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She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig: 12:10am On Mar 27, 2020
Hi nairalanders, I know the world is battling coronavirus and I probably shouldn't be talking about this at the moment but I could use your advice just incase we all survive this pandemic that has so bedeviled us.

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance but by the Grace of God things are different now. My business is booming and I'm balling. Now I'm the type of guy that likes to look good and smell nice always, and this might just have proven to be my Achilles heelgrin

It happens that there's this extremely beautiful girl I've been crushing on in church and I finally made my move this Sunday. We got talking and exchanged numbers. Now this girl is like my dream girl; she's very very beautiful facially, tall, has a fat ass, perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs. She basically looks like them models we see on IGgrin

The problem is I asked her out and she said she can't date me because she thinks that I'm "too clean" and would therefore cheat on her as a result. I've tried all I can to make her change her perception but she is not coming along. Please what do I do or say to this girl to make her date and marry me because I've already sworn that she'll be my last bus stop in the dating world.

Please your advice will be duely appreciated. Thanks

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Businext: 12:11am On Mar 27, 2020

It is not bad to be clean my dear brother

#StayClean grin

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Gwagone: 12:15am On Mar 27, 2020
Be careful bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig: 12:16am On Mar 27, 2020
Gwagone:
Benz
so I should buy her a Benz when I'm still just only driving a 2010 Toyota Camry.. for what nah

lalasticlala help my ministry and push this to front-page. who knows I might be the next to post my pre-wedding pictures here on nairalandgrin

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Homers123(m): 12:19am On Mar 27, 2020
Maybe you should start "rolling in the mud" any time you see her so she no go see you as too "clean". Lol

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig: 12:21am On Mar 27, 2020
Homers123:
Maybe you should start "rolling in the mud" any time you see her so she no go see you as too "clean". Lol
lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Homers123(m): 12:24am On Mar 27, 2020
OluwasureGig:

lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones
E dey too enter dem head.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by bigt2(m): 12:29am On Mar 27, 2020
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by OluwasureGig: 2:07am On Mar 27, 2020
Okpankuana:
Op just dissapointed me


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how bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Zannx(m): 2:27am On Mar 27, 2020
You should be worrying on improving your life and future..time ain't at your side..
That girl has definitely nothing to offer to you..
Hustle hard and stay safe bro

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by johnkey: 3:09am On Mar 27, 2020
Na now you just dey know say fine girls prefer giran boys to fresh guys

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 3:19am On Mar 27, 2020
OluwasureGig:

I'm a young man in my mid-twenties and by this time last year I was broke and had a very poor account balance............

Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Freelane33(m): 3:46am On Mar 27, 2020
Broz,how una dey, see ehn , from my own perspective, your description of the girl shows that she’s every man’s dream girl. But pls and pls ( my perspective) stay back , I think this girl likes you and she was talking in parables “YOU ARE TOO CLEAN FOR ME “. My perspective ( she might have one or two probs hidden in her ) .She didn’t want to infect you with the problems . Nothing good come easy , your God is with you that was reason she has been rejecting you . You said you’re okay financially , you can take care of all her needs and wants , so why is she still rejecting you i think lots of reasons are attached which is unknown to us and you “the crush “.Study her for weeks , visit her and take note of all her movements . You’ll definitely come out with something meaningful .If you’re smart you will come and with something meaningful and see the reason why she has been rejecting you but don’t spill it out . She don’t wanna cast . If she infect a church member with her problems , the whole church will be in chaos and she will cast . MAY D LORD GOD BE WITH US . My perspective don’t judge me �✅

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Fanky8: 4:07am On Mar 27, 2020
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post=87801368:


Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!
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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Npower: 5:15am On Mar 27, 2020
The Cook of this story is a very bad Chef, no ingredients.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:16am On Mar 27, 2020
post=87801368:


Mid 20's quoting us all over Nairaland saying rubbish!
Wetin person no go see for dis Nairaland sef
Orisirisi something.

No advice for you today sha.
Maybe next time!
Eya pele...its getting to you abi?

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 5:38am On Mar 27, 2020
If she said no to you, move on naa. What else are you waiting for?
Or you wanna keep begging her to say yes and be at her mercy for the rest of your life eekwa? sad

Biko, this corona is enough wahala for now so I'm more interested in reading something fun here to elevate my spirit. undecided

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Olunmercy56(f): 5:49am On Mar 27, 2020
grin grin grin Continue trying your best, be friends with her, let her know the "trustworthy" man that you are cool cool

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Problemkid1: 5:56am On Mar 27, 2020
OluwasureGig:

lol. girls ehh. their wahala just too much. especially the fine ones
Girls wahala, even God sef no fit solve their wahala!

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Leezah(f): 5:58am On Mar 27, 2020
cheesy

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by partnerinbiz3: 6:05am On Mar 27, 2020
So what does she mean by that ?

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by GreenArrow1(m): 6:44am On Mar 27, 2020
Just go into palm oil and charcoal business. You go dey alright.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by PrimadonnaO(f): 6:46am On Mar 27, 2020
partnerinbiz3:
So what does she mean by that ?


I get her drift. He’s probably a pretty boy who comes off as paying way too much attention to his appearance.

I wouldn’t date a guy like that, too. Dress well, smell nice, look tidy... but without it seeming like OCD.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by ACRI: 6:51am On Mar 27, 2020
Stay where you are appreciated bro

Probably she's intimidated by your looks. Move on or you gonna have trust issues with each other which you don't need.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 7:01am On Mar 27, 2020
This 1 sweet Am 4 Belle.... Check well to see if u're not using the wrong perf

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by echibuogwu(m): 7:06am On Mar 27, 2020
Yh good and wen u give her little space Mk sure u flirt with other gals and let her see dt, she will be jealous
bigt2:
Tell her this, memorize it:
See (her name), I understand you're nursing a fear of the unknown about my decency, but I believe Decency is no pride! I believe you deserve a decent man like me but if you so insist that I'm going to be unfaithful because of my cleanliness, You can go and love yourself. Bye.


If you sell yourself cheap, she might see you as a weakling.
Tell her that and let's see if she would be able to look you straight in the eye ever again. Give her a little ignoring time, then flirt with her again.

You need to stand your ground or she perceive you as a weakling.


I have spoken.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by FunkyAlhaji2015: 7:11am On Mar 27, 2020
OluwasureGig:
perky boobs, flat stomach and very straight legs.

You have seen her boobs without bra already to know its perky??

Little boys just come here to write rubbish.

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by rex444(m): 7:22am On Mar 27, 2020
hmmmmm what business do you do ? let's start from here

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Re: She Said She Can't Date Me Because "I'm Too Clean". What Do I Do? by Nobody: 7:57am On Mar 27, 2020
Don't pressure her if she doesn't want you.

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