,

Let's shake this table together.

Extremism is bad.

Don't give me your paycheck. Just spend your pay wisely and in the interest of our family.

Once you are good in other areas, not giving me your paycheck does not make you a bad wife. Giving me your paycheck does not make you a good wife if you are bad in other areas.

Sapasenator:
Ladies and gentlemen of NL, kindly peruse the attached photo and I would like to have your honest and candid opinion.

Is the idea crazy or totally un doable, would you agree or disagree and what's your reason,

Let's shake this table together.

Them Never show this one Shege Banza .... ....

Until You learn lesson ... You Go Wise .... Portable na Bad Boi

immortalcrown:
Extremism is bad.

Don't give me your paycheck. Just spend your pay wisely and in the interest of our family.

Once you are good in other areas, not giving me your paycheck does not make you a bad wife. Giving me your paycheck does not make you a good wife if you are bad in other areas.

Why do you think its extreme?

Sapasenator:
Why do you think its extreme?

A woman giving her husband her paycheck implies she is not mature enough to spend the money on the family. It means she will squander the money if the money is in her custody. This applies to a man who gives his wife his paycheck.

Neither the husband nor the wife should act like an irresponsible kid or be treated as such.

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Bintabisiriyu2:
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We have to send someone to bring them back. We would need their valued opinions as well.

That is called slavery. That pay check you are giving your man, he might be spending it on his side chick. Let's remember that gospel singer that got killed by her husband some time ago, I heard she did the same thing and it turned out the husband even had another woman. The truth is women need their money. Must you wait for your husband before you buy personal items like menstrual pad, cosmetics, creams and other things that make female self care more expensive than male self care. But a woman should not hesitate to contribute to the finances of the household when the husband is unable to carry all the financial responsibilities.

I don’t agree

Macnnoli4:
That is called slavery. That pay check you are giving your man, he might be spending it on his side chick. Let's remember that gospel singer that got killed by her husband some time ago, I heard she did the same thing and it turned out the husband even had another woman. The truth is women need their money. Must you wait for your husband before you buy personal items like menstrual pad, cosmetics, creams and other things that make female self care more expensive than male self care. But a woman should not hesitate to contribute to the finances of the household when the husband is unable to carry all the financial responsibilities.

It may not be slavery if you are well taken care of by your husband dont you think?

What I do now, is to chop 9ja girls money and enjoy their kpekus. Have you ever ask yourself, why 9ja girls can't leave without entitlement?

The truth is that, when you are chopping a girl's money and still scattering her kpekus, is so sweet.

Lol... Whatever works for her biko

Proserpina:
Lol... Whatever works for her biko

Are you going to give me all your paycheck? I promise to meet all your needs with hefty pocket monies

Any lady wey carry her entire paycheck give me, I go help her double am. I will make the money work for her, and I will NEVER abuse that privilege. Her trust, or naivety, or whatever will be rewarded, and the next thing na to wife her up asap.

Such woman no suppose waste time for market.

Don't give me your paycheck. It is your sweat and you ought to enjoy it. Just spend wisely. However, in a situation where she gives me money to invest due to her lack of knowledge or to pair with mine, I will be honest in every aspect. I don't steal, nor do I defraud people.

Nothing wrong if she gives her the air she breathes and choke. Ina ruwa na

Gerrard59:
Don't give me your paycheck. It is your sweat and you ought to enjoy it. Just spend wisely. However, in a situation where she gives me money to invest due to her lack of knowledge or to pair with mine, I will be honest in every aspect. I don't steal, nor do I defraud people.

Superior man. Salute

EreluRoz:
Nothing wrong if she gives her the air she breathes and choke. Ina ruwa na

You in particular, if you give me your money, I go chop am with effrontery, and if you question me, I go beat you on top

pansophist:
You in particular, if you give me your money, I go chop am with effrontery, and if you question me, I go beat you on top

😆 we don't give men money where I come from, it's a taboo 😆.

EreluRoz:
😆 we don't give men money where I come from, it's a taboo 😆.

And where is that? So I can avoid living and non-living things from that place.

pansophist:
And where is that? So I can avoid living and non-living things from that place.

Never be comfortable using a woman's money except in situations that are beyond your control else your glory will be transferred to her. Take this from an old woman like me

EreluRoz:
Never be comfortable using a woman's money except in situations that are beyond your control else your glory will be transferred to her. Take this from an old woman like me

if I chop a woman 1k, chances are, she has eaten 10k from me.

Naija women are naturally greedy, and they will only give a man when they know he has given them a lot., Use yourself as a case study.

pansophist:
Any lady wey carry her entire paycheck give me, I go help her double am. I will make the money work for her, and I will NEVER abuse that privilege. Her trust, or naivety, or whatever will be rewarded, and the next thing na to wife her up asap.

Such woman no suppose waste time for market.

Because she gave you her paycheck?

How about you start by giving her yours first? Never knew giving a man like Pansophist our paychecks could automatically earn us marriage.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Because she gave you her paycheck?

How about you start by giving her yours first? Never knew giving a man like Pansophist our paychecks could automatically earn us marriage.

It will. I serious.

You wan try? Make I drop account number?

pansophist:
if I chop a woman 1k, chances are, she has eaten 10k from me.

Naija women are naturally greedy, and they will only give a man when they know he has given them a lot., Use yourself as a case study.

If a woman allows me chop her 1k, she has won the jackpot with me and passed a very important test. I will repay in 100k.

pansophist:
if I chop a woman 1k, chances are, she has eaten 10k from me.

Naija women are naturally greedy, and they will only give a man when they know he has given them a lot., Use yourself as a case study.

You don't get this thing, I'm a very generous person and annoyingly open handed I just dislike guys who see no wrong in depending on a woman financially or asking a woman to share bills.

The best of men are those who don't even have idea of how much their wife earns, such men turns out to be great and very successful men in life.

Sapasenator:
If a woman allows me chop her 1k, she has won the jackpot with me and passed a very important test. I will repay in 100k.

Exactly.

To impress men is not that hard. See the post on frontpage where a lady was spoiling her man on her bday, and I was like, whats new here? Men have been spoiling, destroying, and overthrowing women on their bday with gifts.

I have never seen a man posting her account number on his status during his bday, but women do it a lot and they cash out. Women just greedy, I don't get it.

If you love me, why you greedy for me?

I don't know about other men o, but nice watches make me happy. If I am sad, I will be happy instantly if you order an iPhone 15 pro max for me. The anger will disappear like butter in a pan.

But see as eruloz swear say she no fit give man money. Imagine that

UyaiIncomparabl:
Because she gave you her paycheck?

How about you start by giving her yours first? Never knew giving a man like Pansophist our paychecks could automatically earn us marriage.

Make I chop your paycheck na. Urgent 2k please.

Scam.

EreluRoz:
You don't get this thing, I'm a very generous person and annoyingly open handed I just dislike guys who see no wrong in depending on a woman financially or asking a woman to share bills.

The best of men are those who don't even have idea of how much their wife earns, such men turns out to be great and very successful men in life.

That is not being dependent na?

If you give me 1k once in a while, that's gift, not dependence. But yes, I agree with you sha. Give a man, but he shouldn't depend on you.

1Sharon:
Scam.

Scam or being greedy? lol

pansophist:
That is not being dependent na?

If you give me 1k once in a while, that's gift, not dependence. But yes, I agree with you sha. Give a man, but he shouldn't depend on you.

You too like money, a fine pair of boxers and singlet is ok.