I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

After your discovery of the paternity fraud, have you tried to reconcile with your family?

If yes, what is the outcome?

If not, try it first. If your family is decent and you are not a serial betrayer to the family, the family will accept you and help you to recover.

the worst part is that I don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her

A simp and his family are soon parted.

You must learn a lesson.

You spoke to her siblings? What did you expect?

That they'll tell you their sister is an EVIL WHOORE?

No, siree! Family comes first. Even when they are a piece of shiit.

YOUR MOVE:

First of all, STOP crying like a little bitch. You married a WHOORE, deal with it. Part of it is your fault for NOT seeing the multitude of red flags she was wrapped it. Majority of it is she's just a WHOORE. Nothing you could have done.

NEXT, stop talking to her family. They will NEVER blame your wife for being a WHOORE. They already know. They probably laughed at you when you came to prostrate to marry the family WHOORE in the first place.

Nothing you can say will turn them against your wife. You're just publicising the fact that she made you a cuck. Setting yourself up for MORE ridicule and embarrassment.

NEXT, get a DNA test for any OTHER kid the WHOORE claims is yours. Ascertain paternity.

FINALLY, stop acting helpless. Get the bitch out of your house if she's still there. Keep the kids that ACTUALLY belongs to you. Kick her and her bastard(s) out.

If you live in her house, take your kids and get out.

If you must cry, cry in SECRET. Don't cry to her family. Don't cry to your family. Don't cry to your friends.

However, tell your family that they were right about the WHOORE. Let them chew her out and counteract her siblings' support.

Also, let your MUTUAL CHURCH friends know that you've kicked out the bitch for fucking around. But don't offer it up UNLESS they ask you about her.

Whatever you do, don't let the bittch see you sweat.

ALSO for fuuucks' sake, STOP referring to a roaming vagina as "my wife".

immortalcrown:
After your discovery of the paternity fraud, have you tried to reconcile with your family?

If yes, what is the outcome?

If not, try it first.

If OP is your family member, and he tried to reconcile with you after all these years just because he was served breakfast, what would be your reaction?

Accept him like the prodigal son or allow him to finish what he started?

Zonefree:
If OP is your family member, and he tried to reconcile with you after all these years just because he was served breakfast, what would be your reaction? Accept him like the prodigal son or allow him to finish what he stated?

1.
I will not waste time to accept him if he had not repeated the act in the past.

2.
If he has repeatedly misbehaved in that manner, my acceptance may not happen quickly.

immortalcrown:
After your discovery of the paternity fraud, have you tried to reconcile with your family?

If yes, what is the outcome?

If not, try it first. If your family is decent and you are not a serial betrayer to the family, the family will accept you and help you to recover.

I don't even know how to start, because we've not been in talking terms with any of them for the past six years.

Try and reconcile with your family first first. I mean no matter how much you love your wife, blood is always thicker than any bond whatsoever. So make peace with your family right away.

Secondly, fix an umunna meeting and reveal your ordeal to them and plead with them to join you and visit your wife people.

Fix a visiting with your wife's family and village people and report your matter to them and seek their input to the matter.

No matter how much her family might have dodged, a meeting with a village umunna is never a joke.

Meektunz:
I don't even know how to start, because we've not been in talking terms with any of them for the past six years.

Start by calling on phone and visiting.

Auxtan:
Try and reconcile with your family first first. I mean no matter how much you love your wife, blood is always thicker than any bond whatsoever. So make peace with your family right away.

Secondly, fix an umunna meeting and reveal your ordeal to them and plead with them to join you and visit your wife people.

Fix a visiting with your wife's family and village people and report your matter to them and seek their input to the matter.

No matter how much her family might have dodged, a meeting with a village umunna is never a joke.

Peace with his family must come last not now.

OP must finish what he started. He must go through pains. He must feel the wrath of abandoning his family. He must learn and realise that out of his family members, it's only his wife that is not his relative.

I endorse whatever agony he's going through right now.

immortalcrown:
1.
I will not waste time to accept him if he had not repeated the act in the past.

2.
If he has repeatedly misbehaved in that manner, my forgiveness will not happen quickly.

He's not in communication with his family for 6 years because of the Jezebel he called his wife.

Now, he remembered he has a family cos he got served.

The family should allow him go through the pains alone for now. When he's done grieving, they can take him in.

People should be held responsible for their actions.

Meektunz, read these books:

1. The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.
2. No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert A. Glover.

Start TODAY!

Zonefree:

He's not in communication with his family for 6 years because of the Jezebel he called his wife.
Now, he remembered he has a family cos he got served. The family should allow him go through the pains alone for now. When he's done grieving, they can take him in. People should be held responsible for their actions.

You are mixing things up unnecessarily. Most of you think being emotional is wisdom.

Accepting him does not mean sharing in the pain. You can't share in the pain because he will not ask you to give him the resources he invested in the woman and her children. He alone will feel the pain.

The only way you can share in the pain is if you contributed your time and money to raising the children. If this is the case, rejecting him cannot cure your pain. And in this scenario, your rejection of him only pleases your emotion but does not depict wisdom. It is not wisdom because rejecting him cannot be the reason his life will get better but accepting him can change him for good.

Accepting him is an attempt to save him from future similar occurrences. Missing a family member for 6 years is better than losing the member permanently.

Meektunz:
I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

. Go back to your family please

Meektunz:
I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

instead of looking for sympathy with HER YEYE FAMILY, i suggest you go reconnect with your own family that you abandoned because of that jezebel, and go tell them you are sorry for doubting them, when they were RIGHT ALL ALONG.

sometimes in life, you have to do whats right, regardless of how hurtful it may be.

Zonefree:

Peace with his family must come last not now.

OP must finish what he started. He must go through pains. He must feel the wrath of abandoning his family. He must learn and realise that out of his family members, it's only his wife that is not his relative.

I endorse whatever agony he's going through right now.

If you have nothing useful to help him with, shut the hell up and let more sensible people contribute. It is impossible to find a human being that hasn't f*cked up.

Zonefree:

He's not in communication with his family for 6 years because of the Jezebel he called his wife.

Now, he remembered he has a family cos he got served

The family should allow him go through the pains alone for now. When he's done grieving, they can take him in.

People should be held responsible for their actions.

May the Gods continue to punish the OP and every man like him.



NTTOOOORRRR!!!!!!

Meektunz:
I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

because of woman u neglect you family, now u come here dey put us for ur own nemesis,go and reconcile with your family first.

Meektunz:
I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

Is she lightskin?

MrCork:


Is she lightskin?

yes

Meektunz:
yes

Then forgive her sir...shes lightskin!!!!((REAL TALK))

La familia first. Yoruba will say "omo buruku koni buru titi, ka le pa fekun je". Go back to your family first, they will accept you back.

Namaster:
You spoke to her siblings? What did you expect?

That they'll tell you their sister is an EVIL WHOORE?

No, siree! Family comes first. Even when they are a piece of shiit.

YOUR MOVE:

First of all, STOP crying like a little bitch. You married a WHOORE, deal with it. Part of it is your fault for NOT seeing the multitude of red flags she was wrapped it. Majority of it is she's just a WHOORE. Nothing you could have done.

NEXT, stop talking to her family. They will NEVER blame your wife for being a WHOORE. They already know. They probably laughed at you when you came to prostrate to marry the family WHOORE in the first place.

Nothing you can say will turn them against your wife. You're just publicising the fact that she made you a cuck. Setting yourself up for MORE ridicule and embarrassment.

NEXT, get a DNA test for any OTHER kid the WHOORE claims is yours. Ascertain paternity.

FINALLY, stop acting helpless. Get the bitch out of your house if she's still there. Keep the kids that ACTUALLY belongs to you. Kick her and her bastard(s) out.

If you live in her house, take your kids and get out.

If you must cry, cry in SECRET. Don't cry to her family. Don't cry to your family. Don't cry to your friends.

However, tell your family that they were right about the WHOORE. Let them chew her out and counteract her siblings' support.

Also, let your MUTUAL CHURCH friends know that you've kicked out the bitch for fucking around. But don't offer it up UNLESS they ask you about her.

Whatever you do, don't let the bittch see you sweat.

ALSO for fuuucks' sake, STOP referring to a roaming vagina as "my wife".

imagine that are telling me to allow the children finish this term before I chase her out of the house.

Meektunz:
imagine that are telling me to allow the children finish this term before I chase her out of the house.

NEVER negotiate with infidels.

Imagine sharing your personal space with someone who BETRAYED you in the worst way possible. Every time you enter your own house, you'll feel you're being STABBED in the heart with a flaming sword.

You NEED to kick her and her bastard out of your house THIS night.

Don't let her or anyone tell you to "take the high road", "be a bigger man", "be reasonable" or to "think of the children".

She wasn't thinking of any of that when she GOBBLED strange dick until she got pregnant. The. lied to you for almost a DECADE.

Right now, you need to be VICIOUS and SELFISH.

You don't respect yourself and peole don't respect you. That's why they can look you in the eyes and suggest that you continue to live with a CHEAT and a LIAR.

KICK HER OUT TONIGHT!

Anybody who thinks yiu are wrong can take her in.

Namaster:


NEVER negotiate with infidels.

Imagine sharing your personal space with someone who BETRAYED you in the worst way possible. Every time you enter your own house, you'll feel you're being STABBED in the heart with a flaming sword.

You NEED to kick her and her bastard out of your house THIS night.

Don't let her or anyone tell you to "take the high road", "be a bigger man", "be reasonable" or to "think of the children".

She wasn't thinking of any of that when she GOBBLED strange dick until she got pregnant. The. lied to you for almost a DECADE.

Right now, you need to be VICIOUS and SELFISH.

You don't respect yourself and peole don't respect you. That's why they can look you in the eyes and suggest that you continue to live with a CHEAT and a LIAR.

KICK HER OUT TONIGHT!

Anybody who thinks yiu are wrong can take her in.

please my brother, can I talk to you privately? Thanks!!!

Meektunz:
please sir, can I talk to you privately? Please....

No. Talk here.

There is NOTHING to be embarrassed about. You'll get more opinion and support here.

Namaster:


No. Talk here.

There is NOTHING to be embarrassed about. You'll get more opinion and support here.

can you imagine one of her sister calling me this evening to tell me, it's fine if I don't want all the children, that they are capable of taking care of all the children but I should allow them finish this term. She even went further to say, there are people who adopted children and are taking care of them and that nobody is perfect.

Meektunz:
can you imagine one of her sister calling me this evening to tell me, it's fine if I don't want all the children, that they are capable of taking care of all the children but I should allow them finish this term. She even went further to say, there are people who adopted children and are taking care of them and that nobody is perfect.

BLOCK her.

Namaster:


BLOCK her.

right now, my neighbours do not know about it but what if they are aware how do i live with it?

Meektunz:
I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years.

The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me.

Ur case conk, u because of a woman deny ur family uh!
I fit no do am at all because women generally na serpent them be.

Wetin you need to do now na either you forgive or una part ways.

OBVIOUSLY you married into the wrong family.

The way the sister dismissed you and made it sound like cheating is not a big deal is a telltale sign that the family is a shitty one.

Imagine telling someone to adopt and take care of a BASTARD that resulted from your wife fucking another man while married to you.

BLOCK that sister for her stupidity. BLOCK the rest of her family as a matter of principle.

It is time to start respecting YOURSELF. No one in her family respects you. And that includes the one you call your wife.

Tell me she is NO LONGER in your house.

Namaster:
OBVIOUSLY you married into the wrong family.

The way the sister dismissed you and made it sound like cheating is not a big deal is a telltale sign that the family is a shitty one.

Imagine telling someone to adopt and take care of a BASTARD that resulted from your wife fucking another man while married to you.

BLOCK that sister for her stupidity. BLOCK the rest of her family as a matter of principle.

It is time to start respecting YOURSELF. No one in her family respects you. And that includes the one you call your wife.

Tell me she is NO LONGER in your house.

I appreciate your inputs, but right now how can i answer people when asked after her and the children that's the big one?