My own story dey come

brain54:

I get your point...

Guys do sometimes become deceitful just to increase reps and prove levels. I don't do it but I take it as what some guys do normal.

One of my friend who used to work for me used to bring girls to my office claiming to be the owner to them... Me I just overlook and excuse him making sure I don't do anything to contradict him. It's somehow normal and part of the Bro code.

But some people are just rude. If really he told them you guys were squatting does it mean they should not greet or be rude because you were squatting?

Maybe na small children mentality anyway!

@bolded.
You sabi boss🙏

IamDora:
Hello Nairalanders,

So as the topic implies, have you ever accommodated someone for some period of time and they later Overstayed the time they promised to leave and refused leaving? How did you later get them to leave?

Okay, I'll start by telling mine. There was a time a fellow coursemate of mine begged me to stay at my place for just 3-days (Because she was having some misunderstanding with her roommate) and after that she'd be leaving. I agreed and accommodated her (Coz I was staying alone) entertained her well and made sure she was comfortable for the remainder of the days she'd be staying with me.

So Fast forward to a week after, madam didn't want to go again, 3- days became weeks, and turned into Months. Infact, she was getting more and more relaxed everyday her friends that weren't my friends were now trooping my place 24/7, they'll be playing musics, vibing and rocking themselves most of the time while me, the owner of the room is tryna catch some sleep oo. Imagine

Long story short, I wanted travelling home to spend some weeks, so I had to plan with my Landlord (He doesn't live in our lodge but visits once a while) so I narrated everything to him (He was Laughing all through) and told him my plan of how I wanted to dispose her, I handed a padlock with it's key to him and told him that two days after I travel, he should come and tell her that my house-rent has expired and he'll be coming very early the next day to lock my room, so she should start making arrangements to leave immidiately

After the landlord passed the information to her, she called me and was telling me what the landlord said, me on the other hand was raining curses on the landlord o

My brothers and sisters, that was how I got to make that girl leave my room o Some Squatters don't just get it that we stay alone because we love our space and privacy, like, we enjoy solitude alot.

So, take this 🎤 and tell us how you later made that stubborn Squatter leave?

Wow pretty

folake4u:
This thread is much needed oh. I have two weeks to tell this babe to leave my house because she's becoming too comfortable and also dirty.

How can you leave dishes in the sink for a full day before you wash them?

Phew!!!

this low class attention seeker dey follow put voice.
Abi make I expose your dirty habits for Hall 3?

PerfectStranger:


Please mine will be different, I've been selected for a project in Abuja, who'll accommodate me for just 2 month? My feeding isn't an issue, thanks

This is how it starts

IamDora:
Hello Nairalanders,

So as the topic implies, have you ever accommodated someone for some period of time and they later Overstayed the time they promised to leave and refused leaving? How did you later get them to leave?

Okay, I'll start by telling mine. There was a time a fellow coursemate of mine begged me to stay at my place for just 3-days (Because she was having some misunderstanding with her roommate) and after that she'd be leaving. I agreed and accommodated her (Coz I was staying alone) entertained her well and made sure she was comfortable for the remainder of the days she'd be staying with me.

So Fast forward to a week after, madam didn't want to go again, 3- days became weeks, and turned into Months. Infact, she was getting more and more relaxed everyday her friends that weren't my friends were now trooping my place 24/7, they'll be playing musics, vibing and rocking themselves most of the time while me, the owner of the room is tryna catch some sleep oo. Imagine

Long story short, I wanted travelling home to spend some weeks, so I had to plan with my Landlord (He doesn't live in our lodge but visits once a while) so I narrated everything to him (He was Laughing all through) and told him my plan of how I wanted to dispose her, I handed a padlock with it's key to him and told him that two days after I travel, he should come and tell her that my house-rent has expired and he'll be coming very early the next day to lock my room, so she should start making arrangements to leave immidiately

After the landlord passed the information to her, she called me and was telling me what the landlord said, me on the other hand was raining curses on the landlord o

My brothers and sisters, that was how I got to make that girl leave my room o Some Squatters don't just get it that we stay alone because we love our space and privacy, like, we enjoy solitude alot.

So, take this 🎤 and tell us how you later made that stubborn Squatter leave?

Mine was a Youth coper that I accommodated who refused to leave. Well I started collecting the other thing from her everyday. She ended staying with me for 2 years

Mosdiii:


Mine was a Youth coper that I accommodated who refused to leave. Well I started collecting the other thing from her everyday. She ended staying with me for 2 years

U were lucky she didn't get preggy abi abortion choke

Lol

@folake4u
I understand you oo, I just didn't expect it to be so soon .

Please let her know your grouse I hope she change without bad feelings

IamDora:




Funny thing is when they finally leave, they tend to tell people that you're a bad person

Exactly.

Proserpina:
Lol

@folake4u
I understand you oo, I just didn't expect it to be so soon .

Please let her know your grouse I hope she change without bad feelings

Even me sef shock at her mannerisms.

I will tell her today and let her know she should start looking for space. Let me even shock you, she has an elder sister here but that one rejected her. I was SHOCKED!!!!!

folake4u:


Even me sef shock at her mannerisms.

I will tell her today and let her know she should start looking for space. Let me even shock you, she has an elder sister here but that one rejected her. I was SHOCKED!!!!!

You will never know a person until you live with them. And by then it may be too late.

GloriousGbola:


You will never know a person until you live with them. And by then it may be too late.

To be honest. I have learnt a big lesson.

Proserpina:
Lol

@folake4u
I understand you oo, I just didn't expect it to be so soon .

Please let her know your grouse I hope she change without bad feelings

Folake has had it up to here. She has spent the last 2 days researching how to handle undesirable roommates.

GloriousGbola:


Folake has had it up to here. She has spent the last 2 days researching how to handle undesirable roommates.

Seriously mehnnn!!!!!

She did something really nasty on Saturday. I was so pissed off for hours!! Twas my girlfriend that calmed me down.

EmmyMaestro:


This is how it starts

No na, I'm different bro, won't exceed 2 month

folake4u:


Even me sef shock at her mannerisms.

I will tell her today and let her know she should start looking for space. Let me even shock you, she has an elder sister here but that one rejected her. I was SHOCKED!!!!!

Wawu that's serious!!!

She should do better nah.

The truth is you don't really know people until you get closer to them. If she's willing to listen and change you can help her get through it

If otherwise buy her "GHANA MUST GO"

GloriousGbola:


Folake has had it up to here. She has spent the last 2 days researching how to handle undesirable roommates.

You saw her "shares" too? Folake4u shared 2012 posts ... E don be for that lady .

On a serious note though, the lady's attitude is why people hardly accommodate one another these days. It's very bad

Proserpina:
Wawu that's serious!!!

She should do better nah.

The truth is you don't really know people until you get closer to them. If she's willing to listen and change you can help her get through it

If otherwise buy her "GHANA MUST GO"

It is oh. I dare not tell my family this piece of info right now.

For real oh.

Even before coming to my place, I had told her one month. She also told her sister that I gave her one month.

I will only be doing gentle reminder henceforth.

Proserpina:


You saw her "shares" too? Folake4u shared 2012 posts ... E don be for that lady .

On a serious note though, the lady's attitude is why people hardly accommodate one another these days. It's very bad

Oh you guys saw my "shares". Seeeeeee!! E choke oh.

Na state of emergency I dey so.

folake4u:


It is oh. I dare not tell my family this piece of info right now.

For real oh.

Even before coming to my place, I had told her one month. She also told her sister that I gave her one month.

I will only be doing gentle reminder henceforth.

sha have a plan to change your keys if it comes to that

GloriousGbola:


sha have a plan to change your keys if it comes to that

Change my keys bawo? When she's not mad.
I never leave her alone with my keys.

Thankfully, my caretaker has seen and known her.

From my research on the old threads, I will use the caretaker to chase her out.

folake4u:


It is oh. I dare not tell my family this piece of info right now.

For real oh.

Even before coming to my place, I had told her one month. She also told her sister that I gave her one month.

I will only be doing gentle reminder henceforth.

Lol... Don't tell them yet biko. From experience (not exactly accommodating someone but rendering help) Parents will blame you for being too helpful . It may not necessarily be blame but subtle reprimands especially if something bad or unpleasant comes out of you being helpful. Give them the full gist after everything is settled Else you won't hear the end of it.

Be glad you gave her a time frame... You played safe. Hold on to that lol two weeks is here already.

State of emergency? That bad? Omohhh I dey fear now o .

Proserpina:
Lol... Don't tell them yet biko. From experience (not exactly accommodating someone but rendering help) Parents will blame you for being too helpful . It may not necessarily be blame but subtle reprimands especially if something bad or unpleasant comes out of you being helpful. Give them the full gist after everything is settled Else you won't hear the end of it.

Be glad you gave her a time frame... You played safe. Hold on to that lol two weeks is here already.

State of emergency? That bad? Omohhh I dey fear now o .

Yeah. I will just chill until everything is settled before telling them.

Lol yup. Two weeks is already here, that's what everyone's saying.

IT IS BAD oh. Make I just first chill. You go hear the full gist later after everything's settled.

PerfectStranger:


No na, I'm different bro, won't exceed 2 month

Ok, before the landlord will open a thread here and start asking
" How can I pursue the person squatting with my tenant "

EmmyMaestro:


Ok, before the landlord will open a thread here and start asking
" How can I pursue the person squatting with my tenant "

You need to learn to help people beyond the limit they ask for most especially concerning shelter or food

PerfectStranger:

Lol I'm not lazy

You sound with a whole level of experience. I also experienced same when I accommodated one boy. He even attempted kn*cking my now ex chic at my back.

Yes o,his friends started looking at me like I'm a bad person but e no consign me o😆

IamDora:




Funny thing is when they finally leave, they tend to tell people that you're a bad person

I`m a private person that's why i can never accommodate anyone that's not my sibling in my house and i can never as well squat with anybody because of accommodation problem. It`s better i go back to my father`s house than to squat with someone. Back then when i had house rent issue 3 of my frnds told me to come squat with them but i rejected the offer.