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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by truthhurts2: 1:37pm On Apr 30
We still have few of them available, and I'm lucky to have one...
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Proserpina: 1:37pm On Apr 30
LordIsaac:
I’m sure she has written down the exact amount and the exact day in anticipation for the day he will go broke so she can rub it on his face. Don’t take gestures from women at face value. Quote me daily, twice on Thursday!
May God heal you grin
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Okhuadams(m): 1:37pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
Madam just tell the man what you need woman matter nothing goes for nothing I know say the man don dey calculate money wey you go later ask
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by kevwemike: 1:37pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper
may God bless all help mate, the load no bi here ooooo
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by benuejosh: 1:39pm On Apr 30
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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by abobote: 1:40pm On Apr 30
Had it been my wife is working, I wouldn't have married her. She very wicked and selfish, she would have been more wicked if she is working and contributing penny.

So many women are transferring their whole salary, without coming to social media to make noise like this one.
She seems like a busy body, I wouldn't like to marry her type too

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by MaziObinnaokija: 1:41pm On Apr 30
cool 😎 but to some aka gum.They"ll rather collect from their hubby and waste it on useless thing like 👂 piercing, 🦵 chain,waistbangle sad
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Straybullet: 1:42pm On Apr 30
Nairaland ashawos and evening newspapers won't like this
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Michelle55: 1:42pm On Apr 30
It's nothing new or special.. there's no need to announce it to the world.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by 2mch(m): 1:42pm On Apr 30
Guy go hustle money. All your life na to determine woman matter. Jobless
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by wittywriter: 1:43pm On Apr 30
jaxxy:
Sounds like fiction but if a true story I commend her rare spirit and mindset

but why would the man go to the market and stock up the house? Sounds like a woman's thing. Lol

2mch:
Guy go hustle money. All your life na to determine woman matter. Jobless


Wittyness
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Boyooosa(m): 1:44pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper

This is anti-feminist, they will not like it coming from their own
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Jocdon(m): 1:45pm On Apr 30
You try well well my dear, always be a good wife to your husband, that's the reason two became one in marriage. I support you with one congo of beans.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by adecz: 1:45pm On Apr 30
Don't let slay mamas send hired
killers to your house ..... 😁😁😁
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by tradepunter: 1:46pm On Apr 30
Nazgul:

She brought it to social media to encourage tiktok girls to follow her path. Not everything should be kept secret. When you share your story, it will definitely change someone and save a home.

She did the right thing.

You are right

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Bimpe29: 1:47pm On Apr 30
In as much as I am appreciative of her understanding and love, I hold the view of men are wholly responsible for the household needs. However, women are truly our helpers but the responsibility is that of the men.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Natbrowny: 1:53pm On Apr 30
This type of woman isn't meant for all types of men.

It goes round and round. And every type of men does not and cannot possess the countenance and gestures and attitude of her type of man (as described above)
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by JayEdm: 1:54pm On Apr 30
My dear,som of us did this ,we even did more. Few years along the line,he gradually shifted the bills to me. Me wey com support come become breadwinner. Na im com be helper now. As a woman,mk sure u Kno the kind of partner u have before u rush and start contributing.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by ovieigho(m): 2:01pm On Apr 30
Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.
me sef tire o!!! 😂
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by SlayQueenSlayer(m): 2:02pm On Apr 30
id4sho:
PR for daughters of eve undecided. Believe this at your own peril lipsrsealed

My ex girlfriend told me I will put her mum on salary. Am single and free cheesy

Mine told me that my problems will become her problems and her problems will become my problems. Then she went ahead to tell me of how she cared about her family and how her family will also becomes mine. I didn't need a prophet to tell me what that entails and that it was also time for me to take my leave from the so called relationship.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by UjuJoan2: 2:04pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper

Most women do this on a regular basis, nothing to brag about.

But still, I comment the couple, it’s rare to see husband and wives these days working together and supporting each other.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Forumites: 2:06pm On Apr 30
Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.
TEACHER DONT TEACH ME NONSENSE. OGA JUDGE AND JURY
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by id4sho(m): 2:07pm On Apr 30
SlayQueenSlayer:


Mine told me that my problems will become her problems and her problems will become my problems. Then she went ahead to tell me of how she cared about her family and how her family will also becomes mine. I didn't need a prophet to tell me what that entails and that it was also time for me to take my leave from the so called relationship.

Japaaaaa wink cheesy grin
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by OriginalCEO: 2:07pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper

I don't think this is the type of woman everyone needs... support once and blow speaker?

So she shocked her husband by donating most of her salary, and feels its a sacrifice no woman has ever done hence the need to publicise it to get validation.

Since she sees this as such a great deal, she will still go and announce on LinkedIn too.. I see her as the type of woman that will revisit this in the not-too-distant future.

Some women feed their families and no one hears about it, some even earn more than the husband and so take on more responsibility.

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by UjuJoan2: 2:08pm On Apr 30
Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.

I completely agree!!!

The truth is that most women will happily contribute to the upkeep of the family financially, if Nigerian men deserved it. In developed countries it’s a norm, because they treat women as equal.

But Nigerian men see themselves as Lord and Master over their wives, and she has no say whatsoever in the home. Women are treated as glorified Nannies and house helps and yet expected to contribute to financial upkeep in the home. That completely disturbs the balance and makes the marriage unfair to the woman.


I believe strongly that if a man respects a woman, understands his role as a co-home maker and role model for the kids, shows empathy and compassion for the wife in her efforts to support him, every woman will happily contribute to financial upkeep. After all it’s all for the good of the family. You can’t eat your cake and have it!!!

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by aydgov: 2:10pm On Apr 30
Namaster:
Women are HILARIOUS! grin

From what she wrote, it's easy to infer she's been married for years and have also been employed for quite some time.

It is also easy to infer that this is the FIRST time she has done something like this. EVER!

Yet she's on social media forming good wife and EMERGENCY marriage counsellor.

Contributing to your own living expenses and the upkeep of your children should be the NORM. Not something that needs to be ADVERTISED on social media like some kind of unparalleled virtue.

THIS DOESN'T CALL FOR TROLLING, SHE WAS ONLY TRYING TO ADMONISH OTHER LADIES OUT THERE TO BE HELPFUL AND TO STOP CONSTITUTING LIABILITIES TO THEIR SPOUSE.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Pitssbull: 2:16pm On Apr 30
A good woman generally speaking




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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Geonigga(m): 2:18pm On Apr 30
id4sho:
PR for daughters of eve undecided. Believe this at your own peril lipsrsealed

My ex girlfriend told me I will put her mum on salary. Am single and free cheesy
She is very stupid something her aged lazy elder brother cannot do that is what she wants you to do because of a warned out puss**

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Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Idaytesj29(m): 2:19pm On Apr 30
Whatsapp9:
"My salary came Yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid.

Guy thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him.

It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it.

That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much on him, he struggles to pay without asking me.

He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions.

I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility and liability, he married a helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single.

I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband.

Oh boy, guy rushed entered straight inside market without even telling me, stocked up the home.

Cooked and served me, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about.

I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not supermarket. Men need our support too ❤️♥️"

Credit: Fegor ogene jp #AllFactsNewspaper

We are not supermarkets ooo. Tell them. Your husband is the luckiest man in the whole wide world 🌍🌎.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Techobeys: 2:21pm On Apr 30
The woman is not the man’s helper, she’s his responsibility.
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by id4sho(m): 2:22pm On Apr 30
Geonigga:
She is very stupid something her aged lazy elder brother cannot do that is what she wants you to do because of a warned out puss**
The matter tire me
Re: This Is The Type Of Woman Every Man Should Marry by Akwamkpuruamu: 2:24pm On Apr 30
Gbadugbakun:
@EreluRoz
If I marry you will you be giving me all your salary?

Evening. newspaper no de tire you.?

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