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List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 2:03pm On May 16, 2024
List 3 or more things that ladies realise, as they get older
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by theophorus(m): 2:16pm On May 16, 2024
1. Men won't flock around you forever
2. Early married is Goodcos there is really nothing to enjoy on the street.
3. You can't get a good boy with Burna-Boy abi Portable swag.

NB:Essentialone, Oya credit my account cos I don provide answer to your question.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 2:26pm On May 16, 2024
theophorus:
1. Men won't flock around you forever
2. Early married is Goodcos there is really nothing to enjoy on the street.
3. You can't get a good boy with Burna-Boy abi Portable swag.

NB:Essentialone, Oya credit my account cos I don provide answer to your question.
This your number 3 answer be as e get ooo
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Ikennaford: 2:45pm On May 16, 2024
they'll realize that they've waste so much time jumping from one dick to anothr
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by CuriousCart(f): 3:12pm On May 16, 2024
1. Menopause is real
2. Men are not scum
3. The vagina is not elastic
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 5:25pm On May 16, 2024
Most would realise that good health is more important than fashion
That the world does not revolve around you.
That the world has actually began to ignore you, even now that you are still alive.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by pointblank247(m): 7:12pm On May 16, 2024
That your Mama was right after all
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Beverlyjean(f): 7:56pm On May 16, 2024
Being single can be depressing
It's not all about money
Women were lied to about life
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by sharpwriter(m): 8:39pm On May 16, 2024
Beverlyjean:
Being single can be depressing
It's not all about money
Women were lied to about life
Hmmn ... i am interested in your third point. What do you mean, what lies?
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Beverlyjean(f): 10:10pm On May 16, 2024
sharpwriter:
Hmmn ... i am interested in your third point. What do you mean, what lies?
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 6:06am On May 17, 2024
Beverlyjean:
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
Your views are very deep. Quite thoughtful.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by tochez24(m): 6:35am On May 17, 2024
Beverlyjean:
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
Your points go with 99.9% of men in this world ✅✅✅

For me.... I will NEVER marry:

1. A non virgin girl
2. A girl more than 21 years
3. A girl without education or skills (she must have a money making mindset)

🚶🏾‍♂️🚶🏾‍♂️
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by KingLennon(m): 6:44am On May 17, 2024
Beverlyjean:
Being single can be depressing It's not all about money Women were lied to about life
Feminism is a scam....sad
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by sharpwriter(m): 9:09am On May 17, 2024
Beverlyjean:
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
Hmmmm.... These are great thoughts to ponder on. 🤔🤔👍🏽🔥🔥.

But I must admit that your comments sometimes makes it hard for me to believe that you are female.

Also, to get more of your perspective, what can you say about many divorces these days of which women believes that men are always at fault, coupling with the fact that most Nigerian marriages abroad also run into problem?
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 1:01pm On May 17, 2024
As ladies get older, they spend more time on social media just stargazing at other younger ladies, and missing the good old days
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 1:04pm On May 17, 2024
As ladies get older, they begin to prefer Aboniki balm, and okwuma, than those Fair and White, and White and Snow bleaching creams.

Rheumatoid Arthritis becomes their worst nightmare.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by pansophist(m):
1. The myth of an independent woman. There is no such thing. A woman is either dependent on systems built by men partially or wholly.
2. That attention from numerous men is valuable, instead of love and attention from a good man.
3. That the best time to marry is late.
4. That her value is wholly external, such as her curves, wig, followers, attention, and appearance. these are supplements, not the core.
5. That being a baddy, argumentative, finger-wagging, and troublesome is self-assertion.
6. That body count doesn't matter.
7. The exploitation of the ''provider tag' on men to dodge getting a job, and being wholly dependent on a man/men.
8. Chasing a career as the main, instead of a supplement to a good family.
9. Rejecting good man because goodness is boring, and dysfunction is exciting.
10. Hooking a man (and some more) who genuinely loves her on her rotational list for cash extortion, and seeing it as smart and getting the bag.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by pansophist(m):
Beverlyjean:
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
And the worst evil of it all is the labeling of those who point out this fact as a pick-me, or misogyny, etc. Correcting a woman right now is now hatred.

Until feminists reach the realization that the so-called patriarchy they have scapegoated loves and protects them. Yes some men are rapists, and are evil, but other men (not just women) are also their victims.

Patriarchy in itself is what a society needs to prosper. It's not even about men or women, it's about competence and incompetence. Patriarchy by design is the elevation of strong men to protect us from other evil men, and evil women.

It's about division of labour. And men fit some task better than women., and vice versa. I'll rather a man show up to quench the fire in my house, and I'll prefer to leave my daughter in the hands of a kindergarten headed by a woman.

Think of any country you love, a corporation you admire, sportsmanship, or calling the police in the middle of the night, that's patriarchy in action. We need strong men to run societies, and protect us from other evil men, nature, and animals.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by BabbanBura(m): 3:06pm On May 17, 2024
Beverlyjean:
The system thru feminism lied to women that they have the power to do whatever they wanna do with their body , that men get attracted to women that are open for sex ... but the truth is men don't take women like that seriously despite running around women like that... they lied to women that we don't need to settle down on time, all we need is to become independent like men....that men prefer successful women...another lie ...
Excellent thoughts, that is why I pity these gen-Z gals
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 5:37pm On May 18, 2024
The wrinkles cannot be hidden forever

Beauty fades

They are not as beautiful as they thought or wished they were.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Fiscus105(m): 9:19pm On May 18, 2024
As they grow older, they now realize that, Its income getting from her handwork, that can effectively bring comfort to her,rather than notion that, "woman comfort lie in the hand of her man/husband.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by EmperorCaesar(m): 11:14pm On May 18, 2024
Beverlyjean:
Women were lied to about life
I really do not understand this
Kindly explain

Oh, just saw your explanations now...
In fact,I made sure I screenshot it but then, is this really coming from a lady
Thanks for those lines
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 6:58pm On Jul 06, 2024
they realise that they need men more than men need them.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Nobody: 7:13pm On Jul 06, 2024
CuriousCart:
1. Menopause is real
2. Men are not scum
3. The vagina is not elastic
grin
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by BlackRainDrops: 7:22pm On Jul 06, 2024
1. Your birthday comes every year, on the day you were given birth to. Celebrate your birthday with cake.
2. Nnamdi Azikiwe is on the five hundred naira note.
3. Vicks Lemon is yellow.
The End!
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Bazztadewu: 9:32pm On Jul 06, 2024
Imagine a 32 year old expired ugly thing acting like a teenager. I mean wtf,I'm so passed with old hags. Something a teenager won't do,is what a grown expired adult is doing.who looks at an ugly old 32 year old unmarried lady,hahahahaha. I even dey tease a m,she dey feel pompous. Hahahahaha
Ode
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 3:49am On Jul 07, 2024
Bazztadewu:
Imagine a 32 year old expired ugly thing acting like a teenager. I mean wtf,I'm so passed with old hags. Something a teenager won't do,is what a grown expired adult is doing.who looks at an ugly old 32 year old unmarried lady,hahahahaha. I even dey tease a m,she dey feel pompous. Hahahahaha
Ode
Who?
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Mryacks: 4:16am On Jul 07, 2024
pansophist:
1. The myth of an independent woman. There is no such thing. A woman is either dependent on systems built by men partially or wholly.
2. That attention from numerous men is valuable, instead of love and attention from a good man.
3. That the best time to marry is late.
4. That her value is wholly external, such as her curves, wig, followers, attention, and appearance. these are supplements, not the core.
5. That being a baddy, argumentative, finger-wagging, and troublesome is self-assertion.
6. That body count doesn't matter.
7. The exploitation of the ''provider tag' on men to dodge getting a job, and being wholly dependent on a man/men.
8. Chasing a career as the main, instead of a supplement to a good family.
9. Rejecting good man because goodness is boring, and dysfunction is exciting.
10. Hooking a man (and some more) who genuinely loves her on her rotational list for cash extortion, and seeing it as smart and getting the bag.
I see what you did... grin
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Savedday2: 5:53am On Jul 07, 2024
As they grew older, they realize that without man in life, life becomes meaningless and uninteresting. Without men, they are all piece of shit.

They realize that their looks which they think is their greatest assets, is failing them. Then loneliness and depression sets in.

They realized that of a truth, they are all useless.
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Dtruthspeaker: 7:13am On Jul 07, 2024
CuriousCart:
1. Menopause is real
2. Men are not scum
3. The vagina is not elastic
Na lie men are scum but you people are the devils and you are the scum makers!
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by Dtruthspeaker: 7:15am On Jul 07, 2024
Beverlyjean:
Being single can be depressing
It's not all about money
Women were lied to about life
Even now you are Lying!

Women are the biggest and mostest liars ! Na small Satan pass una for Lie
Re: List 3 Or More Things That Ladies Realise, As They Get Older by essentialone(op): 11:02am On Jul 08, 2024
Mryacks:
I see what you did... grin
what did you see? lol grin
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