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There's this lady that am dating and we have been talking about getting married, but the problem here is that she's on wheelchair, and I want to know the disadvantage of such a marriage, she can't stand or walk, although she works as a secretary of an organization in Kogi state or does anyone has experience of such.. please I just need your advice on this.. thank you

Look at the future first before looking at the present benefits.

Hey chap It clearly shows you did not love the lady. if only you love her, you won't even come here asking us this kind of stupid question. As for me, the lady is okay and fine if there is love, or did anybody told you she can't give birth? She can give you Mouth Gig while she sit, you can carry her on the bed and give her missionary. Must i tell you everything you this emptyheaded man.






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What matters most is her heart and how big is it to express the kind of love and affection and care you so much desire as a man......

And most importantly,if she gives you peace of mind,then,you should just see beyond her predicament........

Even tho she's on a wheelchair,she still dey hustle......That's to tell you how passionate she is......

Well,I don talk my own finish..If you like,you can leave her and go for those bannies that have complete legs but their brains and hearts are on wheelchairs . Las las,na only you go still regret am .

I only ask for advice, and why the insult...

[i][/i]if you love her move on bro , what if after you marry her she got to that condition, would you leave her cos of that , people like that make a good wife more than this prostitute that full outside, you can just get a house help so the stress won't be too much for you .

My brother,

The fact that you are asking for advice from a public forum like this indicates that you have cold feet. My straight advice, don't proceed.

You see this thing called marriage? You would bring the woman, regardless of her status when you meet her and marry her, to whatever social status you are.

Nobody would hear your story or pity you after marriage. You'll not be able to complain about her disability after you marry her.

So if you need the endorsement of the world, then don't proceed. Don't marry ANYBODY out of pity. Few very women in Kogi or anywhere in Nigeria would marry a man out of pity.

So she can't stand, how una wan take do the do.

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady that am dating and we have been talking about getting married, but the problem here is that she's on wheelchair, and I want to know the disadvantage of such a marriage, she can't stand or walk, although she works as a secretary of an organization in Kogi state or does anyone has experience of such.. please I just need your advice on this.. thank you

Atleast you will be SURE she wouldn't cheat on you in marriage 😁😂😂

The fear of paternity fraud these days is the reason MOST men are scared to take any bitch seriously 😒

I THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF HER, THAT'S ALL BECAUSE THERE ARE SOMETHINGS SHE CANNOT DO.
SO EXTRA HELP(S) ARE NEEDED IN THE HOUSE, THAT'S ALL.

you were not having second thoughts until wedding plans came up.

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady that am dating and we have been talking about getting married, but the problem here is that she's on wheelchair, and I want to know the disadvantage of such a marriage, she can't stand or walk, although she works as a secretary of an organization in Kogi state or does anyone has experience of such.. please I just need your advice on this.. thank you

Do you have the capacity to bear the financial burden that will come as a result? If not, it's best for you to just walk away now

COMRADES are speechless at this news. Op just give her a sense of belonging by marrying her

Will she accept you if you r in that condition?

If you r really in love with her be ready for anything

Didn't you know she was on a wheelchair when you approached her?

In marriage, love is never enough.


Remember, if you're in her position, she may not consider you unless you're wealthy.

Do unto others before they do unto thee.

Shalom.

Kudos to you....pray about it

Sunnyrado:
There's this lady that am dating and we have been talking about getting married, but the problem here is that she's on wheelchair, and I want to know the disadvantage of such a marriage, she can't stand or walk, although she works as a secretary of an organization in Kogi state or does anyone has experience of such.. please I just need your advice on this.. thank you

You dey find mugu abi

Have I not warned you about this lady before? Marriage out of pity.

You just one stress yourself for this life, no be love dae do u, na mumu dae worry you

Gggjhhj:
You just one stress yourself for this life, no be love dae do u, na mumu dae worry you

He dey after her funds .. He just want to risk it for the monetary benefits.. So he is just weighing the options..