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dreamxhaser:
One more question is. Do you guys think i should post women in statues? I am not a fan of that bcux i see it as simping, so I don't know what you guys think about that move though. Will it make the bitches more obsessed with me? Or will it spell me as cheap?

Karlifate:
Dear [young] men,

Avoid being in contact, dating, marrying or having any entanglement with a slu+ or an ex-slu+

A slu+ can easily destroy you because she has low sense of self-worth & that also means less capacity for shame, guilt or remorse.

She's already damaged.
So, she has no problem damaging your reputation.

💯

heartofcity12:
👍

Martinez39s:
Gbam! Even if Bill Gates wasn't a simp, he held masculine frame and Melinda Gates was a virgin at time of marriage, or at first acquaintance, the outcome wouldn't be different. It's similar to the cases of western men and abroad-based African men who bring over virgin women they deem traditional and feminine from African, Thailand, Latin America and other supposed conservative societies, only for these women to acquaint themselves with and assimilate into the system and gradually reveal the inner beast and feminist on the inside. For these men, they realise first-hand that western culture and western women are not just the problem, it's an AWALT problem that becomes apparent when women are legally and socially given the ample leverage and lattitude to act as they like with impunity; western culture, precisely its liberal outlook and gynocentrism, provide these.

Even Rollo Tomassi followers and that of red-pill dating/game coachs go into the marriage situation erroneously thinking they can just hold frame and run game on their wives and everything will be alright, only for the court and female nature to give them a rude awakening; divorce courts don't care about your frame or red-pill knowledge, once you are in their trap, they will crush you even if your red-pill frame is made of adamantium.

African American men who have only been with African American women think black women are this and that and they branch off to Latinas and white women only to realise AWALT is the case; I can grant these men that African American women have issues peculiar to them, but that's a discussion for another day. Similarly, many Nigerian men who have only been in this country and haven't tasted non-Nigerian girls erroneously think the problem is just Nigerian girls hence them become #TeamForeignGirls.

In the West and other gynocentric societies, nothing can help a man in the marriage situation. It doesn't matter if he is a redpiller with steel masculine frame or if he is the most disappointing simp, the divorce court will crush him nonetheless; I even discussed how marriage will likely erode your frame automatically, especially when kids start getting involved, but that's for another day. Most men, rich or poor, need to have the humility to know that they are nothing special to female nature: we are all just another expendable utility to female nature, and a female will never prioritize a man above her desires and wants.
• It's funny how one will think that a married woman in a gynocentric society will forgo the opportunity to take half the (millionaire/billionaire) husband's net worth after his earning peak or ten-year mark... just because he is a redpiller and held masculine frame. Even a virgin wife won't act differently. Being a husband means you were selected as provider of resources, not a fùck boy, and you will forever be treated accordingly; it may even turn out that despite your game and frame, she was never sexually attracted to you. Why should you be treated differently by female nature?
• What about those who believe that a woman can't cheat on a redpiller?

We men quickly forget that just as we have the red-pill and game for us, women have their own game and manipulation which they have sharpened and have been practicing since childhood; to make things worse, these are deeply rooted in their nature so they are good, efficient and unrelenting at them than us. Also, we men don't know it all as far as the red pill is concerned: red pill is vast and we learn new red pills every day; you might be surprised that while you think you have everything figured out, you actually know so little and not enough. I believe it's safe to say that no man knows it all when it comes to female nature even if they know so much; we must have the humility to learn endlessly till death.

Some men think they have it all figured out from the little they've read on red-pill forums/blogs and watched on YouTube and movies and they develop a hubris, ego and sense of invincibility that will eventually be their downfall. Most times, just when most men think they are the alpha predators in control, it turns that it was the woman being the calculating predator all along. The solution is to humble yourself, continuously meditate on red-pill truths you know and their corollaries so you don't forget them or slip away, and never assume you have it all figured out: there is always more to learn and red pill can never be exhausted, so keep learning.

Martinez39s:
NB: this post is my opinion. Feel free to counter logically. I stand to be corrected.

@Emboldened text
Well, some people believe gynocentrism cannot come into Nigeria because of men in power and the Islamic North. A lot of men, even most in the North and those you think are patriarchs, are actually simps. Also, the North is not the only part of Nigeria; even if the North doesn't yield to gynocentrism, can't we have a case where other parts are gynocentric except the North? Even when that happens, educated Northern women (eg. Aisha Yesufu) will subtly collude with women from the South to push "equality" and gynocentrism. Mind you that generation by generation, Muslim men are becoming soft and simpish, especially the educated ones in urban areas; it's only a matter of time. Do women like Aisha Yesufu look like traditional submissive women to you despite their hijab and whatever? She is even a feminist, a Muslim feminist, let that sink in. Does her husband look like the domineering, Islamic, alpha patriarch some aspiring patriarch here wetdream to become? Where is the power of Islam in the face of gynocentrism and already-embraced western influence? Many muslims, especially educated ones, are even being moderate muslims if not leaving Islam or being nominal muslims. It's so bad that you have muslims who are feminists or support "equality," and the rise of muslim women who are demanding that their husbands remain married to only them and not get other wives.

Factors, which I will not explain, that ushers a society into gynocentrism
(1) A safe and comfortable time.
(2) A simp culture and the majority of men being simps.
(3) "Equality" in the constitution and the participation of women in positions of power and lawmaking.
(4) Lack of a manly fathers/strong masculine figures in the lives of children, especially boys. Your mother, female guardians, simp fathers/guardians, will raise little boys to be simps.

Some redpillers might call me a misogynist, but if you encourage women to take up positions of power, become judges/lawyers, decide laws, and even vote, you have no ground to complain about gynocentrism and the propagation of the female agenda. You know fully well, as redpiller, that the females in these positions carry their female nature with them and will always work in accordance with the female agenda. With females (about half of the population) being allowed to influence laws, and majority of men (simps) on the side of the female agenda, gynocentrism is sure to run its course; it's only a matter of time.

I remember, few years back, on nairaland, when I conversed with a female nairalander (ladyçewhy, I think). She, a staunch feminist, played the victim and complained that Nigerian women are suffering and are shortchanged. I pointed out the error in this, and I asked her what the solution would be to her supposed problem. She said the family laws in western countries would be the solution in order to protect women. I kid you not. Even some Nigerian women are aware of the laws over there and they fully support it.

Those who marry now in Nigeria or western men who move to conservative terrains don't know how the existing laws will change in ten, fifteen or twenty year's time; you never can tell when or how it will change. Note that even if you marry before these laws, your marriage and divorce will be subject to the newly passed gynocentric laws once they are passed. This happened to traditional American men who got married in the 40s - 60s only for their virgin conservative wives to take advantage of the new marital, child support, and domestic violence laws that feminists fought for in the 70s and 80s (these are the traditionally nurtured and supposed well-bred wives of the 40s, 50s, and 60s, whom are esteemed by the media and others as the archetypal submissive and traditional wives). Some of these wives even became feminists in the 70s and 80s, to the chagrin of their husbands, most of whom fought in world war. AWALT. (They were submissive and traditional because of the world wars, and they couldn't dare venture feminist talking points. They allowed men go to war while they played the traditional women until things became safe).

Finally, I acknowledge that Islam got a lot things right about women and it's the most red-pill religion among its abrahamic contemporaries. However, Islam isn't just about the red pill, it is way more than that, and it needs a lot of reforms in order to make it compatible with basic human rights, especially freedom of speech and expression, and technological advancements. Also, instituting Islam for the sake of putting women in check and establishing patriarchy in every facet of life will face many challenges: do most people believe in Allah and are they willing to thread the core Islamic path in an age where we know so much? NO! If that's the case and an Islamic caliphate is established, a rebellion will quickly abolish the caliphate or a massive bloodshed and force by muslims will be required to keep the caliphate alive. We already know that an apostate or critic of Muhammad will be killed in an Islamic caliphate, and most people abhor honor killings and a lot more in Islam. Also, a theocracy is as strong as the number of those who earnestly embrace the necessary beliefs and practices of the required religion. It also doesn't help that there is a reason why people flee Islamic countries and come to the west. If you are willing to trade your freedom and rights because you want to put "hoès in check", that's your business; Islam doesn't put only women in check, it also put men in check as well. Perhaps, one can create a system based of (Islamic) red-pill principles and infuse it with secularism and freedom of speech and expression; that's not my headache.

From the onset till now, I accept that patriarchy is good for both genders, but in a time like this where the SOCIAL pillars ancient men had to enforce and protect their masculinity is almost nonexistent, the patriarchy that men of old had shall somewhat remain an unattainable ideal of the modern man.

EreluRoz:
I'm coming for you all by weekend

EreluRoz:
You will also beg for it, this is how you guys form hard in public but becomes something more than weak when begging for sex. If David is kneeling for sex I'm sure you and your cohorts will lay flat to beg for sex. Keep deceiving yourselves, only women can tell you who is truly a hard man and not the hype and forming you write here.

I still remember when I was ordering a high ranking army officer up and down this Abuja till I finally cut him off kos I don't do married people and not up for all those things. I'm sure he's much more than a redpiller. Keep deceiving yourselves.

heartofcity12:
Cry... you’ll probably still ghost him or reject him if he had paid anyway, smart guy 😆

MetalJigsaw:
Either way the dude had no business paying for the leech.

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Karlifate:
In summary: Always retain your walkaway power. 👌💯

Pukkalolo:
To be frank, there are few things you got wrong in this post...

A slut is a woman that has so many sexual partners.

I doubt if you are aware that many (naija) ladies are low-key into hook-up. Ofcourse they don't want to be called a slut, so on a low-key they engage in lot of hook-up and crazy sexual activities, but in the public they present has responsible good girls so that they can stand a chance of attracting a husband.


So telling men to avoid slut is liking saying men should avoid 70% of all the women out there...

The reality is, most men end up marrying one of those low-key slut... But the typical guy believes he's marrying a "good" responsibile girl. He believes so because that's how the girl present herself to him.

Now, beyond that.

When you say men should avoid being in contact with slut because she's already damage, you should understand that the Woman didn't Bleep her into being a slut... It's the men that bleeped her and turned her into a slut.

Even in this thread, we validate statements like, "all road leads to sex..." Or "it begins with sex". Or "Don't be a nice guy and you will Bleep her."

So now, after fucking the innocent girl and turning her into a slut, we now turn around and say "avoid being in contact with slut because she's damage."

That's higly contradictory.

Instead of saying men should avoid being in contact with slut or dating or marrying one...


A more practical advice is -->

Men should stop placing female sexuality on pedestal...

Because if you stop putting her sexuality on pedestal, her entitlement and inflated ego will naturally diminish...Then she will be forced to IMPROVE her CHARACTER..... Then her slut tendency will diminish.

AGAIN, THE CHANGE BEGINS WITH MEN

Ericmaestrooffi:
Good morning house

I’ve been following this thread for a long time but I’ve not commented before. I want to ask your opinion on cohabitating with a lady that’s not your gf or wife.

A female friend of mine who recently graduated reached out to me that she wants to come stay with me and use that opportunity to look for a job, she didn’t tell me how long she intends to stay but from our conversation it seems she will be staying for a long time.

I’m currently a banker and not doing bad for myself, I don’t have any issue housing or feeding her but I don’t know if it’s right for a guy and lady not dating to live together.

N.b: we are only friends and nothing more, although I once dated her sister.

Please I need your opinion on this before I take a final decision on this.

Pukkalolo:
Just be honest with yourself...

If your fellow guy had reached out to you that he wants to come stay with you and use that opportunity to look for a job....I'm very sure you would have said No immediately. You would have given him silly excuses.

Now, because it's a female, you've already decided in your mind you will cohabit her.

The only reason you're considering cohabitate her is because you want to Bleep her. You can decieve everyone here but you can't deceive yourself.

You have already decided in your mind you will cohabit so that you can be having access to her sexually.


This is why I often clamour that men should stop thinking with their dicks...



When you think with your dick, you tend to make poor life decisions. Cohabitating this girl is a poor life decision that has long-term negative consequences...

Ericmaestrooffi:
I accommodated my male friend last year and he stayed with me for a while so I understand the crap you’re spitting.

As I said before I don’t have any intention to sleep with her or anything like that, I just wanted to help her that’s all.

Personally I have helped most of my guys in different and till date they still appreciate, I’m not one of those simps who put women on pedestals. I actually prefer helping men to women, the only reason I’m considering dating her is because I’ve known her over 5 years and we are very cool.

From our last discussion she said she wants to stay with me for two years but for now I haven’t given her a feedback yet.

Smartb0y:
The nature of man is not chaotic.
You can have a guy stay with you and not give you headache.
Can't say the same for females.

Anyways

Ericmaestrooffi:
I accommodated my male friend last year and he stayed with me for a while so I understand the crap you’re spitting.

As I said before I don’t have any intention to sleep with her or anything like that, I just wanted to help her that’s all.

Personally I have helped most of my guys in different and till date they still appreciate, I’m not one of those simps who put women on pedestals. I actually prefer helping men to women, the only reason I’m considering dating her is because I’ve known her over 5 years and we are very cool.

From our last discussion she said she wants to stay with me for two years but for now I haven’t given her a feedback yet.

Perfectskills01:
You see..... Most times , when people seek for advice , they do so to confirm their self-opinions. Any advice that contradicts what they intend to do will be dismissed .

Bro... Many people have advised you against allowing this girl into your house , but you seem hell bent . Nobody will validate your intentions. Go and do what suits you best .

chariisGRACE:
While it is true that some '30+' ladies are single because of their promiscuity, we should look at a reason that is not much talked about.

The truth is, some of these women are victims of the 'wickedness' of a man whom they invested all their love and affection into.

What do I mean?

A man would approach a lady in her mid 20s, ignite a relationship. Not only igniting a relationship but, giving the said lady an "I will marry you" vibe, and because women are very emotional, they'll stick with this said man and before you know it... Boom!! 💥 The lady has clocked 30+.

Oga no like her again. There is this fresh 20+ lady that oga is laying ambush for. The 20+ lady has a firmer skin, perky breasts, outward innocence etc but to get this new girl, oga has to get rid of the already 30+ lady.

Once the now 30+ lady has been evicted from oga's heart, with her hope of oga marrying her smashed to the ground. Already devastated and sad, not knowing that , there is more devastation and sadness lurking around the corner.

Time passes, oga is now with a 20+ lady, and 30+ is now on her own.

She grabs her phone and opens an Internet app only to see that, she and her ilks are now labelled as Evening Newspaper (ENP), wh*re, h0e, etc by men. That is a severe case of devastation.

She was only a victim of a man's bosheit. A victim of hit and run by a man's vehicle.

You all need to stop generalizing. Not every 30+ was promiscuous.

Skepticus:
The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus

Skepticus:
Women fûck men who they are sexually attracted to, but marry men who can provide - Red Pilled Realists. Women are the "chosers" for a reason.

Men are the opposite. Most of the time, they marry women they are sexually attracted to, over women who chose and "love" them.

Make I offend "lover boys" wey go read dis comment small. Some of the men wey go attend dat ur big lavish wedding with d love of ur life don bang ya fiancee taya and might still bang it after u are wedded (They may even be sponsoring your wedding disguised as gifts or donations from fiancee's friends or family). They are just there to see the loser "LAWMA" guy packing their trash (Not discouraging anyone from marrying though). Just making you see the reality on ground). #InsideLife

Skepticus:
The "Desperate for your commitment" part reminds me to inform men (who care to read/listen) that men who are on their purpose or indifferent to women and are getting choosing signals (Green Light) from women should be highly observant and try to understand the deep underlying reasons why women are choosing them.

Most men who are on their purpose, bettering themselves (making money, building status etc) give off "provider" vibes which attracts mostly women who are there to enjoy the "provision", not the man or his essence. In fact, most choosing signals (Green Light) from women are manipulative. Only a few, are genuine.

Like I said in some of my past comments on this thread, nothing bad in making your money or improving your status to attract women to you (though, there is a large segment of men who encourage minimalism/less flashiness or show off, when it comes to the red pill and it helps in sieving out manipulative gold diggers from "seriously-interested" women) but it is WISDOM to get what you want from her (especially if she is there to Gold Dig or giving Manipulative Green Lights) spending little or nothing. If you have to spend so much (Expensive Pusssy), you are in a transactional relationship/marriage (Packaged Prostitution) "overpaying" a pusssy that some other guy is getting for less or nothing. You might be better off wanking, going to a brothel or ordering for pusssy on tinder or instamessage in a more "realistic" deal. Not encouraging picking prostitutes or masturbation, though they serve a purpose. Nothing beats sexual control and discipline for a man.

Niggas, make una dey use una head above una dicks. #Focus