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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Mightyodi: 9:53pm On Apr 24

Thank you sir, I have gotten what I wanted. Please, I want to reinstate Igbo ppl are good ppl,. SW ppl are good ppl too. Please, let's stop the hate. The thread wasn't to cast aspersions of any region. Maybe the caption of the thread too expensive wasn't necessary to be put out there. Sorry to the ppl or Enugu and Igbo ppl at large if the topic looked like casting aspersion. I wish I can modify it. I love you all. 🙏

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Aaaaarghmed(m): 10:32pm On Apr 24

tiswell:
Gbenga rest!

ok nwaboi

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by idahme(m): 4:13am On Apr 25

ProjectNEXT:
boss make i tell you truth, make money first and other things will follow. And when i said money, i mean bastard money, like 500 billion dols

The way una dey talk eh , according to a state only 5 percent of the population have at least 500k and above .

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by dontrulee: 4:52am On Apr 25

shortgun:

[You have just shown nothing but ignorance of the Igbo culture and tradition with everything you typed.
In my initial post on this thread I asked the op if he has seen any man who came to marry a wife in any part of Igbo land and was denied because he was not able to bring the complete items listed in a marriage list given to him. The same question goes to you, do you know anyone like that?

That list given is a test....
If you run away after seeing the list....you have sent a message .
If you come in as a money bag and provide every item on the list..... you have sent a message
If you come back to the family complaining about the list...you have sent a message.
If you bring the items you can afford and plead for more time ...you have sent a message.
If you take the family of the girl to court for giving you an exorbitant list...you have sent a message

I won't be revealing how any of the above actions you take will be used
I won't be saying more than this.

Which kind yeye test be this?
On top say person wan marry. Anyways, na tradition and culture, reason why we're still backwards. grin

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by shortgun(m): 8:31am On Apr 25

dontrulee:

Which kind yeye test be this?
On top say person wan marry. Anyways, na tradition and culture, reason why we're still backwards.

Never in your life come to mention to disparage our tradition and culture.
Who told you our tradition is responsible for your backwardness? Are you better off now with foreign culture than our fore fathers who practiced our tradition?
Do you live longer than them?
Do you have a better society than they had?

Don't angry me sad

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by advanceDNA: 9:44am On Apr 25

shortgun:
I am only replying your post because you seem confused and lost.
Are there no elders in your family who will guide you on this journey?

That list given to you by the girls family is to measure your maturity level and not a test of wealth. The way you are fidgeting about the items on the list doesn't portray a man who is matured enough for marriage. Anyways, I hope you the pass marriage list test.
I won't say more than this

Mayb the family u married from...it's just a test of maturity...

..in most families it is exploitation, an opportunity to milk a young man because that opportunity will never come again......I have seen where a groom was told to paint their family house and do some renovations apart from other list items..just because the nigga came from belgium...

It's so bad sometimes...that if something on the list is not provided even after negotiating it, ,the cash value is forcefully taken on the day of the engagement.otherwise the wedding will not go on....

I have seen where something that was never on the list was used to hold the marriage ceremony down....one idiot brother inlaw came out saying when the father inlaw traveled abroad, he was the one caring for my brothers wife... that my brother has to pay him 100k before the ceremony will continue....we thought it was a joke until the wèrèy changed it for us
.....very distasteful ..and they were all smiling like what they were doing was nice.. spits

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by dontrulee: 1:10pm On Apr 25

shortgun:

Never in your life come to mention to disparage our tradition and culture.
Who told you our tradition is responsible for your backwardness? Are you better off now with foreign culture than our fore fathers who practiced our tradition?
Do you live longer than them?
Do you have a better society than they had?

Don't angry me

Calm down joor, Mr. Culture and traditions
Culture is the way of life of a people. I still maintain that our cultures and traditions is part of the reasons we are backwards

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by shortgun(m): 1:49pm On Apr 25

dontrulee:

Calm down joor, Mr. Culture and traditions
Culture is the way of life of a people. I still maintain that our cultures and traditions is part of the reasons we are backwards

[You really need help if you truly believe your culture and tradition is the reason for your backwardness.
My culture is never responsible for anything bad.
There's nothing worse than mental slavery. angry

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by dontrulee: 1:50pm On Apr 25

shortgun:

[You really need help if you truly believe your culture and tradition is the reason for your backwardness.
My culture is never responsible for anything bad.
There's nothing worse than mental slavery.

Okay, I've heard you grin

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by DonroxyII: 5:45pm On Apr 25

dontrulee:

Calm down joor, Mr. Culture and traditions
Culture is the way of life of a people. I still maintain that our cultures and traditions is part of the reasons we are backwards

"Not Part":
Our Culture is the reason we are Backward !

Once your culture & Norms is Retrogressive, You Can Never-Ever Evolve ... Simple !....

As far as we continue doing what our ancestors did & We Ain't Doing what Realities Demanded, We shall always live the ways of our ancestors even with all the Technologies in the contemporary World & Civilisations... We shall Not Be Living in Realities!

Stop Humbling the dude you quoted, Our Cultures is abhorrence to Evolutionary Growths & Developments... We ain't Pragmatic But Bunch of Backward Emotional People Only to Be Crying Fowl Once Beaten like Dead Nama!

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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by dontrulee: 1:36pm On Apr 26

DonroxyII:
"Not Part":
Our Culture is the reason we are Backward !

Once your culture & Norms is Retrogressive, You Can Never-Ever Evolve ... Simple !....

As far as we continue doing what our ancestors did & We Ain't Doing what Realities Demanded, We shall always live the ways of our ancestors even with all the Technologies in the contemporary World & Civilisations... We shall Not Be Living in Realities!

Stop Humbling the dude you quoted, Our Cultures is abhorrence to Evolutionary Growths & Developments... We ain't Pragmatic But Bunch of Backward Emotional People Only to Be Crying Fowl Once Beaten like Dead Nama!

You're right my Gee.
Infact, I wanted to go deeper and explain to him but I concluded it wasn't necessary since he's a man of culture and traditions that likes doing things the old way, so I let him be. grin

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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by DonroxyII: 1:42pm On Apr 26

dontrulee:

You're right my Gee.
Infact, I wanted to go deeper and explain to him but I concluded it wasn't necessary since he's a man of culture and traditions that likes doing things the old way, so I let him be.

Going Deeper for a Senile Brain is a Waste of Economic Time & Resources ... You are better off licking some good Nipples cheesy

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Sapiens3: 2:05pm On Apr 26

In my state my cousin paid 2.5 million naira I was mad at him for spending this foolishly.

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by dontrulee: 3:45pm On Apr 26

DonroxyII:
Going Deeper for a Senile Brain is a Waste of Economic Time & Resources ... You are better off licking some good Nipples

Lol, you must be a prophet.
I lick good nipples every night I'm not on duty, I think I'm already addicted to it. Are you a nipples guy too?

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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by shortgun(m): 4:43pm On Apr 26

DonroxyII:
Going Deeper for a Senile Brain is a Waste of Economic Time & Resources ... You are better off licking some good Nipples

I see you two idiots are mastubating and jerking off on this post after I left.
were you too afraid to mention me?
You guys are ignorant numkskulls claiming woke with empty skulls.

What do you know about cultures?
Do you know anything about anthropology or history?

Idiots.
angry

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by DonroxyII: 10:34am On Apr 27

dontrulee:

Lol, you must be a prophet.
I lick good nipples every night I'm not on duty, I think I'm already addicted to it. Are you a nipples guy too?

Of Course My Gee!
Peace of Mind is Guaranteed cheesy

... God Bless All Women With Infastructures & Amenities grin

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by DonroxyII: 10:35am On Apr 27

shortgun:

I see you two idiots are mastubating and jerking off on this post after I left.
were you too afraid to mention me?
You guys are ignorant numkskulls claiming woke with empty skulls.

What do you know about cultures?
Do you know anything about anthropology or history?

Idiots.

... Welcome to Nairaland!
Your Mind no go Touch Ground, tongue

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Tochj(m): 4:53pm On Apr 27

If you really love the girl you want to marry
Don't be agitated about the list
You will be given a long and costly list for you to know that you can't buy a wife
Negotiate somethings in the list with cash
Example The 400litres of palmwine
If a litre is #500, you can negotiate it for #200
The Elders going with you can jokingly tell them that the wine poured on the road because of long journey
Bring out a day, don't be in a hurry.
A crate of beer is 6k today
You can buy like 5 crates and do the remaining with cash
Elders can tell them that you brought the ones you have for 2k and negotiate from there.

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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by imagrg(m): 6:25pm On Apr 27

Get her pregnant first and they come begging you to pay just the Bride-price.

People are too money conscious these days.

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:37pm On Apr 27

Yugoslavia247:

Oga go sleep.
It is too much.
The barbaric culture of greed.
Tell me why a family will connive to make it hard for their own daughter to marry
Why should a man have to worry this much.
20 crates of beer as per brewery.
Rubbish.
Same thing with burial.
That is why our women are not respected by the men.
I wonder the function of umunna to a city boy or gal if not for burial organization.
Now a city gal wants to marry a group of umunna will now sit down and want to make greedy demands.
The women family become so useless in the whole show.
At the end the man will be angry on his wedding day
Why won't it. Even billionaires will get angered
Because it shows a lot of greed. A family who come as leeches giving their daughter whom you will take care of
They will be sounding bold
Bro that is what is happening in the east and I totally hate it.

Marriage is a union not a business.
Greedy lots

Marriage is a business oga.
Love is just to package it up.
Do you think it is easy for a misogynistic igbo man who sees women as second class citizens not even fit to inherit his property to raise his daughters to adulthood?

He must make back the money he spent raising her.

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Tochj(m): 11:57pm On Apr 27

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by frozen70(f): 6:20am On Apr 29

Mightyodi:
Good evening, nairaland, I recently found a lady in Enugu and I courted with her for a while and intend to take the relationship to the next level. I started the movement and obtained the list. The items were too much. For example, palm wine is about 400 litres, the alcohol is about 20 crates, 25 litres of oil and other items. Please if you are from Enugu, akwunanaw precisely, why do the insist on Kgbankwu marriage by inviting the whole community. While don't they make it family to family, something not that elaborate, especially when the economy is tight. If you are from there and vast with their marital rite, please I need your assistance. Drop your comments and possibly your number. Thanks

If you are interested in her, meet her family and declare your intension and official request for what it takes to marry her

Wait and get the full requirements

Then dear your direct inlaw and let them know that your capacity can't carry all he mentioned and you don't want a carry over of marriage rites that will be there waiting for you to do, even when after you thought you are already done with the thing

If her parents insist that, that's what it takes to marry their daughter, then let them know that you will get across to them through their daughter

Go home and think twice if really you can't afford such expenses and invite your woman, tell her that you can't afford those requirements and tell her that, this is all you can afford, if she is on your side, she will talk to her family

But if she is on her family side, just let her know that, you want a small palour marriage ceremony, if she insist that it has to get their way.

Tell her as it is, you can't go ahead with the arrangement and you will appreciate if she waits for someone that the cap fits because you are ending the relationship and moving on with your life. That's all

We must let people know what you are capable of if not, they will put you in a tight corner

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Brian47(m): 7:49am On Apr 29

You never ready to marry Igbo woman

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by kkins25(m): 8:01am On Apr 29

They say bride price is just cultural, but here we are, 20 crates of bear.. Who's benefiting from this said cultural exchange? grin

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by kkins25(m): 8:02am On Apr 29

Brian47:
You never ready to marry Igbo woman

Find one for us.

Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by Brian47(m): 11:02am On Apr 29

kkins25:

Find one for us.

Move here and everything will added onto you

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Re: Enugu Bride Price Akwunanaw - Is Too Expensive by kkins25(m): 12:09pm On Apr 29

Brian47:

Move here and everything will added onto you

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