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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by StPete: 4:45pm On May 07
Offpoint1:

Wouldn't it be stupid of me not to marry your daughter because you're a Christian? or how will you feel if I reject your daughter because I found the Idolized picture of Jesus and Cross in your home?

Y'all should stop profiling people base on what they believe. He was once a Christians, remember that.

You are the author of your feelings. Whatever will make you feel uncomfortable, no one will be there to share the feelings with you. If you don't marry anyone's daughter because of how you feel about them, someone else who practise their religion will. What sounds stupid to you might make a lot of sense to another. To each his own.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Pootle: 4:47pm On May 07
Mariangeles:


Just say you're an ogboni member, and leave Pastors out of it.



Ogboni itself is darkness.



Those ones are not Pastors, they're wolves.

white man religion have blocked your eyes, dont quote me again

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Lilgabby(m): 4:52pm On May 07
You never dey specific Shey her papa na Aiye or na Egede him be 😂🤣
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Mariangeles(f): 4:58pm On May 07
Pootle:


white man religion have blocked your eyes, dont quote me again

🙄
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by thatigboman: 5:02pm On May 07
madridguy:
Tell your friend to quit the relationship with immediate effect.
why?
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Pootle: 5:02pm On May 07
Behold, How Good and Pleasant it is for Brethren to Dwell together in Unity.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Mariangeles(f): 5:06pm On May 07
Pootle:
Behold, How Good and Pleasant it is for Brethren to Dwell together in Unity.

Does that doctrine belong to your brotherhood?
Even Satan quoted the bible to Jesus Christ.

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Pootle: 5:10pm On May 07
Mariangeles:


Does that doctrine belong to your brotherhood?
Even Satan quoted the bible to Jesus Christ.

you continue quoting me.....not all you know little or nothing about is evil,
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by GodisStriking: 5:11pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?


A man's foes shall be they of his own household.

This is the history of Hebrews which provides a lesson in those who have accepted one God over those who worship more than one God. Such two families should never marry because surely they will eventually become bitter enemies. Those who are traditional and engage in dark practices will feel as though the God obedient look down upon them. You're only to read the Wisdom of Solomon Chapter 2 and see for yourself.

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by akintunde63: 5:21pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

Yes, he should go on and marry her, so they can use his dumb, empty skull 💀 for their next sacrifice.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by meobizy(f): 5:21pm On May 07
Yes. Na him chook head there. Make he carry him cross.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by justmondris: 5:24pm On May 07
Capernum:
Discuss with your pastor. And you too, carry fire. What if you break the lady's heart and her ROF father decides to run you mad.

Pray about it. However, it's not a wise move. How do you think the traditional wedding will go. You will do a lot of rituals out of ignorance on that day all in the name of tradition hat will affect you and your children forever. Always flew from anything that has to do with this phrase "There is nothing there, it's a normal thing"

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Courz: 5:24pm On May 07
wallarwallar:





Mumu stop being foolish spiritual which covenant. U don't know hw God works dis guy might be d source and reason the father inlaw might retrace his steps back to Jesus since he was a former baptist member.

Mumu, stop being stupid and ignorant. Why didn't the father change through the daughter? So, it is a stranger from outside that will change the father when his daughter is a Christian? You see how useless you are?

Op, stay away from that relationship. Update yourself with spiritual matters. If you were enlightened in what really goes on in the spirit realm, you will marry someone else. Since you take these things seriously, go and find your kind on the same spiritual wavelength and marry her. Spiritual convenants are transferred from parents to children. Be warned

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by justmondris: 5:25pm On May 07
Capernum:
Discuss with your pastor. And you too, carry fire. What if you break the lady's heart and her ROF father decides to run you mad.

Pray about it. However, it's not a wise move. How do you think the traditional wedding will go. You will do a lot of rituals out of ignorance on that day all in the name of tradition hat will affect you and your children forever. Always flew from anything that has to do with this phrase "There is nothing there, it's a normal thing "
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by kingthreat(m): 5:26pm On May 07
NairalandGOAT1:



Hahahaha.... 😂 😂

Hope you got the message though?

Lol. Yeah for him.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by zigi(f): 5:28pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?


BROS AM TELLING YOU FROM EXPERIENCE RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. YOU WILL REGRET IT TILL U DIE IF U MAKE THE MISTAKR OF MARRYING AN OCCULTIC MAN'S CHILD.

YOU GO FIGHT SPIRITUAL BATTLE ALL YOUR LIFE. WAIT TILL YOU START HAVING KIDS EHH... THE MAN FIT DON TARGET ONE OF YOUR CHILDREN FOR SACRIFICE FROM BIRTH......

IF YOU ARE A VERY STRONG CHRISTIAN AND CAN STAND YOUR GROUNDS SPIRITUAL THEN GO AHEAD AND FIGHT THE PRINCIPALITIES IN JESUS NAME.....BUT IF YOU BE LUKEWARM CHRISTIAN THEN..E DON BURST FOR YOU...O



RUN AND DONT LOOK BACK. INFACT ASK THE GIRL THEIR HISTORY AND FIND OUT IF SHE HAS LOST ANY OF HER SIBLINGS OR FAMKLY MEMBERS IN THE PAST?

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by NairalandGOAT1: 5:30pm On May 07
kingthreat:


Lol. Yeah for him.


ROTFLMFAO 😂😂😂

I saw what you did there! 🤣
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by madridguy(m): 5:33pm On May 07
Are you a member of the occult group?

millhouse:
I beg to disagree. Has any member of ROF done anything wicked to you before ? Stop name calling .
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Hakeem66: 5:36pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Thanks all for your comments. From what was shared here I was able to give a better advice to my friend who I talked to over the night.
I told him that if he wants to run a serious Christian marriage, the background of the girl will affect it so it is better to quit now except the girl is ready to be a prayer warrior and have less to do with her family. But if he wants to run a normal marriage, he can go ahead.

My guy told me he wants a Christian marriage o. He told me he just spoke to his uncle pastor about it and the Uncle told him to quit. One, for him to complain that means he is no longer 100% sure about the marriage and that can raise issues in the future. Two, he said most occult men do spiritual things that eventually affect their children and marrying her will be fighting unseen battles he had no idea of. It is better he finds a way to breakoff slowly or let the lady know that his parents are not comfortable with the marriage because of her family background. He himself knows that his family will not accept that but he is willing to turn rebel and do what he wants to do. But now he's having a rethought.

At a point I could hear sounds of crying in his voice over the phone. Guy is still saying that this is the best lady he ever dated. Chei
beautiful ones are not yet born and he will still find a one better than her.
Quitting is the best answer and he chose the right option.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by enambobo(m): 5:38pm On May 07
Rexymania:
Ogboni people are also humans like you ....they don't kill people
Dey play. You know nothing about them. Nothing goes for nothing. Even if he becomes prosperous, there will always be a repercussion. Their kids may become useless in life. Something negative must always happen spiritually. Devil no dey do free show. Na only God dey give freely.

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by BreconHills(m): 5:39pm On May 07
Ceenachi:
Boss tell your guy to sharply marry the girl.
You guy may need the man help later in the future, dis life is too spiritual.......

Believe me the man would never hurt his son in-law rather protect him if thing start going wrong

Can the man protect himself first?
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Starships4u(m): 5:41pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

Legs above his head while he runs....

ROF is nothing to joke with....
The never forget nor forgive....
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by TerrouMuda: 5:46pm On May 07
Babastrong:
Lol.
some of your pastors are our member.
Please should I drop my account details, proof to them that you're more humanly than their so call pastors.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by AAADE(m): 5:46pm On May 07
immortalcrown:
What is ROF?

Meanwhile, wearing white and beads does not mean Ogboni membership. Stop the profiling. Stop making conclusions without confirmations.
ROF: Reformed Ogboni Fraternity.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by stasius: 5:47pm On May 07
Run
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Realjohnwick007: 5:50pm On May 07
So what if he's ogboni... your friend and you nor serious.. nah men them do marriage for not boys...do some growing up

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by millhouse: 5:51pm On May 07
madridguy:
Are you a member of the occult group?

what is your definition of occult group?
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by cescky(m): 5:54pm On May 07
kingthreat:
Okay here is the story.

One of my best friends who is expected to get married this year just called me for hours with regards to his plans.

He met this babe 2 years ago and things were going fine. I even know the girl as a nice lady and very homely. I don chop her food, she cooks well. Both of them attend RCCG church. My friend is a casual member while his fiance is a serious member and doesn't miss weekly services.

So my friend to take his relationship more seriously decided to visit his fiancé's family so they know him. Before then, the fiancé had told him that her father is a former Baptist but has stopped being religious and sometimes does traditional practices. On the day of him visiting her home, he was welcomed even bought gifts for the dad and mum. But he said his spirit was very uncomfortable in that house.

There was an standing portrait of the father on white with beads and regalia to show he is Ogboni. Also in the house, there were a few funny looking art works which looks occult. My friend played cool, the father even asked of his church and he told him. The father proudly said he is a traditional man. After the meeting, the next day he asked his girlfriend if her father is an ROF member and she said yes that she told him before that he is a traditional man.

But my friend is showing signs of doubts. He told me he loves the girl, but that he wants nothing to do with anything occultic in this life till he dies. His family may not agree but even if he insist to have his way because of love, he wants to be sure it will not end in regret.

I told him what really matters is the heart of the person he is marrying. My guy said yes but family background matters. Foundation matters, which is true.

House, what do you think?

na you or your guy?

small time them go use you as sacrifice....
if you proceed your unborn children already have battles that are waiting for them, becuase of convenants from the man...
too much wahala, abort

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Safyqueen: 5:54pm On May 07
Be a Muslim and be above this useless menace. Do Bismillah and carry your wife. Nothing will happen except good health and wealth.
Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by grandstar(m): 5:57pm On May 07
kingthreat

Ogboni pre-dates colonialism. Just like we have Masons in Europe, so was Ogboni amongst the Yoruba's.

As a Jehovah's Witness, as long as your wife to be is also a Witness, whatever the father is is irrelevant.

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by MetalJigsaw(m): 5:58pm On May 07
Reality3080:
it will surely end in regret cos when they give birth the father might say he wants to give the baby a traditional name or perform traditional rites on d baby n u don’t have any right to deny him cos that’s his grandchild n don’t forget the lady will always support her family n she will always win cos “she told u before”
This is the best reply here ...thumbs up

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Re: Her Father Is Occult. Should He Still Go Ahead? by Bobbynobobby: 5:59pm On May 07
NoToPile:
Foundation matters, do not let anybody deceive you except if you guys will deal with it before you get married.

When you guys get married you both inherit spiritual issues from both bride and grooms line as 2 has become one having an understanding of this will inform you both on steps to take.

Even the friend sef has his own in his family as long as you are African just that hers is her father directly and is closer to home.

If you will deal with it before marriage good
But as people especially the woke chiristain generation don't seem to believe in prayer, patterns and all that these days everything na wokeness, grace, coincidence bleh bleh bleh..... cheesy

Some churches before wedding you the couple run through different prayer programme's because of issues like this as it's rampant in lots of African families you hardly find families who doesn't have such for 3-4generations.

Can your friend and bride pay the price? If they ask them to fast for 3 days and pray can they do it. If they tell them they will run through deliverance several times can they do it?


We once did not rent a place because the owner was into some some of deity worship. And most people in the area never knew.

This is Africa.

This is Africa indeed. Had to stop reading after your first statement. Where did you read it in the Bible that a believer's fate is to be inheriting spiritual problems? And what is the meaning of 'authority in Jesus Christ'? You people need to stop misinformation. He has created in you the spirit of victory, not of fear. OP please advise your friend HIMSELF to put it in prayer and make a decision from there

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