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I don't know of people who take this on nairaland but I won't take it. So a broke guy should be without pride and like a desperate dog looking to cling to any small chance or whatever

I won't take it. I may be broke but I still got my pride mtchew

Let no one shame you for going life's struggles, that you are broke doesn't mean you don't deserve a bride.

A society who despises a broke man shouldn't tell the man how many women he will Carry when he becomes rich. There are levels to which someone can be broke, some don't work at all and don't have funds to take care of their recurrent expenditure not to talk of additional people while others are broke earning minimum wage or above minimum wage jobs but can afford their basic needs.

If you find yourself in the latter category then it's easier but if you find yourself in the former the scenario becomes even more daunting. For scenario one you have to consciously find a bride who doesn't have the mindset of "my money is my money and your money is our money" else you will regret taking the route of marriage im the first place. But if scenario two is what you are experiencing the only option is to seek a bride that is way financially stable than scenario one but it's like passing through the eye of a needle because 99 % of ladies will over look you because hypergamy won't work where you are.

You must note an intentional mindset to planning yourself in this , don't ever let things to chance like the number of children you should have as well as how to improve your finances to accommodate the ever increasing financial obligations as the family size increases. Never live your life to the standards of people around you, set your own pace and conquer your world. The road is extremely challenging but with hardwork, dedication you can surpass all limiting vicissitudes around you.

ayjay45:
I don't know of people who take this on nairaland but I won't take it. So a broke guy should be without pride and like a desperate dog looking to cling to any small chance or whatever

I won't take it. I may be broke but I still got my pride mtchew

I agree with you... You atr first who you are in your mind!!!

you lost your pride when you were begging total strangers for handouts... the minute you told that person that you wanted to send aza, then your pride was out the door. beggars aint choosers!
no wonder so many poor Nigerians are used and abused (some even killed) when desperate people are ready to do anything for money.

here is a clue: majority of these demonic people will use money to entice people like you into doing whatever nonsense on this earth... and feast on your body and soul.

HAVE SOME PRIDE AND STOP BEGGING TOTALL STRANGERS ON NL!

As long as you know the difference between having pride in yourself and being proud.

idahme:
Let no one shame you for going life's struggles, that you are broke doesn't mean you don't deserve a bride.

A society who despises a broke man shouldn't tell the man how many women he will Carry when he becomes rich. There are levels to which someone can be broke, some don't work at all and don't have funds to take care of their recurrent expenditure not to talk of additional people while others are broke earning minimum wage or above minimum wage jobs but can afford their basic needs.

If you find yourself in the latter category then it's easier but if you find yourself in the former the scenario becomes even more daunting. For scenario one you have to consciously find a bride who doesn't have the mindset of "my money is my money and your money is our money" else you will regret taking the route of marriage im the first place. But if scenario two is what you are experiencing the only option is to seek a bride that is way financially stable than scenario one but it's like passing through the eye of a needle because 99 % of ladies will over look you because hypergamy won't work where you are.

You must note an intentional mindset to planning yourself in this , don't ever let things to chance like the number of children you should have as well as how to improve your finances to accommodate the ever increasing financial obligations as the family size increases. Never live your life to the standards of people around you, set your own pace and conquer your world. The road is extremely challenging but with hardwork, dedication you can surpass all limiting vicissitudes around you.

Bro is this your own style too.. derailing threads intentionally by twisting the words and adding lenghty posts in the comment

I have seen you done it in like four threads already..🤔🤔

As long as you don't have too much pride.

What I have to say is
know when to have pride, and know when to loyal.
Most of all,know the boundaries to your pride n loyalty.

Broke me!

As Dangote pickin, you supposed get pride na.

My dad would always say not having at least the littlest level of pride as a man in itself is a sin.
By the way, there is no honour for beggars.

FRANCISTOWN:
My dad would always say not having at least the littlest level of pride as a man in itself is a sin.
By the way, there is no honour for beggars.

Did anything beg you 4 a right 2 exist?

MrBrownJay1:
you lost your pride when you were begging total strangers for handouts... the minute you told that person that you wanted to send aza, then your pride was out the door. beggars aint choosers!
no wonder so many poor Nigerians are used and abused (some even killed) when desperate people are ready to do anything for money.

here is a clue: majority of these demonic people will use money to entice people like you into doing whatever nonsense on this earth... and feast on your body and soul.

HAVE SOME PRIDE AND STOP BEGGING TOTALL STRANGERS ON NL!

Nobody is begging you 2 change ur name


If you plan 2 kidnap poor people,then go ahead.


Spits

It depends though, I humble myself before everyone but not before arrogant people

HellVictorinho6:
Nobody is begging you 2 change ur name
If you plan 2 kidnap poor people,then go ahead.
Spits

did you forgot to take your meds today? YABA LEFT ESCAPEE!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/leowtf.gif

The biggest pride of any young manz is being self reliant, comfortable and doing well for himself


As a man you dont know how well you have done for yourself when you have a roof over your head, food in your table, clothes on your neck, shoes on your feet

thesicilian:
As long as you know the difference between having pride in yourself and being proud.

It's a thin line that we all cross every now and then, what if one can't identify the line and keep falling as far as being timid would you rather recommend him being proud than to be timid?

ayjay45:
I don't know of people who take this on nairaland but I won't take it. So a broke guy should be without pride and like a desperate dog looking to cling to any small chance or whatever

I won't take it. I may be broke but I still got my pride mtchew

You are lazy ass.
You are also not willing to learn.
I can assure you life will make you learn.
Do you know how many times i did boy boy for different people just to find a heads way legitimately without crime.
I do boy boy for ghetto collect 500 everyday just to chop
I do boy boy for my cousin just to learn his trade.
I did boy boy with mr felix just to understand his business
I did boy boy for my grandma just for her to give me money for school
I did it with my class mates just to learn photography
Did it with another classmate just to get a heads way.
I did boy boy just for learning video editing too
I did it for my aunty, my uncles
In all of it one paid off.
I was a graduate but did boy boy in ghetto.
I must survive.
I am a man. Not a woman. No one will give me money for being btful or wanting to have sex.
Sometimes i said to myself if i was a woman in those trying times i for don follow man tire. E red.
I could not come to nairaland to beg.
I was to proud to do that.
I could enter the gutter to work. I was not too proud for that.
You think life is a bed of roses
You come here talking down om your father saying he is poor
But you are lazy and arrogant
If you dont dont do it now you will do it later.


No one is a master to himself completely.

Here you are saying trash.
Mugu 30

idahme:
Let no one shame you for going life's struggles, that you are broke doesn't mean you don't deserve a bride.

A society who despises a broke man shouldn't tell the man how many women he will Carry when he becomes rich. There are levels to which someone can be broke, some don't work at all and don't have funds to take care of their recurrent expenditure not to talk of additional people while others are broke earning minimum wage or above minimum wage jobs but can afford their basic needs.

If you find yourself in the latter category then it's easier but if you find yourself in the former the scenario becomes even more daunting. For scenario one you have to consciously find a bride who doesn't have the mindset of "my money is my money and your money is our money" else you will regret taking the route of marriage im the first place. But if scenario two is what you are experiencing the only option is to seek a bride that is way financially stable than scenario one but it's like passing through the eye of a needle because 99 % of ladies will over look you because hypergamy won't work where you are.

You must note an intentional mindset to planning yourself in this , don't ever let things to chance like the number of children you should have as well as how to improve your finances to accommodate the ever increasing financial obligations as the family size increases. Never live your life to the standards of people around you, set your own pace and conquer your world. The road is extremely challenging but with hardwork, dedication you can surpass all limiting vicissitudes around you.

you are right bro.... I remembered when I was broke no girl even send me.... Now that I am less broke, na different babes I dey carry... Carry and leave.... Even my babe know....I carry any girl I want and treat them like trash. When I was broke they treated me like trash so it's my turn

Be a prince, my man, a prince do not do odd jobs. have a mind set that you can do better than that. dont freeze your mind. if you have the education, the skills to do other things , dont go for less, if you do, it will take you longer time to reach your desired destination.

They call it pride but I call it self-esteem. It's about respectinq urself

MrBrownJay1:
you lost your pride when you were begging total strangers for handouts... the minute you told that person that you wanted to send aza, then your pride was out the door. beggars aint choosers!
no wonder so many poor Nigerians are used and abused (some even killed) when desperate people are ready to do anything for money.

here is a clue: majority of these demonic people will use money to entice people like you into doing whatever nonsense on this earth... and feast on your body and soul.

HAVE SOME PRIDE AND STOP BEGGING TOTALL STRANGERS ON NL!

common go and sit down, so he shouldn't ask for help again because you dey carry shoulder.
Ask jare if dem give you, fine, if dem no give you fvrk them.

1Sharon:
As long as you don't have too much pride.

define too much pride.

idahme:
Let no one shame you for going life's struggles, that you are broke doesn't mean you don't deserve a bride.

A society who despises a broke man shouldn't tell the man how many women he will Carry when he becomes rich. There are levels to which someone can be broke, some don't work at all and don't have funds to take care of their recurrent expenditure not to talk of additional people while others are broke earning minimum wage or above minimum wage jobs but can afford their basic needs.

If you find yourself in the latter category then it's easier but if you find yourself in the former the scenario becomes even more daunting. For scenario one you have to consciously find a bride who doesn't have the mindset of "my money is my money and your money is our money" else you will regret taking the route of marriage im the first place. But if scenario two is what you are experiencing the only option is to seek a bride that is way financially stable than scenario one but it's like passing through the eye of a needle because 99 % of ladies will over look you because hypergamy won't work where you are.

You must note an intentional mindset to planning yourself in this , don't ever let things to chance like the number of children you should have as well as how to improve your finances to accommodate the ever increasing financial obligations as the family size increases. Never live your life to the standards of people around you, set your own pace and conquer your world. The road is extremely challenging but with hardwork, dedication you can surpass all limiting vicissitudes around you.

I wonder why Africans never think of science, technology and bettering the world. Why is it that African men only think of "carrying women"? I pity the black race because I don't see progression if the whites die off. This internet we are using will cease to exist, not because the black brain doesn't work. It will cease to exist because blacks can't put in a unified effort to advance society. The white man must hold their hands and use their ideas, because blacks mostly think of "carrying women".

I hate pride

The Bible even said , pride cometh before a fall

Yugoslavia247:
You are lazy ass.
You are also not willing to learn.
I can assure you life will make you learn.
Do you know how many times i did boy boy for different people just to find a heads way legitimately without crime.
I do boy boy for ghetto collect 500 everyday just to chop
I do boy boy for my cousin just to learn his trade.
I did boy boy with mr felix just to understand his business
I did boy boy for my grandma just for her to give me money for school
I did it with my class mates just to learn photography
Did it with another classmate just to get a heads way.
I did boy boy just for learning video editing too
I did it for my aunty, my uncles
In all of it one paid off.
I was a graduate but did boy boy in ghetto.
I must survive.
I am a man. Not a woman. No one will give me money for being btful or wanting to have sex.
Sometimes i said to myself if i was a woman in those trying times i for don follow man tire. E red.
I could not come to nairaland to beg.
I was to proud to do that.
I could enter the gutter to work. I was not too proud for that.
You think life is a bed of roses
You come here talking down om your father saying he is poor
But you are lazy and arrogant
If you dont dont do it now you will do it later.


No one is a master to himself completely.

Here you are saying trash.
Mugu 30

but why are you ranting? nobody asked you to do boy boy for the whole community now. Continue!

josh123:
you are right bro.... I remembered when I was broke no girl even send me.... Now that I am less broke, na different babes I dey carry... Carry and leave.... Even my babe know....I carry any girl I want and treat them like trash. When I was broke they treated me like trash so it's my turn

Where are the pictures and videos of you carrying the girls?
post it so we can have evidence.

As long as you don't have too much pride.

ayjay45:
I don't know of people who take this on nairaland but I won't take it. So a broke guy should be without pride and like a desperate dog looking to cling to any small chance or whatever

I won't take it. I may be broke but I still got my pride mtchew

WTF??
U have Gay pride??...BIG SHAME ON YOU SIR... why are u gay? . shame on u two times sir!!(no oofeincse)

Pussyisgud:
but why are you ranting? nobody asked you to do boy boy for the whole community now. Continue!

Except you are privileged to have rich guardian or inheritance then you have to do what you must albeit legitimate.

Never expect anything from anyone except yourself.

MrBrownJay1:
did you forgot to take your meds today? YABA LEFT ESCAPEE!

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/leowtf.gif

ask again

NaBanga:
I wonder why Africans never think of science, technology and bettering the world. Why is it that African men only think of "carrying women"? I pity the black race because I don't see progression if the whites die off. This internet we are using will cease to exist, not because the black brain doesn't work. It will cease to exist because blacks can't put in a unified effort to advance society. The white man must hold their hands and use their ideas, because blacks mostly think of "carrying women".

another failure

NaBanga:
I wonder why Africans never think of science, technology and bettering the world. Why is it that African men only think of "carrying women"? I pity the black race because I don't see progression if the whites die off. This internet we are using will cease to exist, not because the black brain doesn't work. It will cease to exist because blacks can't put in a unified effort to advance society. The white man must hold their hands and use their ideas, because blacks mostly think of "carrying women".

Your observation is on point and quite very sad for the black race.