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Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

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Single life is bae.....

because women are usually broke, looking for what they can't afford and sex, u will still enjoy all the perks of being married without being married......
. And if she wants to start nagging too much and demanding for school fees of children wey we never born .........Oya .....come dey carry ur wahala go ur papa house.....

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I see what you did there. Why did you choose that gif of a couple arguing to describe married men?
Anyway to honestly answer your question, yes I sometimes envy single men.

But I will still advice you get married and join our club. Misery loves company.

For those who are happily married - NO.

For those who are unhappily married - NO, they only wish for a good wife.

Who cares...how much is price of garri in the market now?

Truth is MANY married men do.

Especially when a Single Guy who is their Neighbour, Friend or Colleague is Having lots of Sexy Girlfriends and Babes as Girlfriend or Fucckmate.

They will now feel like 'So this my PREEK na for Only my Yeye Wife?'.

Are you effing kidding boy? You got no clue... I thought I was balling until I married and had my son.

Known no better life than watching that tiny bundle of joy...no better love than watching your wife give birth...

Dude if you marry your wife/ best friend, you are truly blessed...I can't speak on marrying wrongly cos I didn't.

But please 🙏 trust God for a woman who is a wife indeed...aint nothing any single human man or woman got on you.

NowYouKnow:
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I see what you did there. Why did you choose that gif of a couple arguing to describe married men?
Anyway to honestly answer your question, yes I sometimes envy single men.

But I will still advice you get married and join our club Misery loves company.

@Emboldened

Spoken like a typical married man

Una wayo too much

I no want

Bachelorhood till i'm six feet in the ground

fykes:
Are you effing kidding boy? You got no clue... I thought I was balling until I married and had my son.

Known no better life than watching that tiny bundle of joy...no better love than watching your wife give birth...

Dude if you marry your wife/ best friend, you are truly blessed...I can't speak on marrying wrongly cos I didn't.

But please 🙏 trust God for a woman who is a wife indeed...aint nothing any single human man or woman got on you.

They are here

Maybe miserable married men do. With the right partner, you always wonder why you didn't get married sooner.

Omoh,I go like to marry but the kind cinema wey I dey watch for married people lives these days,I dey scare

Yes, I should have left everything on baby mama.

My next door neighbour is a bachelor, the way the guy enjoys different girls, sometimes 3 in a day, is enough to get you jealous.
I feel I didn't enjoy my bachelorship enough

Now I know why men die before their wives

It depends if you are married to a snake or a dove

For what? We are the ones running things.

Ok

Normal normal, bachelor dey enjoy

COMRADES are speechless at this hilarious topic
Some married men envy the bachelors as a result of regret
While some married men don't, they face their challenges secretly

If you had game and don't wana cheat yeah you will. That's the cycle

I have been married for over 9 years now but believe me, each time I see any young man about to get married, I will just pity the man instead of happy for him. Marriage is not what it use to be in olden days.

--Slurity

70% of married men wish they didn't marry at the time they married

It's cheaper to stay married...... Why would I envy singlehooders....... 😂🤔

We are never right for each other, but the ability to compromise, trust, understanding and maturity etc etc, produces the perfect blend....... 😁

Useless question.

YES!

Especially the ones who ended up marrying a COMMUNITY TOOL.

- AN AVERAGE, BEAUTIFUL OR UGLY GIRL WITH BAD CHARACTER.

- A LEFTOVER

- A USED PRODUCT

- A GIRL YOU FOUND OUT TO BE PRETENDING

- A GIRL THAT HAS BEEN USED AND PASSED AROUND BY NUMEROUS GUYS...

In whatever you do in this life, MAKE SURE YOU MARRY A VIRGIN THAT FEARS AND RESPECT GOD, OTHERWISE YOUR DOOM IS 50-50 IN LIFE.


As man, if you're unfortunately in this situation and you're financially okay, THE BEST THING you can do for yourself is to marry another wife with better spec and qualities.
Islam, traditional religion and Christianity is NOT AGAINST POLYGAMY.

No prophet in the bible or Qur'an married one wife.
Even Jesus would have probably marry if he didn't leave the world at young age, and there are even rumours that he was in a relationship with Mary Magdalen...

In Tinubu's Nigeria..... Yes

Simply tell them 'you didn't ask them to marry, if they are tired of their marriage, they should opt out and stop disturbing the community like they are the first to ever marry'.


Sometimes, you need to add vawuulence to make a point. Make person no carry him frustration come rub you

Some will lie

Yes we do. That journey was the worst mistake of my life.

Marriage isn't for me. I have two daughters already.

DoWhatThouWilt:
Do they?

I love and enjoy my current state of bachelorhood and honestly I do not have the desire to get married now or in future because personally I have come to the realisation that men are living in a world today where there are too many impossible expectations to meet.

Recently, I have been noticing subtle hints of envy from my colleagues at work who are married just from the statements they make.

For example, they usually try to belittle me with statements like You're still a small boy, you don put woman for house? whenever we are having non heated argument over a topic that doesn't even concern marriage in anyway.

When it is their turn to work for some few hours on weekends they make statements like Men like us no suppose they do duty, na una (single men) suppose do am as if I don't have other affairs to attend to during the weekend.

So married men in the House, Do you people envy single men?

https://ainhypho.sirv.com/avif/misery.gif

https://ainhypho.sirv.com/avif/peace.gif

it has ots ups and down but in general it makes you a man.
even you if you get pikin for future, you go see your self like how graduates dey see non graduates for street.

If you were born in a poor family or in an average income family, life is already leading you by 1:0.

If your father is not present in your life as a growing young man, life is leading you by 2:0.

Then if you later marry without fixing yourself, life is leading you by 3:0.

At this point, It will be extremely difficult for you to equalize and later win in life.

I enjoyed my singlehood until I was ready for marriage. Now I am enjoying my marriage, cos my Wife is truly my partner and friend.

I do not envy my single or married friends who do not have someone they can share thier lives with in an intimate and meaningful way- beyond sex.


God has blessed me with his goodness and a peaceful/ fruitful home.

For what kwanu.